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femmefatalevibe · 2 years
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Becoming your own muse makes you magnetic. It's the secret to seducing your dream clients, potential business partners, lovers, spouses, friends, family, and anyone who has the honor to grace your presence. People sense individuals who exude confidence and have ignited the fire inside that drives them. Smile at the mirror and recognize the perfection in your reflection. Never let a negative person, undesirable salary, relationship status, or circumstances dim your light. Only you can define your worth. Trust your intuition. You know deep down what's truly meant for you.
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peachiesbambi · 1 year
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thisismyshow111 · 2 months
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“I daydream cheifly about beauty. I dreamed of myself becoming so beautiful that people would turn to look at me when I passed. And I dreamed of myself walking proudly in beautiful clothes and being admired by everyone and overhearing words of praise. I made up the praises and repeated them aloud as if someone else were saying them”
- Marilyn Monroe
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lucyswillow · 3 months
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How to manifest with subliminals
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step one. Make a subliminal playlist, just find subliminals for all your desires and then add them together into a playlist
Step two. Find a time during the day to listen to this playlist. You don’t have to listen to it everyday but it helps, personally I listen to mine while writing in my diary
Step three. Persist in these desires. You now have these desires so if you listen to subliminals for clear skin don’t be going around telling your subconscious mind that you have acne, persist.
Step four. Watch it all unfold into the 3d.
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theprettiest-7 · 1 year
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Omg. Do you know how fucking powerful you are? We can get whatever the fuck we want. Why? Because it's our reality!
So, listen up. You prolly know enough about the law. Stop overconsuming bullshit. Apply the law! Don't go around waiting for anything.
You manifest 24/7 whether you like it or not. You can never 'not' manifest. We're wired that way. Use that to your advantage. Don't give up. You're God. You control your life. You control your reality. Think of it as a game. You can customize yourself as in look like the way you want to. You control EVERYTHING.
It's your life after all. Live life to your fullest or don't. No one's gonna spoon feed you stuff. You do that shit yourself. All you gotta do is affirm, repeat and fucking persist. Get up and create the life that you desire and deserve.
Love y'all <3
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ultrxlight · 1 month
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i learned this method from my first therapist
write affirmations on a paper , stick that paper beside your bed and read it first thing in the morning when you wake up
its basically reprogramming your subconscious thoughts with new beliefs and thoughts
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wa-kaizen · 2 years
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Ideal self | PAC
I have felt disconnected from the other pick a card I was about to post, however! I will be posting it when I feel connected to it again.
Until then, I will make a pick a card on how to achieve your ideal self, how to be your own dream girl, dream boy, dream non binary person, dream non-label, I don't really care, this is all to help you become happier and more comfortable in yourself and in life.
PAID READINGS ♡ MASTERLIST
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sections ༉˚
‐ description of your ideal self so you know this is for you
- tiny steps towards it
- what will make it work
- how to personalise it
- how long it will take
- are you already on the journey?
꒰ welcome  ꒱ؘ ࿐ ࿔*:・゚
— have fun!
꒰ pile 1 ꒱
clothes on a hanger, backfacing the camera
cards the hermit, three of swords, the moon, 'manifest your dreams', 'i am the presence', bee, rabbit, snake
description of your ideal self ༊*·˚
To be honest to you, I do not see much of your ideal self. The problem and solution came through more, but I will do my best to give you as much as I can.
So, your ideal self is someone that is independent, their own person, beautiful, confident, out going and sort of an angel? There is a huge sense of kindness to others and confidence in yourself, as in the you you would like to achieve.
Maybe you wish to be happy as well? I feel a lot of melancholy self doubt.
That you will never be able to achieve what you wish because it's too good to be true.
That is not true though, don't look down on yourself, your ideal self might be different, but they are still a part of your soul, they are inside of you.
Maybe you have a role model you would like to be similar to? Don't think they are better than you, you are both humans, just acknowledge you are a human too and it will take a bit to reach to the point they are at.
Sorry! This was more advice than description, I just felt like some of you needed to hear these.
tiny steps towards it ༊*·˚
So, before anything else, I do think you need to work on self love. You want to be this confident and free person, but you don't allow yourself to feel confident.
