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𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐢𝐯𝐨𝐫𝐜𝐞 𝐰𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐟𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐦, 𝐝𝐨 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 [𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦𝐞𝐫] 𝐡𝐮𝐬𝐛𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐬 𝐢𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐚𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐞 𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐯𝐞𝐬 𝐨𝐧 𝐚𝐧 𝐚𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐩𝐭𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐛𝐚𝐬𝐢𝐬." - 𝐐𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐧 2:232

I think there’s no such thing as a right person wrong time it’s all down to the individual. When someone really wants to keep you, then they will and should be prepared to go through extreme measures to make ends work. Depending on the situation and relationship, we never will know what the outcome is unless we try and the key concept here is to find someone that’s worth trying for. This is gods timing not yours, if you really believe in god then trust in Allah SWT and if she’s truly the one for you, then trust that too, you plan but "Allah is the best of planners."  Besides, even if you feel it’s the wrong timing, can you truly let that person go because of your x,y,z situation? How much does this person mean to you? and how much effort are you wiling to put in before you decide to let this person go? If Allah SWT ever puts me in a situation where I finally find my right partner, I will turn the world upside down just to keep them. I’ve been alone for so many years and never planned my future on meeting him, it never bothered me. But I know I am ready to do alot to keep them, if they're worth it. This world is getting messed up day by day, and I pray that god protects us. No what matter what my situation is like, I know if I met them, it was meant to be, it was written, and I won’t get that opportunity again.

Many Islamic marriages in Ghana are not valid because they’re not registered – Lawyer

A legal practitioner, Sena Hotor has said that the majority of Islamic marriages in Ghana are not recognised by law. According to him, this is because most Muslims, particularly those within the deprived communities, are ignorant about the law. He said the Metropolitan, Municipal, and District Assemblies (MMDAs) in various regions of the country keep records of marriages, which most people are…

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“The love I've known is the love of two people staring not at each other, but in the same direction”

Perla del Islam: ¿matrimonio de niñas menores a 9 años?

when it comes to polygyny a man is permitted to take up to four wives only if he is able to care for and treat them all completely equally, which i assume is what the previous anon meant by it’s difficult to do right :)

I can understand that part. It is hard to keep it equal here in the USA, so my next question, anon - or to anyone truly, is how can you keep it equal in USA?

Here is a scenario:

The man has to marry someone from oversees, but he likes someone in the USA. His family had forced the arranged marriage and he didn't see a way out of it (long story) but the woman HE likes is in the USA. He wants to keep it halal and marry her as well.

However she'll have to be "hidden" because in the USA you can only be married once. How can that be fixed in accordance to keeping it equal because that plays an important role.

The woman he was forced to marry will be coming to the USA as her paperwork is being done now but he has no feelings for her at all and is only helping her achieve her goals of obtaining her citizenship and to keep his family happy so they can leave him alone.

It is not ideal, but how can this situation be worked out? What would you suggest? If anyone has anything to say or suggest or even advise, what would you say?

