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incognitopolls · 2 months
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austin-meowers · 9 months
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iamaqueerbitch · 4 months
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80sdragonbreath · 3 months
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LGBTQ+
It's finally come full circle.
Today I read a post that confirmed it for me, but first I'll need to give some language lessons, as the terminology used has gotten complicated and unnecessarily specific to the point (I think) of absurdity.
L=Lesbian G=Gay B=Bisexual T=TransVESTITE, and Transgender (later addition) Q=Queer (not fitting into any of the above) +=Something that does not fit into any of the above above ....there's more but that's already too much
Cis= Cis-gender = the gender you were born with Het=Heterosexual Cishet = Cis-gender, Heterosexual (i.e. most "normal" people)
Fluid = genderfluid = your feelings change from moment to moment Aro= Aromantic (i.e. not romantically inclined) Asexual= Not interested in sexual encounters Aspec= Not fitting neatly into any of the aforementioned "not fitting in" categories (so that's THREE "not fitting in" categories)
So here's what the post said (paraphrased):
"Aromantic and Asexual CisHet Men ARE LGBT!!!"
Okay, so let's unpack that: Aromantic - i.e. men who aren't romantically inclined, which describes most men I've met; Asexual - i.e. men who have no interest in sex (almost all men over 50, and any man directly after sex).....are LGBT.
So pretty much ALL straight men are LGBT.
You heard it on Tumblr first. The LGBT community have mainstreamed themselves so much it literally doesn't mean anything any more.
If you're human, you're LGBT. It's nothing special anymore.
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plutonianwolf · 5 months
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cishet sounds like some old religion god name.
Like you just chant
ᓭ⚍ᓵꖌ ᒲ|| !¡∷╎⍊ᔑℸ ̣ ᒷ !¡ᔑ∷ℸ ̣
and boom some eldritch being named cishet rises from the floorboards and takes the form of a stereotypical dad from the 60s
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cazort · 6 months
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there are many different reasons to allow cishet people into LGBTQ spaces, but one of the biggest is the fact that the most vulnerable LGBTQ people out there are the ones who are closeted and deeply immersed in far-right, anti-LGBTQ subcultures, and if you exclude cishet people, you nearly always also exclude these people.
these people often have so much internalized negativity, they can't even admit to themselves that they are queer, let alone admit it to anyone else. a lot of these people, if they come into LGBTQ spaces at all, will only do so as "allies". they often won't even admit that they're questioning to themselves, and certainly not to another person.
if you exclude cishet people, you will make these people less likely to ever come to your group, to ever read your material on social media, to ever get exposed to ideas that will help them understand and ultimately accept themselves as-is.
if you mistreat or direct negativity at cishet people in your group, you will outright exclude many such people, and the ones who still come will feel uncomfortable and might not come back, and if they do, they might feel like they are "not queer enough" and fall into a conundrum of feeling pressure for "performative queerness" that they are unable to perform because they are in a deeply homophobic and/or transphobic subculture which would come down hard on them if they did this.
no. we can't do this. the only path to helping these people is to include all (supportive) people in LGBTQ spaces. cishet people are always welcome so long as they are being supportive allies. the criteria for inclusion is not your identity, and not whether you "perform" or "display" queerness in any way. the only criteria is that you are a respectful supporter of the group, you could be a member or an ally, who cares? we don't need to know, we won't ask. you can choose to share if and when you feel like it, or not, either way is fine!
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twinkdrama · 6 months
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white abled cishet men at any opportunity they get: im a jaded teenage boy. i have been through shit that you wouldnt even dream of. you think your life is hard? try asking the cutest girl in your grade out in the middle of the cafeteria only to find out she has a fucking boyfriend. you dont know my life or my story so keep my name out of your nasty mouth. life is a battlefield and it looks like i have already won.
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psa: people are allowed to experiment with their gender expression without making definitive statements about their gender identity :)
let people tell you what/who they want to be perceived as rather than prescribing it for them. this includes if people want to identify as cishet despite not strictly adhering to conventions and norms.
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ryanyflags · 3 months
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ciscelian/cislian | cisaric/cisric (symbol) | cisaric/cisric (plain) cishet/cistraight | cisrian/cisdian (1) | cisrian/cisdian (2) cisbian (1) | cisbian (2) | cisbian (3)
ciscelian/cislian - cis cenelian (nln version of turian/lesbian) cisaric/cisric - cis duaric cishet/cistraight - cis het/straight cisrian/cisdian - cis turian/veldian cisbian - cis lesbian
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Some cis orienation flags. These are based off of my trans orientation flags, and my alt cis flag (though I mainly just used the cool grey colors from there, and not the full colors).
I made these with queer cis people in mind, like cis nonbinary, cis trans, cis intersex, etc. They're made to be inclusive. Though someone doesn't have to be those specifically to use these flags. Anyone who's cis in any way can use these.
(I also didn't even realise when making the flags that I made a cishet flag too lol, I was just following the trans- set I made. Though I think it's still a good flag to have because people can be cishet/straight and still queer, like people who use multiple labels in addition to cis and straight. Or "contradictory" labels if you will. So think of this as a inclusive cishet/straight flag :)
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scretladyspider · 7 months
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Asexual and aromantic people are not “spicy straight trying to be special LGBT” or “straight invaders”.
This argument asks for performative queerness, then ignores the inherent queerness in asexuality and aromanticism.
If being non-queer is being allosexual, heterosexual, heteroromantic, alloromantic, and cisgender, all at once, then a person only needs to not be one of these to call themselves queer if they want to.
Cishet isn’t the inherent opposite of queer.
Aces and aros are often lumped into cishet as a way of delineating “not queer”, regardless of other factors. This asks for specific, unnamed perimeters to be met for aspecs to be recognized as queer.
This happens in ace and aro spaces too. Cishet is used often as shorthand for “not queer”, directly pushing away aspecs who may be cishet and also ace and/or aro.
Asexual is enough.
Aromantic is enough.
Angled aroaces and oriented aroaces are enough.
The reality is there is no way to “perform” queerness that is satisfactory to all who demand it.
If someone else’s queerness makes your idea of queerness more complicated, that’s not a bad thing. Learn from that, and let them be.
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fitstud · 2 years
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str0yberries · 3 months
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Guess who broke up with their bf? This girl right now. I should really stop dating CisHet, I'm noticing a pattern.
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daakureisaiko · 1 year
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emelinet · 3 months
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so when are the Well Meaning Cishets gonna figure out that ya don't need to say "people who identify" before referring to a gender. you can just say the gender. its that simple.
what i mean is that you don't need to say "a support group for those who identify as women". just say "a support group for women". and if you want to make sure that people know it's trans inclusive, just say that!!
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iamaqueerbitch · 3 months
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Idiots. Firstly, even if it was rude, it would be a "cisphobic" word, not heterophobic. Secondly, cis does not have a history of being used to shame people. And finally, cis is a proper term, like transgender. It's not a slur, it's a fact, and I'm tired of people trying so hard to be oppressed.
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dimitrippy · 11 months
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I HAVE A POLL FOR CISHET MEN IF THERE ARE ANY CISHET MEN LEFT ON TUMBLR PLEASE PARTICIPATE IN THIS POLL
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