Ok but can you be ace/aro if you're yearing for things like romance and closeness and a relationship and all that? Serious question here.
I've been questioning myself for ages and while I never experienced any attraction to a real person I still long for what I see in movies or read in books to the point where I have a physical tightness in my chest.
Is my brain just not producing the right chemicals for me to fall in love? Is my trauma holding me back from forming any meaningful bond? Have my past experiences lead me to feel repulsed by the idea? Am I experiencing attraction but never realized it? Or am I simply ace/aro and my internalized gender/relationship thinking makes me want what is considered normal?
Please, if anyone has answers hit me up because I've been overthinking for years now
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Abandoning class because I saw a hot emo guy on the bus, like legit one of the most attractive men I have ever seen in the flesh, I'm going to find him and I think I'm going to ask him out so I need your input emergency poll. Is it normal to ask out a stranger in a Uni hallway and what do I say help gay emergency
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OK I NEED HELP
there’s this girl… I think I might like?????????
BUT I definitely really really like/love her friend (who’s also my bestie (male)’s sister, they’re both older than me) and I’ve been confused about her for like 3 weeks and idk if it’s romantic????? She’s super pretty and oh my god she makes me nervous but I literally do not know and I really need help, and my friends can’t help me bc they’re a) almost all straight and b) they just can’t and I’ve been trying and failing to work this out for ages HELP HELP HELP
edit: I’ve never talked to her, but we dance at the same place…
edit 2: after cutting myself and being in a lot of pain for months I got over my best friends sister but I’m still so confused about the other girl…
edit 3: hahahahahahahahahahah this is so old the first girl became my best friend and then reported me
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help a latinx sibling with rent and bills!
hi everyone! sorry for doing a post so soon i thought february was going to be okay but i need some help right now with some stuff
i need to pay house bills like wi-fi and electricity (food would be nice too!) and also rent. my sister can’t help me get through this month,as you know i am unable to work because of my mental health and i have no family other than my sister
anything helps and reblogs come a long way too
if we are able to reach my goal before the end of the month i would really appreciate it
and i want to remember you all reblogs and sharing my story helps a ton too, if there’s anything you want to know please let me know and we can have a chat, being skeptical about strangers online it’s okay…
p*yp*l
k*fi
0$/500$
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(If you like specifically the diet or sugar free version of any of these, just vote for that option. Same thing for specific flavors, eg. cherry coke, or mtn dew red, etc.)
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