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hyperfixation-tangentopia · 6 months

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So adding stuff to my Wishlist because it's nearing Christmas time and was struggling to think of ideas when Mother mentions making a separate "safe" wishlist for Grandpa

Which makes me remember that I'm in a place that won't judge or question my choice to wear anything pride-related anymore and proceed to add all the pride clothing to my Wishlist that I want <3

(For context, Grandpa prior to earlier today(still confused as fuck about it) refused to call me by my chosen name + would just. Not use pronouns for me. At all.)

#I need new clothing anyway #more shirts #and my half-brother is literally the safest space I have for this stuff even though he doesn't understand any of it #also he keeps giving me dating tips upon finding out I do like girls #it's really funny imo but also oddly actually decent advice??#and doesn't understand a bit of any of it but he also straight-up told me #“you shouldn't have to compromise on your identity to make me comfortable”#and I'm just #gonna cry??#because I genuinely think he's the only person I haven't compromised on my identity for because nobody's ever?? said that???#anyway uhh moral of the story my half-brother cyber bullies me but is awesome #and I'm going to scare my Grandpa with pride >:3 /hj #tw transphobia #transphobia #transphobia tw #nothing heavy but y'know #also technically Grandpa doesn't know I'm gay but I think. I think I'm making it obvious at this point.#so. y'know.#also to be clear Mother was making her own safe wishlist she wasn't pressuring me to make one #in case that didn't come across #anyway I'm getting pride shirts eventually whether it's now or later #I want to be openly queer I want to wear this stuff I haven't felt comfortable to #I want to be the kid that has too much pride stuff (okay I have enough other stuff pride stuff will literally never catch up)#I've been downplaying it a lot and I just got comfortable throwing queer headcanons at characters I deserve a trans shirt or 5 #y'know #as a treat #okay ramble over sorry lol

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