via @/4amaterasu on ig

ᴘᴀʀᴛɴᴇʀsʜɪᴘ ᴀɴᴅ ᴄᴏᴏᴘᴇʀᴀᴛɪᴏɴ: ᴀɴᴏᴛʜᴇʀ ɪᴍᴘᴏʀᴛᴀɴᴛ ᴀsᴘᴇᴄᴛ ᴇᴍᴘʜᴀsɪᴢᴇᴅ ɪɴ ᴛʜᴇ ǫᴜʀᴀɴ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ᴍᴀʀʀɪᴀɢᴇ ɪs ᴛʜᴇ ᴄᴏɴᴄᴇᴘᴛ ᴏғ ᴘᴀʀᴛɴᴇʀsʜɪᴘ ᴀɴᴅ ᴄᴏᴏᴘᴇʀᴀᴛɪᴏɴ ʙᴇᴛᴡᴇᴇɴ sᴘᴏᴜsᴇs. ɪɴ sᴜʀᴀʜ ᴀɴ-ɴɪsᴀ (4:19), ɪᴛ sᴛᴀᴛᴇs: "ᴀɴᴅ ʟɪᴠᴇ ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴛʜᴇᴍ ɪɴ ᴋɪɴᴅɴᴇss. ғᴏʀ ɪғ ʏᴏᴜ ᴅɪsʟɪᴋᴇ ᴛʜᴇᴍ - ᴘᴇʀʜᴀᴘs ʏᴏᴜ ᴅɪsʟɪᴋᴇ ᴀ ᴛʜɪɴɢ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀʟʟᴀʜ ᴍᴀᴋᴇs ᴛʜᴇʀᴇɪɴ ᴍᴜᴄʜ ɢᴏᴏᴅ." ᴛʜɪs ᴠᴇʀsᴇ ᴇɴᴄᴏᴜʀᴀɢᴇs sᴘᴏᴜsᴇs ᴛᴏ ʟɪᴠᴇ ᴛᴏɢᴇᴛʜᴇʀ ɪɴ ᴋɪɴᴅɴᴇss, ᴇᴠᴇɴ ɪɴ ᴛɪᴍᴇs ᴏғ ᴅɪsᴀɢʀᴇᴇᴍᴇɴᴛ ᴏʀ ᴅɪsʟɪᴋᴇ. ɪᴛ ᴇᴍᴘʜᴀsɪᴢᴇs ᴛʜᴇ ɪᴅᴇᴀ ᴏғ ᴡᴏʀᴋɪɴɢ ᴛᴏɢᴇᴛʜᴇʀ ᴀs ᴘᴀʀᴛɴᴇʀs ᴛᴏ ᴏᴠᴇʀᴄᴏᴍᴇ ᴄʜᴀʟʟᴇɴɢᴇs ᴀɴᴅ ᴅɪғғᴇʀᴇɴᴄᴇs, ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴛʜᴇ ʙᴇʟɪᴇғ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ᴀʟʟᴀʜ ᴄᴀɴ ʙʀɪɴɢ ᴀʙᴏᴜᴛ ᴍᴜᴄʜ ɢᴏᴏᴅ ғʀᴏᴍ ᴇᴠᴇɴ ᴅɪғғɪᴄᴜʟᴛ sɪᴛᴜᴀᴛɪᴏɴs. ᴛʜɪs ᴜɴᴅᴇʀsᴄᴏʀᴇs ᴛʜᴇ ɪᴍᴘᴏʀᴛᴀɴᴄᴇ ᴏғ ғᴏsᴛᴇʀɪɴɢ ᴀ sᴛʀᴏɴɢ ᴘᴀʀᴛɴᴇʀsʜɪᴘ ʙᴜɪʟᴛ ᴏɴ ᴍᴜᴛᴜᴀʟ ᴜɴᴅᴇʀsᴛᴀɴᴅɪɴɢ, ᴄᴏᴏᴘᴇʀᴀᴛɪᴏɴ, ᴀɴᴅ sᴜᴘᴘᴏʀᴛ ᴡɪᴛʜɪɴ ᴛʜᴇ ᴍᴀʀɪᴛᴀʟ ʀᴇʟᴀᴛɪᴏɴsʜɪᴘ.

نکاح Hadees

Getting married is easy but the hardest thing is finding the right partner who's going to help you maintain and increase your level of Imaan and Taqwa.

If you want to get married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse:

1. Ya Allah please Grant me someone who will remind me of You.

2. Ya Allah please Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah.

3. Ya Allah please Grant me someone who will elevate my Imaan.

Aameen.🤍🕊

Is someone who is "permanently" married allowed to enter a mu'tah marriage to another person, without consent or knowledge of their "permanent" spouse? (I use the word permanent because im unsure of the word for the more permanent marriage)

No, explicit consent is needed

Ya Allah,when we are ready for the responsibilities, grant us nikāh without divorce,a spouse without fitnah,and healthy children without illness.

Allahumma Ameen

“Love someone because of Allah, Allah will make it last forever. Leave someone for Allah, Allah will give you someone much better.”