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#asking for help
matzahstein · 2 months
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OFFERING REDUCED MUSIC COMMISSIONS!!
$30 for a 0-2 minute song!
$60 for 2-3!
$90 for 3+ minutes!
Hello, I'm Joan! I am a musician with both self training and classical training influences and just about two decades under my belt.
I got my start playing live instruments, many of which I consider myself excellent at now, and made the transition into digital music production about 9 years ago! I still live record as well.
SAMPLES:HERE
MUSIC I CAN MAKE FOR YOU:
Theme songs for OCs!
Theme songs for DND sessions!
Theme songs for just about any story or idea you have!
Background/AFK/Intro & Outro music for streamers and youtubers!8-16 bit retro sounds for game projects!
Battle songs! Calm lofi! From breakcore and triphop to even classical!
And everything in-between!
Here is my KOFI for any support.
You can message me for any questions!
Anything helps! I am struggling to afford bills and food.
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hel7l7 · 2 months
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I'm afraid you'll leave when you see me at my lowest
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akindplace · 1 year
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You don't have to tolerate pain in silence to prove strength. You don't have to carry all your problems and hurt alone. Admitting you're in pain is not the same as admitting defeat. It doesn't make you a quitter, it doesn't make you weaker, it makes you human.
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furiousgoldfish · 5 months
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everyone: ask for help when you need it! don't try to get through everything on your own when it's too much!
me: asks for help, is immediately rejected and scorned for asking, feels worse
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zee-rambles · 1 year
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Once you start, it’s hard to stop.
First I Prev I Next
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my-autism-adhd-blog · 7 months
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Autism & Asking For Help
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Lil Penguin Studios/Autism Happy Place
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capricorn-0mnikorn · 5 months
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I've come to hate the phrase "learned helplessness"
So often, it's used as a form of victim-blaming whenever someone says: "I can't do this."
"Yes you can. That's learned helplessness. You're just not trying hard enough."
'Learned helplessness' is like the 19th century religious commentary on 'weak moral fiber' rephrased in the jargon of 20th-21st century psychology.
Every time I hear 'learned helplessness,' I want to ask: "Okay then. Who the hell was the Teacher?!"
9 times out of 10, at least one of them is the person saying "Try harder."
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wobblydev · 2 months
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I need help...
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my spouse and i have were made aware of this bill quire suddenly today. our landlord sprung it on us and we cannot afford it. we make just enough to live, this will crush us. we have until the 8th of march to pay.
i will draw you a commission of your character, or blorbo or oc or fursona or anything. if you can't afford to help, i know we're all in dire straits right now, it would mean the world to me if you could reblog this post.
https://ko-fi.com/wobblydev <- i will draw for you or you can just send a dollar, it will help.
i am sorry to do this to your dashboard, i know tumblr isn't the place where posts like this actually do anything, but this is the only site i am on. you are my community.
solidarity forever and thank you to anyone who reblogs, shares, donates or commissions me.
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shrcker · 3 months
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Hey
I don't currently have a permanent home and have been looking alongside someone else in Ohio. I'm unemployed right now and not sure when I'll be able to work again and highly doubt I will ever get unemployment benefits. Because of that, I do need to ask if anyone would be willing to please tip so I can keep paying for my phone and food. It's by no means required and I really don't want to guilt trip anyone, I just need to make sure I can get through these next few months. Thank you.
If preferable I also have a kofi: https://ko-fi.com/shrcker
Edit: In class now for programming which will take a while but should at least help me get a job. Not writing anymore due to stress but could still use support considering I'm still just looking for any job. We have an apartment pinned down, the only thing stopping us from moving in is getting a job, so literally just gambling to see if I can get one at all every day. Please help if you can, I might be okay soon but I need to make sure I can feed myself till then too.
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batrogers · 1 month
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Headaches
[Wild & Hyrule, hair-care, soft comfort, very G-rated, ~800 words]
Link sat at the edge of the river they were using for baths and fought down the urge to scream. He pulled down the messy bun at the back of his head and even that felt bad. He’d started putting it up a few days ago, when he could tell it was starting to get matted again. There’d been too many people around, and too much to do to really sit down and take the time... and last week had been a bad one, where he had headaches and fatigue so strong raising his arms had been too much.
One thing after another after another, and now he had this rat’s nest to undo...
He still wasn’t feeling all that much better.
If he were home, he’d just go find Zelda. He wouldn’t even have to ask her; she’d just look at him and gesture for him to sit and take care of it, like she had after he freed her from the castle. It was good for her too, she’d said. She found it grounding, and she liked taking care of him after everything that had happened since...
He had a comb. He’d gotten his hair wet. He even had the fucking horse shampoo with him, but the task felt so daunting and someone was going to walk up on him and...
Someone did walk up, but, in the way he always had, Hyrule just waved one hand and cracked his neck before stripping and dropping into the water without a second look. He didn’t even seem to notice Link’s messy hair. His was never a mess, as far as Link could tell, although it was shorter. He thought about cutting his hair (for likely the hundredth time since he’d woken up) and...
