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To those before, and to those after. To us now, and to those beyond. Seen or unseen, here but not here.
THE MIDNIGHT CLUB | Season 1
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Hello !! I hope you're having a good day!
Can I please request a Daniel Ricciardo X Reader Instagram thing, but can it be platonic??
Like just imagine being childhood besties with him, and now you work with him as his Assisstant or something, getting to travel all over the world together!! And the chaos that the friendship would have too :D
Also the face claim can be the one requested from the Lando thing? I don't remember her @, but the face claim was so so pretty 💕💕
Tysm :)))
here you go! its set in 2022, and there is slight romantic lando x reader. hope thats okay with you!
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daniel3.jpg Smileys
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f1fan isnt that the girl that lando is dating?
↳ dannyfan yess! shes childhood best friends with daniel, and is his assistant, thats how her and lando met
↳ f1fan ohh okk thanks!
landonorris whose the girl in the fourth picture?
↳ yourusername idk shes kinda hot
↳ danielricciardo @.landonorris stay away from my bestie
mclaren 🧡
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yourusername te amo sao paulo
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prettyyn SAO PAULO IS LUCKY TO HAVE Y/N
danielricciardo you're supposed to be assisting me. not posting on instagram
↳ yourusername you're supposed to be driving. not commenting on my instagram
yourfan oh to be y/n
danielismylove its the way she was best friends with daniel and now this is her life. why wasn't i best friends with a f1 driver
landonorris pretty girl
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danielricciardo when @.yourusername gets lost in london and you have to spend 3 hours searching for her
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yourusername i didnt get lost. i was just exploring
↳ danielricciardo why did i get multiple calls from you explaining that your gps wasnt working and that i had to come find you
↳ yourusername i wanted you to join me and be the boots to my dora
yourbff you promised you wouldnt lose her. next time this happens im taking her back
↳ danielricciardo HOW IS THIS MY FAULT
↳ yourusername @.yourbff is right. this is all your fault how could you let me go exploring on my own
↳ landonorris YOU LET HER GET LOST?
↳ danielricciardo i give up
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yourusername a series of events that occurred the day daniel found out that lando and i were dating. he claims it was an accident.
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danielricciardo i don't like what youre insinuating
↳ yourusername its not my fault im right
↳ danielricciardo YOU CANT BE MY ASSISTANT AND HIS GIRLFRIEND AT THE SAME TIME
↳ yourusername watch me
ynfan I DIDNT REALISE THAT THATS WHEN DANIEL FOUND OUT THAT MAKES SO MUCH SENSE
ilovedaniel im obsessed
landonorris my nose hurt so much that day mate
↳ danielricciardo you deserved it
landofan1 OH MY GOD LANDO'S FACE LMAO
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yourusername ive known you for as long as i can remember, and you've always been the best friend anyone could ask for. from the moment you let me try out your go kart till the moment you won your first grand prix, its been an honour to support you. the opportunity to travel the world with your best friend doesn't come along everyday, and ive never been more grateful.
i'm not very good at being sentimental, but for what its worth, you have all the love in my heart. happy birthday danny.
on a more serious note, he wet the bed till he was 10, pass it on.
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danielricciardo thank you ❤️
danielricciardo you were gonna make me cry until i saw that that last line. for everyone reading this, y/n had (has) the biggest crush on seb.
↳ yourusername dammit. and thats a lie, do not believe him.
↳ landonorris babe... seb? really?
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For A Greater Good Fun Facts and Self Assesment (spoilers)
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What worked and what didn’t:
I think the overall structure worked pretty well. The most difficult part was, with the plot and subplot already created, scattering all those ideas throughout the text in such a way that at least made some sense. I regret not writing more about Mer Yankelevich, I feel like the crumbs I left on the way were not enough; in my attempt to make it subtle it lacked information about her. The key piece was of course her sister, and I should have introduced her sooner.
MC’s evolution. I feel like Kate’s learnt a lot with this experience (I’m not only referring to the Deathly Hallows or Grindelwald) When it started, she was very discreet and kept a low profile, not knowing what to do really, not taking more risks than necessary. And then she ended poisoned and splinching just to protect a document she thought was important. I hope her evolution is noticeable for the reader.
Worldbuilding. Grabbing HP concepts that were forgotten and full of potential, plus a dash of original ideas from me and blending them with muggle features was my absolute favourite part of the process.
On that note, I dont own these concepts: Durmstrang, Igor Karkarov, Nerida Vulchanova, umbrella flowers, fanged geraniums, billywigs, Appare Vestigium, glow-worms, trick wand, chamaleon ghouls, 
If you’ve read the fic and thought: “everything happened so fast” or got a general odd feeling about the timeline it's because I made a series of  monumental mistakes: setting a chapter limit, telling you about it and then tried to stick to it.  At first the idea sounded nice: this is my first “big” story  with complicated components. I should (and I did) do an outline of what I want to happen in each chapter and stick to it methodically so I don't forget what's happening or lose track of the plot. Well...it kind of backfired. So I wrote the first 3 chapters and at that point I thought “okay everything is going as planned, I’m going to put it out there”, bam, instantly cursed. After that it got ridiculously difficult to make the story that I wanted. Why? I needed chapter space that I convinced myself I couldn’t add. Dumb.
