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layaboutace · 4 months
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the eleventh doctor is the only straight doctor. send post
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yuribuny · 1 month
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if every anime character was a girl we'd fix so many problems
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the-mortal-incorrects · 6 months
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Magnus: Heterophobia exists, because have you seen how much married straight people hate each other?
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theconcealedweapon · 2 years
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Someone gets injured in a car crash and is given a bandaid for their injuries.
You see this and you're outraged. But instead of being outraged that all they're getting is a bandaid when that's clearly not enough to treat their injuries, you're outraged that you, who were not in the car crash and are not injured, didn't get a bandaid also.
That's what "straight pride" or "white lives matter" is.
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tellme-o-muse · 2 months
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Look 👀 Anyone is free to disagree with me on this and give me their reasonings, but I’m pretty sure these three things can’t exist. One, misandry. Two, reverse-racism. Three, heterophobia. Why? Because for these to exist, an opressed class would have to hold systematic power over the opressor class. Gay people commenting how straights are eww because we’ve lived out lives overwhelmed with straight media and homophobia from straight people… is not compared to the gay panic law, nor homophobic hate crimes nor the deaths that have come about just because a person is gay.
The same thing with misandry. Women, all women, are the oppressed class. Some more than others, of course, because class, race, home and sexuality all come into play. However even the richest white woman in the US living in a red state is oppressed and has less body autonomy than men (via lack of abortion rights). Some questions to prove whether systematic misandry is real or not:
1. Can you name 1 country where the entire government is female?
2. Can you name 1 country in the world where women kill more than 3 men per week?
3. Can you name 1 female led country in the world where it is illegal for men to drive a car or have a driving licence because they are perceived as too stupid?
5. Can you name 1 female led country in the world where men are not allowed to leave their houses without a female chaperone?
6. Can you name 1 country in the world where females in power have legally dictated that men should cover their entire bodies at all times, not show their hair or faces, and punish men and boys who do show their skin?
7. Can you name 1 female led country or community in the world that has legally banned boys from getting an education or attending school?
8. Can you name 1 country where large groups of women publicly flog and beat men as a form of punishment for being seen out alone without a female chaperone?
9. Can you name 1 female led country where the child marriage of boys as young as 6 years old to adult women is widely encouraged or legally allowed?
10. Can you name 1 country where men are not allowed to take part in sports at all?
Those are ten out of 37, the original article has more but massive TW for sexual assault and abuse.
Since there isn’t systematic misandry anywhere in the world and we still live in a patriarchy, I don’t think misandry can exist. Any prejudice against men doesn’t have power over them, nor does it affect them in any way (besides maybe their feelings), so how can it be harmful?
My Mom could easily be discribed as a misandrist ngl. We were looking at flats for me and she had come choice comments that were gruesome and out of proportion for what would happen if I had mixed sex flats. However I don’t think it can count as misandry because she’s seen and experienced enough harm by men that it crosses from needlessly rude, to wary and overcautious. Harmful to her mental health? Yes. Harmful to men? No.
One can absolutely be rude, cruel and judgemental towards men… but that is all reactionary to lived experiece and read experience. Or at least that is how I see it.
*I do not by any means support being rude and cruel, violent or abusive, towards ANYONE. Men included. I dislike my Mom’s way of thinking and I do not seek to replicate it. This is just to prove that misandry is a term used by men’s rights activists to put down feminists and women.
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wikipedia, beloved, on its page about misandry
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dommarhooober · 11 days
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It exists. Notably in the Omori community regarding how people view the characters.
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"Nobody should ever be pressured into dating, or pressured into dating people they aren't attracted to. But if you find that when dating, you are writing off entire groups of people, like people of colour, fat people, disabled people or trans people, then it's worth considering how societal prejudices may have shaped your attractions." -- Nancy Kelley, CEO Stonewall UK
This is the CEO of Stonewall, the former gay-rights organization, telling gay people to re-examine their innate same-sex attraction because it's just something they were taught.
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10225111/Stonewall-brands-lesbians-sexual-racists-raising-concerns-sex-transgender-women.html
[Kelley] further complained that the ‘highly toxic’ cotton ceiling issue was ‘analogous to issues like sexual racism’.
