I get it, women take a lot more accountability than men (imo) because society is currently set up this way. Women fill up churches, support groups, therapy, they’re purchasing more self-help books and literature than men, and there are a million pages on social media dedicated to women bettering themselves while there are barely any for men. Overall, anything related to self improvement and reflection is dominated by women. Socially and culturally speaking most parents hold their daughter more accountable than their sons. That’s why a 15 year old boy can be out galavanting late with his friends but a 20 year old woman has a strict curfew.
At some point you have to realize (as a woman) that you automatically deserve more from life and the partner that you choose because it is your birth right (imo).
Just because the majority of men are not decent humans, doesn’t mean you have to settle.
And just because you’re constantly being groomed by society to improve as a woman doesn’t mean that something is wrong with you or that you’re not good enough every time a man doesn’t know how to act right.
Lift your head high and accept the power that you hold. Stop questioning yourself every two seconds and accept that men can often do wrong. Be confident.
I’ve been MIA, my apologies, I broke up with my old SD for so many reasons & feel so much better. I’ve been able to make much more without him breathing down my neck.
I also had to cut V-Card Buyer as he hasn’t sent me any money in sometime. I haven’t seen him since last year but just like the universe does with men, one goes another one comes!
I had to charge him a“re-entrance fee” to get back into my life after failing to be financially consistent. He accepted of course. He sent me the equivalent of a lady dior bag since we’ve communicated and I love it here! I actually don’t have to do anything with him, not even see him besides little texts here and there and he’s one of the least demanding men I keep on my roster. This is why I keep saying, don’t cut men off unless they’re utterly dangerous or disrespectful! One will always serve you whether he wants to or not. I always advise women and genderqueers to always leave a wealthy or generous person on a “good” note if they’ve served you good purpose in the past. You never know when they can come in handy, and this man happened to send me thousands in less than 24 hours!
PS: If a suitor is sending you money via paypal, separate it into different transfers, that way your account doesn’t get limited/flagged xo
Ok so I gave my # to a client from my agency, he’s a regular ( obviously a fake one never give your real # pls), and he has the audacity to think i’m going to text him for free🤣 Like for the first 2 days I was responding being nice here & there but obviously I wanted something from that pig. He has THE AUDACITY to think i’m going to talk to him for free. Honey if you want to talk to me pay me.It’s literally so rude to waste my time & being a cheap mf.
A big pet peeve of mine is when a potential client/sub completes the booking form and you can tell that he put no thought what so ever into it or he filled it out when he was horny.
You can tell a lot about how a client will act/behave based on the way he completes his booking form. In my experience the ones that submit a half-assed request are the ones that will be annoying, try to cut corners, act as if the rules don’t apply to them/side-step your boundaries and overall will be a pain in the ass to deal with.
If he cannot make an effort to complete a simple booking request, I already know how the session is going to go. #hardpass
Reason #2 why I love men. When you come across a man who was raised really well. They just get it. They open your door, they cover the tab, they send you a car/driver, they send flowers, they are self-aware, they make sure your taken care of, they make you feel safe, etc.
I really don’t know what to say, I don’t usually talk about my finances but I feel like I should pat myself on the shoulder for my work these 2 weeks. I left my long term sugar daddy for many reasons (I mean I’ll swing by his place for my allowance, also not gonna say no to a fuschia LV capucine , but uhm that’s it... otherwise, ew.)
I escoheaurxte in the US because obvious reasons, and this month was one of my favourite months.
I met up with my nyc girlfriends & finally felt what I was missing in my boring canadian town. Lost a bunch of friends this year & most of my close friends live outside of my city. So seeing my bffs again made me so happy 😭💕 especially when we’re all doing the same thing.... love it & their energy 🥺
All in all, I’m glad I’m blessed enough to have made this amount in a week! I was surprised but checked my IG highlights & I’ve only been here for a f***ing week! Way over my monthly goal & I’m manifesting repetitive months like this, where hell, I make even more!
I’m also manifesting to always have stable, interesting clients. My previous ones have been great with deposits, really glad about that.
I’m really just laying in bed, in a hotel room, alone, happy?!? Weird.
Luckily I am booked next week, then I’m going back to a bore of a canadian town to see my wittle puppy 😭 Then, it’s a surprise 💗
Anyways, just a 3am pat on my own back. Wishing everyone success in FSSW/Onlyfans/The Bowl/General SW ❤️
So lately I’ve been using dating apps to meet POTs and I mention I’m looking to be spoiled or for a generous man and when I ask them what do they consider spoiling they say upscale dining and traveling 🙄 bruh, eating is a necessity... I’m so over it