#combinations of passive aggressiveness and people not saying a thing because they can't participate. voice volumes too damn high
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Shout-out to everyone who survived a "fun" easter with the family
#fucking hell#it started with finding out my dad smoked in my car when I picked up my sister#who was equally dreading the day#my mum turns into the world's tensest and judgemental presence. worsened by my aunt#then hell for autistic people (of which there are multiple present)#multiple deaf people means one uninspired conversation that isn't interesting in any way.#combinations of passive aggressiveness and people not saying a thing because they can't participate. voice volumes too damn high#weirdass food situations. Very full table. so many smells.#this goes on for over an hour. wishing for literally anything but being there. soul crushing.#then you still have to sit in that room for 2.5 hours. it just goes on and on.#my autistic deaf dad physically looks like how I feel. my mum and aunt keep piling on top of him to demand his mental presence#i leave the room once (to get my phone to show pictures to my uncle) and am immediately followed upstairs by my mum#who demands I don't leave the room (What's next. following me when I need the toilet?)#me and my sister are so bored we start throwing paper planes and fake fighting.#Which amuses the bored and the deaf#but of course my mum and aunt have opinions and this is not allowed. only soul crushing boredom allowed#they complain to each other over it while aggressively doing dishes#finally it ends because my mum and aunt start insisting my dad should go to bed if he's 'that tired'. *sprinkle on some additional ableism*#still sitting through a conversation about allergies one of my sister's friends has. my mum preaching that people should take that seriously#(meanwhile i had to cook for myself for 9 years because when my allergies were really bad no one bothered to check if i could eat something)#me and my sister go sit upstairs to discover our mum has made things we care about vanish in her room#and made things appear that should not be there#I've washed the interior of my car and hope the smell will go#you think it's over after that. but woke up with the realisation that even more things have disappeared from my sister's room.#i can't remember a time when things left outside of my room didn't disappear#I don't know why we do these family gatherings at all. no one has fun on days like that.#the housing crisis isn't making these things easy. my sister is losing her place to live again as well#she'll go hiking for a month and then work on a campsite over the summer#maybe I'll go house sitting again. idk.#can't make commitments a few months in advance like that because I'll cancel everything the second Sparks announces anything important
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Hiya! If you still have room in your "Party 🎉" , I would like to join, please? Thank you! 🥰
5 of your positive qualities:
- good listener
- helps others find the silver lining in their storm clouds
- creative problem solver
- genuinely cares
- supportive
5 of your negative qualities:
- gives unsolicited advice
- can adopt a know-it-all attitude around insecure people
- prideful
- lazy
- messy
up to 5 of your likes:
- intelligent
- disciplined/self-restraint
- sense of humor
- responsible
- "manly" whatever that means ...?
up to 5 of your dislikes:
- a flirt with no real feeling behind his words/actions
- superficial or cares only about status/money/looks
- yandere/possessive to the point of controlling her every choice.
pet peeves:
- passive aggressive
- jokes about things that actually bother him, but then follows up with "Just kidding!"
relationship deal breakers:
- "negging" and similar emotional manipulation
- giving his girlfriend a derogatory nickname like Dummy, Silly Girl, Simpleton
- pretending to cheat on her to make her jealous so she'll pay attention to him
(optional) up to 3 wild cards of your choice:
- I love me a strict Dom, but I also appreciate a man who respects a woman's autonomy and gives her agency. It's ... difficult to find a combination of that in these games. 😅
- I adore glasses and nerds.
I'm not entirely sure I understood what you meant by wild cards, but I hope that makes sense? I've never participated in one of these asks before. 😳 🙈
Hello!
Haha, you were just in time <3 Also, no worries, there's always first time for everything. +Wild cards can be just anything you deem relevant, so ey, that worked well.
From the thoughts diary...
"manly" whatever that means …?
Wonderful question, but we are so not ready for that discussion. Especially not at the time I am writing this. (Do not check the timestamp, and do not translate it to my time zone...)
giving his girlfriend a derogatory nickname like Dummy, Silly Girl, Simpleton
Ah, yes, I recognise the first one and the last... Who is that in the middle, though?
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I suppose it'd be fair to say that just about any character could work with that. As such, let's focus on the negative qualities! First of all, I'd probably lean towards characters that'd feel comfortable voicing their discomfort. I'd be problematic if they bottled things up, and up, and up, just because... Well, because what?
That brings me to another possibly defining characteristic: may they have their pride too. They should consider themselves worthy. It'd help prevent them from getting swept in things.
Emotional honesty may be appreciated, or at least emotional literacy. I presume they should have brains, but shouldn't act as if they ate all skull jelly too?
+Integrity.
+Hmm... Sense of purpose, sense of direction, level-headed, possibly more realistic than idealistic, respectful; supportive, but not suffocating. Possibly somewhat protective?
As a side note, if you were able to look past the nickname, you may want to consider trying out some of more recent Chevalier event routes. I think that what you described in your wild card may align rather well with some of them, although admittedly, it made me think of Forever with My Beast story event route in particular.
Suggested characters: Nobunaga (IkeSen), Mitsuhide (IkeSen), Theo (IkeVamp; maybe?), Leon (IkePri; maybe?)
... I also have a feeling I can't quite decipher that says Sasuke may be it as well.
Weekend Party
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