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im going to kill the next person who says i should "practice empathy" fuck you
anyway hi i love all of you people with low empathy/no empathy at all youre all great
#bpd#npd#aspd#hpd#low empathy#hypoempathy#narcissistic personality disorder#borderline personality disorder#antisocial personality disorder#histrionic personality disorder#cluster b#birdcage rambles#love u guys u understand me
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AFFECTIVE EMPATHY: feeling other people's emotions. like, if someone is crying, you get sad. If someone is angry, you get angry. if someone is really excited, your emotions match that energy. etc.
HYPEREMPATHY: you are very very sensitive to the emotions of others and even non-intense emotions will frequently greatly affect your emotions.
LOW/NO AFFECTIVE EMPATHY: you almost never take on other people's emotions just bc they're feeling them. low-but-not-No empathy may experience "exception" people or feel empathy for really intense emotions, or large groups of people all feeling the emotion.
NORMAL is somewhere in between but hard for me to describe. probably just like... people's feelings influence yours, but not to the point of frequent distress or impaired functioning? like they definitely have an impact on your emotions but not an Intense one unless their emotions are also quite intense.
if you are AUTISTIC and have comorbidities, feel free to say what those are. if you are ALLISTIC/NON-AUTISTIC, feel free to clarify if you are completely neurotypical (no mental disorders or disabilties) or if you have something else (ADHD, bipolar, ASPD, OCD, whatever).
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Trauma-Punk (Coining)
Concept
An aesthetic and social group/movement focused on trauma survivors of any and all kinds. You have gone through hell and back and you are allowed to be loud, angry, aggressive, and selfish. Traumapunk is for all the unsavory survivors who don’t fall into society's ideal victim mold. It’s taking back the power from times you could not before, it’s being independent and self assured, it’s saying fuck you to the system that allowed your traumas to occur, saying fuck you to the abusers you may have had. You don’t have to be quiet or docile, you can be loud and aggressive.
All trauma survivors matter, and the discrimination and biases we face on a daily basis should no longer go ignored. This is a movement for all the cluster-b disordered people, all the people with PTSD, all the people with DID/OSDD, and any other trauma induced disorders. Everyone with the “wrong” reaction to their trauma and everyone who has decided they will no longer take anyone's shit.
All trauma survivors can be a part of this, regardless of disorders or the lack thereof. Your trauma no matter how big, no matter how small, is valid.
Trauma Punk Flag
[Image ID: The trauma-punk flag, consistent of 7 stripes which are reflected horizontally. The stripes go as follows; Dark Sienna, Rosso Corsa, Old Brick, Carousel Pink, Old Brick, Rosso Corsa, and then Dark Sienna. The flag is all tinted towards a redish color. End ID]
The flags colors all have their own meaning
Dark Sienna: All the negative feelings and emotions that comes from having experienced trauma, the feeling of being alone.
Rosso Corsa: Anger towards what happened, having to fight to survive. Not being docile.
Old Brick: Any and all people with socially unacceptable reactions to their traumas- including disorders, temperament shifts, and being untrusting of others. (Separate from anger).
Carousel Pink: Recovery and healing
This flag is free to be used and never requires any credit.
Core Beliefs
Pro/Supports
People with Personality Disorders
People with PTSD/cPTSD
Traumagenic Systems (DID/OSDD)
CDDs (Complex Dissociative Disorders)
People with lesser known disorders like RAD, ASD (acute stress disorder not autism), DSED
People with trauma based adjustment disorders
People with trauma based anxiety disorders
People with “problematic” (trauma induced) OCD themes
Anyone with trauma
Low empathy
Hyper empathy
Well researched self-dx
Sex-workers
Hypersexual survivors
Sex repulsed survivors
Trans People
Gay People
Intersex people
Xenogenders
Self-defense
Angry Survivors
Survivors who want revenge
Survivors who want to see their perps be better people
Anti-Psych/Psych-Critical
Psychology/psychiatry should be available for those in need- however there are massive issues within the field and it needs to be addressed. We personally prefer Psych-Crit, but people recognize Anti-psych more.
Anti/Against
Ableists
“Narcissistic/Histrionic/Borderline/Sociopathic” Abuse
The abuser made their choice, having a disorder will never make someone be an abuser, that abusive person CHOSE to be evil. Your anger should be at them, not fellow trauma survivors.
Trauma Comparison
All traumas are valid, some may be harder to deal with than others but we are still all survivors.
