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calamityquellerei · 4 months
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positionality vs identity
making this post in response to circulating claims about "transmasc privilege" and a noticeable gap in some of y'alls understanding of oppression.
positionality can be thought of as the way society perceives and treats you, and what privileges you are afforded accordingly.
identity can be thought of as your internal sense of self.
for most people, the two do not line up perfectly. your positionality depends on what people immediately see, not what you tell them. your positionality may also vary day to day based on a number of factors including but not limited to the people you are surrounded by, the space you are in, and the positionalities and identities of those perceiving you.
privilege is based almost entirely on positionality, not identity.
a good example is the diversity within the transgender community. if you take three transgender men at different stages in their transition they will each have a different positionality. one may have the positionality of a gender conforming cisgender man, the second may have the positionality of a transgender man, the third may have the positionality of a gender conforming cisgender woman. the gendered privileges these three people are afforded are vastly different despite all three of them having an identical gender identity.
if you have the positionality of a certain marginalized group, you will be targeted with the same oppression as them whether or not you share an identity with them. the fact that you don't share the identity doesn't suddenly make that oppression go away. you can be oppressed based on a positionality that does not align with your identity.
if you have questions on positionality vs identity i urge you to reply to this post instead of ignoring the gap in your knowledge.
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orange-orchard-system · 4 months
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Fakeclaiming is easy because it feels like activism. It feels like protection.
Spotting a "faker" feels like you're doing something. It feels like you're protecting yourself, your community, by pointing at someone and saying "look, I have identified the enemy". You get to feel good that you have done something to help, and you get to feel good to see one of your enemies torn apart by your allies. It's based on a simple reward system for community.
The thing is, though, is that this community isn't solid, and this reward system is flawed.
If a primary way of protecting oneself is spotting fakers, then you're always on-guard, always looking for the enemy in your allies. You'll look for patterns where there may not be any, because you want a leg up on spotting the next of them; you want formulas to rely on – one to decide if someone is faking, and one to decide if someone is not. You want to make the process of protection as simple and easy as possible. And in turn, the easier it gets to "identity a faker", the more often you get that rush of spotting one, that camaraderie of tearing them apart with the "real ones". You have made it easier to justify hurting others, because you have made it easier to win that reward system. And yet, at the same time, because you must remain on-guard, you stress yourself over whether someone fits the formula(s) you have crafted. If all your enemies are fakers pretending to be allies, then you must be ready to turn on any of your allies and tear them apart, too. You must rely on this second formula; these rules you have enforced to decide who is real and who is not. You must not ever think about the process beyond how you can better improve your formulas.
There is no repeal, once a claim has been filed. There is only dogpiling and tearing them apart, demanding they apologize, delete their blog, kill themselves for "faking". They are the enemy, this is what has been declared, and you can tell because they plug into the formula. You can tell because they did something we don't approve of. You can tell because we have declared it true, and you must always believe us and never listen to the person we have been tearing apart, because you wouldn't want to risk defending the enemy, would you? Because...
Conveniently, people who speak out about this reward system are often automatically considered fakers, too. Because their voices are seen as defense of the enemy you have already branded, so they must be enemies too, right? I must now be your enemy for telling you the flaws in this system; in this community. Because only enemies to a community say there's something wrong with that community, don't they? They can't possibly be members of the community who want it to be (even) better. They can't possibly be real members of your community who you have plugged into an arbitrary formula that doesn't even make sense most of the time. They can't be people who have thought about this for two seconds and decided, "Actually, tearing people apart doesn't sound like a very moral action."
Fakeclaiming is a flawed reward system that depends on the idea that the main enemies of any community will always be trying to pretend to be them. Will always be wolves in sheep's clothing. And that the way to help your community – the way to get that rush of justice against your enemy – is to never truly trust your allies; to be prepared to hurt them at a moment's notice; to create formulas based on confirmation bias and plug people into them if they do something against the rules you have decided upon.
I'm aware this is scathing. That's the point. Fakeclaiming doesn't serve any productive purpose; all it does is give the same rush that hitting a child gives a parent.
