#not rly sure how to handle w grandparents. i don't want to confuse my mom's mom bc she's not 100% lately | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

clementiens · 8 months

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ok i have decided i'm changing my name. i was on the fence between fionn and liam (which had been a contender before i was born) so i'm just going to use both! fionn is my first name, liam and my current legal name will both be middle names. why not both. long names are nice

#fionn liam vincent [redacted] sounds cool as hell #i'm so so so bad at deciding things and then having to sit on them for a while lmao #i told myself i'd take my time w this if i did decide to change it but now that i'm settled on it i'm like #OK LET'S GOOO I GOTTA MAKE A FACEBOOK ANNOUNCEMENT I GOTTA TELL EVERYONE #EVERYONE NEEDS TO KNOW MY COOL NEW NAME #i was on the fence about changing it legally too but again now it's settled i'm like! ok! give me the DOCUMENTS let's DO THIS #i have to decide how / when to do it all tho just bc like. should tell family individually before just announcing it #not rly sure how to handle w grandparents. i don't want to confuse my mom's mom bc she's not 100% lately #when i came out 10 years ago she and my grandpa were great about it and by now she's kind of forgotten that i ever transitioned #like she's mixed me up with my brother who has an infant son #i don't know if it would be bothersome to ask my family to just keep calling me vincent with her specifically #i guess i can ask my mom she was already really receptive and loving when i said i was thinking of changing it #i think she'd be direct with me about what would be best in that context

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