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creatingnikki · 10 months

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You've had your Before Sunrise moments. You've had your rooftop moments. You've had your wine nights. And your spontaneous 3 am drives. You've had your on-a-Wednesday-in-a-cafe-I-watched-it-begin-again moments too. Your "oh wow, the moon is gorgeous" "yes, so gorgeous" as he looks at you moments. And your coming back to your apartment at 7 am, rushing to get dressed for work, using your very expensive concealer to hide the love from the night before moments. You have had the rush, the adrenaline, the butterflies, the recklessness of the 20s romance. You've had the flings, the situationships, the drama, the confusion, the throwing your phone across the wall moments. But you know what you have not had? You have not had a stable, healthy, long-term relationship.

A boyfriend, a partner who you celebrate your one-month, one-year, five-year anniversaries with. Who drives you back home after every date and sometimes comes up home to have chai with your mom. Who sends you waffles to your workplace. Who shows up at midnight with Chinese takeout and the hug you need. Who wakes you up on Sunday afternoons with one too many kisses all over your face and the spicy bun omelette you like. You have not had that - the consistency, the comfort, the commitment. So, this. THIS is what you now seek.

And for that, you have to ignore those 2 am texts you get from that random boy asking you what's your scene like tomorrow. And for that, you have to learn how to draw the boundary with men so that they remain friends and cannot cross into the grey land of more. And for that, you have to ignore texts from those from your past who weren't capable of communication to convert what you had into something that resembles healthy checking in and consideration but rather are reaching out because they are lonely and want to shoot their shot with you yet again. Okay? OKAY.

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csuitebitches · 2 years

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Dating Rules for Girls with No Boundaries 1

For girls who want to date seriously.

So, so many of my friends are in awful relationships. And there’s one common thread- they let the guy treat them like absolute shit.

Another thing I noticed was that there’s no boundaries. There’s no rules. They change their schedule for the guy, they postpone their plans for him, everything runs as per him. There’s no emotional independence, and they get attached to men in a matter of weeks.

I hate seeing my girlfriends like that. But apart from telling them to end things, there’s nothing else I can do.

Here are some rules that if you struggle to have boundaries, should consider following for better relationships. Please note that time doesn’t matter in a relationship. However, I do feel that things move too quickly nowadays and there seriously has to be a minimum date limit for certain things.

In the first part, we’ll discuss things you can choose to do before your date.

Do:

* have an understanding of what you want. Do you want a relationship? Do you just want sex? Are you bored?

* Look your best and feel your best. It really does help confidence.

* Shave everything, if you prefer being hair free.

* Wear nice underwear. Please do not have sex on the first few dates. But wearing sexy lingerie for the thrill of it and only you know - that’s hot and independent.

* Smell nice. Carry a small perfume, lipstick / lipgloss, cash/ card, portable charger or just the charger cord, keys, gum.

* Carry your wallet, even if he’s going to pay. I’ve heard the weirdest stories about men not paying for first dates.

* Be clear about any dietary restrictions beforehand. It’s definitely a good idea to tell someone casually that you don’t drink, or if you don’t eat a certain thing.

Don’t:

* Drink/ smoke up and go. Unless the weed is medication that has been prescribed for anxiety or anything.

* Go to a shady place. If it’s an area or a restaurant or a bar that you’re not comfortable going to, say so.

* Give him your exact address. If he’s going to pick you up, ask him to come to the nearest street/ grocery store- but not your exact address.

* Go if you’re not interested or if your friends are begging you to. Don’t waste his time or your energy.

* Go to his place. Please. Just don’t.

Bare Minimum:

* Offers to pick you up (and has a clean car)

* Pays the first date… and takes you to a decent place

* Is clean, well dressed and nice smelling

* Holds the door open for you

* Doesn’t order food on your behalf

* Asks questions and is interested in learning more

* Wishes you goodnight and makes sure you’re home safe

* Communicates whether he had a good time or if he thinks it’s better off if you don’t see each other again

Green flags

* good communication

* Doesn’t touch you in a way that makes you uncomfortable

* Ensures that you’ve eaten well

* Appreciates how you look and dressed

* Wants to try one of your hobbies

* Tried his best to make you laugh and feel comfortable

* Has a steady income or at least a solid plan of where he wants to be

* Ambitious and independent

* Can think independently, and isn’t afraid in speaking his mind

* Matches your value system

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sadnesshasanappeal · 7 months

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#factsdaily #mindset #datinglife #writers and poets #random rants #rambles #where are they #memes #literature #sapiosexual #booknerd #dark academia #books and literature #vent post #dating #dating rules #read rules before interacting

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prettypupp · 4 months

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i dont understand dating rules and it makes it so difficult to actually feel confident and sure when i do want to date people bevause the rules just dont make sense

i fall in love with people im friends with for a while so a lot of dating rules dont make sense to me. the weird "you need to know these things 6 months into your relationship" questions i alrwady knew within the first week of knowing them before we even started dating because we were friends and they were just regular topics!

honestly what is a "talking stage"? people have tried describing it to me but its just... being friends? yeah theres an end goal but youre literally just friends??

and i just found out about the "honeymoon phase" where after 4 months you just stop loving them because you realize they have flaws?? were you not friends before dating?? shouldnt you know this already?? theyre a person of course theyre going to have flaws youve been together for 4 months how did you not notice it until now??

and im supposed to follow these weird rules that make zero sense? why???

