Hair be like: *grows*

My 3 little cousins were baptized today. "Triggered" is kind of a strong word but being in a catholic church again... I'm a little fragile rn ngl.

I saw a post where a man who’d been with his wife of 30 years was told by his wife on their 30th anniversary that she was a lesbian and wanted a divorce but still be his friend. She was liberated and happy but she couldn’t comprehend why he was heart broken and just cried instead of jumping for joy with her. People called him homophobic for being heart broken and called him selfish for thinking of ending his life and having intrusive thoughts of self harm. A very sad post of a broken grieving person. But here's what I wanna say.

When a marriage is broken by one person coming out, yes it is liberating for one person but soul crushing for the other and people gotta be there for both people.

Calling people homophobic or cruel names for being heart broken and not jumping for joy when their marriage is torn apart, they found out the person they loved never loved them, their whole time together was a lie and the happy life that they once had is over. Shaming the heart broken person isn’t right, I'd say it's abusive.

There is no reason why both people can't be supported, loved and cared for.

perusing through @samtrapani’s leo tag and Thinking. not only is vito quite honestly just a little naïve, but he’s easy for leo to control because leo can see right through him. leo can take one look at vito and know his deepest secrets, because he has the same skeletons in his closet.

leo can play 4d chess because one look at vito and anyone who’s played a game before can tell vito has PAWN. I WONT QUESTION YOU. written in bold on his forehead.

leo saw this scared, young, boy fighting through prison at anyone who looked too long at him, and knew he was in there for trusting the wrong people and not asking the right questions, and immediately he was like. i can use him.

& when vito goes out of his way to save leo’s life, just for leo to save his by getting rid of the only person who’s ever had more sway over vito than he did (joe)… well, that’s the business of being owned & useful, kid.

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Reading this in a minute of downtime at work and this one bit cracked me up:

Like YES if pretending that you have the same respect for LGBQT people as you do for your grandmothers is what gets people to stop using slurs then pls by all means. Hahahaha.

I’m on a wank roll today.

Why should we ship Will with some random possible potential love interest that doesn’t exist as opposed to shipping him with the person that he is in love with right now? Like if there is another love interest for Will , we know nothing about them. We don’t know who they could be or what they could be like but it doesn’t matter as long as they aren’t Mike? Who cares right? Just bring any ol’ gay in, who cares? As long as Will gets over Mike?

I've been finding boys cute a lot lately and I love it -- because now I'm a straight girl, what the haters I'd turn out to be all along -- except I'm still very queer because I'm also a boy and I'm still ace-arospec. The straight girl/gay man/aroace androgyne life is awesome 🔥🔥

It's about the bittersweet journey of self discovery that leads you to mourn all the lives you could've lived if you'd just met yourself sooner

I think next season they should let Alicent go full on medieval mystic. I want the visions I want the weird homoerotic language used when talking about the holy I want the religious ecstasy I want her to experience Westerosi Stigmata I want Alicent to go balls to the wall with the religious stuff

y’all will sincerely say that a term that is rooted in bigotry but is decades (even sometimes centuries!) removed from its original meaning and cultural context, often to the extent that it is basically fully divorced from its original meaning (as a result of sadly being so widely used that its referential significance was diluted to the point of that meaning being lost entirely, except for its “derogatory” flavor), absolutely Needs to be scrubbed from everyone’s vocabulary lest they be accused of endorsing and perpetuating bigotry…

and then call people regressive problematic reactionaries for not wanting to be called “queer” and think nothing of it 🤡🤡🤡🤡 losers all of you lmfao

Apparently both my parents had already heard on the news abt the science project I might be a part of in my final psych semester. Feeling very cool and important and validated

whenever i see cis guys i ache so bad for the life i could have but at the same time i’m too afraid to pursue it

okay yes go outside and talk to irl gay people but literally this is fucking ridiculous i wish one day we all woke up & tiktok was deleted from everywhere i’m not even joking that would fix so much of the things wrong with our lives like on a huge scale