you know what? the fact that so many people dont „get“ how lesbians have sex - and sometimes even ask women who have sex with women intrusive questions about it - is actually so telling. it really reflects how neglected female anatomy is, how out of touch many women are with their own desires and sexuality, how everything sex is about penetration with a penis (thats why people dont wonder how gay men have sex), that people who only have sex with the opposite sex center male desire to a point that they cant even imagine how a woman would satisfy another woman since there is no penis involved… it‘s sad.
[image id: brennan lee mulligan on the dimension 20 set saying (in captions): “You shouldn’t have to be perfect for people to say you’re a real boy.” /end id]