I’ve been seeing a lot of misandrist biphobia around tiktok the internet and as a raging lesbian I just wanted to let every bisexual woman and, hell, every queer person attracted to men know that I would rather see horny posts about Man Tits absolutely DOMINATING my dashboard than see even ONE remark about how you are soooo Unfortunate to be Cursed with Man-Liker Disease.
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If when you hear “trans man” you instantly treat it as “straight, white, abled, endosex, passing trans man” you need to reconsider some things. Especially if you’re cis.
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i’m sorry but like
they are SHARING A BED
they are ROOMMATES
they are SILLY LITTLE GUYS
they gave us this set up and for what? scotty pilgrim decides to go to all this effort to defeat this girl’s 7 evil exes and whatnot when THIS TWINK ASS MAN IS IN HIS BED
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I am unable to stop thinking of two things. (They’re kinda connected but the second thing can be separated for other things)
1.) MILF Y/N. Even if she’s not an actual mom. I want a maternal, empathetic, sweet hearted older lady to waltz up to 141 and just, do her thing. Platonic, romantic, I do not care. Insisting they take care of themselves, checking in on them, speaking to them gently when they’re having a hard time, bringing them tea/coffee, defending them, cradling their head to her chest, letting them nap on her, etc. (I am HEAVY projecting in two ways; both what i want and what I want to be. But surely someone also feels this way.)
2.) When I think of this, I mostly think of Simon. I know he’s a stand-offish, traumatized, grown ass man who doesn’t need coddling. And he probably wouldn’t like it. But there’s surely a part of him that’s got both mommy & daddy issues that would kinda allow subtle things. Even if it’s just plain kindness. FOR EXAMPLE;
The team is at a pub. Everyone is having fun, having some laughs, having some drinks. They’re playing pool and socializing. But there’s Simon, isolating cause that’s what he does. He feels kinda left out but he’s not the type to ask for inclusion. And then here comes Y/N(of any type), who notices. Waltzes up with two pool sticks.
“Hey big guy, come play pool.”
“I’m alright.”
“Aw c’mon, don’t tell me you’re scared of losing!”
“…you’re on.”
“Atta boy!”
(Also, please this entire team could use an “atta boy”. Especially from a milf!y/n PLEASE)
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“trans women do not get periods. they may experience some period-like symptoms from the estrogen they’re taking but-”
nope, not even that!!! men cannot and will never experience even “some period-like symptoms” because they don’t have a fucking uterus. none of the side effects that come along with males taking exogenous hormones have anything to do with a female human-specific biological process. the male body, inundated with estrogen, does not suddenly get confused and then try to mimic female biological processes. that’s not how any of this works. whatever side effects they’re experiencing is male-specific, because they’re male. males cannot and will never have “period-like symptoms” ever, i don’t care, fuck OFF
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“Trans men and mascs don’t get a special word because they aren’t oppressed specifically as men, since as men they reap benefits of patriarchy, because if there are two resumes on the table and one has the name Dave and the other Susan, and both happen to be trans, Dave will be hired over Susan, regardless of how his coworkers see his gender.”
a) You really think every transmasc has equal access to changing their name? You think every transmasc wants to take a name that is normative? If I apply for a job right now, it would still have to be under my legal name, which is the one my parents assigned me along with the gender I shed. It’s pretty cis-normatively female. Even if I changed my name, Enviri is not a name that would get me sorted into a pile with Daves and Joes.
b) You’re acting like there isn’t an interview process, where if you don’t pass, you definitely won’t be sorted into the Dave pile if your name is Dave but you can’t physically transition and so don’t pass as cis.
These sorts of statements rely on assuming that all transmascs are passing and stealth, and so gender-conforming. Or that society is actually good at viewing trans people as our actual gender if we aren’t those things.
Denying transmascs language based on the absolute most privileged of us that you can imagine does absolutely nothing. I’ve not gained an ounce of male privilege as a non-passing, GNC transmasc because it’s society that grants privilege, and society is still extremely hostile to ALL trans people, AND men who don’t conform ESPECIALLY if they’re trans and had been stealth, and society will still at this point remove all that privilege if trans status is known.
It’s petty as fuck to make up reasons to take down a word and conversation when it all comes back around to, “oh well, you don’t get a word because, uhm, we don’t think you should have one because it makes us feel less special about having our own word.” Fuck off.
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The way some people will trust one woman’s vague observations from 2007 about transmasc experiences over what I am telling them right the fuck now is actually wild to me
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