You are your own biggest enemy, starting to bully yourself each time you love something about yourself. You have to remember that ALL those mean thoughts are not facts.
They are assumptions and things you know would bring you down.
From now on whenever you have a negative thought, say no to it. Tell it to fuck off. Whatever suits you. Make it go away in a way that is comfortable for you.
When you are in a good mood and confident about yourself write down what you are confident about in that moment. On a note, journal, an app... wherever you actually want.
Now, don't read them when you are in a bad mood rather when you are bored and ask yourself why would you ever think other wise.
Doing shadow work is healthy, but make sure it's done in a way you don't take away your achievements from yourself.
Something like this would be a great step, you don't have to follow this advice if you don't want, but if you have anything similar to it you think could help you, do it!
what will make it work? ༊*·˚
Belief in yourself really. You can ask for validation from anyone, but the only person who can truly make you feel yourself and support you is YOU.
You rely too much on other people to make you feel like yourself, it's time to stop that.
They will die one day, they don't matter. They will either look at you in a good light or a bad one, you cannot depend on their validation, people change their mind quickly, but you will to live with yourself for the rest of your life. The only person's opinion you need to care about is yourself.
Practice a little self love and don't worry much about what people think.
There is a specific manifestation method that might work best for you? Pretend that you are already this person that you want to become.
Pretend they already exist, and you are just acting like them. Think of what they would do, think of what they would think and what they would be proud of.
Just do it. They would wear that cute top and be unapologetic? Do it.
If they would easily reject someone, work hard, do their research, work out in the morning, watch that show... do it.
Transform yourself, be them. Go on. Who is going to stop you? Only you can, other people who bring you down are irrelevant, they are just as insecure as other regular people.
how to personalise it ༊*·˚
Don't fall into fake positivy. You might tend to think that in order for something to work it needs to be done in a specific attitude that cannot be anything else other than cheerful positivity.
Which is absolutely not true. You can be sassy, calm, passive positive... you can do manifestation with any attitude you wish as long as you don't bring anyone down, including yourself.
how long will it take? ༊*·˚
Not as long as you would think! I am seeing four months, although it could take longer.
However I don't think it's more than two years, if you do everything correctly, next year you will be a completely different person. Just trust yourself.
are you already on the journey? ༊*·˚
Yup, you most definitely are, half way there I believe.
Thank you for your time as well as reading!
꒰ pile 2 ꒱
close up of a necklace hanging in a feminine person's neck
cards eight of wands, knight of pentacles, king of cups, ant, grey squirrel, goat, mahatma energy, creative solutions, cosmic sapphire
description of your ideal self ༊*·˚
Someone elegant, strong, responsible, hardworking and beautiful in every way possible.
Someone that is not scared to enjoy life and do so as they think it's right, someone strong who everyone adores and looks up to because they earned it.
tiny steps towards it ༊*·˚
So, surprise! You are almost there. Only almost, don't get ahead of yourself.
You need to be more realistic and socialise more.
You cannot be your higherself you achieve to be if you always do everything alone and push everyone away.
I feel like you fail to realise you aren't forced to do everything alone and you certainly don't need to be defensive each time you happen to interact with people.
There is a valid pain you have to live with, that causes you to guard yourself but if you will always assume the worst in anyone - or everyone - you will never get anywhere in life.
Loneliness can benefit some people you are just most definitely not one of those who happen to grow from it, rather, it will worsen your mental health. It's not something you should just shrug off.
As well as the king of cups and goat shows that you need to stand up for yourself more. You can do this in an educated and good manner. You don't have to be violent.
Use the words you know can be handled maturely, speak with your head rather than your heart, you seem to lack realism and be full of idealism.
It could be hard but you look at life with a lot of negative feelings instead of trying to help your self out.
And when that's not true, you take it too far, you set the standards too high. It's time to change that.
what will make it work? ༊*·˚
Other people. I know, you find that sucky.
However, sometimes there are certain things you need to take onto consideration which are hard to do on your own. In these cases you need to keep your ear open and your mouth shut.
Now, don't just listen to anything anyone says. Listen to your family or your friends who you trust, they trust you too and that's for a reason. Connect more with the people you have a strong bond with.
how to personalise it ༊*·˚
I feel like your self growth journey and shadow work needs to include some sort of visualisation or representation.
