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my mum didn't raise a quitter
but at one point in my life I decided that I did not have to be who I was raised to and realized that I can just quit the shit that's not working for me
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I spend far too much time worrying about whether Carlos Sainz is actually resting right now or if his stupid ass is out riding a bike
#I know you’re supposed to trust grown adults to make decisions about their own health#but I don’t trust Carlos#pls babygirl we want you healthy for Melbourne#carlos sainz#carlos sainz jr
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The next few months will be aaall about being decisive. When I am making a decision I am fucking sticking w it. Also being more in tune w myself and knowing what I want. I really think this will be the marker of another growth spurt
#Now obviously there are healthy reconsiderations but I’m also so indecisive w SO many things#I need to stop regretting things stop regretting ppl etc etc#When I make the choice to take up something I simply take it#When I make the choice to cut someone off I simply do it#Obviously I’m not the type of person to make these decisions lightly#And I’ll never be unforgiving#But there is healthy decisiveness and I am going w it. And it probably coincides w growing healthy confidence in my opinions and choices#Regardless of what anyone else thinks#p
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Apollo really was right when he said to me
“People like that aren’t worth your energy or the dirtying of your hands. They’ll cast curses on themselves. All you have to do is sit back and watch”
#btw I’m not anti cursing#I’m pro every witch can and should make their own decisions about it#I do also believe there are situations where it’s not only appropriate but necessary#but for me personally cursing isn’t healthy and Apollo usually steers me away from it#and in this case I’m happy he did bc he was completely right#this person truly cursed themselves and I’m just sitting back and watching her get exactly what she deserves#😁👍🏻#the prince and I#apollo deity#apollodeity#Apollo#cursing#witchcraft
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I'll be honest, I'm moving out of my "mleven break up so El can be independent" phase. El already is independent. Her independence arc peaked last season. Reliving her repressed memories and finally letting go of Brenner proved that she's ready to 100% think and act for herself.
I'm moving into a "mleven break up because El uses her independent thinking to realize that her and Mike's relationship is hurting them both and making them both feel bad, so she takes initiative and breaks up with Mike for real, which starts Mike's journey to opening his eyes and realizing that their relationship wasn't good for either of them" phase.
#el independence era#but like its already begun yknow#el doesnt have to be alone to he independent#but her independence allows her to make the healthy decision for both her and mike#el hopper#mike wheeler#anti mileven#anti milkvan#anti m*leven#byler
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Tehatl and Hersha start talking. You don't really catch what they're saying from this point on. He nudges her shoulder, and that's when you catch it.
That stupid fucking ring.
You should've seen it coming. No, really. This is your fault for thinking the trolls around you could keep to one simple rule.
The three of you were friends. Only friends. Of equal agreement, you asked of them one simple thing:
No in-team quad-coddling.
No kismesii, no moirails, no matesprits. The three of you were on equal terms. You could quad-up with others sure, but.
Oh, who are you kidding. You shake the ash from your cigarette, turn on your heel, and walk right back out the apartment.
SS: where d¤ y¤u think y¤u're g¤ing?
SS: we're n¤t d¤ne.
AC: nah nah, : th:nk we are
AC: :ts f:ne
AC: :m sure u 2 paleb:rds w:ll f:gure :t out just f:ne on your own
AC: bes:des
AC: :m not look:ng 2 b a th:rd wheel on ur proverb:al tr:cycle r:de
CE: ww ..WHAT? ww
CE: ww WHAT IS HE.. ww
AC: ohhh
AC: :ts "what :s /he/" now?
AC: good 2 kno
SS: Jejrik.
AC: nah
AC: :ts cool.
#fantroll#homestuck oc#hs oc#fantrolls#ottore jejrik hyytte#jejrik hyytte#hersha witwrt#tehatl ignace#hs ocs#my oc#my art#more angst#my apologies#its okay they work it out i promise#i think its really interesting#these three made a mutual decision not to like#date each other#in order to keep the peace#but it still ended up falling apart when tehatl and hersha started a (pretty healthy!) moirailship#and ottore didnt want to feel like a third wheel#and id like to think they got into their respective sessions shortly after this#but then again im not sure
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Shout out to everyone who thought the Red in my last post was actually Shadow in disguise (I'm looking at you @105ttt) - the idea has been rotting my brain all week
#four swords#vio link#red link#shadow link#I have to stop thinking about this bit in the manga it can't be healthy#anyways yeah in this red still finds vio in the woods but shadow has been lurking and makes the split decision to also pretend to be red#queue vio not being able to make up his mind and shadow being allowed to tag along whilst vio and red search for the other two#my art#fanart#ShadesOfRed au
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Tumblr is my only social media were my D&D group isn’t following me. Here is a bunch of drawings of my D&D characters ex wife because I’m almost as in love with her as he is.
