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venlo · 1 year
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you can't tell me I'm wrong
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walk-in-the-wood · 2 years
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that-local-punk-kid · 8 months
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my girlfriend, recently diagnosed as autistic, have always hated going to the supermarket
today, a month after her diagnosis, was the first time she used headphones to block noise while she was out
suddenly, things were not as scary and overwhelming
that's a post to share her joy and how proud I am of her for taking care of herself (she tends to forget she deserves kindness) and also to remind fellow neurodivergents that it doesn't matter if it looks a little dumb or different or if you "dont really need it to function", if it helps you, it helps you, and you can allow yourself to take care of your own happiness
this is a post for all neurodivergent, but especially low support neurodivergents, as they tend to sometimes ignore the things that bother them
I love you all, and pls interact to spread this love, and every little stuff that makes u proud of yourselves or people u love
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rizzemwiththetism · 6 days
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I told my girlfriend that my friend diagnosed me with, quote, “mega autism” and she loved it so much she’s now going around saying she has mega autism
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grvstnaya-svka · 4 months
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Y’all I found my emo autistic gf to match my emo adhd ass self she’s perfect 😍🥰
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TRAs are trying to keep you from having a cute chubby autistic tomboy GF
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baphometaverse · 1 year
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ftmtftm · 8 months
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This isn't something I have fully articulated thoughts on yet but honestly? I really do think that transandrophobia and the way people who talk about their experiences with it are isolated is, in part, why transmedicalism existed (exists still? I'm very detached from that discourse now) as a primarily trans man/trans masc dominated ideology.
I'm going to share my own experience and I can only speak for myself here, but when I was a really isolated late teen/early 20-something dealing with a lot of unresolved trauma re: my assault (that happened as a result of me coming out as trans to an ex), some immediate family's reaction to my transition being "well why can't you just be a masculine woman", and frustration about not being able to medically transition yet combined with the mid-2010's pressure to be a non-threatening feminine soft boy, I got sucked into transmedicalism.
I do want to be upfront and recognize a lot of my feelings at the time were a trauma response and projection. I recognize this now but I had no resources to recognize that then. I just want to make it clear from the start that I know my own thinking was flawed, that's why I'm reflecting on it openly so others can potentially recognize something that resonates here within themselves and grow.
Getting back into it though- I felt really triggered all the time in general trans spaces because of that 2010's culture. I felt pressured to be feminine or a woman in trans spaces online, just like I did around my ex or at home. I didn't want to undercut my masculinity or manhood for other people's comfort, especially not for other trans people who I felt should've understood. In contrast to this though, transmedicalist spaces and the trans men within them DID actually offer the support I was asking for. I was actually given space to talk about my assault and the pressures I was experiencing with a bunch of other trans men/trans mascs who understood it for the first time, ever really.
The idea of "there is a medical explanation for gender dysphoria that can be treated with medical transition" was also really comforting to my traumatized mind that kept thinking "if I'm open about my assault someone is going to accuse me of just being traumatized and not actually trans, if medicine is on my side I can prove them wrong" Which - let me be clear again - was a very traumatized way of thinking. I do not think that way anymore thanks to therapy and cultivating a healthier relationship with my body and gender and transness. I was not the only trans man with a history of assault that felt this way in the transmed community at the time though.
And I'm not justifying any of this ideologically right? Like. Transmedicalism is fundamentally flawed and incorrect in many of its ideas about sex, gender, and gender identity. Many people who believe in transmed ideology spout some absolutely horrible, transphobic bullshit on the regular and often align their ideology with conservatism and TERFs. I'm not here to defend transmedicalism.
What I am saying is this: It makes sense that a group of ostracized individuals who felt like they had no space to express their traumas would cling onto transmedicalism because it was the only ideological community giving them space to talk about it. Hate movements thrive on preying upon those kinds of vulnerable, traumatized people.
I'm just thinking about a lot of the friends I met via transmedicalism back then and now they're all either TERFs with a lot of repressed trauma and internalized transphobia that I've since cut off completely or they had a similar realization to myself and discovered their attachment to transmedicalism was rooted in trauma and a desire for trans masc community, addressed it, and now they live much healthier, happier lives.
I'm losing steam fast thinking about all of this because recounting trauma takes a physical toll on one's body BUT tl;dr I really do think if we had healthier spaces to address trans male/trans masculine traumas within the wider trans community via conversations about transandrophobia back 5+ years ago we wouldn't fully be here now wrt: how large transmedicalism became as a movement. I genuinely think I wouldn't have been sucked into that space if there had been more resources and space to talk about the experiences I was having, all of which are things people naming transandrophobia are trying to address in healthy manners.
I think healthy, open, conversations about transandrophobia in wider community spaces can do so much good to protect people who were in vulnerable positions like I was and can absolutely potentially prevent more people from getting sucked into the false support offered by hate movements within our own community.
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greenflamethegf · 9 months
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I love neurodivergent friendship that is nothing but sending the other person anything related to their special intrant. "Oh you like bunnies, alright I will send you every thing bunny related that I see "
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wingedog · 6 months
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A page o Fords 🕺🖊️
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stifledfire · 5 months
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i miss having someone to slap my tits until they hurt to put in a bra
🫧34, nb, bi, 18+, fat fetishists dni🫧
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aranciu · 1 year
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i am soo normal about the trailer
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that-local-punk-kid · 9 months
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me, to my gf: are you biting my arm???
gf, not looking at me and with my arm at her mouth: *shakes head like a dog holding a toy, lightly growls*
me, slightly amused: alright then, go off I guess
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punkeropercyjackson · 22 days
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It's canon that Jason Todd can only be attracted to people who're willing to stand up to him and hates the idea of sex without love and i feel someone needs to tell the DC fandom that
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jasontoddssuper · 8 months
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When a female character is in love with a male character who's a huge weirdo and thinks he's super cool and charming,that's code for her being autistic btw
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briarfangs · 2 months
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They’re trying to guess skizz’s build and if. You know anything about skizz and builds. Good luck (:
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