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chainmail-butch · 20 hours

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As a transwoman in explicitly trans spaces I get treated like a wasp in a cup.

For example, I went to a speed dating event the other day. I'm pretty good at talking with people and dating apps suck. The venue had hosted other queer dating events including a sapphic event, which I had explicitly avoided. I did not want to roll those dice. But recently they held a T4T event which seemed like a much safer prospect.

I get there and its me, my roommate (transmasc, moral support) and my roommate's friend (transmasc-ish, also moral support). Apart from us there was one transwoman, one transman, and 3 AFAB NB Lesbians. Not a confidence inspiring turnout.

I spent the event making pleasant conversation, but as time went on I noticed that only the other transwoman and transman had really treated me normally. Everyone else was pleasant enough that I didn't fully suss out what was wrong until my roommate noted that they had all seemed a bit transphobic towards me. After that the pieces fell into place.

I can only assume its the masculine gender expression tied to the possession of a weapon (cock). I wasn't overly forward. I talked about a theoretical pet alligator, archeological digs, wind chimes, and architecture that I enjoy (Byzantine domes). Perfectly mundane and engaging topics. But I was treated like something unsightly. A task to be gotten through.

It hurts to show up to the event organized for people like me and still be excluded. I had avoided every other event for precisely this reason. I still found myself ostracized. This is not the first time this has happened.

I know that most of the people who follow this blog are cool. Believe it or not I've vetted each and every one of you.

You shouldn't need to be told this.

Address your internal biases. Please.

#transgender #archive

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sientemefragil · 1 day

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vivrosita · 2 days

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Babe, i want your E-mail, more! ﹡ ֗ ۪ ✿❀ ʢ-̫͡-ʔ͏⠀ ⸻̸ㅤ ꫂ ၴႅၴ

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furtillas · 22 hours

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Miseria Angelical.Mp3 👚♥️

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ikealamps · 2 days

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look at him please. EVERYONE PLEASE LOOK AT HIM | apr 6, 2023

#jared mccann #seattle kraken #archive #**

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ioluxe · 1 day

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#𝒾𝓍 oᥙꙆᥱ ♱#mgg #matthew gray gubler #criminal minds #spencer reid #matthew gray gubler gif #criminal minds gif #archive

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wip · 1 day

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Boop! I have a question for you, that I have asked before but have never seen addressed, so apologies for bothering you about this again:

Will the ability to use the archive come to the IOS app at all in the future? I really like having access to it in order to create master posts and look at old posts. Thank you in advance!

Answer: Hey there, @fandomsareforlife!

Maybe someday! Sorry, we understand this is not the answer anyone wants, and while we can say we like this idea, we can’t promise much more beyond that right now.

Thanks for your question, and please do keep ‘em coming. And don’t forget, you can catch bi-weekly updates for new features, and for bugs we’ve resolved, at @changes.

#feature #archive #iOS #app

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br1tt1an1 · 2 days

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P1NK 🩷🖤👊🏾

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americonica · 6 hours

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My must I always post

#me #Archive #digital diary #me coded #litterally me #books #aesthetic nightstand

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thembow · 2 days

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photo by muhammed muheisen

#palestine #photography #jerusalem #beauty #pink #prayer #culture #archive #swana #femininity #fashion #styling #glow

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chainmail-butch · 4 months

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One time I ate probably way too many mushrooms and I could feel my trip going bad. So, I turned to my roommate and I said something along the lines of,

"I feel amazing but I feel like this sensation has a price and I'm about to pay it."

To which he responded, "What are you, catholic?" And that knocked me so firmly out of my mental state that the rest of the trip was hands down the best time I ever did mushrooms.

#Don't decide to suffer just because you're feeling pleasure #archive

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sientemefragil · 2 days

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