Sanists
Fakeclaimers
You never know what someone is going through it is not your place to decide if they have a disorder or not
Terfs/Swerfs/Radfems
Transphobes
Homophobes
Transmeds
Intersexists
Our DNI does not apply to this and only this post (unless you are part of one of the groups in the "against" section.)
This label is allowed to be used by trauma survivors regardless of beliefs on syscourse as we post a lot of syscourse stuff and thought this was necessary to add.
#trauma survivor#traumagenic#cluster b#PTSD#did#osdd#osddid#didosdd#complex ptsd#bpd#hpd#npd#aspd#pro sex work#psych ciritical#reactive attachment disorder#hypoempathy#low empathy#hyperempathy#high empathy#term coining#pro xenogender#traumapunk#trauma-punk#survivor#abuse survivor#personality disorders
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what people think hypoempathy is: people having never once cared for a single person in their entire life ever, people wishing harm onto others, people being inconsiderate and mean
what hypoempathy actually is: me asking my partner if he's ok every 15 minutes because i cannot tell
#hypoempathy#low empathy#no empathy#autism#autistic#actually autistic#neurodivergent#neurodivergence#disabled#disability
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Us people with no empathy and people with high empathy aren't enemies btw. We should make out sloppy style.
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empathy fucked
[pt: empathy fucked /end pt]
A flag for when your empathy is fucked for any reason. This can include hyperempathy, hypoempathy, empathyflux, or any other kind of empathy abnormality.
I made this to describe my weird relationship with empathy and how I personally only experience it for those I'm close to, but it can be used for anyone who feels like they can describe their empathy as "fucked."
Lots of points of inspiration for this one! The flag template is by @/fantasy-store's empathy flags the center colors are from @/neopronouns' hyperempathy, hypoempathy(link) and empathyflux(link) flags, and the colors on either side are from @/fairystar-fag's high and low empatix(link) flags because they're gorgeous
Tysm to @/radiomogai for the help with the id. The flag template had me a lil stumped
[flag id: A rectangular flag with five horizontal stripes of equal width. Each stripe has a small rectangle of a different color at some point on the stripe, with the rectangles starting in the top right corner on the first stripe and ending in the bottom left corner on the last stripe. The first stripe is dark blue with a bright green rectangle. The second stripe is indigo with a dark teal rectangle, the stripe after the rectangle being yellow. The third stripe is blue with a periwinkle rectangle, the stripe after the rectangle being orange. The fourth stripe is light blue with a lavender rectangle, the rest of the stripe being deep red. The last stripe starts with a pink rectangle, the remainder of the stripe being dark plum. /end id]
[divider 1 id: a divider on a transparent background of a rotating chain with the word "links" in the center also rotating /end id]
[divider 2 id: a divider on a transparent background of a rotating chain /end id]
#empathy fucked#empathy flag#hyperempathy#hypoempathy#empathyflux#neurodivergent#neurodivergent flag#empathy levels#high empathy#low empathy#fluctuating empathy#catherine's hoard#catherine coins
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✧. ┊ APAPRINCE ♡
♡ A gender for those who are apathetic/low/no empathy, and relate to princes in any way. Could be related to being apathetic and a prince, having low/no empathy and being princely, or any other interpretation.
♡ coined by: Carmine
♡ requested by: A Friend
[PT: Apaprince - A gender for those who are apathetic/low/no empathy, and relate to princes in any way. Could be related to being apathetic and a prince, having low/no empathy and being princely, or any other interpretation. Coined by Carmine, requested by A Friend. END PT.]
#🦇🥀꒰coining꒱#🦇🥀꒰gifts꒱#mogai#mogai term#xenogender#xenogender blog#xenogender term#mogai blog#xeno coining#mogai coining#gender coining#low empathy#apathetic#hypoempathy#another gender for my hypoempathetic friends
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Hey who here wants to start a new movement similar to loveless aromanticism about just unsubscribing to the concept of/the word “empathy.”
Cause it’s stupid and I don’t want it anymore, it’s become so watered down and meaningless and I no longer wanna engage in the concept of empathy I think empathy is frickin stupid okay that’s all good night.