#I made the fucked up decision that whenever he cast healing spirit it's just a ghost version of his wife#completely healthy and he is so normal about this#DnD#dungeons and daddies
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hi it's nyx here once again to talk about lark vs henry and what that meant for sparrow because i swear every episode that shows even a Little bit of sparrow's actual personality is controversial.
"nyx what do you mean by this" well it's a very blatant fact that sparrow does not get much nuance in the fandom: this is especially prevalent when examining hero's conversation with normal where she explicitly calls out lark and rebecca alongside sparrow and yet sparrow is solely blamed. because of this, every time we do see sparrow be his genuine self in the show - from talking to scary and shielding her from violence to taking charge of grant and lark and wanting to help the teens to the most recent episode's case of him not believing in animal captivity - i've noticed people quickly jumping on him for being hypocritical but nobody asking why he would be hypocritical, or why he's made choices that clearly do not reflect his actual beliefs.
so let's talk about that, shall we?
i know i've talked about this before but it bears repeating: sparrow is complacent. he has consistently made decisions that go against his own beliefs, bottling up his actual thoughts on the matter in order to "keep the peace". we know this, this is a canon fact, he said as much about lark and rebecca's affair!
why does he do this? well to me, what makes the most logical sense is that this stems all the way to lark and henry's conflict. if the rogue card is only predicting anger and not enforcing it, that means there is more to lark's anger than just what happened with walter. part of that is his fear of being unable to protect the people he cares about, being helpless in situations where he could've done something, yes, but i do believe there's another root cause to his anger, one that would fuel him for decades: sparrow.
...well, more specifically, how henry changed sparrow.
we know that lark wasn't the happiest about the lovewolf split. after the lord of chaos arc, sparrow starts very slowly developing a separate personality, enough so that he and lark aren't necessarily the same kid, one unit, the same person twice. sparrow tried to teach lark his new philosophy, it was ultimately rejected. lark doesn't understand it! but he loves sparrow regardless. that disappointment, that resentment of how sparrow had changed... it goes back to henry, to henry giving sparrow that speech and reinforcing those beliefs!
we also know that originally, sparrow didn't want to pick a side. he wanted them both to get along! to reconcile! and we know that lark didn't tell him about what he saw on the throne, which has me believing that there were, perhaps, other things that lark didn't tell sparrow in crucial moments: such as his decision to release the doodler, since we really don't know if sparrow knew. sparrow would've been happy to reconcile the two, and it makes sense if this was something he didn't know but something that shakes his perspective: aka, what happens if lark doesn't confide in him. to get lark back on his side, he has to be on lark's side irrevocably, which means abandoning his peacekeeping and mediation to choose lark wholeheartedly.
so by the time the ep23 flashback happens... sparrow has lost that bit of personality he had started to form in s1. he's lark's other half again, helping him with plans, sharing his ideas. he has... you could say, lost his confidence in being a lovewolf, because despite his best efforts, it only brought more strife to his family and he doesn't want to lose lark. we know this! he doesn't want to lose lark!
and then, they find out the prophecy, that one of the twins will have a kid who will save the world. think about everything we know about lark, how stubbornly persistent he was on fixing things Himself since he puts the weight of the world on his shoulders alone. lark doesn't blame sparrow or henry, he only blames himself. would he jump at having a family to fix his mistakes? no.
but sparrow would.
so sparrow takes that burden from him. sparrow has hero when he is twenty, and lark gets to be the cool uncle who helps around the house and hero blames both twins equally so we know they did this together. sparrow doesn't want to lose lark again, he doesn't want to be himself, he adapts to rebecca's views because it's easier than admitting that maybe he shares some of the same- definitely makes him marrying a vegan centrist make sense, right? he can use rebecca as a scapegoat and it Works. his own personality gets shafted in favor of being the same man twice with lark, he bottles everything up, he disapproves but never says as much.
and he fucked up with hero. clearly, he knows that. hero has a regular life now at a private school with a job and an internship and she's a massive dweeb and i don't think any one of you could look me in the eye and say that lark approved that. it was sparrow's decision! and we know what lark thinks about sparrow's parenting: i need every one of yall who truly believes that lark would be a better father to normal to go and relisten to normal's introduction scene in ep1 and then to the end of ep24 again where lark explicitly tells normal that being the mascot is a waste of his time when he could be learning "actually useful" skills (like hunting and survival- and yall still think sparrow was the one having hero kill deer?) and that he's too soft-hearted and naive and that is sparrow's fault for being too nice. normal would not be the same kid if lark was raising him and that is NOT a good thing lmao
all of this to say. i am so tired of people understanding lark's nuance and understanding grant's nuance and understanding the s1 dads and their nuance and how their trauma fucked up their relationships with their kids and yet sparrow is the one yall bash every other week repeatedly without ever wondering like. huh. maybe it is strange that his actions now don't hold up against his actions in the past. maybe there's something else going on that is consistent with literally every other aspect of his character. it is so tiring to go into his tag and see the same things over and over and over again repeated on loop every time we see sparrow's actual personality slip out beyond him perpetuating the "same man twice" persona. he's nuanced! they're all nuanced! and that's a good thing!
