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chapst1ckmcdyke · 1 year

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So ive had this saved in my drafts for a while now- but theres a point id like to make about butch/femme identity and expression and think this is ready despite the crap i might catch for it

On my days off and when i go out for fun, lots of times i look like this vvv

And other times, especially because im a blue collar dyke, i look like this vvv

The thing that both these photos have in common is that, regardless of how i may appear, i am a femme lesbian. I am not magically butch at work just because i have to wear jeans and work boots for safety. On the clock I am often mistaken for a man and harassed for using the women’s bathroom, people call me sir and damn near keel over trying to correct themselves. I understand that people will look at me as masculine because im in a mans trade.

And yet im still a femme!

You know why? Because being femme is not about how i dress or how long my hair is or the job i work or the body im in, but who i am, how i love, and how i want to be loved back. Its my reclamation of my gender and sexuality and romantic life.

Theres this idea that femme lesbians are “the girl” lesbians and butches are “the boy” lesbians. Femmes are stereotyped as straight passing hyper feminine (and often times cis) girls. But if youve ever met a femme thats not always (in my experience- USUALLY) the case. We often are nonbinary (hi! Also me!) and/or gender nonconforming even in our femininity- taking the things that cishet society hates the most in women (ie body hair/body fat/masculine jobs/deep booming voices- etc) and owning those characteristics in ways that make us feel free and most like femmes 💕

I personally feel most comfortable being feminine off the clock and covering myself in glitter and being a tacky fat furry muppet because its how i feel best recognized by the butches i adore so much! But i get to reclaim womanhood or whatever adjacent, gender-fucked, lesbiany, thing ive got going on, and that doesn’t change when i wear jeans and work boots.

Femmes get to be whatever the hell we want- being broad shouldered and deep voiced and fat and furry and in a trade are not traits that magically make me incapable of being femme- and im over this whole ordeal where y’all assign butches and femmes as either “the boy” or “the girl” of the relationship and expect us to be exclusively feminine or masculine and never cross or mix- just recreating useless gender roles that we have zero reason to uphold.

(And this goes the absolute same for butches/studs who express feminine traits and DOUBLE for trans butches/studs/femmes)

#butch/femme #femme lesbian #gnc femme #gnc femme lesbian #butch #femme #nb lesbian #lesbian #dyke #femme4butch #butch4femme #this whole post has been brought to you by-#the fact that me existing in my body makes people scratch their heads and assign me labels based off their perception #im t i r e d

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bastard-aziraphale · 2 years

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once again i am drawing my 20-something t4t butch4femme friends to lovers ineffable spouses AU !!! <33 i miss going 2 clubs and am excited to get back 2 it when i go off for grad school (along with, uh, studying) so i wanted these two to also have a fun night out :D

crowley is transfem, genderfluid, and a gnc femme (she/they)

aziraphale is transmasc, agender, and butch (they/he)

basic premise of the AU is they’ve been friends since freshman year of undergrad, got closer as they bonded over trans stuff, then became inseperable besties and now are ~figuring out the world~ together post-graduation. the romantic and sexual tension is intense but it’s fine bc it’s aziraphale and crowley so ofc they’re endgame, but it’s still fun to torture them a bit in the meantime <3

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stormysapphic · 2 years

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btw did you know i love butches!? 💞 being around butches as a gnc femme is sooo healing and big brained!!! thank you thank you thank you for seeing me and my gender/sexuality presentation like i wish to be seen. no one else understands it quite the way you do. ❤

#personal #queer #dyke #femme4butch #butch4femme #gnc femme #genderqueer femme #gnc lesbian #genderqueer lesbian #t4t

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jasontoddssuper · 8 months

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Diversity win!Hot girl is also a pretty boy!

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aardvaark · 7 months

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uhhh lesbian as a gender and lesbianism and gender being inextricably intertwined compilation

comics: all from alison bechdel

book page about butch identity: from Butch Is A Noun by S. Bear Bergman

image IDs in alt text (you have no idea how long that took lol).

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bratprincedyke · 8 months

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Outfit for butch bar ⚔️

My new tshirt is available here!

#dyke #lesbian #butch dyke #butch #leather dyke #butch4butch #butch lesbian #gnc #butch femme #leatherdyke

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genderqueerdykes · 9 months

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i love you fellow male lesbians, lesbian men, boydykes, lesboys, genderfluid lesbians, multigender lesbians, gender non conforming lesbians, nonbinary lesbians, genderqueer lesbians, faggy butches, drag kings, daddy dykes, butches, studs and bois who are men, transmasculine and FTM lesbians, lesbians who need or want to be viewed and addressed as men, and every lesbian who identifies as partially or wholly male. you are radiant and a beautiful part of of the lesbian community, thank you for existing, please don't let anyone ever tell you you don't belong.

