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tumbler-polls · 4 months

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#malala yousafzai #feminism #women's rights #girlblogging #men's rights #academia #tumbler polls

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geminni5 · 6 months

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#human rights #feminism #activism #yes all men #feminist #violence against women #women's rights #men's rights #twitter

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aikoiya · 1 year

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I wanna see more stories of women defending men from false allegations.

More women hearing other women complaining about a man not associating with them in work, she defends him saying he literally did nothing & calling those other women spoiled & attention seekers & sexually deviant.

I wanna see more women being good & decent with good morals, standing up for the men around them even if they get nothing out of it because it's the right thing to do.

Because for years, women have been telling men, "don't flirt with me," "don't talk to me," "don't look at me." Then, when men totally cut them off, these same women whine & complain that men don't associate with them beyond professionally, saying it creates a "hostile work environment?"

Like, he literally did nothing!! How is that hostile in any form or fashion!?

We need more good, upright, sensible women with good ethics out there defending innocent men who just wanna go about their lives.

Rad Feminism has utterly destroyed dating & that's making the lives of women who actually want to be wives & mothers, in particular, much much more difficult because men just don't want to take the risk of finding the right girl anymore!

Let's be realistic ladies! We need men & they need us! So, get back to treating the good men like the fucking kings that they are!

Did you know that it's actually a felony if a man doesn't register for the selective service? For them to have the right to vote, they have to be subject to the draft.

We get to enjoy the right to vote just for being here, but men don't! How is that fair!?

Why don't rad feminists clamour for that??

If you really wanted equality, demand that we too should be required to register for selective service!

As for male rapists not being jailed for long enough, you are absolutely right!

They should suffer longer jail time.

And so should female rapists!

At least male rapists actually get jail time. A girl recently raped a 13 year old boy & is now having his baby, but she gets to walk free, no jail time at all! Not only that, but she gets to keep the baby!

And, guess what? It's looking like the kid might end up having to pay child support anyway despite being a boy & a victim of rape.

Yes, we are absolutely the oppressed party here!

#anti feminism #men's rights #in defense of men #equalist #true equality #anti discrimination

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hard--headed--woman · 3 months

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if you sincerely believe that men are oppressed or hated in this society because they're men (no, i'm not saying men of color or gay and bi men aren't oppressed, nice try dick havers fandom) you're delusional, you've spent too much time on tumblr and you've had your brain rotted by MRA and incel rhetoric.

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rf-times · 11 months

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“Men are loved for what they do, women are loved for what they are” “Men are never loved unconditionally” is the most absolutely insane reversal of all time. Women are so dehumanised to the point where the objective fact that most men only value women for our servitude and appearance is seen as “women being valued just for existing”. Men’s achievements are built only on the exploitation of women and you should look into how many men leave their wives when she gets cancer if you want to see how much men ‘love women for just existing’.

#feminism #men's rights #radical feminism #radfem

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siryouarebeingmocked · 7 months

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One of my exes sent the police to me under the claim that I hit her. All it took was an allegation and they showed up so gung-ho about arresting me they didn't even want to listen. It was just "You're under arrest."

We'd been broken up for over a month, there were no bruises, no evidence of any violence whatsoever. I hadn't seen her, talked to her, answered any of her calls, nor replied to any of her increasingly unhinged texts.

Anyway after about a half hour of me insisting that all they had to do was look at my phone and this will all make sense, they FINALLY agreed. After reading the very lengthy series of text messages where she clearly stated multiple times if I didn't take her back she was going to get me arrested for hitting her, or rape, or molesting her younger sister, etc. they finally realized what they were dealing with and took the cuffs off and issued a half-assed apology and an explanation that 99% of the time the allegations are true.

I responded with "But are they, though?" and based on his expression I think he had an oh-shit moment of clarity where he realized "How many innocent men have I arrested..."

I know Youtube comment stories are even less credible than Reddit stories, but I’m sharing this one anyway.

#misandry #police #sexism #feminism #mras #men's rights

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thal-creates · 3 months

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Watched zootopia woth my nephew recently

I know its a kids movie and there is some racial allegories there but.

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This did not feel like it was about race. This felt very close to what men experience. To what men are frustrated by every time they see the popular rhetoric.

"Oh so there's a them now"

#mra #men's rights #male positivity #misandry #Youtube

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lonelyheartsclub35 · 2 months

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I don't care if there's not a single man who would do the same for me. I don’t expect them to. I will keep on fighting for them because I can't stand all you misandrists who think that misandry makes you look cool.

#men's rights #men

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kdero · 11 months

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After last summer's Supreme Court ruling in Dobbs v. Jackson Women’s Health Organization allowed states to ban abortion, urologists across the United States saw a dramatic surge in the demand for vasectomies.

Normally, vasectomy procedures peak towards the end of the year, but the mid-year Court decision led to an unexpected increase in demand in 46 states.

