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if u dont know much about how to go about this, this is a good opportunity to learn more about visual accessibility! if u need a place to start, u can join the peoples accessibility server for tons of resources and help with descriptions (link)

genuinely how i feel sometimes

Hey folks!

A few people asked if I was okay after my other post so I thought I'd give a general update as to Life Things (tm).

My mum finally left my dad, nys sister got married and he wasn't invited to the wedding and the way he acted was enough to make her leave. My youngest sister (still an adult) was left alone with my dad in the house and I had to talk her through packing a bag and leaving without him noticing. They both left pretty much everything behind and we don't know if they'll be able to get it back. They're at my grandparents now which is further away from both of their workplaces and a very temporary solution, but safe at least. My youngest sister is disabled and she needs support nobody can really give her at the moment, but she's safe.

I lost Juniper (one of my cats) a few weeks back. It was old age, but I wasn't able to be with her and it still doesn't quite feel real. I miss her so much, and I feel very bad about not being able to be with her (a very good friend was though, she was loved and wasn't alone thank god.) Sage is looking for her sometimes but seems to have some understanding of what's happened since he saw her briefly afterwards, she's buried in my best friends garden having a new adventure.

My landlord put my rent up by £100, but hasn't fixed a lot of the things wrong with the flat. The cost of heating this place is ridiculously high, so I'm trying to put the heating on as little as possible even though it's dropping into the minus degrees. Apparently they're set to go up even more in the new year because this country wants to kill us I guess.

My disabilities are all flaring up at once, I've had to take unpaid leave from work, I've not been able to afford the physio sessions that stave off the joint issues, or the food that helps keep my protein levels up because it is expensive and I need to eat something at least. I'm very very lucky that we have the NHS and all of my medications now qualify so at least I get those.

It's coming up to Christmas, I don't know what it's going to be like this year. My family is scattered and all in precarious situations, none of us have much to spare and most of us don't have a permanent home or more than a suitcase of stuff. I need to get Sage his vaccinations, and I feel terrible about leaving him alone in the cattery over Christmas.

That is to say that life is a lot. It's good things, but unstable. My dad is harassing us all, but we aren't stuck with him. I can't afford to keep my disabilities at bay, but my family is safer even if they need more support. Mentally at least I'm okay, I think.

If you'd like to help out, my PayPal is here and my Ko-Fi is here. If you can't or just don't want to this is not for you, god knows we're all going through hard times at the moment and the world is going to shit, but if you do and you're able it will be much appreciated by me and my family.

Finally here is a picture of my beautiful Juniper. Rest in peace my darling.

I hope you all have a wonderful holiday season, and thank you for reading 💜

Ya know what shout out to butches who wrestle with our butchness because we don’t fit the mold in some way. Butches who aren’t physically strong or naturally caretaking because of physical disability, who need to be cared for, who can’t hold open the door for a femme. Butches with long hair, butches with big hair, butches who express their culture via their hair. Butches who’s masculinity is shaped by their culture, who’s masculinity doesn’t fit the white eurocentric mold. Fat butches, butches with curves viewed as feminine, butches who don’t have skinny, boyish builds. Butches who don’t want to be sexualized, butches on the ace spectrum. Butches who don’t have traditionally masculine interests or mannerisms or whatever. Effeminate butches. Butches who take inspo from gay men. Butches who like the occasional dress or skirt. TRANSFEM BUTCHES!!!!! And any other butches who don’t fit a certain mold!! All butches are good butches and we are all valid.

Do You Know This Disabled Character?

Kitty Softpaws is an amputee.

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yay! another request! i truly love getting them, i struggle to think of what people would like to see sometimes! thanks @codi-is-a-dumb-bitch for the request, and being awesome in general! love xx

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I have some thoughts on Kitty Softpaws.

good morning from the autistic town of autville! there’s a new segment of the town news available: the autistic joy report, which holds space for one autistic joy at a time, large or small!

today's autistic joy report is brought to you by:

having a sleepy cat purr in your lap!

may we all feel that kind of comfort today.

hello kitties! 💋🐱

kinda wish more people talked and fantasized about disabled sex + accomodating it more often tbh. a lot of expectations for sex involve things that are really rigorous and straining for someone like me, w a combo of things like chronic migraines, arthritis, scoliosis, and general chronic pain.

its even rarer to find discussions of disabled people who dom or top because everyones ultimate fantasy seems to be intense fast railing that would leave my hips and body so inflamed i wouldnt be able to walk for the next few days. half the time i can hardly get myself off with vanilla masturbation because it often leaves my hands so painful its not always worth finishing to orgasm

i often cant relate to a lot of the sexual fantasies i see on here because im never going to be the big strong dom who can manhandle and peg. itd be really sick to see more people like me in these sorts of spaces, especially when it comes to doms + tops, who are often expected to do really physically taxing things for sex

HOMELESS FAMILY NEEDS 800$

Hello everyone, me and my family are in dire need of money, we have been homeless for over a year. Recently we thought we had somewhere we could stay in our trucl & camper and work on establishing a income but the rug was pulled out from under us, our host didn't tell us critical information that we even asked for which has resulted in her receiving a eviction notice for a couple of months from now and us being told we had to leave ASAP

Now the big issue is that since we thought we could stay here we brought all of our stuff here so we could get it out of storage (which was becoming hard to afford & the manger was starting to try to hold our stuff hostage to control us) and well now we need to take it to a new place, which means more rent and we need gas to move our stuff from the farm we were staying at to the storage place.

We also have other expenses which I will breakdown here

- Storage bill

- Gas, both to move our stuff and also to stay warm in the -20c weather we are in

- Food, we are very low on food & barely scraping by

- Car insurance, without this we can't go on the road

- Phone bill, if we cannot pay this we will have no internet & be unable to fund rise.

In total if we can get $800 for this week we will be able to deal with this.

Donate: https://ko-fi.com/kittydoesstuff

0/800$

Every forms of support mean the world to me!

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Sooo we have a discord server (it's actually my friends but shh) people join please :3 it's a safe space for everybody, nobody will bite you besides me >:)

https://discord.com/invite/Vc7XqHGr