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between tumblr being found guilty of moderating lgbtq content unequally during the 2018 ban in court and @ sorryforpartyrocking being nuked for suggesting one of tumblr staff may have investment in defending terfs to now many different trans women having their text posts and selfies being flagged as mature without the opportunity to appeal in any meaningful way (one of which was nuked herself)… it’s very. hmmmm. it’s a bad look. as if staff wasn’t already on thin ice for refusing to engage in any effective way with hate speech. “queerest space on the internet” my ass
EDIT: If you derail this for the purposes of intracommunity discourse, (yes that includes “q slur discourse”) you deserve whatever consequences you receive. This post isn’t about you. It’s about trans women.
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the overwhelming urge to burst into tears even though absolutely nothing has happened and there’s literally no reason to 😌
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Learn about me and this blog below 👇
About Blog
This is @t4t-lover’s blog with a focus on trans men. I hope to reblog and post trans male related art, trans male related poetry, trans male related social justice discussions, trans male related resources, and trans male related positivity.
About Me
I am Hamish, or “Mish” for short. I am a transgender man and I use he / him promouns exclusively. I am 24. I am white and I am located in the midwest United States. I am bisexual. I am in a polyamorous relationship with a wonderful trans women. I was raised as a Christian and am now a Hellenistic Pagan. You can learn more about me at @t4t-lover.
Who can follow?
I encourage anyone who wants to follow this blog to do so, including non-trans male trans people and cis people. I will state however that I will not stand for transphobia, radical feminism, transmedicalism, or transandrophobia truthers (the belief that transadrophobia is a real issue). I will also not put up with anyone who only talks about transphobia that trans men face at the expense of trans women.
How can you interact with me or my blog?
You can ask questions or seek advice in my direct messages or in my ask box (anon or not). If you think what you are asking advice about is something that would benefit others or if you’d like input from people other than me consider using the ask box. You can send me posts you think would fit this blog (especially if you or your friend crafted them and you want them to reach a wider audience). You can ask me to tag something either as a trigger tag or for ease of navigation. You can alert me that I interacted with a user or content that harms someone or is generally problematic. You can request I bring attention to a similarly themed blog (especially if it highlights issues faced by trans women). You can share stories or feelings in my ask box regarding trans manhood. If you are transgender you can send me your latest donation post and I will reblog it.
What I Believe
You don’t have to agree with me on every point here to follow or interact, but I know it can be helpful to know where I’m coming from.
Transmisogyny is a useful term whereas transandrophobia is not. Transmisogyny exists to describe a specific experience at the intersection of two oppressive spheres, transphobia and misogyny. Transandrophobia does not accomplish what transmisogyny does because androphobia is not a coherent oppressive system in the way misogyny is. Men are never oppressed on the basis of being men. I believe that if trans men want to talk about transphobia specific to their experience that the word transphobia or phrase “transphobia against trans men” are perfectly adequate tools.
Regardless of their relationship to womanhood or manhood all trans people should be able to comfortably use words and terms like misogyny, internalized misogyny, and toxic masculinity to describe their own experiences as they see fit.
While there is nothing wrong with doing whatever it takes for you to personally navigate trans healthcare and medical transition it should be known that the medicalization of the transgender experience is antithetical to trans liberation. Someone’s experience, or lack-thereof, with dysphoria or medical transition is entirely their own business and has no bearing on whether or not they are trans.
While passing is not the goal for all trans people, the concept of passing is important for many trans people to communicate aspects of their mental health and proximity to danger.
Nonbinary people who identify as transgender are transgender, and that includes nonbinary people with atypical traditionally non-gendered identities like stargender, various xenogenders, various neurogenders, and so on.
Not wanting to label your gendered experience and collecting various micro-labels for your gender experience are both fine places to be.
People who identify with cultural genders aren’t inherently transgender or nonbinary, and whether or not they chose to also identify with the transgender community is up to them.
Trans men are capable of perpetuating misogyny towards all women. Trans men are capable of perpetuating transmisogyny towards trans women. Trans men are capable of perpetuating nonbinary erasure. Cis women are capable of perpetuating transphobia. White trans people are capable or weaponizing white fragility against people of color.
