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theeinlandempress · 2 years

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fidoughfaunus · 3 months

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Things I wish I knew/had taken to heart before I was 30:

1) Do not be with someone who doesn’t offer more than you’d get from having a best friend, a pet, and a vibrator.

2) Just because they are good for your holes does not mean they are good for your heart.

3) If they wanted to, they would.

4) Unlimited PTO is a scam.

5) No one knows what they’re doing, everyone is making shit up as they go.

6) Wear sunscreen.

7) Don’t spend money you don’t have on stuff you don’t need to impress people you don’t like.

8) Silly little hobbies keep your brain healthy and your mental health intact. Find and enjoy them.

9) Find people who love you for who you are, not what you can give them.

10) All things are healthy in moderation. Eat the cake, eat the ice cream, it’s literally going to be fine.

11) When people show you who they are, believe them.

12) Time spent with friends or family is never wasted.

13) Your physical and mental health come first.

14) Never skimp on things that go between you and the ground: tires, shoes, socks, and mattress.

15) Loving someone often means not enabling them or excusing shitty actions.

16) Every person is capable of cruelty. Choose people who choose peace.

17) The clothes that make you feel good will always be the ones that make you look best.

18) Anger and pain are harsh teachers and often misunderstood. Listen to them, but do not let them control you.

19) Get insurance while you’re young. You lock in a better rate and it’s there for emergencies.

20) Wait 24-72 hours before making big purchases whenever possible.

21) It is okay to end relationships with people that are harmful to you or prevent you from growing as a person.

22) A body in motion stays in motion. Regular light to moderate exercise is one of the best things you can do for your long term health.

23) Get photos of your friends and yourself. Hold onto them. You will treasure them immensely.

24) Life is short, dye your hair. Get the piercing. Whatever. Go nuts.

25) Food and sex are morally neutral things. Food is not bad. Sex does not make you dirty.

26) Knowing how and when - and being willing to - ask for help is a critical life skill. Everyone needs help sometimes.

27) Spite is a perfectly valid motivator.

28) The world is cruel, but you shouldn’t let it make you cruel.

29) You will never be “good enough” for some people, and those people don’t matter.

30) There is no such thing as an unimportant person.

#life lessons #Rivkah irl #30th birthday #take what works #leave what doesn’t #personal experience #rip my twenties

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guardian-of-soho · 8 months

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The more I think about the last minutes the more I’m sure Crowley was saying goodbye from the minute Aziraphale told him he’d said yes to Heaven. He doesn’t confess his love like he’s hopeful, he confesses it like a eulogy. He doesn’t kiss him to make a beginning, he kisses him to seal the end. He watches him go like it’s the last time.

Crowley knows Heaven. He knows they’ll want to either make Aziraphale just like them, or destroy him. Either way I think he believes he’s seen his angel for the last time.

#‘nothing lasts forever’#‘no I don’t suppose it does’#that look on his face is despair #to be clear I know this won’t end like this #but he doesn’t #he’s spent six thousand years keeping a little space for them both #he doesn’t know what Aziraphale can do without him #(neither does Aziraphale)#(maybe they need to learn)#(maybe he’ll find he has more help than he thinks)#(if Gabriel and Muriel were so ready to leave who else up there is questioning?)#good omens 2 #good omens #a/c

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gascreates · 5 months

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emotional support frog

who will absolutely eat your hand.

#THIS FROG is a main character now #i dont make the rules #actually i do and you have to follow them #and the new rule is zuko has a badger frog and he doesn’t know what to do with it #he does not WANT the frog #it just wont leave him alone #he did not expect one of his first questions upon joining the gaang to be 'whats your pet policy'#also momo wants the frog now and it is unclear if his intentions are good #so zuko's playing it safe #abd unfortunately looking overprotective of his frog in the process #atla #zuko #also feel free to bug me for individual files #i can add em under the cut #when im not feeling lazy

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damntheyare · 1 month

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Hi. If you're still up for requests, would you, please, draw Charlie being dressed up by Rosie in the presence of Alastor?