sparrow's biggest issues are his complacency, the way he upholds decisions that might not really be the best decisions because it's easier. his love for lark and his desire to fix things clouds his judgement and yeah, that means he goes against his own morals frequently; or at least, he did. so far in the season though, with how he's treated normal being in the line of fire and getting into his mess, he's definitely already realized this and is putting in the work to ensure that normal doesn't go through what hero did- something that lark is not doing. sparrow's also been the best towards the other teens consistently, the most willing to listen and change his perspective (as demonstrated again in ep24- really i just think people need to relisten to ep24!) and he's definitely not the best dad but that can be said not just about all the kiddads but also about literally every dad in this podcast, because that's what this podcast is about. thank you for reading and i hope i don't have to make this post again in a few weeks <3
#dndads#kasey rambles#dndads spoilers#sparrow oak garcia#i didn't even go in sparrow's tag this episode because i KNEW the vibes would be rancid#its actually genuinely frustrating to be unable to go into your favorite character's tag because people are being consistently shitty#i can pull out the receipts too don't fucking test me#sparrow's very easy to misconstrue because we only see him through normal and normal is VERY prone to overreaction#and we know this about normal because we see how he reacts to link and taylor All The Time#we can accept that normal's overreacting with link and taylor because we can see their viewpoint but sparrow's an npc#so we don't explicitly know whats going on inside his head#and i acknowledge that he's Not the best person lmao have the twins ever been good people?#but i still feel like lark gets CODDLED in comparison to how sparrow is treated#lark to me is like. he makes shitty decisions out of a desperation to be the one in control#and when they backfire it justifies his own self-loathing#sparrow only reinforces this which is. not healthy and why i keep calling for a twin divorce#but that doesn't mean sparrow's the one at fault for those shitty decisions lmao?#anyways. sorry for the rant and for how wordy this is im very fucking tired and grumpy
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I knew legit nothing about paper girls going into it but I love it so much?? I’m having a great time
#I love Mac like sweet babe finally finding a healthy family that she loves and having to leave so they don’t get killed :/#I love tiff the way she’s no nonsense and so smart but so fragile too#I love kj so much just everything about this child I love she’s so good#and Erin seeing how she ends up and trying to navigate how her expectations don’t materialise and respect her older self for the decisions#she made I’m ahhhhhhh#and the fact that the whole time it’s blatantly obvious they’re 12???? not being forced to grow up no hyper sexualisation no focus on#relationships it gets the balance so right and I love it for that#(I’m only half way through but this is true so far and even if developments happen I don’t think it’ll change the overall vibe of the show#which is what I’m loving)#paper girls#kiera talks tv
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Caretaker who is a part of a group of assassins, or maybe another armed group. They have a mission and go with a partner to get a target. Caretaker's partner insists on it despiste Caretaker not wanting to, and they take an opportunitg where the target's family is involved. The target's child and spouse... On the end, they end up traumatizing a child and possibly killing/hurting the spouse and killing the target. Caretaker then rebels against their partner because what they did was WRONG and now they ran away--quit the group--and took the child, Whumpee, under their wing.
"I did not want to do that".
Whumpee looks up at them, their eyes bloodshot and filled with rage.
"It was a simple decision for you, wasn't it? Destroy someone's life or no. It wouldn't be that big of a deal, would it?" Their voice was filled with sarcasm.
Caretaker couldn't bear to look at them.
"I'm-I'm sorry."
Whumpee looked away and didn't spoke to then for the rest of the night.
#inspired by Heroes#the old show old stan lee helped writing#ep. 17#when the politial and nuclear man go to claires house#and with a simple decision decide to attack their target#i was thinking on how easily their little convenience could be the difference of traumatizing a bunch of children-claire and a little boy-#or letting them grow healthy#whumpee#caretaker#assassin caretaker#whumper turned caretaker#carewhumper#accidental caretaker#whump prompts#found family#maybe?#i was watching heroes#death mention#whump
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"i did not have a nicotine addition" and then when i try to come up with a way to make myself not smoke i catch myself thinking "maybe i can just switch to weed instead". girl. in this economy.????
