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talkethtothehandeth · 11 months
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Some flowers grow with crooked stems
they/them
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arviscou · 2 months
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disabled femmes, you are still femme. it's okay if you can't do all the things you think are expected of you. it's okay if you don't feel cute or soft all the time.
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lesbianb · 3 months
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disabled butches who aren't physically strong, who need help from caretakers, who use mobility aids, wear medical braces, etc... you're wonderful butches just as you are, and don't need to prove yourself to anyone
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cozy-lake · 24 days
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I’m thinking of ALL women this women’s history month.
Palestinian women
Transgender women
Women of color
Disabled women
Queer women
Indigenous women
Jewish women
Asexual and aromantic women
EVERY woman deserves to be uplifted and celebrated this month and every month.
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houstonxbreed · 5 months
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Why can’t straight cis men just respect that some women are just LESBIANS??!!!
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PLEASE HELP TRANS, DISABLED COUPLE IN TRANSPHOBIC STATE STAY HOUSED !!!
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we had to leave our last job because im immunocompromised and our coworkers didnt mask which made me very ill for over a month... we don't know what to do. work from home jobs are more competitive than we expected, but at this point, in-person jobs are EXTREMELY difficult to find because we're trans and visibly GNC. we can't go outside without getting dirty looks and random people pushing past us in the grocery store, let alone find jobs that can accommodate our disabilities enough and still pay enough to survive. i can't do justice to the rising level of hostility towards trans people here. if we lose housing again, we will be in a VERY bad position because we literally have nowhere to go but the streets or maybe one of our respective rapists, which are both extremely dangerous situations made worse by the fact that we're trans and in the south with no support system... if anything bad happens, we're completely on our own out here.
we also still do not have enough to pay for our medications, so our physical and mental conditions are deteriorating.
we're just hoping to god we can get jobs, but even if we do, it's looking like we probably won't be able to earn enough to pay rent by the maximum possible due date which is the 15th of april.
we'll try to raise whatever we can ourselves, and i'll update this post if there are any new developments...
for now our goal is at least $1532
please spread this and donate if u can!!! i know so many people are struggling right now so i hate to ask, but please reblog even if u can't donate🥺💕
P*YPAL: .me/cryptidfriend105
C*SHAPP: $RaphaelSchmidt
V*NMO: crypticangels
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prince-of-perception · 5 months
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No hate to tiktok but also all hate to tiktok because why are all the wlw or butch & femme tags flooded with white women??? Where are the poc femmes & butches ??? the disabled butches & femmes ??? the hairy or plus sized butches & femmes ??? the T4T ones ??? the ones who embrace gender fuckery & relationship anarchy??? I want to see the people who experience and embrace queerness through different lenses, not just the white fem4fems.
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agrebel18 · 1 year
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“we need more m/f friendships in media that stay platonic due to heteronormativity that’s rooted in homophobia/aphobia plus women and men can actually be good friends without romance” and “having m/f romances aren’t inherently bad especially if the people involved are fat, disabled, neurodivergent, and/or people of color because queer people aren’t the only marginalized group that need to be represented” are two statements that can and should coexist. 
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unhingedfemmecontent · 3 months
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things you never have to feel bad for
needing accommodations
asking for help
going non verbal
struggling to identify feelings
having an episode
coping in ways others don’t understand
stimming
having diffrent interests
showing your love differently than others
fidgeting
saying no
saying yes
"over reacting" (no such thing)
not understanding someone
asking for tone clarity
needing to isolate
having a hard time taking care of yourself
being dependent/ needing a caregiver
asking for respect
coming out
and so many more you are all beautiful humans
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ifuckingadoreyou · 2 years
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there's a specific kind of grief and terror traumatized people feel when they're dating. you find someone who you really click with - until things get serious. maybe they witness you having a bad day, and they decide it's not worth it, pack up their things, and leave.
you navigate the dating scene with a low expectations. most people run at the first mention of "abuse" or "assault." sometimes you think about not being open about your trauma again, just so that you can get a better sense of your date so that when the time comes to tell them about it, you might still have a chance of salvaging it. but most neurotypical people don't want somebody with baggage.
then, you meet them. maybe they have baggage, too, but the way they treat you with such patience and respect, and accomodate you however you need — it's something you've never experienced before. you almost start to put them on a pedestal, but they remind you that you need to heighten your expectations, demand respect instead of hoping it'll come to you.
maybe you have memory issues. maybe you apologize a lot for no real reason. maybe you have severe panic attacks in response to triggers. but they're with you through it all, again and again — never raising their voice, never shaming you, never harming you, but always there to pick you up when you need their support.
this is the way you've needed to be loved. this is the way you DESERVE to be loved.
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grandparentcore · 8 months
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i love you🫶🏽
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talkethtothehandeth · 10 months
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It’s very interesting to me how abled LGBT+ people are very much against performative activism by billion dollar companies and say that the companies only care about what happens to them financially, but they don’t care about the effect that these actions will have on queer people. Everything about that is valid and true, but it shouldn’t be that surprising when a big chain store pulls merchandise at the first threat from someone who has nothing better to do than be homophobic for a living.
But then go ahead and host for the second year in a row since 2021, an open, unmasked super spreader pride parade. You are openly hurting queer disabled people by hosting and attending these avents that have zero COVID precautionary measures or safety plans in use. There are no mask mandates, no sanitizing stations, and instead of showing that you do care about crippled queers (you don’t) you tell us to just “stay home” or “risk it anyway if you want it that badly”. Which means you don’t want us in the same place as you, you’d prefer it that way. We know.
Make it make sense. You’re either angry for the performative activism for every queer, or you’re very much tied into the exact ideation as straight/cis person who doesn’t care about “some” queer people— except with an ableist core.
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zozoubbb · 4 months
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i hate that there is so much hatred for women in the world, so much hatred for girls, even little girls. cant even express how much love my heart holds for women, i love being a woman and i love women more than anything. everything about women, everything about trans, poc, cis , queer, butch, disabled, religious, neurodivergent, fat, old women, everything about all women is so so beautiful. and yes there are women that suck and womanhood isnt about being a cute little innocent person, but oh how i love women and i love women who love women and i love women.
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the-bi-library · 8 months
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Happy Disability Pride Month!
Here are some books with disabled bi MCs to celebrate the occasion 💖
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💕 The Faithless by C.L. Clark 💕 Icebreaker by A.L. Graziadei 💕 The Immeasurable Depth of You by Maria Ingrande Mora 💕 The Luis Ortega Survival Club by Sonora Reyes 💕 Forever Is Now by Mariama J. Lockington 💕 Highly Suspicious and Unfairly Cute by Talia Hibbert 💕 Stars in Their Eyes: A Graphic Novel by Jessica Walton 💕 The Disasters by M.K. England 💕 The Secret Summer Promise by Keah Brown 💕 Iron Widow by Xiran Jay Zhao 💕 Scoring a Spouse by Liz Lincoln 💕 Other bound by Corinne Duyvis 💕 Play It Again by Aidan Wayne 💕 Dark Pines by Will Dean 💕 Izzy at the End of the World by K.A. Reynolds 💕 In The Ring by Sierra Isley 💕 Dearly Departed by Heather Novak 💕 Monstersona by Chloe Spencer
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kodocell · 9 months
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Your Love Leaves a Bitter Taste in My Mouth
[both use she/her]
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v-4-l-0-n · 7 months
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Friendly reminder that if your feminism doesn’t include woc, queer women, trans women, disabled women, women of any religion, or sex workers then your “feminism” is shit <3
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