Happy International Non-Binary People's Day!

 I’m not out as neutrosis to anyone in my life (not a big tragedy for me, but still). I briefly considered coming out to my youngest sister, the person I have the closest relationship with- until she had her edgy gamer phase and kept making various bigoted jokes to me. She since transitioned and became super-leftist with the whole family being super-supportive, but I still don’t particularly feel like coming out.

Submitted July 14, 2023

i have a question about multigenderness, there's no pressure to answer but it'd be really helpful

is it, like. a thing? to be multigender in the sense of having a guy gender, a neutrosis gender, and a WLW gender? well i know the first 2 are a thing (i know a lot of other people who experience that) so i guess it's like. butch-woman-who-likes-women gender specifically. is that a thing

it's not woman in the cishet way. whatever part of me that is woman-alligned is definitely, definitely not a woman in the cishet way. it's still nonbinary, and it's specifically in the context of being a masculine WLW. it's also only, like, 20% of my gender, meanwhile guy takes up probably 50% and neutrosis takes up the other 30%, so by comparison its a lot weaker. (im also wondering if that's, like, A Thing, too. having uneven percentages of gender)

idk. it's like my gender is not a woman except in the context of being a womanlikingwoman, and i only use he/him, so.... i don't know if this is like a real sensible gender identity or just some weird shit that isn't real and i was kind of hoping you'd maybe heard of something like this or had some knowledge about whether that works

Both of those are indeed things!

And, as a general rule: if you are experiencing something, it's a thing. You can't feel something that doesn't exist because if you are experiencing it, that things exists in you! Even if nobody has felt it before (highly unlikely), by feeling a certain way you are experiencing that gender identity into existence. There are no rules and you can do whatever you want forever.

Feeling like your gender is being wlw is actually a pretty common experience! The biggest example being nonbinary lesbians who feel that their gender is lesbian, or that lesbianism is their only connection to womanhood (and the inverse exists as well, with gay men who feel their only connection to manhood is their gayness). There are also a lot of butches who's gender is butch, which sense you mentioned being a masculine WLW you might be interested in.

While gender and sexuality aren't the exact same, they do interact a lot and they can be intertwined for some people, including myself! Gender experience is made up of a lot of parts (your physical body, how society treats you, how you feel, etc.) and sexuality can interact with any of it! Trust me, you are far from alone in this experience.

The other thing you mention is also very much a thing, having a uneven amounts of gender in your gender. There's the whole demigender spectrum which has a lot of different labels to describe gender in parts (paragender, libragender, magigender, nanogender, hypogender, hemigender) which you might be interested in.

I'm bored, label dump.

(NOTE: These lists are not even completely up-to-date, and I might make an update post at some point with the properly updated lists. Also, remember! You are allowed to use as many damn labels as you want, no matter how "controversial" they are, or how contradictory they are.) Sexualities: Aroace spectrum, Aroaceflux, Autospec, Aroacespike, Analterous, Aegosexual, Aegoromantic, Aegofictoromantic, Aegofictosexual, Bellussexual, Bellusromantic, Cupiosexual, Cupioromantic, Coeoromantic, Coeosexual, Ceptusexual, Frayromantic, Fictosexual, Fictoromantic, Lithosexual, Lithoromantic, Nebularomantic, Nebulasexual, Polyamorous, Quoiromantic, Quoisexual, Saturnic, T4T Genders (Not including xenos and others): Agender, Abinary, Annulian, Anterian, Artemian, Atmosian, Aurorian, Agender boy, Agender girl, Autigender, Ambinull, Boything, Boötian, Calypsian, Celestian, Centriversian, Cometarian, Constellian, Daenixian, Dawnian, Duenixian, Duskian, Eclipsian, Equinoxian, Eventian, Fluidflux, Foggender/Foggirl/Fogboy/Fogfluid, Genderfluid, Genderqueer, Gendervoid, Genderfae, Genderfaun, Genderflor, Galaxian, Gassic, Genderfaunet, Genderfloren, Genderfaer, Genderhoarder, Hafian, Helian, Juxera, Maiboy/Felboy, Meteorian, Nonbinary, Maverique, Multiversian, Nonbinarything, Novarian, Neurogender, Neutrosis, Pangender, Polygender/Multigender, Penumbrian, Phoebian, Phoenixian, Pistolian, Proxvir, Quasarisian, Rosboy, Selenian, Siderealian, Singularian, Solarian, Solstian, Stellarian, Synodian, Transgender, Trigender, Twilightian, Umbrian, Universian Xenogenders: Andollitic, Dollgender, Dolloctoin, Dollcute, Dollisque, Dollmaiden, Dollthing, Kurodollitagender, Porcelaindollgender, Redjesterdollgender, Sedollic, Sculporgdollic, Spirikidollic, Tiredollic, Porcelainic, Bugthing, Cockroachgender, Pillbuggender, Spiderboy, Spidergirl, Spiderthing, ᓚᘏᗢthing, Sillyevilthing, Fagthing, AIthing, AIwarix, Biochemic, Digibitch, Hazardgender, Techraincoric, Techlexic, Techgender, Meatabyss, Humanmeatgender, Muttongender, Beefgender, Fishmeatgender, Candybodiment, Complexembodiment, Corruptbodiment, Deathbodiment, Eyebodiment, Eldritchbodiment, Feralbodiment, Fleshbodiment, Joybodiment, Moonbodiment, Moldbodiment, Nightbodiment, Pinkbodiment, Paranormalbodiment, Sleepbodiment, Sadbodiment, Spiralbodiment, Voidbodiment Other(?): Otherkin, fictionkin, therian, alterhuman, nonhuman, mentally ageless, otherpunk, percifickin, mythkin, objectkin, xenofictive, othervague, otherkind, xenreve, phoenixal, auxbeing, polymorph, placekin (A second post specifically for all my paraphilias will be posted straight after this one)