The major consequence of this was the lack of character backgrounds. It started out good, but as I kept writing and publishing I realised that I missed some great opportunities to make amazing ocs. That’s Corentin’s fault in a way: he wasn't going to be a major character, really, just a piece to help Kate a bit. But we all fell in love with him so what was I supposed to do? Also, Sheyi Mawut owns my heart and he got just a bit of spotlight. A shame.
I wish I had written more about them, but I think I wasn’t ready just yet to make it even more complicated.I just wanted to prove I could concoct a mystery plot and now that I know I can manage a fair amount of information I think I can take it a step further and deepen new ocs a little bit more.
I’m thinking about the datura series and I know why I got blocked and tired of writing it; it wasnt going anywhere because I wasnt prepared, and I didn’t do the months of outlines and planning that I did with this one. I’ll come back to the datura story one day, subjecting it to a sever rewrite. The ideas are there, I just need to be organised.
Although the chapter limit was problematic it was also a good exercise of managing space and deciding which things were unnecessary for the story. I dont think there’s any filler chapters, perhaps the last ones, but there is important information there too so... However this sentence  from the blog  wordsandstuff reassured me (and I think I did a good job at that?)
If you set out to write 10 parts and you write a fantastic story in 8, you haven’t failed and it’s not too rushed. Concise writing is an underrated talent. Focus on how effectively you engage the reader, not for how long.
I spent more than year writing this! When I started, I had a lot of ideas, I wrote the last two chapters then the first 3 and I really thought it was going to be that way with the rest of the story... okay... lesson learnt. #humbled
Other thoughts:
I received a couple of comments on ao3 that said that they were pleasantly surprised. Maybe I should change the tags because they are misleading? Clearly this wasnt what people were looking for lol.
One particular comment stood out to me and quoting it said:  “You did not choose the easy way with a fiction with so few characters from the fandom.”  And I’ve been thinking about this since I read it. It didn’t occur to me that there were few mystery fics (maybe I should write more things like that? Maybe throwing some power couple detective work 👀 ) In any case, I’m glad  I contributed with something different to the fandom, and the fact that the Charlie bits are very scarce but people who read it still liked it is really flattering.
I wanted to make sure that all the characters had strengths and flaws, I didnt want to severus-snape them so maybe I overdid it with that bit of introspection kate does at the end...
Also, I did the kiss and fade thing twice to mention sex. I know some people dont like that but since it wasnt the point of the story and I havent done research on how to write sex scenes I didnt include them. I have that on my “to learn” list.
Conclusions:
Writing the whole thing was incredible. It's my first ‘big’ project and its not a great work (there are some things I wish I did better, thats what you get when you are an agatha christie wannabe) and not writing more character backgrounds will haunt me to this day,  but I think it's at least good for a first series and I’m proud of it. I loved spending hours doing research and trying to piece together this puzzle. And of course I’m not an expert and I dont want to sound pretentious (like this is my first story) but if you are planning to write this type of genre I can be another source of tips and tricks for you.
If I read the story after a while and I dont cringe, I would call that a success.
FUN? FACTS!
Bakunawa really belongs to Filippines mythology
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Snapdragons have different meanings, one of them being: “grace under pressure or inner strength in trying circumstances”
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The entrance to Grindelwald’s room was going to be in the duelling classroom, strangely shaped as a triangle. I had this system where one of the round candle lamps descended and lined up with a line on the floor (serving as separation for duels) it created the Deathly Hallows symbol. I couldn’t make that work because it wouldn't make any sense for Nerida Vulchanova to shape a room like that.  Here are some sketches:
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Lucius Malfoy was going to appear as the Ministry employee that goes to Durmstrang, but after revising the events of the OoP I realised it was impossible.
Kent Jorgensen was going to be around Kate’s age and the charms teacher and he would have a small crush on her. After seeing some pics of Pen Medina, I rewrote the character completely.
The series was going to be 6 chapters long (I’m glad I decided not to) one for each month. The chapter names were ridiculous: January of Beginnings, February of reputation, March of Students, April of Discoveries, May I? and June of Endings. #tragic
The Dolohov family was going to be a part of the plot but I had to erase that part because it was unlocking another layer of complexity that I just couldnt handle.
I dont remember exactly the chapter but I got really confused with the names Rhode and Hodges and there’s one chapter where I accidentally mixed them (I corrected it I think), but for a while I could stop calling Rhode, Hodges, and vice versa lmao
Here are some sketches that helped me describe and imagine things
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Thank you for accompany me in this journey, especially if you endured the process with me lmao. You’ve been here for over A YEAR! <3 Mindblowing
Also I’d love to know your opinions about the way you read the story, I mean, I know some people read it as I published, and some other readers found the story already finished, what are the differences? Should I stop the updating system and drop a story all at once? I know it is difficult to keep up with a complex story if there’s a lot of weekly or monthly gaps between the chapters, so I wanted to know.
