shout out to my husband who saw the news about contrapoints accusing her ex of copying her and immediately absolutely unironically assumed she is talking about james somerton
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the schizo 4chan conspiracy about contra and philosophy tube is real and this is all the confirmation I need.
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my hot take is that copying your gf's style is a normal white woman thing to do
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Join me on the path to Twilightenment
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I missed contrapoints so much
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"noncon fantasies are a way to imagine the fulfillment of the desire for sex, while disavowing that very desire"
yeah sure, great theory, for many it is! but what about those of us for whom it is not the sex we want at all, but the violation itself? i dont have hypnosis sex fantasies for the sex, but for the hypnosis! i dont have forced sex fantasies for the sex, but for the forcing! many of my fantasies do not involve sex at all, but do involve some kind of deep violation.
the claim that people only fantasize about rape to cope with the shame of wanting sex has always felt so alienating to me. im not ashamed of wanting sex. i dont especially want sex. what i want specifically is something i do not want. i want the pressure, the alarm, the confusion, the dissociation. i want that stuff actually, not in a thinly veiled play-acting way as a precursor to sex. if it doesnt actually feel like a violation, i dont much like the sex.
it's just so frustrating to me when people act like nobody genuinely just has dark desires, that its all just a thin ruse to cover up an interest in vanilla sexual activities. some people do that sure. but us actual fetishists do exist.
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Anyways, fuck Contrapoints. :)
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I love you Jenny Nicholson I love you Sarah Z I love you Contrapoints I love you hbomberguy I love you Quinton Reviews I love you Quinn Curio I love you CJ the X
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the new contrapoints video truly has everything. a detailed examination of 'problematic' fiction and sexual fantasy as a concept (and practise). natalie listing fanfic tropes. all my favourite clips from hannibal. hbomberguy namedrop. interpretations of twilight that literally made me gasp out loud. a tangent about the marquis de sade. male elephants.
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pov youre watching the newest contrapoints video
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