if you wanna fuck butches but you're not gonna tenderly care for them then you don't deserve them
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“Women and non-binary people” stop. Do you mean people with marginalized genders? Do you mean gender-oppressed people? Then say that. Stop refusing to recognize the very much gendered oppression of other trans people. There’s not some chasm of difference between how our oppressors treat a very masc non-binary person and a more binary trans man. I’m also non-binary and very much oppressed for my gender but because I’m transmasculine I could never feel comfortable in a space that marketed itself like that. Tell me what the real harm is of letting gender-oppressed mascs into spaces discussing gender oppression is. Because the consequence of not doing so is denying them space for their experiences just because of their gender identity. Do better.
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as a bisexual with a complicated gender identity, i just think that's so sexy and intellectual of me actually. if you are also a bisexual with a complicated gender identity just know we should be sharing a nomination for a nobel prize rn.
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crowley and aziraphale are canonically not cis and their relationship is canonically queer and based on a combination of their aesthetics and respective roles in the relationship crowley is butch and aziraphale is his femme thank u and goodnight.
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Pro tip: to drive a butch mad, open the door naked and drag them in by their belt loops.
May result in being unable to walk.
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blows my mind that there are femmes that don't compliment their butches
you're telling me you don't butter them up to see them blush?? you don't make them feel like the most loved and cared for butch in the world?? you don't flatter them and cover them with kisses until they can't stop smiling?? weak
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stop equating femme lesbians to feminine lesbians challenge
and fucking stop treating us like them too
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It's like we all collectively forgot as a society that friendship and just connection in general takes effort. Even if you meet someone you immediately click with, it takes hanging out about 20 times (!) to become friends. And guess what, some of those 20 meetings might be awkward or unimpressive.
We all want to reap the benefits (having a friend circle, having a partner, getting married) without doing the work (going to events, interacting with people, learning to handle conflict maturely, dating). Myself included. If I could, I'd never leave the house or go on another mediocre date again... except, that's part of the process.
I guess what I'm trying to say is, the cure to the loneliness epidemic is touching some grass and building tolerance for tedious in-person interactions.
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uh oh.... lesbian chef love triangle..... 😳
[image ID: five images of digital drawings featuring three chef characters, k, kiri, and margot. k is a big buff butch with tan skin and a bowlcut, kiri is an average height butch with light brown skin and long curly brown hair, and margot is a thin short androgynous femme with tan skin and brown hair in a braid.
in the first piece, k leans over margot sauvely as she talks to her, and margot stands stiff and sweaty. the following image is detail crop focused on their heads, with the text "she's so tall..." next to margot.
in the third image, kiri stands behind margot to tie her apron, saying, "your apron's coming undone, margot. here, I'll fix it for you. we don't want you looking indecent in the kitchen, now do we?" next is a detail crop with a red circle drawn around kiri's hands with the label "big hands" and a red arrow showing margot staring at them.
the fourth image is a three panel comic page that shows k pinning kiri to the wall by the shirt, getting all up in her face and saying, "don't test my patience, kiri-" to which kiri tugs at k's shirt and coolly replies, "damn, k, I haven't seen you this worked up in a long time. you must reeeeally like this girl, huh? got a big ol' crush? reality check - we don't even know if she plays for our team, chef. besides that, you haven't been particularly friendly with anyone since you and me, have you? if you're feeling rusty I could help you with a little practice." end ID]
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Butches who lose themself in how good they feel fucking you and start fucking you harder are god's favorites and also her gift to dykes everywhere🥴🥴🥴🥴
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