This is the exact same rhetoric right-wing Xians have been using for decades: "how do you know you won't like it if you don't give it a go?"
Essentially, the head of the biggest (formerly) gay-rights organization in the UK is saying that homosexuality (and heterosexuality) don't actually exist, because they're just social constructs.
Stonewall has evolved into a rampantly anti-gay organization.
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the heterophobia in her eyes <3
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much2leite · 5 months
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The upside of having no followers is I could say the most controversial thing and it would have no repercussions.
Like,
I'm against marriage. Just in general, marriage. It's quite offensive, people pairing up and excluding me from their pairs. Pair elitists. I'm pairophobic.
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joliackermann · 9 months
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There is nothing I hate more than people of the LGBTQ+ community that are heterophobic and whose only argument it is that "They´ve hated us for many centuries, so now it´s their turn to suffer"
Like... DO YOU REALISE THAT YOU ARE ONLY MAKING IT WORSE FOR EVERYBODY ELSE?
And WHY did youtube autoplay just put on One Direction?
I think im gonna get drunk later and make a really long post about this topic lmao
But straight people exist! Just like gay people exist, or lesbain people! If you are old enough to understand that sexuallity exist, you should also be old enough to know that people are different AND THAT THAT IS OKAY!
And how can people be proud when they say they are heterophobic? Like... can you imagine how stupid it would look if you would switch out heterophobic for homophobic? DO THESE PEOPLE NOT REALISE HOW STUPID THEY ARE?!
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yuribuny · 3 months
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i am no longer asking
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violets-are-the-answer · 10 months
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"heterophobia doesn't exist -"
no.
you're wrong.
i'm a heterophobe. stop being straight. it's gross.
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everyoneisgayandtrans · 11 months
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fuckyeahilike · 2 years
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Types of feminism that I don't subscribe to include:
1 - Feminists who advocate for KAM, i.e. kill all men. Just in general telling people to shut up (an exclusively fascist move) or that they don't have the inherent right to live or should die or should kill themselves. Who are you to decide who has the right to speak? Who are you to say who should live or die? Especially when describing a whole demography that necessarily includes both good and bad people. That's bigotry by definition.
2 - Feminists who recommend American icons of ultra-violence such as Andrea Dworkin, who supported incest and bestiality; Valerie Solanas, who tried to kill Andy Warhol purely as a publicity stunt for her play; Jodi Arias, who brutally murdered her boyfriend for wanting to leave her...
So many of these "feminist" icons, both the ones in real life and in fiction, when you look closely at them, could be described as just like a man... at his very worst. Like, everything that feminists rightly and correctly point out in men as dangerous and anti-social, their sense of arrogant self-entitlement, their possessiveness and God complex, their violence and self-pity, just everything that comprises toxic masculinity that we can all recognize as something that must be stopped for all our sakes - that's what these "feminists" zero in and praise in women when it's women displaying the exact same behavior.
In many ways, these women are basically trans men, in the sense that they openly admire some of the worst most typically male behaviors and essentially their feminism consists of thinking that women should be more like that, i.e. women should be just like a man. Because they don’t like or respect women, and they wish they were like men and, well, they are.
3 - Heterophobic lesbians who tell young, impressionable girls that the best thing for them is to never have sex, if sex with men is their sexual orientation, all in the name of feminism, of course. That’s castration and gaslighting. Their argument being that men will hurt you, when statistics point out that there is a problem of violence among lesbians, but this type of feminist is always dead silent on that.
4 - Feminists whose idea of the perfect, utopic society is an Anarcho-primitivist separatist commune in the middle of the woods somewhere, away from men and the society built to men’s specifications... instead of advocating for a better society where women do have an input in the decision making. If this type of feminists had their way that would translate to women removing themselves from society to go and bury themselves in a pre-industrial hut where their voices would be completely silenced and neutralized. Something that benefits only the most misogynist of men.
