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sikiova · 2 months
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「身に覚えのない罪を贖っている...
ボクを裏切るボクが嘘を吐いた😵‍💫」
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aboutdifferentthings · 9 months
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Jess never stood a chance with Lorelai. 
I have read a lot about Lorelai trying to be nice to Jess and trying to help and what a douche bag he was because of the way he talked to her in 2x05. I will not say that he was not  harsh and rude but, honestly, I get it. In fact, I do not only get it, I find him quite restrained during the episode until it is just too much. His wording was far from best but  he was completely right about he said.  
What happens in 2x05 is  what sets the path of their relationship because as Lorelai herself said once.  
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And Jess is not what she wants him to be. She wants Jess to be like she was at his age but he is not and that is what she never gets. 
She has a bad disposition towards him even before she meets him. She tells Luke  if he needs her she will be there but it just sounds forced because she only says it after not getting him to say she is right.
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But what I think is the key are these two sentences.   
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These sentences show how Lorelai has no faith in Luke doing this but guess who is a great communicator? Guess who is going to be able to straighten him out with her charm? Yes. Exactly.
When Lorelai and Jess meet Jess is being polite enough.
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He says ‘hi' he waits (more or less patiently) while she says her daughter can show him where the wilding takes place   ( half joking, assuming he is wild). He goes after  ‘the class is dismissed’ line. She gets upset. She was expecting him to  laugh around her jokes because she was being cool and nice?  He is angry, he is hurting, he has all the right not to be happy but she is not taking that into account because she is in the ‘I know what to do’ mode. 
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When Jess meets Mia, he acts more or less the same than with Lorelai . It is not personal, it is how he is feeling.
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However the difference between Mia’s and Lorelai’s reactions is huge. I am Happy Lorelai found Mia, I wished Jess had found someone like Mia too.    
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Luke and Jess make it to the dinner (the worst of the nightmares for a socially awkward teenager)  but he stills holds it. Lorelai’s face when she does not get him to be supper happy because he got invited to her house with a bunch of strangers after being kicked out from his home says it all. 
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She is so ready to fix this boy and his situation because she knows.  
Jess still behaves when he meets Sookie and Jackson and he gets to interact with Rory and ask her to bail with him ( he needed hardly one minute to ask her to walk around with him or sit on a bench and look at their feet, just saying). 
He stays, and he would have made it to the table but he needed some air, and he took the beer and she finds him. If she would have just said. - Sorry Jess no beer allowed today, we are waiting for you at the table, I am sure  he would have come in ( not in the best mood, probably but he would have). Instead she goes with the fake tone again, half joke, over acting ‘refreshing’ and from there to the you are not hungry. And Jess talks. 
He says he is not hungry but she does not listen and she ‘guesses’ ‘you do not want to be here’ and he talks ‘I doesn’t matter’ but she is still not listening, she goes on 'in Star Hollow'…. Of course he doesn’t want to be in Stars Hollow, he wants to be home, and she does not get it because she ran away from home and was happy to find Stars Hollow and Mia and she assumes it is the same for him. She run from home but Jess wished he had one. And here comes it, The little advice….  
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No Lorelai, you have not been there. This kid was abandoned by his father when he was a baby, this kid has been kicked out of his home by his neglecting addictive,  abusive mother because he was being a nuisance she didn’t need. You have been in a bad place but it was a different place, you have not been in his place. He is not playing the ‘my parents don’t get me thing’ he is not maybe screwed,  his feelings are not maybe valid instead his parents do not love him, he has been living in a traumatic situation you can not imagine all his life, his feelings are totally valid. Are you really telling him he is lucky? Yes, she is.
Here is the thing, she tried to be Mia but the problem is that she is not being genuine. She is doing it because she wants to be the cool understanding adult who totally gets this rebel boy and to show Luke how well she can handle the situation and how clueless he is, but it backfires because she is the one being clueless:  Jess is a high sensitive boy who is going  through a lot and she has zero empathy with him. She patronizes him and what happens is that he can see through her, he can feel no connection, he could never trust her because she thinks she already knows everything so she does not listen, she has zero interest is what is really going on with him.
You can see the change of expression in Jess’ face the second Lorelai says Luke is very special. He detects something but she is so absorbed in her own discourse she can not read Jess and she still has the audacity to say ‘you are so lucky’. That is the last straw. He snaps at her with the 'you are naive or you are getting some’ but really, what did she expect? 
