stop fucking harassing Kwesi James.

i'm seeing way too many Try Guys fans commenting shit on his social media claiming that he knew about Ned and Alexandria because of the concert video, and that that makes him "just as bad as them".

no, it fucking doesn't.

let's say he knew. we don't know what he did with that information. everyone's assuming he hid it from Ariel. you don't fucking know that. he could have told her the second he knew and then have been told to stay quiet or act normal by Ariel because she didn't want the public to know before official statements could be made. none of us know what was happening behind the scenes.

the fact is, if he had gone public with it, the same people calling him a snake and an awful friend would have turned around and complained that he was "talking about things that didn't concern him" or "airing out other people's dirty laundry", and they fucking know it.

the Try Guys, their spouses, and at least part of the crew unfollowed Ned the second the statement went up. many of them unfollowed Alexandria as well. y'know who no one unfollowed? Kwesi. in fact, some people are saying the official account followed him for the first time after the statement--although i'll say to take that one with a grain of salt, as i don't know for sure that he wasn't followed in the first place. either way, no one unfollowed him (UPDATE 10/01/22: Ariel herself unfollowed Alex today. she didn’t unfollow Kwesi.). y'know why? maybe it's because she and everyone else can acknowledge that he didn't do anything wrong. you know, the actual people involved in the situation? whose opinion matters way more than the parasocial relationshipping fans on the internet that many of you are simply bandwagoning alongside with zero critical thinking skills.

i can't stress this one enough: the Try Guys had known since labor day weekend (9/5/22). this is an objective fact, they confirmed it themselves in their "what happened." video, which was posted on 10/4/22. no one is going after them, calling them snakes, or harrassing them. the crew had to have known for at least two weeks this is an objective fact. the first video Ned was cut out of was the Chocolate Eclair video, which went up exactly two weeks before the affair was confirmed (confirmed on 9/28/22, the video was uploaded 9/14/22). there's almost no way they found out, had a meeting, decided to cut him out, and then edited him out of it all in the hours of that Wednesday before they uploaded. that means they most likely knew beforehand. but, they could have done it all in a day. that still means they'd have known for two weeks. no one is saying shit to them (UPDATE 10/02/22: Rachel was apparently at the Harry Styles concert with them. her Instagram comment sections? full of love and support. not a "snake" or a "she knew" in sight). hmmmmm, i wonder why.

i'll close this out here with something many of you aren't going to want to hear: this unnecessary vilification of Kwesi is at least partially rooted in racism. you can't handle having to blame Ned alone for his actions, so you would rather harrass a Black man for no real reason to than acknowledge that your Favorite White Guy™ fucked up.

Had that cursed mcyt g/t thought again that makes me fear because I know that if certain g/t circumstances were real it would actually be real-

weirdly enough i think the most shocking thing i learned today was that @one-time-i-dreamt is a try guys fan lmao

i think my favorite thing about Leah being cast as Annabeth is the fanart, bc none of us know how they're going to incorporate the blonde hair but we've all agreed to commit to it, so there's Annabeth with blonde box braids or locs or dyed puffs and 12 year old me is having the time of her life scrolling through it all

so we're gonna bully marvel into fixing our good miss she hulk like we did for sonic right?? RIGHT ???????

The Last Of The Real Ones (a song about loving someone because of their flaws, and not in spite of them) walked so that The Kintsugi Kid (a song about turning your broken cracks into features, not blemishes) could run up to me, tear my heart out and beat it with a guitar right in front of me

okay okay okay. by no means do i actually think they'll actually do this, bc it'd be insane and it's way too early for it, plus we're all pretty sure the next ep is Maggie's exit.

but lots of people are speculating that Lucas and Simone are a Merder/Japril hybrid (elevator kiss and an ex showing up out of nowehere + out-of-the-blue public proposal with clapping and cheering in front of the other guy)

and we all remember when April thought Jackson had died in the bus explosion and lost her mind when she saw him, despite being engaged to another guy, right?

now. if the upcoming episode involves the hospital being under attack (and we all saw Amelia running frantically in the promo) then what if Maggie isn't the one she's running to?

what if it's Lucas?

selling a ticket to see hayley kiyoko in maryland on june 2nd !!

i paid $48 for it and i'd like to get some money back for it if i can but i'm pretty lax abt how much specifically, it's really more about making sure it doesn't go to waste. message me/lmk if you or someone you know is interested !!

if heather morris could do the choreography to "valerie" in heels i can pass the ap lit exam

i don't have any creative ides of march posts in my brain right now (one might even say i have no....... ideas of march (dumb joke i'm sorry)) but i want my dash to do the thing with the knives so here have my favorite picture of boyfriend @ambersprite990's dog

nothing like that fucky texture the inside of your mouth is when you wake up after falling asleep while chewing a piece of gum

this show is called love & death. i am one and a half episodes in. where is the death.

guess whose insomnia is back

!! i have polls now but i have nothing interesting to ask about so

YOOOOOOOO THE QUEEN DIED ON MY FUCKING BIRTHDAY

i hate when i'm walking somewhere and i have to pass behind a group of girls making a tik tok and they stop filming and awkwardly apologize/grab their phones to run away bc like. no i don't want to to be in your video so thank you for stopping it but also no!! don't be embarrassed or self conscious on my account!! i think it's super cool that you're happy and confident enough to dance around in broad daylight with your friends and show that to the internet!! just please don't do it right in front of my car bc my groceries are gonna get warm and i need to get home