I see a lot of moots blogging today about being physically sick and/or dealing with family who are physically sick, battling migraines, enduring doctor's office visits, hating their art in progress, struggling with writer's block, annoyed with Tumblr, blocked on Twitter, trying to focus through ADHD, and frustrated with their autism.
These posts come up a lot, but today seems to be cursed. So the thing I want to say is...
Today I have no poetry to write, just a wish:
I wish for every single one of you to be loved,
in your best and in your worst.
Hope that you heal your bleeding wounds,
the ones when you were a kid
and those suffered in adulthood.
Pray to be held in tender hands
and devoted by big hearts and warm
minds.
I long for you to go to bed, with a clean head
and washed blood.
I wish for you to fear life no more
and to live a life like never before.
it鈥檚 so lame that just because sarah z鈥檚 peers never invited her to any sleepovers when she was a kid, now we have to deal with her deluge of pseudo-intellectual video essays that boil down to like. perez hilton esque drama pieces about things that don鈥檛 matter, targeting random people on the internet minding their own business
Boundaries are expectations and needs that help you feel safe and comfortable in your relationships. Expectations in relationships help you stay mentally and emotionally well. Learning when to say no and when to say yes is also an essential part of feeling comfortable when interacting with others.
- Set Boundaries, Find Peace, by Nedra Glover Tawwab
If you鈥檙e not able to settle in, then you鈥檙e not in the right place! Everyday will be a struggle, happiness will always be an issue. You have a choice in every situation. When you choose the things that make you happy, the rest falls into place.