She expected him to say: ‘yeah, thank you, you are right I will give it a chance I am sorry I took the bier’. And when this does not happen she wants to smash a pie in his face and decides he is screwed forever. 
She is completely overreacting because she can not believe he has not surrender to her. And she decides to hate him from here to the end of times. She will never accept he might have a good side. She will hold onto this conversation and build her own image of Jess. No matter if he, Luke or Rory try  to change her mind, she will always think the worst of him. 
Let me show you what Mia tells Emily about the day she met Lorelai.  
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And what Emily answered.
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Emily would have wanted Lorelai to find someone who did not listen to her and sent her home. She never listened to Lorelai. Lorelai never listened   to Jess (and very little to Rory). Lorelai wanted to be Mia  but she turned out to be Emily.
 He never stood a chance with her. 
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wildwitche · 3 months
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@maxroldana's Priest Miguel Au
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andyling · 1 year
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we’re so starved for team rancher crumbs that the universe is forcing them to interact (yes this is about the nether portals syncing up I CANNOT GET OVER THAT I NEARLY FUCKING SCREAMED WHEN I REALIZED WHERE TANGO WAS)
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kvtnisseverdeen · 6 months
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i was appalled at how in denial people are regarding the colonization of palestine and that they are currently victim to a genocide but then i realized people once advocated for slavery, jim crow laws, and turned a blind eye to so many other genocides in history
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camellcat · 4 months
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tried to show my mom tota but she said it was too sad for her so here's some quick campbell doodles to make myself feel better lol
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vava-fett · 1 year
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"Promise me you'll move on when I'm gone?"
(From Rainbow Wing: Chapter 5)
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meandering-mind · 2 years
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The RPC is shutting down
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Hello Everyone. I would like to share the news with you that https://ffxiv-roleplayers.com/ is shutting down on the 1st of September 2022, after 12 years in operation. After this date you cannot access the site or it's contents anymore. If you used the site, please take the steps you feel are appropriate to save any media, posts, messages and so forth that you'd like to keep. The full announcement can be found here: https://ffxiv-roleplayers.carrd.co/ Please help the RPC spread the word so as many as possible get the chance to say goodbye. Thank you.
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clatterbane · 13 days
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Old tungsten roadwork beacon - with schematic
Had to get amused at one poll prompted by Clive's most recent public upload.
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wheelerhughes · 1 year
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(Contains major season 3 spoilers.)
"She was just about to explain that they were never together, that her and Judy were just friends, until a load of memories flooded into her mind."
OR
Jen realizes she was in love with Judy.
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infernal-heart · 1 year
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describe the most Level 10 Dyke Event you've ever survived
you might be surprised to hear I have been privy to very few dyke events, level 10 or otherwise.
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when the Pops cry :’(
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notfromcold · 2 years
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I haven't even been keeping up with my Dracula and I'm emotional about the Demeter.
THAT'S THE THING IM SENSITIVE ABOUT.
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wildwitche · 6 months
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On September 15, 2021, I drew my first art on LMK. At that time, I did not yet know how to draw well, I did not have a graphic tablet, and in general I was not particularly interested in anything.
In 2022 I decided to draw my first Macaque art again to see my progress for the whole year.
This time, I forgot about this date + I am now in such a state that I can't draw anything, so this year I just want to show one of the art that I drew in July for comparison!
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rivertalesien · 9 months
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When you've been trying to think up a title for a new piece and Scrabble comes through
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reneestjohn · 1 year
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Deactivating Tumblr by age 40
Before logging off I wanted to answer your question .
I feel by age 40 I would have deactivated Tumblr.
This is why I am no longer on TikTok. It is for younger people .
I hate to see middle aged women on Tumblr. It is sad once you become over 40, imo.
It is like being the old person at the club .
It is like attempting to fit in where you do not , with bloggers way to young for you .
Grandma just no
Should you not have a family and adult things to do ? Grown up friends irl ? Unless you have developmental problems ?
Older men do it to , but pretend they are here to “talk politics” but actually it is to lust after young women they would not have accessibility to irl .
Right now I am still growing and learning.
Unfortunately turning 30 did not open the secrets of life
I hope to be a specialized doctor with my own practice and *perhaps a family by then. ❤️🌸💫
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