Alastor is like - "this is my very special friend so now I control their live"

#charlastor #Alastor is like - now we have no secrets from each other #by the way it was my decision #On the one hand #I want to believe that Alastor is a gentleman #but on the other hand #if he doesn’t experience attraction (yet lol) then it could well be like - why should I leave the room? What's the point?#radiobelle #hazbin hotel #charlie morningstar #alastor the radio demon

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promiscuousasexual · 3 months

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interesting

#honestly this doesn’t surprise me #but also no matter what team you’re probably always gonna at least listen to the other offers #but do you think they were sitting in each other’s driver rooms whispering about leaving #they’re complaining to each other on the phone throughout the break #i like to think they were giggling about it #kind of hope they still end up on the same team #that would be amazing #esteban ocon #pierre gasly #eo31 #eo #pg10 #pg #alpine f1 #alpine #alpine racing #formula 1 #f1 #formula one

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fumifooms · 3 months

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Chilchuck analysis speedrun: As a hardworking half-foot who grew up poor and discriminated against and had his gullibility taken advantage of multiple times in his early adventuring days, Chilchuck thinks optimism is a dangerous flaw. He’s stressed and strict all the time because his job is noticing details like traps that could get everyone killed before anyone knows it, he takes the lives of everyone to be on his shoulders, and with the way he speaks about it that probably partly reflects how he felt about taking it upon himself to provide for his family too. His life’s always been pretty centered around work and has become even moreso now that his wife left and everyone is independent, and due to past events he’s very iffy with bonding with coworkers. He thinks feelings and job are a disaster mix. Like with his wife or with parties hiring him as sacrifice, being open or having good faith is vulnerability which can get you hurt, so he processes and shows all his stress as anger instead of worry. Doing strict dieting probably isn’t helping the irritability what with hunger, and on top of being a hunger suppressant alcohol might be the main stress reliever he has.

His grey hairs are so earned

#Chilchuck tims #dungeon meshi #analysis #HAPPY CHILCHUCK DAY #You know what yeah understandable have a good day #Alcohol be a ticket straight to chilling out town I suppose #Spoilers #dungeon meshi manga spoilers #Thinking on if I should split my family masterpost into diff posts for max reach hmm #Anyways I’m def editing in the second page into that post that “I’ve got three people to think of here” sounds sooo much like that’s #How he’d think about it in a family setting as well. He works so hard for them 🥺#I could have put 100 pics on this post to justify everything I mentioned but this is a speedrun for a reason. I’m planning so many #Compilations rn i need a break from rereading lol #He’s just here to do his work!! He just wanna do his work!!!#I’m always rotating him in my brain like rotisserie chicken :( Hopefully this doesn’t sound disjointed or insane to average readers #He’s always on his guard so he has a short fuse and his type of humor & liking for snarky remarks doesn’t help #Also bc he knows nothing lasts he has a very work hard play hard mentality where ‘dying doing something you love. Like drinking’#Is nice in his opinion #This post makes it all sound so dry. Chilchuck is so messy thinking about him is thrilling I swear. This is concise but at what cost…#OH ALSO he has weird self-hate issues where he really values his skills but devalues himself on a personal level.#‘I am a coward. I only care about myself. I cheated on my wife (lying for no reason)’ etc etc #Can’t disappoint people and make them leave you if they already have no expectations and esteem of you 😏💡

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boyfridged · 11 months

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*jason todd as he sets up a bomb to commit a murder suicide in an echo of his past death, planning the final steps of it before bringing in his murderer and his father to the scene* i’m soo over it btw. i’m just proving a point, i promise i’m over it.

#then he starts crying #the fact that people take so seriously that he said it was not ab the joker #and also assume that the fact that he said that he forgave bruce for not coming in time means he never struggled with it #when mere scenes before he says. YOU’RE NOT LEAVING. NOT THIS TIME.#and when he says (about the joker) ‘just him’#of course utrh is about plenty other things rather than just this specific trauma #but there’s no need to be reductionist about it?#imo it’s so evident that jay doesn’t have a very clear idea about what he’s doing himself #he contradicts himself so much as he narrates #it sounds almost like he’s trying to explain it to himself too #jay.zip #jay.txt

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turtleblogatlast · 1 year

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[ cw: death mention / blood / injury / abuse / codependency / panic / a lot this time oof ]

AU starts here.