5 - The anti-beauty stance that is closely connected to the "no sex with men, ever" rule, disguised as a righteous anti-gender stance. Briefly, this type of feminist conflates gender when it refers to the way that women are kept in the home and away from political power, i.e. gender roles; and gender in the sense of grooming yourself to emphasize the inherent characteristics of your sex, to look more attractive to the opposite sex. These feminists misrepresent these two different things as being inextricably the same, so if you’re a straight woman wearing a dress because you like being a woman and you want to see yourself looking more like a female and as little as possible like a man, they will accuse you of advertising with your appearance your political stance as a tradfem and a tradcath who wishes we could all go back to the 50s and become Stepford Wives again.
Understand that these “feminists” have nothing against a gender-coded appearance... as long as it’s the right gender, the masculine gender. As long as you look very butch and masculine, with actual hair on your face and a look so butch one could almost say you’re cross-dressing, they will praise you as the ideal. It’s only femininity they object to because, again, they don’t like women. It’s man that is the default human being and woman is unreal and a social construct to be abolished. The internalized misogyny is strong with these ones.
As for effeminate men, whatever their sexual orientation may be, these “feminists” accuse them of being ridiculous (SIC) and of contributing to perpetuate femininity, that form of “oppression”. As if any little girl has ever aspired to looking like a man in drag. No.
The other argument is that femininity in a man is a form of perversion, a typical far-right fascist talking point if ever there was one. The only thing I have to say to these fascists is that they are the cause of their problem. Bev Jackson, one of the founders of the LGB Alliance (pointedly without the T), is correct in saying that in a society that accepted gender non-conformity both in men and women (i.e. feminine men and masculine women, either in their “roles” or appearance) homophobic and sexist trans procedures would become a thing of the past because it would no longer be possible to brainwash people who are simply gay and/or gender non-conforming into thinking they must be inwardly a person of the opposite sex born in the wrong body.
TL;DR whenever these “feminists” shame effeminate men they’re just creating another victim of transgenderism. Whenever they convince a woman that there’s something wrong with her for having sexual feelings for men, or sexual feelings at all, or for wanting to look more like a woman than a man, they’re just creating another mental health patient who will be further victimized by the same psychologists who are transing 3 year olds. They’re completely irresponsible and just bad for society.
6 - The anti-beauty stance that is nothing more than celebrity gossip.
I’ve checked the cost of lip injections - one of the cheapest things you can do - and google said that the cost of a full syringe averages between $500 and $1,000, and that women you see on social media get, easily, two to three syringes' worth, if not more.
Look, I’m very sorry. I understand that rich people have existential problems too, and that a rich woman who lives in a palace and has a hundred lip injections in her face can commit suicide like everyone else. But the truth is that the overwhelming majority of people’s problems can be easily solved with a lot of money that they don’t have, and that is why they have a lot of problems, it’s because they just don’t have the dough.
If you are in the 1% that can afford to throw away money on completely unnecessary vanity procedures like lip injections and spend, say, $2.100 to go from normal lips to blowfish; if you can afford this while being a girl in high-school, or a young adult trying to make it on her first job’s salary, or as a mother who has to support herself and her kids in a world where women are consistently paid less than men and don’t get the promotion or the bonus... Then you are not the person who typically needs help from the feminist movement.
Case in point is domestic violence. I know some women just can’t leave for psychological reasons... but please tell the truth and admit that most women would simply pack up their bags and the reason they don’t is almost always because they can’t afford it. It’s a money problem and nothing else.
So if your “problems” are whether you ought to waste money you should be giving to the poor in giving in to societal pressure to conform to Cosmo’s beauty ideal... then you are doing fine. If you are an average woman and you’re discussing the merits and demerits of plastic procedures you will never be able to afford, procedures that are no more in your horizon than a trip to the moon, then you’re just gossiping about the Kardashians in a forum where ordinary women are trying to discuss their real life problems. Shame on you.
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yuriartillery · 1 year
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the IDEA the fucking CONCEPT that Yor “Moeblob Tradwife” Forger, from Shinzo Abe’s “Spy X Traditional Family Values are the Only Way for Career Focused Adults to Find Fulfillment” could possibly dare to tread on the same ground as Misato Katsuragi is insulting
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