#autistic#neurodivergent#low empathy#hypoempathy#I love you people who struggle with empathy I love you people who don’t have empathy I love you people who don’t understand others’ emotions#autism#mental illness#aromantic#loveless aromantic#loveless aro#I’m not loveless I love the word love for myself but loveless aros are so freaking cool I… well I was abt to say I love you guys that#doesn’t help much so I really respect and appreciate you you’re so cool#so yeah I want that but for empathy no more of it I say no thank you#the heir speaks
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It’s funny how it’s “not all autistic people are a monolith” when we’re talking about autistic people with low empathy, but suddenly all autistic people are the same when you’re making your silly little memes about your beige foods and your hyperempathy and your plushies, even though I’m also autistic and I relate to NONE of it. It’s almost as if the autism community doesn’t want people with low empathy to be visible and vocal about our experiences because it makes the community not as palatable to neurotypicals.
#low empathy autism#actually low empathy#low empathy#hypoempathy#autism#autism discourse#autism spectrum disorder#actually autistic#asd
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no more discourse about high empathy vs low empathy autistics. neither one makes you a better or worse person. let’s all hold hands
#empathy just means FEELING what other people are feeling#if you can’t do that it doesn’t mean you’re automatically evil#there is compassion cognitive empathy etc#not to mention that hyperempathy can be stressful. it’s not a net good or bad#i’m sure this is relevant to other disorders as well. i’m just thinking about it from the autism perspective because that’s where i can#relate from#autism#autistic#neurodivergence#empathy#hyperempathy#high empathy#hypoempathy#low empathy
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“put urself in their shoes”
bro we do not have the same sized feet im just gonna be uncomfortable as hell and not understand how the fuck they do anything
#birdcage rambles#empathy#low empathy#neurodivergent#bro i am. struggling#hypoempathy#idk wut else to tag with i just can’t empathize
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empathy is not required. it's not some magical ability that makes you a good person. it's just a thing some people have little of, some people have a lot of, and some people have medium amounts of. and all states of empathy come with their own struggles. no one's worth is measured on their empathy
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not every person with BPD has a healthy relationship with empathy. actually, most of us dont, and that's kind of the whole point.
but whether thats trouble managing high empathy or low empathy... our experience of empathy doesn't decide our worth as a person.
#softspoonie#high empathy#hyperempathy#empathy#low empathy#hypoempathy#bpd#actually bpd#bpd awareness#bpd community#mentally ill#mental illness#mental health#anti ableism#sanism
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I actually hate people that are like "autistic people don't actually lack empathy!!! We actually have high empathy!!!" or people who are like "there's different types of empathy ACTUALLY autistic people have high affective empathy!!!"
Because while it is true that some autistic people are hyperempathetic, not all of them are, and:
1. Saying that autistic people are hyperempathetic and acting like we're all hyperempathetic is a generalisation and I hate generalisations, especially when it comes to things like autism considering that autism is a SPECTRUM and we don't all have the same symptoms.
2. It seems to me as though people are saying like "whoa autistic people aren't actually evil/cold/heartless! They have empathy!!! Wow!!!" Low empathy doesn't mean that you don't care about others, doesn't mean you're a bad person, etc. I still help people because I can logically understand that it can sometimes be hard to do something yourself, or that sometimes people need support. And I want to help people I care about. I like showing my care to people I care about and I like helping them. Do I still have low empathy?? Yes.
Another thing that some people seem to think is that people with low empathy will just go around hurting others or making immoral decisions because they don't care if they hurt others. When really people with low empathy can be kind and caring just like people with higher empathy.
I don't know if this post made any sense but I just needed to express my opinions because people with low empathy should not be demonised.
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I want to shoot psych2go into orbit. Literally what is this absolutely rancid trash. Self proclaimed "empaths" don't even see their own ableism huh
#i cannot believe i used to watch this shit#stay away from that#ableism#cluster b#ableism tw#empath#npd#hypoempathy#narcissistic abuse#personality disorders#psych2go#sanism#sanism tw
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Ways we experience what looks to the outside like "empathy":
- A learned skill that becomes instinct similar to how someone learns the controls and skills of a video game. If it weren't for trauma, we would be able to just put this hypothetical video game down.
- A trauma response where we compare ones' experiences to our own, and the paranoia response from it triggers an emotional reaction that presents similarly.
- Staight up sympathy. The act of intentionally putting yourself in someone else's shoes so that you can sympathize with their situation and imagine how it would be, and then reacting to them based on a combination of this forced perspective and other information you may know about the person's preferences.
- Analysis from a psychological perspective, reading the other's emotions like one might a character, and responding accordingly with active effort to not step on their emotions.
It's usually a combination of all four in varying levels during any given situation.
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