Make it in your aesthetic. No seriously, that could help you be more motivated to put things together and listen to yourself.
how long will it take? ༊*·˚
2 weeks - 2 months, you got this.
are you already on the journey? ༊*·˚
Definitely dare I say towards the end of it.
Thank you for your time as well as reading!
꒰ pile 3 ꒱
flower pattern beige plates
cards five of cups, the lovers, nine of pentacles, eagle, snake, ladybird, divine potential, rose-gold cosmic pool, unicorn portal
description of your ideal self ༊*·˚
This pile happens to be the one that thought of a love related question even though they knew they weren't supposed to, correct?
You just want to be over a heartbreak, while I feel like for the most of you this is a romantic one, for some of you this can be related to a friend. - Also, please stop crying, they aren't worth it. You and me both know the person was an asshole. -
Basically you want to just be over it and have more love in yourself rather than just changing your whole being, correct?
tiny steps towards it ༊*·˚
First of all, wash your face and go to eat a fruit. I don't care how many times you heard this and how moody it can make most of you, you heard it because that's what exactly your body needs at the moment.
I know you want to get over that person, so just first write down all your feelings to them and then destroy it.
Yes, it's a dumb and overrated advice which some of you might have heard often, but it can really help letting your anger out.
Also, most of you really just needs to be alone, you don't have to be with your friends 24/7 or over share to anyone you can. Allow yourself to heal, to think about it alone without any influence. You know your own situation the best.
But don't make any rash decisions. If something is out of impulse don't do it.
what will make it work? ༊*·˚
You. You will make it work. In order for that to happen you have to believe in yourself, love yourself more than the person who you lost.
At the end of the day you need to stop worrying about what they think and what they say, how you can have them back. Five years from now it won't matter.
Just be yourself. This person is dragging you and bringing you down lower and lower in life, they are holding you back from true happiness. I mean, this reading was supposed to be ALL you but they affect your subconscious so much they take away all your light. Do you want things to be like this forever?
I know you can do this, you are an unique person full of love and you don't need anyone to convince you otherwise.
You just gotta start seeing that yourself too, you don't need anyone to make you a whole.
how to personalise it ༊*·˚
Just do all the things you love doing and all the things you wish you could have when you were limited.
Be yourself, watch the things you love and rant about your interests. I promise you it's fine, no one will be mad and no one will tell you to stop doing that. Just don't be scared to do the things that bring you happiness.
how long will it take? ༊*·˚
There is no time period I got for this, everyone's healing journey in this pile will be very different.
are you already on the journey? ༊*·˚
None of you are to be honest, or in the very very baby step beginning.
Thank you for your time as well as reading!
꒰ pile 4 ꒱
flat pink pearl ballet shoes on a table
cards three of pentacles, knight of pentacles, the tower, pig, whale 2x, pool of christ light, mahatma energy, pure intentions
description of your ideal self ༊*·˚
Someone academically - or in work terms - confident, someone who achieves their goals easily and maintains a healthy balance in all aspects of their life.
Someone who never has to worry about succeeding because they already can do anything and everything they have already set their mind to.
tiny steps towards it ༊*·˚
Stop being so egoistic. Yes, it might sound harsh but that's what the problem is currently.
Your ego is way too high which causes you to be way too ahead of yourself, thinking you have already achieved something when you were never sure of it and you get destructive when you didn't meet your own expectations.
You are too sure of yourself and that's why you never achieve what you want only get very close.
It's okay for you to be confident but you need to know that everything has a balance, which you lack. In order for you to be able to focus better to be the best version of yourself you need to acknowledge your mistakes and learn for them, not ignore them.
If you are religious you should connect with your God/Goddess.
what will make it work? ༊*·˚
Your religion! You definitely need to ask guidance because you are spiritually disconnected from your true form if that makes sense to you.
Even if you are not religious it's still fine to talk to angels or whoever you might find comfort in.
The bottom line is to connect to spirituality so you can have a wider view on what you truly want.
how to personalise it ༊*·˚
I think you know this the best! I think everyone in this pile slightly differs, so you all need to figure this one out! Sorry.
how long will it take? ༊*·˚
Like half a year? No longer than 6 months, but you don't need to worry.
are you already on the journey? ༊*·˚
Not yet, but nothing is stopping you.