my identities (+ pronouns)

this is long, have fun reading :)

main terms

termcollector, nonbinary, aporagender, voidpunk, exobinary, ambiamorous, asexual, demiromantic, diamoric, trixic, queerplatonic, platoniflux

other stuff

abinary, neutrosis, acemid, amid, ay, sex-repulsed, sex-ambivalent, anarchogender, apothisexual, aporine, idemromantic, platoniromantic

pronouns

they/them + any neos (also it/it's but that's only for people im close to)

Stellarian was never based on Neutrosis you clown. It's literally an umbrella term hence it's called stellarian, it was in the OG definition that "there are as many ways to be stellarian as there are stars" because it literally describes anything that isn't man-or-woman-aligned. It never meant only neutral, just general other/nonbinary/unalignment. It has strong abinary connotations but many galactian alignments like calypsian etc. also fall under the stellarian as stellarian means anything not male female masc fem aligned. It was coined as an umbrella term and you're literally erasing it based on your own insecurities which is pathetic. Not everything that happens to include neutrality is exclusive to neutrality, let alone neutrosis. Clownnnnn

I never said stellarian was based on neutrois, learn how to read. I said "putting neutrois as an example" because is the most known neutral gender.

Here the only clown is you.

Also, dumbass. the definition of maverique-aligned I used to coin the term is based on the definitions an usage of lunarian and solarian.

I don't give a shit about stellarian because I don't find it an useful term at all. Terms that put every nonbinary person disconnected from manhood and womanhood into a single category are counterproductive. The reason stellarian and terms like it exist is because the coiners just couldn't care less about actually taking into account the experiences of androgynous, aporine, agenrine, maverine, etc people.

And once again, people tend to equal nonbinary to neutral to the point where:

transneutral is used as an umbrella term for any trans person who isn't transfem or transmasc.

The definition of stellarian has highly changed to mean neutral-aligned.

Because definitions and the usage of terms change and evolve.

Some pride cranes for your souls 😌

(If anybody wants more/different flags feel free to drop an ask!)

(top- lesbian, middle- neutrosis, agender, non-binary, asexual, bottom- gay, transgender, bisexual, pansexual, polyamory)

[ID: Canes coloured the nblm flag; the nblw flag; the nblnb flag; the diamoric flag; the sapphic flag; the mlm flag; the neutrosis flag; the maverique flag; the quoigender flag and the genderflux flag. End]

Sexuality | A-spec part 1 | A-spec part 2 | Gender | miscellaneous

I created this and posted it exactly one year ago. Many people have a hard time understanding my gender identity and that of other non-binary people. I hope this opens your mind just a bit…

“There are more colors than black and white, there are more temperatures than hot and cold, there are more heights than short or tall and There are more genders than male and female.” - Jeri Rae Cheney (me)

#OriginalQuote #JeriRaeCheney #NonBinaryGenders #Genderqueer #Agender #Bigender #Neutrosis #Demigender #TransMen #TransWomen #cisgender

I’ve used the word neutrosis as a descriptor for about a decade. More ad more official forms I’ve needed to fill in at least have an “other” option for gender but I’ve never been able to tick it because my disabilities mean I’m generally being assisted with them and I’m not out to anyone.

Submitted July 14, 2023

Nightlight/Glowing Nonbinary & Neutrosis Lockscreen for Anon! «Beni»

December 16th, 2017:

gender is fake!!

OK so I'm currently like actively questioning (if that makes sense), like I accepted that there's more to me than just being a boy? So: I'm amab and frankly quite content with that most of the time. However sometimes, I just feel like I'm not a boy - like there's no possible way I could ever be male. Not a girl either, just idk... nothing? Help? I just don't know what to make of that :/

Sounds a bit like genderfluid or flux to me. With the fluidity/flux being between male and agender or neutrosis or gendervoid!! Probably genderflux I believe but if genderfluid fits better than that’s cool too!! I hope this helps? Feel free to ask more!!

Character: Juni Melrose

From: Unity

Representation: Asexual, Neutrosis -- Nonbinary (it/its pronouns), NBLM

Their Importance: Juni is an early example of a nonbinary protagonist. Unusually its identity is not a significant part of the plot as gender variance is totally normalised in the futuristic setting (ie stranger things are going on. It’s also a rare example of a character specifically using the neutrosis label (a nonbinary identity where gender is absent or neutral, often combined with a desire to have a gender-neutral body). It transitioned into a sexless body and is completely at home in its identity. While some other characters struggle to understand its identity, this is mostly not a huge part of the story. Juni is also asexual which doesn’t stop it from having a romantic relationship with Sam which is, again, completely without baggage.

Thanks to anon for the write-up!