The greatest increases in patients undergoing this elective procedure were in states that implemented "trigger bans" severely limiting abortion access. These states experienced an average increase of 41% in vasectomy rates between July and September, compared to 26% in other states. States such as Arizona, Florida, Georgia, Tennessee, Texas, and Utah saw rates rise by more than 40%.

The post-Dobbs patients opting for vasectomies tended to be younger than the typical candidates. Data from Komodo revealed a small but consistent drop in the average age of patients undergoing vasectomies in the latter half of 2022.

Motivations behind this trend varied among patients. Some men expressed concerns about the lack of a reliable backup if their primary contraception method failed in the absence of abortion access, as vasectomy has a success rate of over 99%. Others were motivated by the fear that vasectomy itself could be outlawed next. Among this younger demographic of patients seeking to take control of their reproductive responsibilities were men who saw their decision as an act of solidarity with women.

Due to longstanding patriarchal constructs, vasectomy is viewed as a sacrifice for many men, involving recovery time and potential risks, along with misconceptions and concerns about its impact on masculinity. In reality, recovery time for this simple 30-minute outpatient procedure is 2-3 days, and there is no clinical evidence to support the notion that a vasectomy leads to a decreased sense of masculinity. The procedure does not have any direct physiological or hormonal effects on masculinity, sexual function, or masculinity-related characteristics.

In fact, by opting for vasectomy, men share the responsibility of contraception and alleviate the burden on women. By doing so, these men further embody the traditionally masculine traits of responsibility, self-reliance, decisiveness, and courage through taking an active role in family planning.

While the overturning of Roe v Wade has decimated women's rights in America, the increase in vasectomies following the ruling may be seen as a small consolation, a small step toward the long aggrieved concept of gender equity. As more men take proactive measures to dismantle the patriarchal idea that both conception and contraception are solely "women's issues," they act as leaders showing others the intrinsic value in the dignity and selflessness of their decision.

While our nation's leaders continue to restrict the rights afforded to pregnancy carriers, we are fortunate to have a younger generation of the impregnator class recognizing the devastating, often deadly effects of these laws and mastering the art of doing something about it.

For more information on vasectomies and providers in your area, visit plannedparenthood.org

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dkettchen · 5 months

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✨ Men's day PSA ✨

by your friendly neighborhood transmasc men's lib activist ⁓

To the women, male feminists, gays, nonbinaries and transmascs who haven't gotten with the program yet:

If you want the rest of us (incl all trans & otherwise genderqueer ppl) to be free, cishet men need to be freed, because misandry and gender roles affect all of us, but they're the ones defining society's mainstream conception of what it is to be a Man™.

And cishet men can't do that by themselves, so they need your allyship!

Here's my old video on men's issues if you need a general intro to men's lib. Feel free to also check out my videos on men's studies and matriarchy, as well as the various things linked in their descriptions.

Here's some simple things you can do for the men in your life:

question your misandry & anti-men/-masculinity biases

ex. do you think it's fine to make fun of/be mean to men? how do you feel about your own masculine qualities? would you do/think the same thing to/about them if they were a woman/queer person? etc

meet men with kindness & give them the benefit of the doubt

men, like anyone else, are people and not a monolith, the vast majority of them are perfectly lovely and safe to interact with and don't deserve your prejudice, they deserve to be treated as well as anyone else & are usually used to being treated significantly worse

include them in stuff & teach them skills they traditionally don't get to participate in

there are plenty of matriarchal skills that are hecking useful & not available to a lot of cishet men the way they are to women and queer people, ex. make-up, hair/nails/skin care, fashion, sewing/knitting/crafting, or even just like base social skills/presentability

value them

ex. show that you want for them to be alive, healthy, and happy; compliment them/their looks; (where applicable) express your attraction to them incl what abt them you're attracted to; etc

support them in their own self-liberation efforts

ex. emotions/mental health/self-worth, fashion/self-care, parenting/home-making, etc

respect their current limits & comfort zone

ex. if they're not/not yet comfy w something more extremely out of their comfort zone, don't push it, as it might discourage them; understand that certain things don't come to them as easily (yet) as they do to you

remember intersectionality as with all things

ex. don't forget that plenty of men have marginalised identities (mental health, disability, class, race, queerness, etc) and therefore are not the Image of Privilege you may make Men™ out to be; don't invalidate/erase transmascs' & queer men's claim to female gender role things/femininity in order to validate their manhood/masculinity; be mindful of different issues & stereotypes affecting men of different ethnicities; etc

#men's day #men's lib #men's issues #men's rights #trans #gender lib #psa

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feminismisstillahatemovement · 1 year

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It can never be stressed enough that "women" and "feminism" are not the same at all: Feminism is a far-left conspiracy theory that demonizes and blames men as a class for everything bad in the world, the way the Nazis demonized and blamed "The Jews".

Whereas "women" is simply the collective term for every second human being who has ever lived on planet earth. Feminism does not - and cannot - represent all those women's wildly differing wants, needs, wishes and religious and political beliefs and opinions.

