If you’re in a solid relationship with him ( dating or fwb ) it’s actually INCREDIBLY easy to get him to submit to you. Not so much strangers or one night stands, he's hesitant to be vulnerable with newbies and prefers to be in control when you’re a wildcard. He’s super weak for praise though and will crumble with a few well placed sentences and gentle touches. You have to know what you’re doing though, if he senses hesitation he’s like an animal and WILL promptly turn the tables and take advantage of you. Kind of like when you’re nervous while riding a horse and the horse just does what it wants to instead of what YOU want it do. Tell him how good he is though, tell him exactly what you want to do to and with him, the things you like best about him, etc. Inflate the absolute shit out of his ego and he’ll bend over backwards for you in an instant. He desperately wants to be good and rarely has opportunities to be so. John isn’t sure how to cope with tenderness most of the time but in these specific circumstances he allows it and will sink into it so long as he trusts you. Simply tell him to get on his knees and beg and he’ll do so 😌