Previous | Next

You don’t spend six years alone with just one other person to talk to and just drop them.

Even if it’s your worst enemy.

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cockroachmotherfucker10 · 1 year

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Being fat, actually fat, with an eating disorder is fucking hell.

People assume you have BED, and if you actually do have BED people are so gross about it. If you have a restricting disorder people get concerned when you start eating more. People get concerned if you start to like yourself. People love to see you fucking miserable, and will completely ignore your misery in the same breath. It makes them feel good. They benefit at your expense through weight stigma.

So many physicians prescribe disordered eating to us. ED specialists in many places won’t even consider how EDs affect us. Our own community uses our bodies as inspiration to hurt themselves. Because nothing could be worse than looking like us, right? How are you supposed to love yourself when so many people actively don’t want you to?

To the fat person reading who needs to hear this, I give a shit if you recover. I give a shit that you are hurting. So many people don’t notice, so many don’t give a fuck, but I do. You deserve better. I want you to eat even if it means you gain weight. I want you to be happy in your body as it is. I want you to feel loved, I want you to feel seen.

If you are fat with BED, I see you. There is so much stigma and it is not your fault. Your weight isn’t “your fault”, you are sick. It’s not a moral failing. You deserve compassion, and the extent to which people project their own issues onto you is awful. You deserve to be comfortable in your skin, and your body is wonderful.

If you are fat with purging tendencies, or with restricting ones I see you too. We get praised for hurting ourselves, or no one notices. I see you. I’m sorry.

I wish so badly the world were more compassionate to you, but if no one else gives a shit, I do. Fight for recovery for me, even though I know that journey can be so, so lonely when you aren’t thin.

To those of you who have recovered, to those of you that may. You are worth it. You may be fat for the rest of your life, and that’s okay. It’s wonderful, your body is wonderful, and I see you and I’m proud of you. Sadly I know many of us recover alone, but I hope you know you aren’t. I’m rooting for you.

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theeinlandempress · 2 years

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softly-and-suddenly · 1 year

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People are so boring about classic literature sometimes. Like I know it’s cool to be critical of men in books from the 19th century or whatever but it just leads to ripping out all of the nuance in favor of “Uh all of the Brontë men were evil and abusive and that’s all there is to those characters.” Say something interesting. I’m begging you

#yes this is about a class I’m in. what of it #There is a scene in Jane Eyre where Jane approached Rochester to ask him for leave for a few weeks to see her sick aunt #and he protests and makes a fuss out of it and he gives her a bunch of money and then takes it back and gives her less than he owes her #and if you read it in the strictest and least charitable fashion then you could say that Mr Rochester is an evil piece of shit who won’t #let Jane out of his sight and doesn’t give her what she’s due #but if you actually read it in the context of the book it’s so obvious that he’s joking around with her #and she’s ribbing him back in that same scene #because when you start out with the idea the Mr Rochester is an irredeemable monster and therefore everything he does is suspicious #you miss out on the very obvious fact that he and Jane are best friends! Their personalities gel perfectly #which is why they become so infatuated with each other #Saying ‘well Rochester didn’t give her all her money so he’s clearly manipulating and abusing Jane in this scene :(’#is such an awful boring take that ignores what Charlotte spent hundreds of pages doing with these characters!#try having reading comprehension how about that #wuthering heights #jane eyre #the tenant of wildfell hall

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mrs-jamesbbarnes · 8 months

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Okay listen I know we’re all unhappy because “Ahsoka was never actually a Jedi Knight” well

1. Yoda was ready to make her a Jedi Knight. She chose to leave instead. So she wasn’t really a Padawan when she left either.

2. Luke Skywalker just made himself a frickin Jedi Knight and then Master so Ahsoka can be whatever the heck she wants to be.

3. Little reminder that most of the people alive in the galaxy don’t really even know who the Jedi were. Now they’re just myths. To them, anyone with a lightsaber could be a Jedi Knight.

4. Ahsoka was more a Jedi Knight than most of the actual Jedi Knights. She lived out the code better than the entire council don’t fight me on this you know I’m right.