Like all the far-left identity politics movements, feminism simply uses women as human shields to deflect criticism from whatever divisive anti-western agenda it is trying to propagate. It has achieved nothing beneficial in at least 30, 40 years, and arguably much longer.

If you care about equality, justice, community, kindness and love, then you should consider feminism your mortal enemy. Feminism is a hate movement.

#men's rights #women's rights

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itsbansheebitch · 1 month

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Since this is becoming a relevant conversation again...

People are wondering why the ratio between mlm and wlw is so dramatic. This is reasonable question to ask, however, people's first explanation is misogyny. This is (mostly) incorrect.

if you watch Contrapoint's latest video (Twilight) she actually gets into the psychology of women reading mlm.

However, i think that she says it better than i do and you can watch her video to see her analysis. I'm hear to share my own experience.

I'm afab and I read more mlm than wlw. In fact, i barely read any wlw at all. That, to someone who's ready to scream "misogyny" wouldn't make sense to to ME liking women.

Here's the truth on why I read mlm more: I relate to male characters more. Now, you might suggest that this is because the male characters i read are better written, however, I disagree. I relate to male characters more because I was RAISED as a "boy." My father WAS misogynistic and was expecting a son. He got two daughters. Instead of changing his parenting style, I got raised with "men's issues."

Men's issues meaning, an expectation to not just be good, but be The Best(TM). An expectation to never share or show emotion. An expectation to treat ever hobby like it will be a job, contraetc

HOWEVER! I was also raised as a "girl" because of his misogyny. This made me have "women's issues."

Women's issues meaning, an expectation to settle for the bare minimum, an expectation to stay quiet & not speak up & not advocate for myself, an expectation to be a housewife and to focus on my looks above my self worth. etc

This means that when female characters complain about how "men don't know how to communicate, yadda yadda UUGGGHH MEN" I always cringe because I AM that person. I can't communicate like other girls (literally). I wasn't taught to communicate. I was taught to hide my feelings and bottle my emotions up. All I hear is characters berating each other for not communicating when the writers don't realize that it is NOT THAT EASY. Any communication skills I've learned is from reading & writing essays for school.

I just can't relate to girls that complain about that sort of thing because I have the issues they complain about. As someone who's afab, raised with the worst of both worlds, take it from me:

The Amount of Emotional Repression that Men Experience on a Daily Basis is Cruel and Inhumane.

If you won't listen to them tell you that, then you will listen to me.

Because of this, I find myself relating more to male characters. So yes, I will continue to read mlm more than wlw. Until people actually talk about men's issues in a kinder manner and write character accordingly, I will continue to read mlm. That's not misogyny. That's me looking for characters with similar life experience to me. I'm sure SOMEONE reads more mlm because of misogyny, but they are the MINORITY.

Put away your pitchforks and Mind. Your. Business.

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averagesizedperson · 2 months

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The cure to the male loneliness epidemic

Wear a cute skirt

Wear panties

Kiss your bros (with tongue)

#mra #male loneliness #andrew tate #men's rights

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gender-sexuality-happiness-rage · 1 month

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Why I dislike most "feminists":

Feminists say they are for "gender equality for all" and they LOVE IT when I mention, "The Pink tax", how women get paid less for the same jobs as men, and have less leadership roles in both the workforce and politics, how women still don't have reproductive freedom or basic accessible healthcare. . Feminists love it when I mention how most government spending goes far more to men than women, including medical support & research funding, how men are hired and promoted over women in MOST fields regardless of actual qualifications, how we have had 46 presidents but not one female president! .

(If you don't count the lovely queer Eleanor Roosevelt who was never "officially/legally president" but claimed to speak for her dying president husband, soooo gray area there for me. ) .

but . CW . NEVER have I seen a feminist ALSO stand up for men who have been sexually assaulted, or how our government doesn't even legally RECOGNIZE a female forcibly inserting a pen*s into a hole as sexual assault! Let alone ever convict for such a clear violation of human rights! I've never seen feminists try to tackle the fact men are over twice as likely to commit suicide than women. Or that men have higher rates of use or dependence on illicit drugs and alcohol than women. .

I've never seen a feminist address that less than 20% of males win full custody battles! I've never seen a feminist mention how men tend to have higher conviction rates and serve longer sentences in prison, jail and parole sentences than women for the same crimes. I've never seen a feminist try to stop MALE AND INTERSEX genital mutilation /circumcision / sex "normalizing" surgeries like they would try to stop female genital mutilation.

If you think male genital mutilation/ circumcision isn't as bad as female genital mutilation; I strongly urge you to what this non-graphic funny 4- minute educational video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gCSWbTv3hng&ab_channel=Dropout

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and there's also all the transgender -excluding "feminists" /TERFS as well

This is why I just all myself an abolitionist, a freedom fighter, not a feminist. . Are there SOME good people who call themselves feminists who will fight just as hard to stop MALE AND INTERSEX genital mutilation /circumcision / sex "normalizing" surgeries like they would try to stop female genital mutilation? I'm sure there are...I just haven't met any yet...