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cydonian-mystery · 2 years
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I'm very sorry to do this again, but I have no choice. The brakes and rotor on my family's truck are worn completely down, and we have to get replacements. This will cost about $140 for the cheapest parts that we could find.
Our town has no public transportation, so our truck is the only way we have to get around. And it just isn't safe to drive with a damaged rotor and completely worn down pads.
Please consider helping us out, or boosting if you can't.
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Transmasc dysphoria culture is subtly telling people you hate your birth name but they dont get it and say “noo ur names so nice” and they start using it even more.
Dysphoric culture is!
Also, mod also dealt with this for many many years while closeted and in personal experience choosing a random gender neutral nickname or using just initials (to lessen the dysphoria) and telling people to use that instead worked.
Pre-coming out mod was pretty bold and would just be like "this name disgusts me (no hate to other people named that) so don't you dare call me that and I will correct you if you do".
Whenever people would be like "but your name is so nice!!" mod would respond with something like "no it makes me super uncomfortable and you need to respect that". Because even if someone is cis, intentionally calling them something they hate or don't (want to) go by is rude and disrespectful.
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prestonmonterey · 3 months
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i fucking hate the dentist so much
i have to get a bunch of cavity fillings
and its NOT MY FUCKING FAULT
its genetic shit
all by back tweth have massive grooves :(
(uh also getting deadnamed fucking sucks)
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gay-otlc · 2 years
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It's fair and justified to kill someone if they deadnamed your best friend right?
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vulturescraps · 2 years
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missdirectiontv · 1 year
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so someone stole my package off of my front porch a while back and now theres someone walking around san antonio with a fucking LONGSWORD that has my full name, username, and deadname.
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Hey, its me again... Yesterday, my general manager deadname me... in front of everyone. The new girl thought my name was Christina (that's not even my deadname) and kept calling me ma'am all day. I'm still not feeling okay, so can you do a overuse of Dylan and Eddie? Maybe a Mr. Cougill?
My primary set is it/its, but at this point, I'd be happy as long as it's not she/her.
Also if you have any advice on how to cope, that would be nice as well. I'm going to multiple blogs with this, so don't feel bad if it takes you a bit or if you don't have any advice💚
I hope you're having an wonderful day/night.
Ugh, Dylan's manager deadnamed Eddie? And that other girl misgendered it? I'm really sorry, and I hope this helps Dylan feel better. I don't really have any advice for Eddie, sorry.
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queerism1969 · 8 months
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pastelchosen · 2 years
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Oh, going to shut down, now, Shammy-boy? Not going to fight back? Not going to change your face to look more attractive? strong? confident? Speaking of that other face, how many names are you up to now? Killian, Morrell, Shamrock, Watts, Panikos, even Andrew at one point... do you even know who you are?
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“….Who I am…? I haven’t known who I was since I was born..” he whispers. “…I thought I’d transition and that’d be the end of it… but I’m still…. I still don’t know… who I am or who I’m supposed to be.” He mumbled. “….Maybe it’d be easier if I stayed Kelley…”
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one-time-i-dreamt · 3 months
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Someone on Roblox said they knew my name, said my DEADNAME instead of the name I’m comfy with and didn’t leave me alone afterwards.
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dysphoric culture is old forms not updating correctly so when you go to do something like, idk, find a room to live at for the next year of your life at college, it puts you with three men and uses your deadname and misgenders you in the forms detailing who you are to them
Dysphoric culture is!
Also, mod is having this same issue (but with the college board). It’s so annoying that there’s no centralized, efficient way to update things and now you’re getting outed to strangers. Hopefully your roommates will be okay (or you get new ones)!
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thcmutcbard · 2 years
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Drabble - Memories.
Potential triggers: Themes of depersonalization, use of dead name, and some use of old pronouns. I will be tagging the triggers as: deadname tw and dissociation tw. Let me know if you need me to tag it as something else.
Ness silently yawned as they stirred from their sleep, looking to their clock. It was only 11:30 at night… They barely slept for three hours, and feeling thirsty, figured they could grab some water before going back to bed. They made their way out of their room quietly, surprised to find the light in the kitchen was on. Then the familiar voice of their mother filled their ears.
“Enid I’ve been trying, no matter how hard I practice I can’t get the hang of this sign language thing! Orion is acting like I’m half-assing this but I just can’t get the lessons to stick!” Her voice is frustrated as she worked on the dishes.
Ness felt a twinge of guilt in their chest as they approached the kitchen carefully, peeking from behind a wall, watching their mother talk on the crow.
“It’s my fault she’s like this in the first place. It’s so hard watching her struggle in school or with other kids, but I’m the bad guy for trying to find easy alternatives for her. Not everyone is going to take the time to learn sign language to understand what she wants to say!” Jasmyn placed a plate down, “the caption spell is an easy way for her to express herself to everyone but I’m the bad guy for finding it.” Ness couldn’t hear the voice of the woman on crow very well, only knowing she was her mother’s friend.
“Enid… I’m just tired… it hurts so much to not understand her.. to not be able to hear her laugh, not know if something is wrong cause I can’t hear her cry, I hear what the other parents say about her and I just can’t handle it..” Ness looked down, they didn’t mean to cause their mother so much pain. They wondered how they could help make things easier for her, but they were pulled from their thoughts hearing their mother mumble her next words, “Who would want a broken witch..?”
Ness’s eyes widened and filled with tears. Silent sobs escaped them as they backed up. Their silent breathing was ragged, their ears ringing as they rushed off, going to the bathroom and locking themself inside. Ness sat on the floor sobbing into their knees.
