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thebibliosphere · 1 year

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This is reminding me of rumor that someone mailed Gerard way a physical copy of some pretty gross porn of him and someone related to him - like put that shit in his fucking mailbox

That’s awful. And also sexual harassment. Which is a thing I think a lot of people don’t realize.

It’s absolutely fine to find people you don’t know attractive and explore that attraction in the privacy of your head (and in the case of rpf, behind a filter that warns for explicit content that doesn’t shove it directly in the person’s face).

It’s another to go up to them in a random setting and showcase your most explicit thoughts and expect, what, approval? Reciprocation? Or is it thrill seeking to just get a negative reaction out of the person?

Either way not cool.

#rpf is really not my thing #I avoid it like the plague #but provided you’re not harassing the people involved #I’ma mind my business and keep scrolling #people justifying parasocial relationships however or boundary pushing behavior like this though…#absolutely not #idk maybe working in kink helped me solidify healthy boundaries better #but some of the things people are trying to justify in my inbox is just telling me they’re an unsafe person to be around

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