Trans men don't have full access to male privilege but men of color, same gender attracted men, and disabled men don't either.
Trans men being proud of their manhood is a good thing. Trans people being proud of their orientation or lack thereof is also good, even when that orientation is straight. Trans men have the right to be proud of ways in which they both conform to masculine gendered norms and their gender-nonconformity.
Trans cuspers, or trans people who identify their opposite gender attraction as being gay, hurt no one and have their own reasons for doing so.
TERFs (trans exclusionary radical feminists) comprise a violent hate group. TERFs do weaponize radical feminism to harm trans men in unique ways, but the primary target of TERFs is always trans women, and they pose the biggest threat towards trans women. TERFs are also capable of weaponizing radical feminism against both cis women and cis men (especially when they are people of color, intersex, lower class, or have a history with trauma). While it’s okay for all groups to talk about our experiences with TERFs we should never forget that their main goal is to push trans women out of safe spaces and out of the society.
Trans men are always men and trans women are always women in every situation.
We will never experience complete trans liberation while capitalism, patriarchy, and white supremacy thrive.
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adora’s backing vocals while rap line is doing their thing... .. ..pls end me it’s so good
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btw the meme in question:
and the song:
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^^ some of you actually need to be radicalized if you think this is the epitome of leftism
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YOU MISSED THE POINT YOU MISSED THE POINT YOU MISSED THE POINT YOU MISSED THE POINT YOU MISSED THE POINT YOU MISSED THE POINT YOU MISSED THE POINT YOU MISSED THE POINT YOU MISSED THE POINT YOU MISSED THE POINT YOU MISSED THE POINT YOU MISSED THE POINT
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just found the yuri equivalent to a yaoi classic
#mish.txt#i’m still researching for that essay#devilman#go nagai#shiroi heya no futari#couple of the white room
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I’m a white neurodivergent and mentally ill trans man from Ohio who has survived multiple forms of abuse. That being said, I’m currently in a happy long term and long distance relationship with my trans girlfriend who is Germany. I want to save up for our wedding and moving in together, but right now rent, food, psychiatric medicine, and transportation are taking priority. My serving job has been cutting my and my coworkers shifts and the shifts I have had have been significantly less profitable this year than the previous two with this employer. I am working with my coworkers to pick up additional shifts and working personally to find a new job entirely. Finding a job in which I can openly live as male however has been challenging and my job’s recent change in management has made my need for work and funds far more urgent. As of today (November 10, 2023) I am $350 behind on last month’s rent and I am not hopeful for the following two. My savings are depleted from paying what I could of last month’s rent.
Anything you can give right now would mean a lot to me and also my girlfriend, even if that just means $1, $5, reblogging and sharing this post, or offering encouragement either in private or through anonymous asks. Thank you for reading this far.
venmo: @hamish97
CashApp: $hellohamish
(I also have tips open on tumblr)
$25 / $2500
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PLEASE READ AND REBLOG
*(do not tag as d.o.nations or m.utual a.id please!)
I’m Hamish Wilson. I am white mentally ill and neurodivergent trans man who is located in southern Ohio of the USA. I have survived multiple forms of abuse but am thankfully in a happy long term relationship with my girlfriend, Liz, who lives in Germany. I want to be able to save up to move out of country to live with her and also save up for our wedding and future, but currently survival is taking priority. When I say survival I am primarily referring to rent, psychiatric medicine, and groceries / food. I have a job, I am a waiter at a sports restaurant, but they are hostile to me as an out trans worker and the money has not been nearly as reliable this year as it was the past two. I am working to pick up more and better shifts and to find a new job, but as of today (December 2, 2023) I am $1350 in rent debt and I am not hopeful for the following months. Reaching my goal of $2500 by January 1st would really change my life around and make me feel like I can finally function in enough security to pursue a happier and healthier life.
