#like maybe they legit don't care that people might hate the pun and would be fine with being blocked for it | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

baejax-the-great · 10 months

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I think that if you are going to comment a silly little joke about drugs, or if you are going to have a username that is a "cute" play on words about serious addictions, you should consider the odds whether the person you are about to address has personal experience and feelings regarding that particular subject--and the odds are definitely non-zero.

#it's so hard #I have no desire to control others or how they interact with the world #but I also don't enjoy waking up to frankly triggering usernames in my inbox #it's not their fault I have the past that I have #but I also don't find anything fun or cute about it #I find it truly distasteful #and there's no way for them to know that unless someone says like hey this name is distasteful and you could reconsider using it #and it's weird to try to figure out whether I should tell a complete stranger like #I'd prefer it if you never messaged me again because I never want to see your username again #I mean I guess I could and should just block them #and they won't know why #and it just kind of sucks #like maybe they legit don't care that people might hate the pun and would be fine with being blocked for it #but maybe they would care and hadn't thought about it

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