i'll never understand people with adhd who are like "well it comes with its struggles of course but at least it helps me hyperfocus on my passion, its like a superpower", like good for you for being the chosen one but my adhd makes me play tetris for 5 hours straight without any bathroom breaks while a rotation of the same 3 shows ive seen a bajillion times is running in the background
shout out to all my girlies who have a collection of stickers they like but will never use because once you stick a sticker it’s stuck forever and what if you change your mind or want it on something else and end up regretting everything but you can’t change it because you already stuck it and now it’s over and you don’t get another chance
moral of the story is i have commitment issues and stickers are hard
I wish I wasn’t so cold. I wish I didn’t feel repulsion when someone laid their hands or their love all over me. I want to accept affection without panic. I wish love didn’t make me feel like an alien. I want love to be something other than a foreign concept experienced by others with acceptance and through my eyes, and soul, with disgust.
Starker au where they both suffer from a fear of abandonment but Tony's trauma response is commitment issues and Peter's is to assume no one truly loves him and they spend years breaking up and getting back to together and driving each other crazy until finally Happy and Rhodey drag them to couples therapy so they can heal
The autistic urge to avoid all change, but having been forced to undergo a huge amount of change in childhood, so adapting (through trauma) to perceive “always changing” as the norm, and “permanent” and “static” as the change in routine.
You guys... I'm currently dating someone, but I think I'm gonna end it because I have commitment issues, and the relationship was pressured by our friends who are dating, so I never had a whole lot of feelings for him, I just felt bad saying no. Help me guysss