Was this why they had no friends? Why all the grownups had that sad look in their eye when they spoke to them? Because they were broken? They always knew they were cursed, they were annoyed by the bullying caused by it, but they never once considered themself broken before now. But things started falling into place.
Ness stared in the mirror, tears running down their face as memories flashed across their thoughts. Kids stealing their books or toys and challenging them to speak up. People deciding for them since they couldn’t say otherwise. People either talking over them or ignoring them completely. The constant feelings of loneliness and something they couldn’t quite place before now.
The feeling of not knowing if they existed or not. The world went on around them, people acted like they were invisible. Nothing ever happened to them, solitude, the only place they felt they belonged. Were they doomed to live like this forever? To watch the world spin while they stood frozen in time? Their mind continued to spiral before they jolted awake, eyes wide and silently gasping for air.
Vyn had fallen asleep in the forest hide out they felt so safe in. It had been a while since that memory played through their mind like that. They stood and picked up their bag debating which path to take home. They looked at their ankle, the concealment stone latched around it and hidden in their sneaker. Maybe they would stop by the night market and ground themself a bit more before getting home. Vyn let out a silent breath and just started walking back towards town.
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davidtennan-t · 2 months
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TW: Deadname Mention
As awful as it is to bring up Rose’s deadname, there’s a subtle message behind why Donna named her child ‘Jason’
The name Jason means ‘healer’
Donna named her child after the Doctor, choosing the closest name which represents the Doctor - she named her child after her very best friend, even when she couldn’t remember him
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yourpostisonpinterest · 2 months
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@acybernetickiwi
i found your post on pinterest!
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hana-no-seiiki · 10 months
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BLURB/SNEAK-PEEK FOR THAT YAN DOCTOR FIC IM WORKING ON
tw/cw: gn/amab! reader. trans masc yan. (for the whole fic but not here) dub/noncon, breeder reader, medical malpractice. dom! reader. sub! yandere. yandere is sort of a loser if we discount his success as a doctor lol. wholeass incel. reader is kind of a thembo.
[LINK FOR THE FULL FIC]
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Nahil prided himself as the ideal doctor. He had a long list of patients under his belt. Medicine was his lifeblood. He poured thousands and thousands of hours into meticulously honing his skills and knowledge on the human body.
However that led little to no room in progressing his skill with communication. Actually conversing with his patients. Despite his perfect streak with diagnoses and treatments, when it came down to talking? He was absolutely lost.
“Doctor Amin~ I’m here for my monthly check-up”
You, on the other hand, are a total communication expert in his eyes. You made it seem so easy, so effortless. Throughout his time with you as a resident and eventually a proper medical practitioner, you taught him so much. Made him a lot more comfortable with speech — and heck, other people in general — in ways you were not even aware of.
“Annual. You chose to make it a monthly endeavor, Mx. [L/N].”
“Oof cold as ever. Just how I like you.”
What he did not understand was how you could be so kind, so flirtatious, so utterly slutty to him when you already had a significant other.
“Please, save it for when I’m less stressed will you?”
“Fine~!”
It was unfair to both him and your partner. You led him on all these years just to get with someone not even worth your time.
But he had a solution, a solution that’ll both teach you a lesson and give him a taste of you that he’d been yearning for.
All it took is one prick.
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©️ hana.no.seiiki - yun | 2023
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dermy-der-demp · 3 months
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KUBOSAI SCENARIO KUBOSAI SCENARIO
Saiki's Parents are on a travel, he's home alone,aren lives alone and they're on school vacations,Saiki ends up staying with aren for a couple days bc reasons it's not important
SOOOO
When they're staying up late watching a Yakuza movie on the living room or sm that kubo can talk off (maybe infodump) saiki starts to close his eyes bc he has been so freaking sleep deprived lately he's almost hallucinating
Kubo notices so he puts a blanket on his back while the movie ends so he can let saiki rest on the sofa before preparing the futon near to his bed,saiki tries to stay awake but is just babblings inconsistencies and kubo says something among the lines "haha I never thought I could see you like this! I could even call you "kusuo" being this close" and saiki growls or proyects something that makes clear sm it's disgusting him but it's not specific and aren goes "uh?" and saiki is so dizzy and strangely calm that "[no…,I don't like it…]" and aren tries to convince him that it is a really good name until the things go "I think it's good,like,manly!" "[Mmm…that's the problem]" "…?" saiki thinks,kubo can keep his mouth shut most that the others and is sure that he wouldn't betray them on any situation so,why not? "[Kusuo is too masculine,Kuriko is too feminine,I'm…both but I don't like extremes…]" Kubo losses his FUCKING MIND,like hIS MOST RESERVED AND QUIET "FRIEND" HAS JUST COME OUT TO HIM ON HIS HOUSE WHERE HE–SHE(?),WHERE SAIKI IS GOING TO STAY FOR DAYS NOW
Saiki is regretting to say anything hearing the desperation in Aren's thoughts because he does not know what to do. Saiki settles down, hiding his face in the pillow he is hugging and Aren's head falls silent as a decent thing to say crosses his mind "So,if you don't like those is there some name that you like to be called?" Saiki hesitates on answer "[…(some neutral name that keeps the "ku" at the beginning)]" "oh that's…an excellent name!"
Then it's a "talk" (saiki is half asleep already) abt names and others things until they both fall asleep
+You can add nonbinary kubo too with breaking the egg or sm like "Wait- there is a term for that?"
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