#im so confused i hate dating i hate dating rules theyre so stupid #dating rules #weird dating rules #queer #trans #ftm #t4t #mdni #prettypupp thoughts

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stevowie · 17 days

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tsukii0002 · 4 months

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Mammon: Demons do not feel guilt, that is only for humans and angels.

Solomon: ... *grinning* Remember that cake you ate the other day?

Mammon: Yeah.

Beel: It was delicious

Levi: An Ur+ ranked cake.

Solomon: It was Mc's

Mammon: ...

Beel: ...

Levi: ...

Solomon: They had been working for two weeks to be able to buy it because it was an ultra-exclusive promotion.

Mammon: What-

Solomon: They came home tired every day from work and attending to your selfish needs… all so they could share that cake with everyone *falsely tearing*

Mammon: *crying* I'm a monster!!!

Beel: *sobing* WE are monster!

Levi: *balled up in a corner*

Mc enters the room and sees the brothers crying.

Mc: What have you done?

Solomon: Me? nothing :D

Mc: Don't tell me you are surprised when people tell you that you are more demon than human.

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hes-sunshine-im-midnight-rain · 2 months

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✨With the punch of a pentagram I wap bam boom alakazam✨

#obey me #obey me shall we date #obey me one master to rule them all #obey me meme #obey me memes #obey me crack #obey me nightbringer #lucifer obey me #obey me lucifer #omswd #omswd lucifer

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mariiio · 2 months

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Just made some obey me memes, your welcome >:3

#obey me shall we date #obey me fandom #obey me fanart #obey me doodles #obey me one master to rule them all #obey me memes #obey me crack #obey me asmodeus #obey me leviathan #obey me mammon #obey me thirteen #obey me belphegor

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zivazivc · 1 month

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do you think freesia and jd would ever get back together? or will they stay sort-of friends?

I'm not going to lie, I kinda like the idea of them starting to date again and seeing where it takes them. 🙈 freesia sneaked into my heart for some reason (she kind of started this new trend of mine where i make ocs that were created to be dicks and then me just getting protective of them and trying to reason out their awful behavior kasjsdj)

also their ship already has a #1 hater and #1 supporter, both of which are doing it for the wrong reasons...

#bruce and clay join the fandom once floyd sends them letters saying he's been eating good ksjbhbfchf #trolls #dreamworks trolls #trolls floyd #trolls branch #trolls john dory #freesia #trolls band together #this was a lot funnier in my head. i guess that's what you get when you don't lay down your panels from the start #my art #answered #freesia was all four of the brother's first crush (sorry i don't make the rules. it's just facts)#even floyd's who i headcanon is exclusively gay #jd and her started dating pretty young #and the other three had kid crushes on her because she was the big brothers cool girlfriend that made jd behave nice to them lmao #also almond and plum brownies <3 #floyd jd and branch all live in a sitcom in my head #it's beautiful #also i started coloring this and then i realized i actually DON'T want to spend another day on this when i can be drawing NEW comics

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creatingnikki · 2 years

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notes to self: this ends here

situationships. it’s actually totally normal to want to go on a few dates with a person who is emotionally available, consistent, and communicative and then enter into an actual monogamous relationship where you both are equally invested and interested if you both like each other. modern dating makes it seem like a big ask but no, no it is not.

being non-judgmental. you know it is an evolutionary instinct to protect yourself and you have known this for a while so please just like start judging people. form an opinion or conclusion about. that’s the dictionary meaning of ‘judging’. what’s so wrong in that? you have to form opinions about a person from conventional markers but more importantly their behaviour. then it’s not like you look down on them or anything. it’s just that you only provide access to certain chosen people, access to your time, your thoughts, your feelings, and your heart.

ignoring red flags. do not fucking care if it’s a lighter shade of red or if you think it’s subjective. you know when you know. why you have chosen to ignore them is not something to get into right now. what you need to immediately stop is ignoring them. snapped at you for something pretty normal because they cannot regulate their behaviour when triggered? red flag, walk the other way. victimizes themselves every time they speak about a past friend or an ex? red flag, walk the other way. does not want to or know how to communicate when things get even slightly messy? red flag, run the fucking other way.