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thesunflowerdyke · 25 days

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I’ve seen so many posts on here lately with people referring to their partner as “my butch” and my heart is literally fluttering from the mere thought of being referred to like that one day.

#literally swooning #sky’s thoughts #dear future lover…please take note #the sense of community I’ve found on this app is quite literally astounding me #mine #sapphic #lesbian #sapphic yearning #lesbian yearning #wlw #non binary lesbian #gnc lesbian #butch #femme

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intersexfairy · 1 year

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you can be masculine and feminine at the same time. being masculine doesn't make you any less feminine. being feminine doesn't make you any less masculine. there is no inherent morality to any masculinity or femininity you express. you create the meaning behind it by expressing yourself - your joy, your queerness, your health. you are not a reflection of other people's harmful ideas about gender. that's their burden to carry, not yours.

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punkeropercyjackson · 1 month

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"This is the gender fuckery and cis+ website"You guys can't even handle trans people who don't want to physically transition

#no because this literally ruined my first best friendship after i grew up friendless my whole life💀she sxually harrased me with bodyshaming #and the worst part is that it wasn't even her saying i'll never be a man i'm bigender and super femme and THAT'S why i want to stay afab #but she refused to understand me!!!she expected my femininity to be the same as a cisgirls and my manhood the same as binary trans dudes'#i explained my gender SO MANY TIMES and she used 'she' 'accidentally' even though her fuckass also called me 'a girl in a he/him kinda way'#she saw my bigenderness and genderfluidity as a fucking joke instead of who i actually am just because i don't want t or surgeries bc gnc #and i told her both those things too but here we are!!BE NORMAL ABOUT TRANS PEOPLES BODIES AND STOP BEING A DICK EVEN IF YOU'RE ALSO TRANS #trans #transgender #transmasc #transmasculine #bigender #genderfluid #trans men #demigirl #ftm #transfem #trans women #nonbinary #agender #demiboy #transneutral #transmascfem #black femme #genderqueer #xenogender #catgender #dragongender #ghostgender #💌#summerposting

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jennylouis01 · 6 months

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Out for fun, Who is in ? 😊🥰

#help reblog Tumblr family 🌈

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chapst1ckmcdyke · 1 year

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Pardon my dirty ass bathroom/mirror i just looked like a hot dyke this morning

(They/them) no men im a dyke

#i never post shit like this bc i know lots of yall will try and revoke my femme card #but i am tired of pretending that im not cute af when im in my work clothes!#im love being a femme built like a barrel:>#hard candy #femme #femme lesbian #dyke #gnc femme #femme4butch #bear dyke #bear femme

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ftm-radio · 1 year

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do you froth at the mouth over the most obnoxiously colored & patterned clothing or are you cis/straight?

these were all picked off my gender envy pinterest board & I am wholly unashamed 💅🏻

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stormysapphic · 2 months

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even dykes in dresses can hold up the world. photograph of louise rafkin in common lives/lesbian lives no. 15/16, june 1985

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jasontoddssuper · 10 months

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"Being nonbinary dosen't inherently mean being trans"I will murder you with my bare fucking hands if you don't stop spreading misinfo like this.The white stripe on the trans flag is literally there to represent nonbinary people.'Transgender' dosen't mean just 'binary trans man or binary trans woman',it means 'not cis' fullstop.Y'all are one of the reason's transneutrals feel so alianted from their own community and i'm not gonna stand for it cause you consider yourself a trans people expert when you know nothing about us and propably get offended at neopronouns and 'weird' genders because,again,you know nothing about us

Edit:If you're going to reblog this,please reblog it with @/defiantlydelta's addition's,ve corrected me on a mistake i made on this!!

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transsexualmasc · 1 year

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The "nature versus nurture" debate has meaning for each of us here because we are constantly being asked in life: Why are you the way you are? When did you first know you were different? Do you think that while you were in the womb your tiny fist inadvertently clenched an essential gene too hard? Or was your mother domineering?

And my answer is: Who cares! As long as my right to explore the full measure of my own potential is being trampled by discriminatory laws, as long as I am being socially and economically marginalized, as long as I am being scapegoated for the crimes committed by this economic system, my right to exist needs no explanation or justification of any kind.

"allow me to introduce myself" - introduction at the 9th annual Texas "T" (Transgender) Party by Les Feinberg, recorded in Trans Liberation (1998)

#trans #transgender #butch #femme #GNC #gay #lesbian #bi #queer #queer liberation

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