Thank you for your time as well as reading!
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clothes on a hanger, front facing the camera
cards four of swords, the empress, king of cups, hyena, hyena, badger, divine potential, create your own vision, violet flame
description of your ideal self ༊*·˚
There is no energy of your ideal self coming through since you already are it, there is just one giant step you need to take which you might be afraid to do due to the judgement of others, it's something you fear.
tiny steps towards it ༊*·˚
Don't listen to anyone that's negative. You are not dreaming too big, and you are definitely not going to fail.
You are being guided and trusted along the way, your spirit guides are positive you can do this and you shouldn't be scared of any opportunity you come across because of some words others might say to you.
Sometimes they say it exactly because of that, to bring you down. Don't trust it, listen to yourself.
what will make it work? ༊*·˚
Listen to yourself, trust yourself and shut out every negative thought.
That's all you have to do, don't be afraid to step forward. Trust yourself, you got this.
how to personalise it ༊*·˚
I feel like there is a manifestation method involving talking out loud or mirrors which a lot of you thought about doing but never really tried before.
Go for it. Experiment with it.
Do what you think will benefit you the best. It's okay.
how long will it take? ༊*·˚
Really not long, a few days, a few weeks... just the amount of time your Intuition is telling you it will take.
are you already on the journey? ༊*·˚
Yup, you just gotta learn to not be afraid of change, to get to the finish line because you seemed to stop right before it.
Thank you for your time as well as reading!
꒰ pile 6 ꒱
ballerina dancing
cards six of cups, four of cups, queen of wands, archangel lavender, seraphim seraphisa, archangel joules, ascension gift, enlightenment, new opportunities
description of your ideal self ༊*·˚
Someone that is no longer sensitive to the hurts of the past, while they recognise it they don't let that stop them from living in a way that will be empowering.
tiny steps towards it ༊*·˚
Set up habits for yourself which will allow yourself to be healthy. Just small things at once.
If you suffer from depression make a list of small things you need to do, like brushing your hair or teeth.
Don't set up a time limit or a schedule, just acknowledge it. Do it when you know you can, I believe in you, you should too.
If you don't have depression of course you can apply this however it suits your situation and pain, just don't put pressure on your soul please.
what will make it work? ༊*·˚
Looking at it from a different perspective!
You can forgive people if you want, but that's not what I meant. No one should receive your forgiveness if you aren't ready, what I just mean is that you should look at it with the eyes of someone else.
Not a different attitude, but a different state of mind.
Pretend to be someone else for a minute, or two. What would they do in your situation? How would this person comfort you? I mean if should be whomever, but I advise it to be someone you love or look up to.
Just think of how they would help you heal, and take small steps towards it.
how to personalise it ༊*·˚
To be honest, this pile is someone I want to be gentle with, you all have been through hell and worse, and I am not sure if everyone will understand the things I say but I know this will apply to everyone; Give yourself time.
Even if its hard. Don't force yourself to heal, only allow.
You need to give yourself time and make sure to know that everything needs to happen at your own pace.
You define what is good for you, not your worries.
how long will it take? ༊*·˚
This is a different journey for everyone, but I am not going to pretend this is easy because I feel like there is a lot of trauma here. For most of you 2-4 years.
are you already on the journey? ༊*·˚
Yes, in the beginning, but that's okay.
Thank you for your time as well as reading!
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sakurangelll · 1 year
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⭒ self concept
⭒ perfect life
⭒ perfect school life
⭒ attract money
⭒ desired face
⭒ fashion icon
⭒ makeup skills
⭒ acting skills
⭒ kpop idol body
⭒ Le sserafim effect
⭒ Lalisa Manobal effect
⭒ Jennie Kim effect
⭒ IU effect
⭒ Alexa Demie effect
⭒ New Jeans effect
⭒ IVE effect
⭒ Cher Horowitz effect + look like
⭒ Blackpink effect
⭒ look like Jang Wonyoung
⭒ Song Jia effect
⭒ Rory Gilmore’s studio mindset
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jenntastic10 · 9 months
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:|: Building Your Own "It Girl" Archetype :|:
Building your own "it girl" archetype is about creating an image of a trendy, influential, and admired woman.
