your guide to manifesting your desires in 2024.
i have manifested getting into my dream college, straight As every semester, visiting NYC, and a HUGE glow up (nourished hair, clearer skin, beautiful body, pretty face, emotional intelligence, baddie mindset, and supportive friends + family) in 2022. here's all the things i did that worked for me! i understand everything does not work the same for everyone, for example i find visualization fun and easy to do while affirming, even though natural to me, seems like work to me so i use it as an aid to fuel my visualization. i have had bad mental health days but i persisted in my desires regardless because i know i always get everything i want.
1. understanding yourself and your thought processes:
this is not necessary for you to manifest what you want but it helps in creating self-awareness in the long term. i used to overthink a lot (manifested it away) so i affirmed and visualized during any free time i had, and eventually my doubts faded away. even if they pop up sometimes, i'm just like meh that's not true and brush them aside. for me, processing all my complicated emotions is essential to me because i get to know my patterns and start working on changing them. it does not matter what triggered them, you've to live with them for the rest of your life if you don't feel them and let them go.
2. discovering new things:
you should get out of your comfort zone. there are thousands of things in the world you haven't experienced. desires can change and you aren't obligated to stick to this one dream when something else lights up the fire inside you in the present. i had the dream of living in NYC for a long term but I became more open to DC, LA, Philadelphia, and other cities after visiting them. i have explored new hobbies too and they've become an important part of me now. being adaptable is important!
3. never settle:
a dream might be small for someone while the same dream might be unattainable for someone else. it's all about persisting in your desires and making them seem attainable to your subconscious. you don't have to lift a finger to manifest, so why aren't you being stubborn about what you want? why are you settling for less when you deserve to have so much more? don't settle for bread crumbs when you can have a WHOLE DAMN LUXURIOUS MEAL.
4. self-concept:
the qualities i find most attractive in a person are communication, efforts, dedication, honesty, and loyalty. so i start affirming for those qualities in myself! i embody them by telling myself, "i am dedicated, honest, and loyal", "i am irreplaceable and unforgettable just because i exist", "i communicate and put in efforts for the people who have the greatest in mind for me." we love people who are secure in themselves and so, we naturally gravitate towards them. i don't care if someone has a pretty body or a pretty face. if they have the drive to succeed in what they're doing and they're giving me princess treatment, i'd immediately fold. it's the inner qualities that stay in the longer term (though you can forever be ageless and youthful, but to complement that you need a beautiful mind and heart - those make you more attractive).
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imagine having a little garden where you grow strawberries for your cakes and tomatoes for your sandwiches and you have tea with your partner every midmorning. you plant each other’s favorite flowers and give each other bouquets. that’s the life.
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Are you depressed and/or sui cidal? Plead your cause (whether it be live a better life or to die) to the council! They are merciful kitties and will hear you out.
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I want to live in a house on the edge of the woods. Where I can walk to the beach and feel the sand in my feet. Grow my food in a nice little garden. And clean my house with plants all around with my two cats. Use thrifted furniture and clothes. Wear dresses and put flowers in my hair. Paint and do art. Drink tea while watching the sunset with my favorite book open.
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Things I'd like for my dream home:
I'd love either a tiny home, or a shed that I convert into a tiny home. It used to be a fun way to have a cute home on a budget but even now it seems unattainable 🥲 but I can still dream
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I think we should all get an annual week-long break in the countryside, during the period of our own choosing. Give everyone the opportunity to truly appreciate nature and calm and serenity and live out their cottagecore dreams once a year. To lay amongst the flowers and leaves and snow and I know it's unrealistic and terrible for the real estate organization but just ...
Think on it. Let it make you happy, too.
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AFFIRMING
tbh, the last few days when i first began this 3dolc x roe challenge, i felt like affirming all the time (esp. right before bed, my brain was constantly telling me to repeat my affirmations) and all my desires came true one by one. and the others have big improvement. but now i just dont feel like repeating affirmations. maybe bcz im tired? but i think i like living in the end more. i especially love thinking "now that i have _____ (desire) i can just go do____(whatever u want)" for example, now that i have an extra 400₺ and lost 3 kgs, i can go shopping and buy new cute outfits + refresh my wardrobe! now that i got my tiktok account back, i can just keep making new content to start posting again! it feels soooo much better to word it this way. it doesnt feel forced & "waiting for it to manifest so i'll affirm" at all, PLUS it helps me visualize. so instead of affirming, try thinking as if/living in the end or whatever u like best!
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Is it worth taking the Risk?
Sometimes when we get Opportunities or Ideas we feel Confident enough to jump on it straight away, though other times we might give it some thought to know in which way we can benefit from it.
Another thought we can be dealing with then is “is it worth the risk?” As some Opportunities and Ideas can involve a certain amount of risk.
Most of the time we don’t really know what the outcome will be,…
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A guy from my high school asked me to go to prom with him. I looked him straight in the eye to see if he was joking or not but he was serious. He was blushing. For a moment I considered the offer. I imagined it would be like in the movies. Then I remembered that we are in real life so I said no. Proms are not for me.
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