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#demi positivity
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Aspec people who use the label “queer”, you’re so important. I’m glad you exist.
Aspec people who would use the label but feel they can’t because of aphobia, I’m so sorry. I wish you safety and peace.
Aspec people in general, I hope you’re having a good day. You deserve a community that accepts you.
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holly-natnicole · 1 year
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Celibate people are valid!! Choosing to never have a romantic relationship and/or sex is awesome!!
Demiromantic people are valid!! Developing romantic emotions towards someone only after being friends with them for a long while is awesome!!
Greyromantic people are valid!! Relating to aromanticism without aromantic being the exact right word that fits is awesome!!
Aromantic people are valid!! Not experiencing romantic feelings is awesome!!
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randomthings299 · 1 year
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people: BuT deMisExUaL iS jUSt nOrMaL
one night stand *exists*: am I a joke to you?
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theautisticfroglord · 5 months
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I genuinely hate when people invalidate demiromantic/demisexual/other labels in general by saying somethin like "OMG!!!! why do these labels exist that's how every relationship is!!!!! what has this generation come to?!!?,!?!!"
some people out here are dating someone they just met two days ago. while it literally took me two whole years of getting to know someone before having a crush on them. can y'all please not find excuses to invalidate aspec/arospec people. thanks
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Hey fellow demisexuals and trans masculine nonbinary people, I have questions that I hope you can help me with. So basically I'm a demisexual transmasc nonbinary person and I have never in my 20 years on this planet ever had a crush on someone that was actually someone I know. Like I've liked fictional characters and celebrities but never a person in my day to day life. I recently figured out that I like one of the guys I work with and don't know how to feel or deal with the situation. He's a really nice and he has been the most understanding about my gender identity since I came out at work. He in the year I've known him has never dead named me or misgendered on purpose and if he ever makes a mistake he feels bad for it. I know that I like him to some extent but I'm not sure if it's real attraction or just because he's so nice to me, like I know it's possible to like someone's actions and it be blinded by a false attraction to the person themselves but like I said I'm not sure cause I've never liked someone before. There is a part of me that really wants to confess to him but like I also have the doubts of "is he in a relationship already?, or the constant nagging in my head of he definitely won't like you that way because you are nonbinary and are masculine presenting (even though I'm not passing by any means). So I don't know where to go from here. I don't know if I should bite the bullet and confess or if I should suck it up and push these feelings deep down. What I do know is that if I confess it won't be until after I quit this job and don't have to see him nearly every day if things go wrong. So what would y'all's advice be or have any of you guys experienced this before and how did you handle?
Side note I'm not quitting to escape my feelings I'm quitting because I'm burnt out and the work place is becoming toxic except for him, my roommate and a couple other people.
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goddammit-sam · 1 year
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retconicregular · 8 months
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Absolutely need the homies to know i offer up affection at anytime no need to ask and i love pda. Like yes please stand in my personal space and grab my hand while we're walking down the street. Lay your head on my shoulder when we're sitting next to each other and come up for a hug whenever you want
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citygalsblog · 2 years
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How to be more confident ;)
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My favorite saying is, “ fake it till you make it”. This is always easier said than done but here are some tips on how to feel and appear more confident.
* Create an alter ego. Give your character a name and write down how they act. Whenever you are in a stressful situation you can become that person.
* Eye contact. Force yourself to keep eye contact. Turn it into game and make them break eye contact first. This is such a power move.
* Good posture. Always walk with a straight back and your head held up. This will make you appear more confident.
* Nobody cares. Remember everyone only cares about themselves. Nobody’s thinking about what u said or did. So just be you and live your life how you want.
* Make a good first impression. Be kind, polite and genuine.
* Listen to affirmation podcasts. There’s are so many confidence boosting affirmation podcast. If u have a stressful situation coming listen to it the night before. The more you tell yourself you are amazing then eventually you will start to believe it.
* Put effort into your appearance. If you look good you will feel good. Take care of your hair, put an outfit you feel good in on, do a little bit of makeup if you want and always wear deodorant and perfume.
90% of life is confidence. The thing about confidence is no one knows if it’s real or not.- Maddy Perez
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welldonesteak · 5 months
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pssst. allosexual aromantic folks?
youre cool. :)
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gray-ace-space · 10 months
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happy pride month to acespecs; to the gray aces, demisexuals, aegosexuals, acefluxes, and others; to acespecs with queer attractions, to straight acespecs, and to aroacespecs; to trans and genderqueer acespecs; to acespecs who enjoy sex, acespecs who don't, and ones who are on the fence; to acespecs of color; to disabled and neurodivergent acespecs - especially to those whose neurodivergency or trauma is a factor in their asexuality; to kinky acespecs; to the acespecs who are secure in their identity and to the acespecs still figuring it out - you're all wonderful and important to the ace and larger queer community! let's celebrate you! 💜🌈♠✨
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most-executive · 8 days
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gummy-axolotl · 6 months
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Queer positivity post!! I love sapphic bi girls and trans lesbians and AFAB demi boys and AMAB demi girls and cishet intersex ppl and biromantic heterosexuals and homoromantic bisexuals and everyone on the asexual spectrum and everyone on the aromantic spectrum and all of the unlabeled people and all of the people with a million microlables and people with neopronouns all the they/thems and the xe/hirs and the she/hes and people who identify with one umbrella label and people who identify with specific categories and fem lesbians and masc gay men and heterosexual drag queens and queer people of color and neurodivergent queer folks and everyone under the whole rainbow! I love you all so much!! Thank you for making our community amazing!!!
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ghosts-gone · 1 year
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Happy ace week!!!
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thecozyfrog · 1 year
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Demisexual Pride Flag Knitted Headband/Earwarmer
Check it out on my Etsy shop!
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Please reblog if you see something you like
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lawofcollage · 9 months
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Demi pride!
Demisexual and Demiromantic
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