I am also aware this will likely be used to make me out to be a "faker". An enemy. Very well, go right ahead. Anyone who would decide criticism about the way they go about harassing and tearing apart their own supposed "allies" is an act of "the enemy" is not someone I wish to associate with, so please do reveal yourselves, so that I may block you and move on with my life that does not involve hurting people for the rush it would give me but does involve thinking critically about accusations.
Fakeclaiming doesn't even help the community the way it's supposed to. Drop your formulas. There are better ways to help your community, like accepting our variance and differences, offering advice born from personal experience, and advocating for more awareness and acceptance in your everyday life. Go leave a positive comment on someone's post. Go make a positivity post. Be there for people. I believe you can do better, and make this community better, in turn.
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neokonewman · 2 months
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Those type of People: I hate how pale the human!Alastor concept is because he’s supposed to be a mixed race and looks pale as f•ck! He’s basically a white man! Gross!
Me, a mixed black person who has the near exact skin tone as most of the interpretations of human!Alastor: …
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I just think it's so funny that I've seen multiple posts on my dash in the past few days implying that "babygirl" is a secret conspiracy to hide the fact that Nobody Cares About Women besties i pinky promise that you can talk about female characters being ignored in fandom without convincing yourself that talking about male characters in feminine terms is Secret Misogyny.
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echoes-lighthouse · 2 months
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I will never be over people who prefer to make a canonically fucked up and abusive relationship into a 'uwu great father figure and their innocent little bean' rather than people who lean into the disturbing shit and make it romantic.
Like, yes, both are valid approaches and both of them are also fucked up approaches but the fact that one of them tends to get all holier-than-thou about it will always make me crack up.
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probatiostudies · 3 months
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heads up investigative folks: Portuguese-speaking creator Noble will no longer be participating in QSMP Purgatory 2. if you want to know the reason(s) why, feel free to sort through the bird app. i’d recommend putting anything lore related to him on hold since it might change with whoever takes his spot!
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crastledivorce · 1 year
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I think a lot of DSMP discourse comes from the fact that people literally haven't seen the same story.
Each pov is a story. So is the larger SMP. But the only way to view The Story (of the whole DSMP) is by watching literally everything from everyone's pov. Which is impossible. Even besides some content being lost, most don't have the time or motivation to watch nearly all that.
That's all fine and dandy ofc, the fact that the medium is consumed by piecing chapters (vods) from multiple connected stories (povs) to make something is REALLY COOL!
But everyone's story made of everything they've watched varies as what they've watched varies. What they've watched colors how they interpret things. Even aside from personal bias and stuff it's literally Different Versions/Parts/Stories of the DSMP story.
Idk I think if we realized it it might get a little bit nicer around here.
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Stop blaming sex negativity on sex-repulsed aces challenge [impossible]
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dtblrlove · 3 months
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Xomoosexo beloved, thank you for your very careful reasonableness when entertaining and discussing potentially disruptive conversations. I find myself going to your blog when I've been away from tumblr for a day because I'll usually find a pretty good and fair recap of any contentious events that might have occurred in dtblr while I was away. Very helpful for my anxiety while waiting for dream's bomb to drop <3 You are so good at moderating conversations and giving a fair and open playing field so I can know what's happening without needing to look at triggering Twitter idiocy or other unfortunate side effects of being in this lovely fandom <3
💌 @xomoosexo
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whumperofworlds · 3 months
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Don't get involved in discourse don't get involved in discourse don't get involved in discourse don't
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hpdculture-is · 4 months
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hpd culture is wanting to make every view you have extremely clear online (even though your views can easily change at times) and holding yourself back from making some of it obvious because people are downright shitty to people with a certain view in a type of discourse and even doxx them
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orange-orchard-system · 9 months
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Why do we all have to argue over system origin shit when we could be making jokes about the origins of our headmates and/or our systems as a whole. I visualized picking up and putting down a blorbo like a cat and my brain decided that was good enough reason to grant said blorbo consciousness. How is that not just fucking hilarious
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lukmarc10 · 4 days
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dude i REALLY gotta unninstall twitter one of these days
being a hellaverse fan is like being a fucking nazi to the mfs over there i swear to christ
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spaceshiphorror · 2 months
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"Discourse Minis never says ANYTHING POSITIVE about the hobby!!!!!" im sorry to break this to you but that's literally the point of the channel
the mission statement in her channel description is that she's specifically trying to build a community advocating for GW consumers. we don't see her talking about the parts of the hobby she loves because that's not what the channel was for. if she hated the hobby she wouldn't be dedicated to it.
