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Try not to take other peoples reactions personally. You never know what a person is experiencing that changes their perception. Their apathy, disinterest, nit picking, etc. is more about them than it is you. Take a deep breathe and try to move past it.
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xekstrin · 3 months
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When someone asks a followup question to your world building, sometimes they are legitimately confused (“sky whales? As in whales that fly?”) and sometimes they are eagerly on board and want to know more (“so cool! Are they still filter feeders? What do they eat?”) and sometimes they are smugly docking points from your story because cinemasins-style critiques have unquestionably polluted a lot of good faith readings of texts (“so what do they eat? Are they still filter feeders? *ding*)
If you are bad at reading tone, or don’t know the asker very well, it can be very difficult to tell those three apart. This can make a person very guarded, especially if it comes across as unsolicited critique.
I’m not saying “so if someone is rude about your questions, GET OVER IT,” but it might be prudent to check in first beforehand, and clarify what you’re asking and why, or if the creator is open to being prodded. And if they aren’t, maybe respect that. Or people might think you’re being a dick. One out of three odds is pretty significant.
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is-the-owl-video-cute · 6 months
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https://www.tumblr.com/hotvampireadjacent/731711141796085760
Is Kaiju Tegu ok? People get so bad with Tegu care
I’ve never cared for tegu so I don’t have enough information to comment on if something is or is not safe for them other than “please don’t leave groceries where your reptiles can reach them because reptiles don’t always choose edible to reptiles items” since that’s just a general rule of keeping any animal free-roaming in your home.
I haven’t kept up with that blog since they decided to tone police me in a very rude and condescending comment so I don’t really have much to say on the person or the lizard here.
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bluespring864 · 3 months
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omgggg sorry i worded that too harshly i think but i said that from a perspective of a fellow nole fan 😭❤️ i was talking about how sinner said “he missed for 2 sets, i felt like he wasn’t feeling great” i think with having all the records and slam record it’s gonna be hard to motivate himself in the future i already predicted from last season. maybe he needs to face nadal again to really wake up that always does the trick. sorry if it came across as unkind i wasnt trying to be im too pessemistic rn because his level was unbelievably bad today 😭
lol. some fan you are if you lose faith after one bad match 🙈 yeah he did play badly today, but i wouldn't be too alarmed. he was injured going into the tournament and was sick at the start, he can't always pull off a miracle...
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owlf45 · 3 months
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Sorry for being shippy but… does dabi like, like-like hawks in imaginary? Or is it a “i pity you moderately good looking bird” situation?
ill be fr, i've never gotten to the part in the anime/manga where dabi and hawks interact. i might joke around with them and if i ever catch up on the series, we'll see how it goes from there
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sashimiyas · 1 year
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#tw discourse#i’m gonna say an unpopular opinion once and then be on my way again#sometimes i see something on here that makes me upset and then i think#‘i really need to be on here less.’ but then i realize… i rarely use the app as it is#but writers love to say ‘we don’t get paid to write. we are not machines.’ all valid points#bc entitlement is frustrating. bc this is meant to be a community of natural engagement and interaction#i want to specify Natural#bc i see those same writers bash their followers for not like rbing or commenting#as if they are getting paid to follow the author! and that isn’t fair either#writers ask for grace when they are going through writers block or a difficult episode in their life#and our followers cannot ask for the same? sometimes we do not feel like reading. and let’s admit it. not every post will be a banger#and that should be fine too. no one should be guilted to interact with anyone#and i think my whole discomfort with using this site lately is how every interaction is being policed#like do we not assume good intentions anymore? can we not assume that someone is rbing without tags but will put something in later#when they do get a chance to read it? or that they are liking because they want to read it but just dont have the time yet?#anyways. i’ll probably come back to delete this#but man. anyone who follows me. i want you to know that i will do my best to never try and make you feel bad for choosing how to interact#with this blog. outside of not responding to my inbox bc that’s just been difficult for me lately.#please have a comfortable experience and go about this stupid little hellhole in peace#don’t feel coerced to interact with me unless you want to. don’t apologize to me for not having reached out to me in a while#it’s okay. please have your fun in any way you want#i say this bc before being a writer i am a reader
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sonknuxadow · 4 months
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sorry for being a little hater about shipping again but people thinking that silvaze is canon is like peak cishets being unable to see a boy and a girl have any sort of positive interaction without automatically assuming theyre in love
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stygicniron · 7 months
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ariesbilly · 8 months
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Sometimes I read a post on this website and I just KNOW it was either written by a child or someone with a severe victim complex like please grow up and get some perspective
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quinloki · 16 days
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Hello there day 2 of requesting can you please do a Yandere Whitebeard pirates react seeing the Black Titanic (oc crew), with like 22 teenager kids, get like new scars or injuries on their bodies every single time they would run in to each other
The Whitebeard pirates adore the Black Titanic pirates, so how would they react if they saw new visible scars and new injuries on their bodies?
Considering I haven't gotten a request from you recently, I have to assume you've sent this to me by accident, because this is most decidedly not day 2 of you requesting anything from me ^^;
My requests aren't open either, so I can't really help you.
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badolmen · 1 month
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I’m being so brave about it. <- enough annoyance to poison the sea, beaching whales and washing the shores in millions of rotting fish
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shaxxophone · 2 months
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Are there many people in the world who are just generally unkind and don’t have the best interests of others at heart? Yes.
Will I keep assuming the best of every single person i meet until proven otherwise? ALSO YES!!!!
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benjamoomin64 · 3 months
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I don't wanna accuse #FinancialFeminist of trying to launder the landlord economy but CNBC deciding to frame her choice to rent as a savvy business move rather than the obvious choice based on the cost of buying a home being inflated absurdly beyond belief certainly is A Choice
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mgs3dickeater · 5 months
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#i very rarely talk about stuff like this because i tend to be a very personal person on social media but#ive only really just realized that i guess its true most people will let things fade away on purpose if they dont deem the friend important#and that theyre not like me and will be happy to jump right back into conversation after not speaking for years#ill do anything to keep a friendship and im starting to think thats a problem? that its abnormal?#i dont know. ive always been the one reaching out to try to rekindle something. and after so many turn downs and no effort to hold#conversation i really dont have much of an option to assume that its being done on purpose#believe me im really not the type to immediately assume negative intention in fact quite the opposite#which again... i cant really ever tell when im unwanted versus just feeling unwanted#i think the worst thing is that looking back on conversation i wasnt always the best friend. not the best conversation partner#so then naturally ive got to be like... well... youve made your bed‚ i suppose#its really funny how many times in my life ive found myself thinking 'i really wish i had the insight back then that i do now'#unfortunately it was hardly ever a conscious decision i ever made to act like that. but saying i didnt know any better feels like a cop out#i really did try to know better‚ though. growing up felt like violently clawing my way into trying to understand anyone and everything#i dont know. a lot to think about
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aceoflights · 8 months
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I really dislike the attitude of "why didn't you tell me earlier" when it comes to coming out
1. there can be many reasons
2. a queer person does not owe you anything, even if you are close
3. THIS IS NOT ABOUT YOU
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zjofierose · 7 months
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