Here are some steps to help you develop this archetype:

Define what being an "it girl" means to you: Start by understanding what being an "it girl" signifies in your own mind. It could be associated with being fashionable, influential, and having a charismatic presence. Clarify the specific characteristics and qualities you associate with this term.

Stay informed about the latest trends: Stay up-to-date with the latest fashion, beauty, and lifestyle trends. Follow fashion magazines, blogs, social media influencers, and celebrities known for their trendsetting style. This will help you understand what is currently popular and desirable.

Develop your own unique style: While it's important to stay informed about trends, it's equally crucial to develop your own unique style. Experiment with different fashion choices, accessories, and makeup looks to create a distinctive and personal aesthetic that reflects your personality and preferences.

Build a strong online presence: Establish a strong online presence through social media platforms, such as Instagram or TikTok. Curate your content to showcase your style, interests, and lifestyle. Engage with your followers and create a community around your personal brand.

Cultivate a charismatic presence: Work on developing a charismatic and magnetic presence. Enhance your communication skills, practice active listening, and learn how to engage people in conversations. Being approachable, friendly, and confident will help you stand out and attract attention.

Pursue your passions and interests: Explore and cultivate your passions and interests. Whether it's in fashion, art, music, or any other field, becoming knowledgeable and involved in your areas of interest will contribute to your "it girl" image. Attend events, collaborate with others, and share your experiences.

Network and collaborate with like-minded individuals: Surround yourself with other individuals who are also building their "it girl" image or are influential in their respective fields. Attend networking events, engage with professionals in your industry, and seek out collaboration opportunities. Building a strong network can help amplify your influence and reach.

Embrace self-expression and confidence: Embrace self-expression and showcase your authentic self. Be confident in your choices, opinions, and style. Emphasize your strengths and unique qualities to set yourself apart from others.

Stay grounded and humble: While it's important to cultivate an "it girl" image, it's equally crucial to stay grounded and humble. Treat others with respect, kindness, and empathy. Remember that true influence comes from making a positive impact on others and being a role model.

Remember, building an "it girl" archetype is a personal journey, and it's important to be true to yourself. Focus on personal growth, self-expression, and being a positive influence rather than solely seeking external validation or popularity.

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Build Your Ideal Vampire Self!
This took me way too long, so enjoy it! I *think* I got every vampire trope, but I'm not entirely sure, so lmk if I missed any!
Rules for Nerds:
You have $5. You cannot exceed this budget. Each positive trait has a positive price listed, & each flaw has a negative one that refunds you however much money
You cannot take multiple contradictory flaws or powers, nor can you take a power or flaw that implies or encompasses another power or flaw you also have (ex. if you're immune to major injuries, you're also immune to minor injuries automatically -- you don't have to take both; or, you can't take must feed once a day & must feed once a week, because if you're feeding once a day, you're also feeding at least once a week by definition)
You cannot take a flaw that isn't applicable to you (ex. you can't can't take anything counts as a stake if you aren't hurt by stakes)
In general, specific beats general, & flaws take precedent over powers where applicable (ex. if garlic poisons you, but you're immune to poison, it's assumed garlic is an exception to that rule)
TERFs aren't allowed to make vampires with this :)
Have fun!
