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System reminder list, except for once it's not written by someone who's anti-endogenic.
You likely don't know everything about your system, and this means that sometimes you'll be wrong about something related to your system. This doesn't mean you're faking or making things up. It just means that you made a small mistake or lapse in judgement, which isn't a moral failing. Just because you realized something about your system may be different than you previously thought, it doesn't mean you deceived people (or yourself) about your plurality.
Not all switches are the same. Switches can take hours, seconds, or minutes to go through; they can come with no dissociation or dissociation so bad that from an outsider's perspective it looks like you shut down; switching can be done with only one headmate knowing what's happening; it can be done without anyone knowing what's happening; it can be difficult or easy to switch – point is, there's a large variety in switches as a whole, and it's likely that you'll experience a variety of switches too.
Any neurodivergencies you have are likely to affect your plurality. If you have disorders such as MaDD or schizophrenia, one or more alters may hold more symptoms than others so other sysmates don't have to deal with them. Memory-affecting disorders may worsen amnesia, or even be a cause of amnesiac barriers. Sysmates may specifically form because of certain disorders. There are many ways that other neurodivergencies can affect your plurality, so don't think of it as a sign of faking – it's really not.
After you first discover your system, you may experience a new burst in system members. This isn't an uncommon experience; there are many factors at play in this situation that could explain the sharp increase in sysmate count. Changes in mental/dissociative/spiritual barriers, stress and worry over being plural, just plain brain weirdness, and a lot of other reasons can result in more sysmates forming when you first learn about your system, which may cause worry as to whether your experiences are real. I promise, new sysmates do not indicate fakeness.
Introjects do not work on a "first come, first serve" basis. You may have multiple introjects of the same character/person, especially if you're a larger system or have a lot of attachment towards certain characters/people.
It's okay to not know who you are or who's fronting. These experiences aren't always fun, but they happen, and they'll pass in time. You may need to ground yourself or focus on your own identity during these times, and that's okay. Unsurety isn't a moral failure.
Relationships between system members can be complicated. Headmates can date, consider each other family, work for/serve someone, and have pretty much any other kind of relationship there is. Sometimes, relationships are complicated and weird, and it's best to just go with the flow.
Everyone's plural experiences are going to be at least a little different from each other. Don't define yourself by what is common or constantly compare yourself to other systems! No two systems are identical, and that means no two experiences are going to be identical. It can help to look to similar experiences for occasional guidance, but using what's common as a "guideline" for yourself may harm your system in the long run. (Or others! You shouldn't judge others for being "too stereotypical" or "too different." Plurality is a widely varied phenomenon and what that variety ends up looking like in certain cases may surprise you.)
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kaedelune-blog · 5 years
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where are yall watching the SU movie
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kaesmile · 3 years
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alright which of you all kin v3 characters 🔫
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shslimagines · 6 years
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So we know there is no prom in Japan, but just for fun we’re about to do a little mini-series where we post what kind of prom dresses we think the dangan kids would wear! Just a fun thing we thought we might do!!!
~Mod Kaede  🎶  
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ai-ngel53-blog · 6 years
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I was gonna say ‘I can’t believe @dothackeryggdrasil is gonna save Christmas’ but nah I can believe it because he’s the bestest
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Now that I think about it, this punishment is pretty much... drastic...
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We needed an origin term that described us. So we made one.
There is not much of a mixed origins/polygenic/multigenic plural community. Whether this is because these terms are unknown or there just aren't many polygenic systems is unknown to us, but we do identify as polygenic... Somewhat.
We ID as polygenic, but mainly as traumagenic, because that's what we know started our system. We are in a weird area where our origins as a system are definitely one thing (trauma), but some of our members have different origins on a personal level (weren't formed from that trauma). It's like you build a house for a family that's in the cold and then others starting calling the house their home, too. The vagueness of "polygenic," and the limiting implications of just "traumagenic,"* just did not work for us.
*many people have the mistaken belief that if your system formed due to one cause, all headmates have to have the same origin. This misconception is partly due to how this is how it works for most systems. It circles back to there not being a large mixed origins community.
So here's our system flag and term: isoscegenic!
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[ID: two matching flags with seven stripes, one with text and one without. The colors of these stripes, from top to bottom, are: indigo, cerulean, cyan, sandy tan, orange, strawberry red, and burgundy. The text on the second image, with one line per stripe, are as follows: one main system origin; not fitting perfectly into origin communities; spiritual and purposeful origins; communication and hope for plural acceptance; natural, spontaneous, and trauma origins; complexity due to being polygenic; differing origins among headmates. / End ID]
The definition of isoscegenic is: a system that has one primary origin/cause for its formation, but also has a few members that don't have the same origin as the system as a whole. For example, a system that may have formed through trauma, but later in life created a few thoughtforms on purpose or had a few spiritual walk-ins.
The term was inspired by "polygenic," which isoscegenic systems can also ID as. "Poly" makes us think of polygons, which made us think of isosceles triangles!
It's pronounced eye-soss-uh-genic
Maybe one day there will be a larger multigenic community, and this term will be used more often. For now, we don't mind if we are the only ones to use this term, because it is important to us and accurately describes our gray area between endogenic and traumagenic. We're isoscegenic.
Edit: we've made this correction before, but wanted to add it to the original post. When we said "natural systems", we meant systems who have been systems from birth and/or systems who have unknown/mystery origins. We just couldn't think of the words at the time. Our bad!
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kaedelune-blog · 5 years
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i kinda wanna make a danganronpa ask blog but idk who for hmm
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hopekoto · 7 years
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Here’s a rlly crappy edit of Kaede with shorter hair!!
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kaesmile · 3 years
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≡;- ꒰ ° tag dump ꒱
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mommyscoby · 7 years
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hhey
reminder i love my friends and they are great and deserve the world
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