#terminology doesn’t rly matter #and if she had returned to the order instead of leaving she would’ve been a knight #ahsoka tano #she’s a Jedi knight in my heart #and that’s what counts #Ahsoka #Star Wars #the clone wars #TCW

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redkelpfish · 1 year

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I know we all clown on Tim Drake for having a moral code that’s just “whatever the opposite of what I think will make me evil gun batman” but have you considered Tim Drake is absolutely the kind of feral bastard to carefully design and create an entire illusion of inevitability just to manipulate his younger self into not becoming a supervillain.

Like do you think Future Tim just set aside some really crazy weekends. Do you think he was the worst drill sergeant ever when making his friends practice their lines and backstories over and over until they locked him in a closet with no electronics

#any continuity errors are actually the result of the future titans forgetting their lines #(they’re terrible at improv)#tim made the executive decision that he couldn’t be trusted and he was right #he thinks he’s so clever and his friends are looking at him like ‘can you please pretend you’re acting like even a little bit’#‘we know you aren’t actuallly but like for our peace of mind’#what he doesn’t know is that his friends only go along with it to let him get out his evil supervillain tendencies in a #semi-controlled environment #you know how you take your dog out before you leave so they don’t destroy the house #exactly like that #dc #batman #tim drake #kon el #bart allen #cassie sandsmark #dc comics #titans of tomorrow #teen titans

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transmasccofee · 6 months

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appreciate how in every saiki ship fic involving two characters that aren’t Saiki, he is perpetually trapped in the role of “third wheel who is really just there as a plot device to get them to confess”

#It’s funny like when he’s not the one being shipped he is Always that character #In canon he’s so much more catty I just think catty Kusuo should appear more #He doesn’t actually get involved unless it’s beneficial to him (ie getting his parents to stop fighting or getting Chiyo to leave him alone #But he Does stalk both Yumekai and Kuboyasu and just hide behind a wall like “oh boy what are they gonna do now……?”#He likes the drama I think #ALSO him getting invested in the irl romance within those books #Like

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fumifooms · 6 days

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Canines

The hand that feeds

Mickbell Tomas & Kuro Dungeon Meshi

^ 1: Ink-the-artist, I will remove my teeth / 2: Margaret Atwood / 3: C.S. Lewis, The Horse and His Boy / 4: Mitski, I’m your man / 5: Ojibwa, I love you like a rotten dog / 6: KotOR II / 7: Stardrop, Everything that’s ever been mine is covered in teeth marks / 8: Sodikken, People Eater / 9: Mitski, I’m your man / 10: maxime., The life and death of a dog / 11: Mitski, I bet on losing dogs / 12: maxime., The life and death of a dog / 13: hun, I did not bite with Malice / 14: C. Michael Davis, Don't Pet the Dragon / 15: Mitski, I’m your man

v 1: Early versions of the myth as in aeschylus orestes / 2: Ink-the-artist, I will not remove my teeth

#Yeahh i’m workng on a mickbell & kabru party analysis oops #I’d bleed for anything if it held me the right way. Even teeth #dungeon meshi #delicious in dungeon #Mickbell tomas #kuro #mickuro #mickrin #It’s on topic in my heart #The red means I love you…#The duality between the care & devotion and the hurt & isolation is really what gets to me #Traumabonded kittens highkey #Tw #cw #cw abuse #tw abuse #Web weaving #web weave #webweaving #I hit 30 pics :( would have added more if i could #Idk even anymore… Pls tell me you see the vision #Mick obvi loves Kuro a lot but this was meant to focus on the unhealthy side if that wasn’t obvious. Abuse tactic of isolation etc etc #People always leave. doesn’t matter how or why but his parents his sister everyone he’s never enough to stay #and that’s why he thinks he has to trick Kuro into thinking Mickbell’s the whole world or he’ll discover that there’s more out there.#Stuff that’s worth leaving him for. He has to make the world scary and unknown and not pay him and not let him have connections #That’s why he doesn’t want people to have a choice!! Either Mickbell doesn’t care about you or he’ll make sure you can never be without him #and there being a third option/outcome in this freaks him out!!!#Some of these should be called ‘No Title’ instead but I have bad academic crediting etiquette this looks cooler sorry #He’s scared of course he bites. There’s only throwing bones when feeding a stray. So bare your teeth and chew me up

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