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Blood Requirements (MUST choose at least 1)
Must feed once a day: -$12
Must feed once a week: -$5
Must feed once a month: +$1
Must only feed to heal or fuel powers: +$10
Human blood only: -$5
Blood from any animal works: +$5
Synthetic blood is available & works: +$10
Must fully drain (kill) victims when feeding: -$10
Must feed twice as often as strictly required to live, or you go on a mindless rampage until your hunger is sated: -$5
Starvation doesn't kill you, but instead puts you in a catatonic state where you can't think or move until someone feeds you blood again: +$2
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Physical Improvements
Peak human strength: +$1
Superhuman strength: +$3
Peak human speed: +$2
Superhuman speed: +$4
High superhuman speed (able to catch bullets etc): +$7
Peak human intelligence: +$1
Peak human dexterity: +$1
Superhuman sense of smell (blood only): +$1
Superhuman sense of smell: +$3
Superhuman eyesight: +$1
Superhuman hearing: +$2
Attractive: +$1
Extremely, inhumanly attractive: +$2
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Immunities
Ageless: +$1
Immune to poison & disease: +$1
Full biological immortality (ie. can't die of any natural causes): +$3
Impervious to minor damage (ex. punches, papercuts): +$2
Resistant to major damage (ex. bullets, car crashes): +$4
Impervious to major damage: +$9
Healing factor: +$3
Immune to powers of other vampires (ex. domination): +$1
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Animal Powers
Transform into a bat: +$2
Transform into a wolf: +$3
Transform into any animal smaller than a human: +$6
Can only transform at sunrise, sunset, noon, & midnight: -$1
Can communicate with any animal (at least, on a basic level): +$1
Can control bats: +$1
Can control ravens or crows: +$2
Can control wolves: +$3
Can control any animal smaller than a human: +$7
The animals you control/communicate with don't like you: -$1
All animals hate you: -$2
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Movement Powers
Flight (no transformation needed): +$2
Slow fall: +$1
Wall crawling: +$2
Short range teleportation (~30 ft, line of sight needed): +$3
Med range teleportation (~100 ft, line of sight not needed): +$5
Can turn into mist: +$3
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Misc. Powers
Can charm with eye contact: +$2
Can mentally dominate with eye contact: +$5
When you fully drain (kill) someone, you can choose to turn them into a mindless vampire spawn under your control; such a spawn can't cost more than $1 & has no Flair: +$4
When you fully drain someone, you can choose to turn them into a vampire under your control; such a vampire can't cost more than $5 & gains free will when you die: +$8
As above, but they have free will immediately & are never under your direct control: +$4
If you have any of the previous 3, you get no choice upon fully draining someone: you must transform them (though if you have multiple options of what to turn them into, you may pick among them): -$1
You come back to life in your grave at sunset when killed, unless you were killed by sunlight, starvation, or a specific ritual is performed that keeps you dead (like your mouth being stuffed with holy wafers or your coffin being destroyed): +$4
Misc other magic power (ex telepathy, divination, summoning, etc): $3/each
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Weaknesses (Solar)
Sunlight instantly kills you: -$7
Sunlight burns you: -$4
Sunlight burns you if you're not well-fed: -$2
Sunlight weakens you: -$1
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Weaknesses (Staking)
A stake to the heart kills you instantly: -$5
A stake to the heart puts you into a catatonic state until it is removed: -$3
A "stake" for the purposes of either of the two previous also includes crossbow bolts & similar (ie. it doesn't need to be physically put into you by hand to work): -$3
A "staking" doesn't need to be intentional (ex. you could accidentally stake yourself by falling heart-first onto a broken beam): -$2
A "stake" doesn't need to be wood (ex. it could be a sharpened metal pipe or something): -$2
A "stake" must be made out of a specific type of wood to work (such as Ash, Rowen, or Oak): +$2
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Weaknesses (Other)
You can be killed with fire -$3
You can be killed by beheading: -$2
Silver weapons bypass your resistances/immunities: -$1
Magic or holy weapons bypass your resistances/immunities: -$1
Holy water burns you: -$1
Running water burns you: -$1
All water burns you: -$5
You cannot approach crosses: -$1
Crosses burn you: -$2
You cannot approach any holy symbols: -$2
All holy symbols burn you: -$3
A certain rare plant (like wolfsbane) can poison you: -$1
Garlic poisons you: -$3
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Limitations (Movement)
You can't enter anywhere you aren't invited: -$5
You can't enter churches: -$1
You can't enter a consecrated or holy place of any religion: -$3
You can't cross running water: -$3
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Limitations (Sleep)
You must sleep in a coffin full of your grave dirt every day from dawn to dusk or die: -$8
You must sleep in a coffin for 8+ hours every day or you die: -$5
You get tired & sleep like a normal person: -$2
If you are asleep in your coffin, a wild rose stalk laid atop it will prevent you from waking up: -$1
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Limitations (Other)
You don't have a reflection: -$1
You don't cast shadows: -$1
You can't be photographed or filmed: -$1
You're extremely ugly: -$5
You're extremely ugly if you aren't well-fed: -$1
You can't use any supernatural powers during the daytime: -$4
You must stop & count any spilled objects (such as grain): -$2
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Flair ($1 per 2 choices):
Millionaire
Billionaire (counts as two)
Minor title of nobility
Own a mansion
Own a castle
Gay gay homosexual gay
Your home contains a very large library
Your clothes always billow dramatically
Sexy accent
You have a vampire spouse who loves you
Claws!
