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vintagemadmoiselle · 1 month
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IG: Jastookes
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itsdespicablebre · 6 months
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If we were on MySpace would I be in your top friends? Or whatever it was idk I never really had a MySpace lol
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nsaint1 · 1 year
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hot girls love autumn 🧸🍂 | fall mood board’22
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graceandopulence · 5 months
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Hot Girl Walks
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swankyahbri · 8 months
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So modesty is now something that I admire and it took forever bc as women, we’re often taught that showing our bodies off and wearing provocative clothing is “eMpOwErMeNt”. When in reality is just another way men get to get a view without having to commit, surpass our standards, and treat us with respect. When you think abt it, the world only encourage women to dress this way and if you do the opposite then you’re a “prude”, “a slave to religion” or even “that you’re insecure”
It’s sickening 🤮
Modesty is a beautiful thing.
Modesty is sexy.
Modesty is how you treat others.
Modesty is your mindset.
Modesty is your speech choices.
Modesty is your clothing choices.
Modesty is even how you treat yourself.
Biblical modesty is beautiful.
Men should be modest too.
Modesty isn’t boring.
You are much more than the skin you choose to show.
Don’t let others tell you ladies otherwise 🩷🤝🏾
Luv y’all 🫶🏾🫶🏾
*if you don’t agree, scrolling is free 😘
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I literally want to be her ☁︎⋆˚☆˖°
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ghettoeloquence · 10 months
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Black Femininity.
Let’s talk Black femininity: a hidden gem that seems to be within blurred lines.
Disclaimer: For me to “investigate” black femininity properly, I have chosen several beautiful black women who sport natural hairstyles/protective styles, natural bodied, and has a creative essence that envelopes them. These women are glamourous, soulful, eclectic, and beautifully flawed. This makes them no different than you and I. Finding the unique in our natural beauty, and those that sets us apart. Quite frankly, this, to me, seems as if it’s the root and/or epitome of the beauty around the world. The golden standard amongst most.
Hello to you my glamourous ladies!
This discussion will be about something I’ve recently found interesting. So apparently, in today’s society (or to specify, the male-i-sphere), there is a discussion about the level of femininity that black women have in contrast to other races/ ethnicities of women. Now, I’ve spoken about submission (a biblical concept) in a worldly discussion and like always, it’s taken out of context. Or in other words perverted, like the devil does everything God creates. The world has been speaking down on black women for seems like forever but my issue is with black women. 
I find it really disheartening to see you accept this notion, let it sink into your mind, and become subservient to it. This is not us! We are the epitome of femininity and the origin of humans. Show some dignity, ladies (ouch, but needed to be said)! Believe me, I become furious when I hear what everyone says about us too, but we CANNOT, for the life of us, ingrain everything someone says about us. 
HOWEVER…
Lets get something CRYSTAL clear…
FEMININITY IS NOT INHERETLY EUROCENTRIC. 
FEMININITY IS NOT STARIGHT OR CURLY WIGS.
FEMININITY IS NOT DRESSING A CERTAIN WAY.
FEMININITY IS NOT SPEAKING SOFTLY OR A HIGH PITCHED VOICE.
FEMININITY IS NOT WEARING PINK AT ALL TIMES.
FEMININITY IS NOT APPEARING WEAK.
FEMININITY IS NOT APPEALING TO THE MALE GAZE.
FEMININITY IS NOT IN COMPETITION WITH OTHER WOMEN WHO ACT/LOOK DIFFERENT THAN YOU.
FEMININITY IS NOT ACTING ALL GIDDY AND BUBBLY AROUND MEN.
FEMININITY IS NOT BEING AN AIRHEAD SO THAT MEN CAN DO THINGS FOR YOU.
FEMININITY IS INNATE IN WOMEN ONLY!
If you as a women thing all these things are false, I got some bad news for you…
Black Women this is a wakeup call to realize that there is femininity in our own culture. There is femininity in our own hair. There is femininity in our own traditions. There is femininity in our own history. I hate to see black women who change or “tweak” themselves to appear more feminine (which they assume is the appearance of European women). Why do you think that femininity is inherently European? Why do you think that you have to wear your hair a certain way or talk a certain way to be feminine? Are you not enough already, as a Women? 
To me, this just sound like racist talking points regurgitated, twisted, tweaked, flipped, reversed, and spinned again. Why are you so comfortable portraying yourself this way for the sake of acceptable “femininity”? Why are you so comfortable telling the black female youth this madness? Who told you that femininity was a look? Don’t worry Ill wait…
This may hurt but darlings we must be honest with ourselves. If we like this “aesthetic” then cool but who lied to you and said that femininity is based off Eurocentric standards?
Here’s the truth: FEMININITY LOOKS DIFFERENT FOR EVERY ETHNIC GROUP.
How does Latinx femininity look? Polynesian? Asian? Middle Eastern? Continental African?
So why on earth are you so adamant on accepting your own femininity and embracing its uniqueness? I don’t blame you though because I’ve been there. I thought the same as you. I felt how you’ve felt. This has been ingrained in our minds since childhood. But were furthering it at this point. 
Let’s look at some of my favorite examples of what Black femininity looks like.
Thoughts?
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chicagosfinest2021 · 2 months
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Face 2 cute and body 2 thick 2 B stressed.
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geishainthemoonlight · 6 months
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[ M I A M I T H U R S D A Y S ]
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vintagemadmoiselle · 25 days
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IG: dananozime (via IG Stories)
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itsdespicablebre · 1 year
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My name ain’t Fran but I sure am Fine ❤️
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What's your favorite place that you've traveled to and why?
Putting pics of my Italy trip down below 🇮🇹🍋❤️✨
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graceandopulence · 5 months
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pinkelegantbeauty · 1 year
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