#honestly i think vodka will do it. it won't be enough but it's cheap and convenient#actually nvm that's also not a healthy decision. GOD how do people live like this#raysidk#tw addiction
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can not believe i have to put this out there but: being concerned for the welfare of an animal who has a condition that frequently leads to a slow, painful death is not ableism. its uh. basic animal husbandry
#humans can make informed decisions about their bodies. humans can decide how they want to be helped. humans can decide if they WANT to be#animals can't advocate for themselves and their health#the two-faced calf can't look at her caretakers and say 'im in pain. i can't breathe. my organs are failing.'#so it is up to humans to pay attention to animal health and to make the best decision to cause them the least pain and suffering#forcing an animal thats suffering to live is cruel#plain and simple#perhaps deux face will be a miracle case like frank and louie and live a long healthy life#but she may also be in pain and is more likely to suffer and die before she gets too old
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Remembered the way Dean acted during the hallucifer arc are we angy yet
#my brother has gone through a traumatic experience#he is doing his best to cope#i know i will belittle his efforts to be healthy#and claim he is Lying about being ok#also i will kill his friend and lie about it because he clearly cannot be trusted to make decisions in His Condition#the sanism on this show is unreal#supernatural#sam winchester#dean critical#<- for tagging purposes
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So I don't know if it was ever revealed how Duncan felt when we killed Malistaire all three times but I'm wondering if maybe some part of him could hate us for that too. Like you hear that and you go "but why. Malistaire was terrible and even Duncan knew that(?). Why would he hate you for getting rid of him."
But like I think it's so....... interesting in a very, very, very sad way how Duncan so easily latches onto anyone who directly feeds into his delusions of grandeur. And that's no fault of his own that he was manipulated by the nasty Schism but when you think about how desperately clung to the idea that Malistaire, easily one of the greatest necromancers any of us had ever heard of (at that time), somehow actually recognized Duncan's talents (even when canon supports that Duncan wasn't all that talented, at least no more than the next necromancer) and then praised him for it so often that Duncan believed that he would be the next Death Professor is. I mean ☹️
So like with that mindset I unfortunately feel like it would be quite easy to twist even Malistaire's death as something that's horrible and awful and all our fault. ESPECIALLY if the Schism was feeding into Duncan's already broken mind and shattered ego and was constantly telling him that everything bad that ever happened to him ever in his life was Our Fault. That's like a realistic conclusion that someone like Duncan could come to
And like, at this point in time, are Malistaire's crimes even a factor in how he thinks????? Was Duncan ever able to separate Malistaire's talent and skills and prowess from the terrible and awful things he did? If Duncan wasn't able to consciously tell that distinction in the first place I can't imagine it would be any better during the years he was being manipulated and isolated and lied to
Like in Duncan's mind it probably isn't, "maybe I shouldn't idolize a national criminal, or idolize anyone at all for that matter, and aspire to be like someone so harmful when I can recognize my own talent and build from there" it's probably more like, "you (the wizard) permanently got rid of a brilliant mind, an innocent person who just made a few mistakes, and someone who believed in me no matter what just so that you could be the better than me and loved by everyone else" and that's! very sad actually!
#this is all speculation btw idk if any of this is canon. how duncan feels about all this#i know i keep saying the exact same shit over and over but.... really not a fan of how the game handled duncan! sorry!#i know wizard101 isnt supposed to be about every single character gets a satisfying ending to their arc-#-meaning not everyone in the story will face consequences and/or find a happy ending and like thats fine they dont need to#but idkkkk its just imo really sad how essentially a kid suffers frrom something he cant control by himself (his ego)-#and then instead of getting help he is instead ignored (ambrose) and then manipulated and brought up by a cult#and then when it becomes super apparent how... TERRIBLE his life really is and we defeat him he just... goes back??????#we.... we LET him go back???? i mean we're not responsible for other people's bad decisions or mental health but bro....#and then when we tell ambrose he's just like “oh. too bad. well anyways-” AND IM LIKE WELL THATS THE REASON!!!!! NO WONDER HE'S FUCKED UP#NONE OF THIS IS ADDRESSED. NONE OF IT. WE KICK DUNCAN'S ASS AND THEN HE.... GOES BACK TO THE CABAL#i literally just got so desolate when (wallaru spoilers) because. okay. all that for nothing i guess#this isnt me being mad btw LMAO i know the tone probably reads as angry but im not im just disappointed#and tired. what is it with wizard101 in particular and just people suffering with no end. (me as i make my main suffer with no end)#but anyways yeah duncan has been in my head for a while. he's one of the guys that i love a lot BDKSNSKAJ#he's like a son to me and HE NEEDS A HEALTHY PARENT. HE NEEDS IT#not excusing his actions btw. he still committed crimes JRKDJSIEJ#i just have a soft spot for those villains in media who are doomed from the start yknow. (stares tearfully at morganthe and gf spider)#wizard101#wiz101#w101#text posts#duncan grimwater#im not normal about duncan at all he's probably the wozard oc i feel for the most other than malorn and us
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