god i love boys. i love holding and kissing boys. i wanna hold a boys hands and see him blush. i wanna make a boy flustered so he gets embarrassed and trips over his words. i wanna look at a boy and tell him i love him just to see him light up. i wanna hold a boys face in my hands and look him in his pretty eyes and kiss him on the nose to make him giggle. i wanna cuddle a boy while watching his favorite movie and listen to him tell me little trivia about it and then watch him smile and get excited when i ask him questions about it. i wanna hold his hand and kiss his cheek and UGH I FUCKING LOVE BOYS
(edit: this is about gay boys. this is about me wanting to kiss boys as another boy. not strictly mlm/nblm only BUT str8s r on thin fucking ice)
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I have spent sooo many hours on this picture (most of em just looking at it)
Thanks to all @tenzoscabin who gave me praise and motivation
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I think the shift from “I like boys” to “I like men” was a good thing for the gay community. Cause yeah. I like men. In every shape, colour, and size they come in. Boys feels. Immature? In a way that I feel infantilizes being a gay man. Maybe I’m wrong. But it feels a lot better to be referred to as a man who loves men than a boy who likes boys.
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I really, REALLY wish that more cis gay men would use the gay man flag instead of the rainbow one. As of now, it’s pretty much ONLY used by transmascs, and it allows people to clock us as trans almost immediately.
I don’t quite know why it is that so many gay transmascs use the gay man flag instead of simply the rainbow flag, but my guess is it’s because the longer you spend researching and microlabeling yourself (as I and many trans and nonbinary people tend to do) you stumble across more and more terms.
I’ve noticed that more trans than cis people use microlabels. My guess as to why that is, is that (on average) trans people have a more complicated relationship with their gender than cis people. So we want to find terms that fit as close to perfect as possible.
And in that search for labels that fit us, we find ones that do, which is great! But it also just sucks that cis people don’t usually get to have those experiences. They (cis gay men in specific) just use the rainbow flag and call it a day.
This isn’t me trying to complain that people use the flags that are most comfortable for them, but rather that lots of cis gay men don’t even KNOW about the gay man flag.
There’s honestly probably a lot of reasons why cis gay men use the rainbow flag, from not knowing, not vibing with the design, or even not liking the inclusivity of the existence of the flag (which I don’t agree with, but unfortunately transphobia is still very much an issue in the cis/gay community.)
I don’t really have a strong conclusion for this post. I guess I just wanted to vent a bit. Obviously, there are many transmascs who love people knowing they’re trans. But I, and many others, am not one of them. I just wanted to be seen as a regular guy, without people’s opinion of me being skewed because I wasn’t born with a schlong.
I’ve actually stopped using the gay man flag myself and prefer to use the rainbow flag. It’s all just- ugh. Sorry for the long vent post. I can’t promise there won’t be more long posts in the bear future, as I actually have the spoons and energy for writing as of late.
Thanks for reading.
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there’s just something about sleeping in the same bed that hits different. waking up with the warmth that is none other than your beloved next to you, their face the first thing you see in the morning and the last thing you see at night. their mesmerising eyes and beautiful smile. the warmth that spreads throughout your body as they pull you closer to them in their sleep, their soft snores and your breathing that’s the only sound in the room. the way their hands cradle your face and thread through your hair as good mornings are exchanged, telling them about a dream you had… i wish. i wish i had this…
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i just loooooove my eepy guy
my snoozy guy, my sleep guy, my snoring guy, my napping guy, my swoff guy, my swoff naps guy i fucking LOVE those little naps and i love you falling asleep before me its selfish but fuck listening to you snooze and snore it calms me liek NIOTHING else in this world my god it make same feel warm and safe and like nothing can huer me its just perfect i cant explain
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been thinking about this a lot lately since i came out at work and i’m openly trying to date.
dating apps suck and i’ve come to realize that the stereotype of men just wanting sex is overwhelmingly true.
men ain’t shit.
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I wanna be called someones bf unabashedly. No hesitation.Doing it without a second thought. I'd kill for that. Someone call me their boyfriend with pride.
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