Anything would mean a lot to me right now, from donations (even small), reblogs, written encouragement, information on local resources, or commissions for my tarot services. You taking the time to read this means a lot. Thank you.
ven.mo @hamish97
Cas.ha.pp $hellohamish
(I also have tips open on tumblr and am willing to make whatever account accommodates you for money exchange)
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I’m a white neurodivergent and mentally ill trans man from Ohio who has survived multiple forms of abuse. That being said, I’m currently in a happy long term and long distance relationship with my trans girlfriend who is in Germany. I want to save up for our wedding and moving in together, but right now rent, food, psychiatric medicine, and transportation are taking priority. My serving job has been cutting my and my coworkers shifts and the shifts I have had have been significantly less profitable this year than the previous two with this employer. I am working with my coworkers to pick up additional shifts and working personally to find a new job entirely. Finding a job in which I can openly live as male however has been challenging and my job’s recent change in management has made my need for work and funds far more urgent. As of today (November 20, 2023) I am $350 behind on October’s rent, I have not paid November’s, and I am not hopeful for the following months. My savings are depleted from paying what I could of rent debt.
Anything you can give right now would mean a lot to me and also my girlfriend, even if that just means $1, $5, reblogging and sharing this post, or offering encouragement either in private or through anonymous asks. Thank you for reading this far.
ven.mo: @hamish97
CashA.pp: $hellohamish
(I also have tips open on tumblr)
(I am willing to download any app necessary)
$159.40 / $2500
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I’m a white neurodivergent and mentally ill trans man from Ohio who has survived multiple forms of abuse. That being said, I’m currently in a happy long term and long distance relationship with my trans girlfriend who is Germany. I want to save up for our wedding and moving in together, but right now rent, food, psychiatric medicine, and transportation are taking priority. My serving job has been cutting my and my coworkers shifts and the shifts I have had have been significantly less profitable this year than the previous two with this employer. I am working with my coworkers to pick up additional shifts and working personally to find a new job entirely. Finding a job in which I can openly live as male however has been challenging and my job’s recent change in management has made my need for work and funds far more urgent. As of today (November 10, 2023) I am $350 behind on last month’s rent and I am not hopeful for the following two. My savings are depleted from paying what I could of last month’s rent.
Anything you can give right now would mean a lot to me and also my girlfriend, even if that just means $1, $5, reblogging and sharing this post, or offering encouragement either in private or through anonymous asks. Thank you for reading this far.
venmo: @hamish97
CashApp: $hellohamish
(I also have tips open on tumblr)
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anyhow do you project martyrdom and sainthood onto any character that interacts with Harry DuBois because because you are actively critical of his bigotry, harassment of others, and position as a corrupt cop even by the standards of an already oppressive system? or do you feel personally victimized by the mentally ill, the homeless, addicts, and fat people daring to exist in public?
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obsessed rn with this
#adventure time#fionna and cake#bubbline#mish.txt#also the fact that the star lies in the trauma of the tower and that ooo had just been destroyed….. babes
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“You’re Still Alive”, watercolor
this is the main reference I used, art from the cover of a socialist pamphlet in 1903. The artist is Walter Crane.
the character is Call Me Mañana from Disco Elysium. The quote is also from this larger quote of Disco Elysium: “This is all you have, but it's still something. Streets and sodium lights. The sky, the world. You're still alive.”
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i am by no means calling Jean Viquemare a bad character. i think he adds fun moments to Disco Elysium as well as helps flesh out Harry’s before life a little more. he helps emphasize the RCMs hostility towards addicts and the mentally ill. his character art is really unique. he’s a funny little guy. but. i do think some of the fandom’s obsessive pre-occupation with him to the detriment and distraction of other characters when he is ultimately one of the less important and fleshed out aspects of the game is just very… it’s tumblr skinny white male sexyman behavior that in some cases seeks to undermine more meaningful relationships the protagonist has with women and characters of color. again Jean is fine as a character. there is nothing inherently wrong with liking him or his relationship with Harry, but if that is one of the primary lenses you bring to enjoying and interacting with the game you should probably ask yourself why that is
#mish.txt#disco elysium#edit: bro did this post just lose me 3 followers#i didnt know you cared about those pixels so much damn
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