He couldn’t do it. He didn’t want to pretend to be someone he wasn’t, and if he looked like he used to again –
Best not to tempt fate, and his own hollow mind.
“You okay, Wild?” Hyrule asked.
“Do you know what the others are up to?” Link asked, rather than try and answer.
“Sparring again.” Hyrule yawned. “I didn’t sleep well, and you know what Twilight and Warriors are like.”
They’d be busy for an hour, Link thought, and looked at Hyrule again. They were pretty good friends, and he’d always been nice. And his habit, of studiously avoiding any note of his hair was...
Hopefully he was right. “Hey, Rulie?”
“Yeah? What is it?”
“Could you help me with my hair?” The words almost strangled him to say. He couldn’t say much more than that, but he didn’t have to. Rulie looked up, startled, then just nodded.
“Oh? Yeah sure. You’ve got a comb and stuff – what’s this?”
“Horse shampoo,” Link said, and reconsidered: the stuff they’d heard about his Hyrule was worse than his sometimes. “You have seen shampoo and stuff, right?”
“Usually I just used, uh, nothing great.” Hyrule laughed. “Zelda’s got better stuff at the castle, although I’ve never had anything to do with the stables. What happened?”
Link could feel him pulling his hair back and carefully picking at the ends. It was a bunch of little tugs, but nothing too painful. One particularly sharp pull left him flinching and Hyrule grunted an apology. He didn’t repeat the question. It hung, quietly between them as Hyrule slowly worked his way through the tangles one bit at a time.
“Was your hair ever this long?”
“A couple times,” Hyrule admitted. “When I was really young, mostly. Some of the ladies in the towns would sit me down and help when it got really bad then I was living with Zelda and they helped me keep it short.”
Link grunted his agreement there. That made sense, and he hoped that was why he was being so nice about this. If he’d had a hard time with his hair before...
Admittedly it sounded like Hyrule had been a literal child, but. Still.
It was something.
“...I didn’t want to ask if you were having a bad time,” Hyrule said, eventually. “I figured you’d let us know when you needed help.”
Link swallowed. “Normally Zelda helps me with it. It was just a bad week. I’m okay. I had a headache.”
Hyrule hummed another few notes then and Link could feel the comb going from almost the nape of his neck down now, the tangles slowly unravelling under his hands. They weren’t done; there was still a ways to go, but the gentle strokes felt good. The tug and pull tingled in a good way, and Hyrule poured more water from a jar over his head.
“Turn your head?” He murmured, and Link closed his eyes and did so.
By the time the others had finished sparring and caught up, Hyrule was brushing his hair through the last few times, perhaps a few more than necessary but Link had no wish to tell him to stop. His headache was, finally, gone, and he could just enjoy a few moment’s rest.
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guarddogdyke · 6 months
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hi dyketumblr not to be a beggar on main but ya girl kinda goin through it
i’m a jewish transfem butch lesbian college student in my last semester and, as a result of both chronic pain and long-term mental illness making it hard to get a stable job, i’m in a bad spot financially. i’m hoping to both live on my own and actually start transitioning soon, so i’m trying to find a good stable source of income, but at the moment shit’s rough and i’ve already got a couple bills coming up fast.
my vmeno is $unfoundobjects, and literally anything helps, and will be deeply appreciated, and if you can’t help financially, boosting the post is just as appreciated❤️❤️❤️
if you send me anything, please let me know so i can thank you personally❤️
(and also if you know any wealthy older women in need of companionship, please let them know, i like to think i make for good company❤️❤️❤️)
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positivelypositive · 6 months
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if you've ever...
...helped someone out of the goodness of your heart, then know that it is just as okay for you to accept help too.
did helping someone make you think less of them? if not, then extend the same kindness to yourself.
asking for help only makes you self aware and open hearted. let yourself get the help you need, without judging yourself ✨
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roebeanstalk · 4 months
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$19/$150
Hi hi!! I owe my roommate for utilities & would really appreciate any help at all. I've been pushing job applications and even had a couple interviews, but still haven't heard back yet even with follow-ups.
kofi - roebeanstalk ca/shapp - $clawshot
shares always appreciated, thank you so so much everyone
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akindplace · 1 year
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Needing help is not a moral failure. Nor does it mean you have failed anyone or anything, not even yourself. You don't owe it to anyone to be independent and strong all the time. You're a social animal that lives in a community based on thousands of years of cooperation. We evolved as a species because we could count on each other. If you don't have someone you can count on right now, please try to reach out to new people. Just because someone never cared doesn't mean someone else never will. People want to help, they like to help, we were built by nature to help each other. You're not a failure for reaching out to family, friends, to a specialist. You're human in that sense. You don't have to be anything more than human. Don't self-isolate because you believe people won't love you if you need a lot of help.
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zoeylectric · 6 months
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Heyy, living with disability really sucks, and making money while in a bad living situation to boot feels downright impossible.
Well, I'm asking for donations so I can visit my girlfriend for the very very first time! I can't do it on my own, and being able to escape, even for a little, and see her would mean literally everything to me. Every little bit helps
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