You have a secret fucked-up vampire face you can pull out on command to scare people
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femmefatalevibe · 1 year
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Femme Fatale Playbook: How To Look More Expensive & Elevate Your Aura
Looking expensive or 'rich' is all about investing in yourself, your appearance, how you carry yourself, and not shying away from signature details or indulgences. Here are some tips to level up your look and demeanor to feel high-class in your daily life – no matter how much money you want to spend in these life arenas.
Appearance:
Prioritize Proper Grooming: Always looking clean and put-together is the ultimate sign of class. Shower daily. Brush, and take care of your teeth. Wash your hair on a regular schedule. Never allow your hair to look greasy – brush and blow dry it regularly. Cleanse, exfoliate, and moisturize every inch of your face and body. Perform your skincare routine religiously. Apply sunscreen daily.
Tailor & Steam Your Clothes: Freshly-pressed and well-fitting clothes always look infinitely more expensive – no matter their price point. Looking rich and expensive is about high self-regard and paying attention to the little details. Ensure your garments look crisp and clean – no wrinkles, pet hairs, loose threads, lint pieces, or fabric bulges highlighting an improper fit.
Create A Classic & Streamlined Capsule Wardrobe: Simplicity radiates a chic sophistication. Go back to the basics with timeless pieces – like a button-down blouse, a classic crewneck sweater, black trousers or straight-leg jeans, leather pants, a leather jacket, a trench or wool coat, a well-fitting cami or tee shirt, a simple slip dress, or a knit set. Focus on a neutral color palette – black, champagne, dark grey, chocolate brown, camel, or crisp white shades. Seek out elevated fabrics – such as Pima cotton, cashmere, washable silk, and buttery vegan or recycled leather.
Invest In Signature Pieces: Spend on "outer shell' items – coats, jackets, heavyweight knits, handbags, and shoes – that directly interact with the outside world and can be worn repeatedly with almost every outfit. Save on items like tee shirts or more simple jewelry pieces that can be found for less while still being fairly high-quality. I recommend Everlane, Lilysilk, and Naadam for affordable basics (Frankie Shop, Skims, and Norma Kamali for moderately priced pieces) and Catbird and Oma The Label for well-priced accessories. Here are all the everyday essentials you need to build the ultimate Femme Fatale Wardrobe.
Simplify Your Beauty Routine: Fresh, clear, and glowy skin radiates rich girl energy. A well-curated skincare routine should do half the heavy lifting. However, you will probably want to include a shade-matched foundation, concealer, and powder into your makeup routine along with a bronze contour, a rosy blush, and a subtle highlighter. Shape and fill in your brows for a polished look. Apply a deep black mascara to your lashes and luscious black eyeliner to your top lid, waterline, and tight line – keep the strokes thin and crisp (create a subtle wing if desired). Finish your face with a deep pink nude, red, or deep wine lipstick/gloss/lip tint. Here's a guide to the ultimate Femme Fatale Beauty Routine for a completely elevated (and sensual) look.
Eat Healthfully & Workout: Health is wealth. Taking care of your body shows self-respect – your most priceless asset. So, incorporate whole, plant-based foods into your daily diet and make it a priority to find movement you love that you can incorporate into your routine multiple times a week.
Lifestyle:
Streamline The Details: The rich girl aesthetic is all about refinement and looking put together at all times. Always have a set of matching pens with coordinating notepads on your desk, a uniform set of coffee mugs on the counter, coasters, glassware, sheets, pillowcases, cold-weather accessories, etc. This attention to detail instant makes your environment look more expensive.
Have Personalized Stationery: A high-value woman isn't shy about leaving her signature touch. Have personalized stationery (thank you notes, greeting cards, business cards, etc.) monogrammed and on hand for anytime you need to send a note or gift to a friend, coworker, boss, client, etc. This addition shows your attention to detail, leaves the recipient something small to remember you by, and adds a human touch to any gift or gesture. Try gold lettering on cream cards for an elegant, expensive look.