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now don't get me wrong. i don't like her channel. i don't think she's "not positive enough," but i do think her videos are overly pessimistic rather than being a balanced critique. the comments kinda confirm this, as going through her comment section is basically doomscrolling through an echo chamber of people who have no hope for the future of the hobby. also this screenshot speaks for itself i think
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i also have critiques of her videos' writing and presentation but that's getting a bit too deep in the weeds.
point is, "she doesn't post enough positive stuff!!!" is a non-critique. it's like criticizing The Shining for being too scary and not having a happy ending
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distortedwhite · 7 months
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the other day my sis and i were talking about pokemon, which lead us to talking about favorite pokemon ships (her favorite is taxevasionshipping LOL can't remember what shipping i said to her but man. franticshipping.... yes. also whatever gold/silver have going on xhdjdbc i forgot their ship name)
so we started about the ship names of pokemon, and then yugioh, since they both have unconventional naming stuff EIDBICJICJF
jeanne: i like keyshipping me: KEYSHIPPING I LOVE THEM i also love. foilshipping... regicideshipping... hey guess my favorite GX ship jeanne: *squints* me: *cackling* it's Proshipping jeanne: ...wHaT JDJSIFJFIJE
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imagine you like Ryo/Edo and want to find more art, search for proshipping and suddenly you get hit by pro/anti discourse like BRUH I GET IT I JUST WANT TO SEE THE GAYS 😂😂
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echoes-lighthouse · 1 year
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DNI statistics so far!!! 
I’m selecting 100 blogs from each tag (80 from the recent posts, 20 from the top posts) and that’s what these statistics are based on: again, it’s not the most effective data pool but I’m just fiddling around! 
Orange Pie Chart= % of blogs with a DNI in their bio/pinned/carrd, Green Pie Chart = % of blogs without a DNI listed
A few comments: 
I’m super excited to see which tags are more likely to have more DNIs! The difference between the agere stats and most fandom stats are frankly staggering, and I’m interested in if there are any fandoms or other tumblr communities that rely more heavily on DNIs (I suspect the selfship tag will also be up there, but what else?) 
I separated DDLG and ‘CGL/ageplay variants’ as different categories when ranking them because I thought it was funny how many DNIs didn’t include other gender dynamics when it comes to kink. 
Send me more tumblr tags that you think would be interesting for sorting through DNIs!! I’m definitely interested in doing more of these. 
Some honorable mentions for interesting DNI qualifiers below the ‘read more’ as a little bonus :P 
Meaningless Insult Count:  -1x ‘jerkwads’  -1x’creeps’ -1x’discriminatory shitheads’  -1x’gross people’ 
Total “”standard/basic DNI”” Count: 6
Dishonored Fandoms Count:  -DSMP Fans (7) -Harry Potter (4) -Cronus Ampora Apologists (1)  -Darklina Shippers (1)  -Billy Hargrove Supporters (1)  -Billy Hargrove Antis (1)  -Vivziepop Supporter (1)  -Attack on Titan (1)  -South Park (1) 
Made Me Laugh:  -’no immoral blog content’  -’no one under 13 or over 19′  -’stalkers DNI’  -’no atheists’ 
Had to Google:  -Hybristophiles (people attracted to criminals??)  -xenicphobia (another word for anti-xenogender)  -TCC (true crime community)  -Queermisic (a ‘more inclusive’ alternative to ‘homophobia’??) 
Still A Mystery To Me:  -”angels without red halos DNI” (is this a random religious reference for the Aesthetic?? Is it a reference to wanting TERFs to follow because of the web extension that surrounds radfems’ blogs in red? Who knows!! ) 
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