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corvus-for-ddd · 1 month

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#obey me #obey me shall we date #obey me one master to rule them all #obey me nightbringer #obey me incorrect quotes #obey me ideas #obey me texts #obey me thoughts #obey me memes #obey me imagines #obey me twitter #obey me devildom #obey me solomon #obey me mc #corvus for ddd

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levia-chan · 1 month

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OH, REALLY?!!?!?

HEY, MAYBE YOU'RE FORGETTING SOMETHING?!???

#obey me #obey me nightbringer #om! shall we date #omswd #obey me satan #obey me lucifer #omswd lucifer #omswd satan #obey me shall we date #obey me!#obey me one master to rule them all

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cityswoonsblog · 1 year

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Dating Rules for 2022 Date People That Are Interested in You

After the past couple of years, we have all learned a lot about who we are, what we’re actually looking for, and what we bring to the table. Whether it’s a friendship or a potential relationship, it’s time to spend our time and energy on those who show interest in us.

Visit Us - https://cityswoon.com/blog/dating-rules-for-2022/

#Dating Rules

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cherry-bomb-00 · 27 days

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Human things that non-humans find confusing or curious about part 1

I have seen little content on this topic, so I wanted to put my point of view, since it seems curious to me how brothers react or think about those little things about our human race.

-Human hair.

The brothers find it curious how hairy humans can be, and they also find it adorable how sometimes our hair falls out. They see us as a small kitten or puppy that loses their hair, and also because they hair don't falls out nor are they very hairy like humans, it is a small trait that they finds cute.

-Flexibility

We humans can achieve incredible flexibility, something that demons and angels cannot, since they have perfect bodies, so they movements are a little more limited when it comes to flexibility, so it surprises them that humans can stretch and flex. So well, the brothers for some reason like how MC's flesh and skin stretches, flexes or bends, and sees how the flesh forms small mounds or wrinkles slightly when their makes a flexible movement.

-Mimicry

In nature, mimicry exists to survive the environment, in the case of humans it is imitating gestures, behaviors and the language of another species or another person is a habitual behavior of the human being. This is a way of adapting to the environment and feeling part of a social group, so the demon brothers find it curious and even adorable, when we unconsciously imitate them with light gestures, behaviors or body language, also seeing how we talk to inanimate objects, such as telling a cup not to fall when it is wobbly or imitating a sound that we find funny or familiar, they finds all of this fun and interesting, even Mammon compares us to a flock of crows.

-Shiny thing

To our beloved demons, see with curiosity how we humans love shiny things, see how we find colored stones and our eyes shine, that seems adorable to them, and even more so when we collect any type of shiny stone, crystal or anything shiny. Sometimes even the brothers give us shiny things just to see how our faces shine with joy.

-Imagination

Another thing that surprises the demon brothers is our great imagination, that with anything, no matter how simple it is, we can entertain ourselves, such as grabbing branches and using them as a weapon to play, or when we are walking and want to avoid stepping on the stripes that is on the ground of the street, those little things make them see us so innocent and creative, since it is something that they do not think of or are very simple to do, and this trait in their little human makes being with them is funny.

I hope you liked it, I may do more parts, see you

#obey me shall we date #obey me mc #obey me brothers #obey me belphegor #obey me asmodeus #obey me beelzebub #obey me leviathan #obey me lucifer #obey me satan #obey me mammon #obey me hcs #obey me one master to rule them all

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obeyme-lost-thought · 9 months

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Headcanon: Mc swearing problem

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Mc: WHAT ?! Oh my go-

Simeon simplicity being there

Mc: .... gosh... Oh my gosh.

Diavolo: Yes, because *saying one of the most strange things on the 3 world*

Mc: Seriously ? What the Hel-

Diavolo: ?

Mc: Heck... What the Heck.

*Cuddling with one of the brothers*

Mc: It's so nice, I fell like I'm in heav-

Mc: ...

Brother: Fell like ?

Mc: Nothing.

*Some day after*

Diavolo: It's just me or MC change their sentence at the last second ?

Lucifer: I noticed the same thing

Solomon: *laughing*

Every one else: ?

Solomon: Oh nothing. It's just a human problem.

*In another room*

Solomon: Hello MC.

Mc: Oh my fucking God. Oh Jesus Chris. For the love of God.

TELL ME HOW TO SWEAR, SOLOMON!

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tsukii0002 · 5 months

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Barbatos and Mc are drinking tea in some place in the Demon lord castle.

Mc: *getting very close to barbatos*

Barbatos: ?

Mc: *whispering to him very softly* I swear, if you turn out to be Nightbringer I will open holes in random parts of your room and fill them with families of rats.

Barbatos: *paling*...

Mc: *sipping a sip of tea* Mmm delicious as always.

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