Keep Prosecco & Sparkling Water On Hand: Bubbly on a budget feels just as expensive as champagne (and tastes great too). Sparkling water elevates your daily H20 – add some lemon, lime, orange wedges, or frozen berries for a fancy, fruity twist.
Have Proper Place Settings: Neat, thoughtful presentation exudes class and rich energy. Whenever hosting any type of sit-down event or cocktail party, have the plates stacked, glasses and cutlery arranged correctly. Have all of the appropriate utensils readily available. Again, it's all about the details.
Stay Informed & Well-Read: A thirst for knowledge, learning and having the ability to engage in thoughtful, informed, and intellectual imbues a high-class radiance into any room. Read books, learn about different cultures and current events, and invest in studying different industries, and interests. Explore your hobbies. A rich mindset translates and generates an overall elevated aura.
Demeanor:
Learn Proper Etiquette: Address people by name, and offer a firm handshake. Maintain eye contact. Say "please" and "thank you." RSVP promptly. Communicate clearly and compassionately.
Maintain Good Posture: Shoulders back and relaxed. Open your chest. Keep your back straight and your head held high. Take up space. Command presence.
Master The Art of Engaging Conversation: Prioritizing self-presentation, learning how to listen, holding your own, and encouraging others to feel relaxed are the secrets to becoming magnetic in any social situation. Read more of my tips HERE.
Embrace An Abundant Mindset: Free your mind of limiting beliefs and notions of scarcity. There are plenty of opportunities, experiences, and emotions to go around. Another person's success doesn't take away from your potential. Focus on expansion, not envy.
Remain Confident & Unbothered: Believe in yourself. Invest in your well-being. Prioritize your goals and block out the noise from anyone trying to tear you down or criticize you for your ambition, goals, or desires. Stay in your own lane. Allow others to do the same. This is how you level up to elevate into your queen energy to create a rich life and design your dream reality.
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pinkriaji · 1 year
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✨️Reminder✨️
Never give up in your dreams
I want you to start thinking why you started this journey, what is your dream?
You can do whatever you want, but is what you are doing right now, what you really want at all?
We all can manifest that perfect house, sp, that aesthetic, those followers but is that what you really want?
Or
Have you been made believe that that's what you should want?
I hope I'm explaining myself, but it is my mission to help everyone who reads my posts, not only helping them into manifesting what they want and knowing their power but also allowing them the freedom that we all can want what we want, no questions asked.
Never give up in whatever dreams you have, it doesn't matter if they're really common or really really fantastical.
Whatever you are manifesting, be sure that it's what you really want, and your not chasing that instant gratification or following others ideals.
Ask yourself, know yourself and most importantly, love yourself, give yourself whatever you need and want♡
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mud-fm · 1 month
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If you want to change yourself, manifest your ideal self/life, start to love yourself
Write a documentary about it.
Open up a notion page or a new page in your journal and write who your ideal self is, how your ideal self looks like, how you behave, what you work as,... As narcissistic as it sound, write about ideal self as if you were deeply in love with it
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thisismyshow111 · 2 months
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She lives her own life in London, buying her own house and taking care of herself. Going to pilates classes in the morning, smelling like Jo Malone, planting white cherry blossoms outside her house, Sunday resets, endless shopping, Matcha lattes, English breakfast and pink birkins
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loveheartesme · 6 months
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She's kind and gentle and tries to understand others point of view before judging their actions. She's very caring, loving and generous. She's educated, intelligent and well-spoken. She's quick witted and funny without being mean. She's expressive and creative. She's naturally beautiful. She shines.
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theprettiest-7 · 1 year
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Y'all are so fucking dumb like girl, tell me why you're waiting for something to show up in the 3d? Stfu and know that it's all yours. That's it. Live in the fucking end. Think like you already have it.
You're manifesting whether you like it or not. You're affirming 24/7. Affirming is just your thoughts,k? It ain't a technique.
You're God. Please. God would never wait for something to happen. We're amazing creators not victims. Life is a blank canvas. Now that yk about the law, yk that it's ALL under YOUR FUCKING CONTROL.
YOUR REALITY IS UNDER YOUR CONTROL. YOU'RE GOD. YOU ARE THE CREATOR OF YOUR REALITY.
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