Sending you a virtual hug 💜💜
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June 27th-July 3rd, 2020 Creator Babble Archive
The archive for the Creator Babble chat that occurred from June 27th, 2020 to July 3rd, 2020.  The chat focused on the following question:
If you could do your webcomic for a living, how would that change things in regards to how you work on it (if at all)?
Deo101 [Millennium]
I'd definitely put out more content, cause I could focus on it fully every day of the week.
Eightfish (Puppeteer)
i would probably start hating it and get burnt out
Deo101 [Millennium]
thats why I would also have to start another comic or do short stories on the side or something, too.
I would probably keep individual comics update schedules the same, I'd just do more comics
LadyLazuli (Phantomarine)
If it became a part-time job, I don't think anything would change. It kind of feels like that already. If I were in a position where it became a full-time job, I do dread how my relationship with the work would change. I don't think I could ever make as much doing comics as I do in my day job (which isn't crazy, but is comfortable) so I don't know if I could ever 100% transition unless it was really, really worth it It's something I've thought about a lot, for sure.
Cronaj ~{Whispers of the Past}~
In a way, my comic is my full-time job? I don't make very much money with it, but I do put over 40 hours a week into it, and I don't have another job. I am in the very fortunate position of having an SO who is able to support me financially while I try to get my footing with my passion. If I was depending on it for a paycheck though, the main thing that would change is my style would probably get simpler, because there is no way I can make enough pages a week otherwise.
Holmeaa - working on WAYFINDERS
It is really the dream to be able to do it! Right now I am unemployed, so I basically treat the comic as my fulltime job, until I find the next short project. I want to be able to work on it full time! In Denmark there are some cool possibilities to get funding from the government and I hope we can get enrolled with some of those programs with our comic.
I would also just love to do small videos, podcasts, animations etc. Small fun projects
Mitzi (Trophallaxis)
If I had to do it full time, I think i'd put a LOT more hours into learning how to paint, watching speedpaints, ect. It'd also make a huge difference in my living situation, as the first thing I'd honestly do with a full time at-home job is move to another city with cheaper rent. Another state, maybe! Oh, and I'd do a lot more promo work. posters and animations are fun, but they're not quite worth it with an audience consisting of two my writing partner's friends, and my older brother.
Shizamura 🌟 O Sarilho
the biggest difference, I suppose, would be that I would make a lot more pages, a lot faster. But I like it that it's been pointed that the relationship with work changes when you have to do things full time, so there may be some unpredictable variables there
eliushi [Keyspace]
For a living for me can mean many different things: able to sustain living expenses vs full-time. There’s overlap but one gives financial security meaning an element of creative freedom. The opposite end will probably entail working on other comic projects with the current one as a passion story on the side (no change but probably might not want to draw so much after drawing for work!) If we’re discussing the ability to do the webcomic full time without financial worries then I do believe my output will increase but also I will be dedicating more time to the craft (studying story structures, art directions etc) as well as marketing/joining professional associations/pitching/connections. There are a lot of career options within the comic world and I’d love to explore everything before deciding what’s best for the current story. Ultimately if I were to do this as a living, I’d treat it like any other job: a routine, a strive for improvement, and wellness to recharge. I follow several artists not only for their art but also their schedule/workflow to see what worked for others. It’s very interesting!
In reality though, I might work on smaller scale projects on the side to build up the experience and platform needed to tell the story of Keyspace. As a full time comic creator, I’ll be seriously thinking to covert the seven novel series into a hug comic project. So TL;DR if full time, I make more pages
varethane
I'm in an odd place with my comic because.... well, I sort of had an opportunity to spend all of my time on it for a few months, when I was in between contracts at work. But I found that I wasnt getting it done all that much faster than I did when also working full time
To be fair, it's kind of hard to compare my speed between the three periods, because when I returned to work after a few months away, it was after work from home had started and now I no longer have a commute, so perhaps my ability to squeeze comic pages into my free time has expanded.... but I feel like my attention span caps out around 8 hours on any single task
So I didnt work that much faster. But... I'm also bad at keeping track. I could be wrong.
Yung Skrimp (Carefree)
8 hours is a long attention span
varethane
It's not all in one go, haha.
eliushi [Keyspace]
I definitely have to take breaks between pages, whether or not I have just a few minutes to a chunk of hours
It’s about finding a balance that works for you!
keii’ii (Heart of Keol)
I don't think I could put more hours daily into my comic than I currently do. I have a chronic issue with my drawing shoulder, so my body won't be able to handle that much work. Probably wouldn't be great for my eyes, either. I also don't know if I want my livelihood to depend on how many people like my story. This story is a pair of custom-tailored skinny jeans for my heart (and I have an unusual body type, making it impossible to wear skinny jeans regardless of size). It's a story I want to read. It's meant to fit ME. I don't want to worry about how to also make it fit a bunch of other people.
That being said, some people do find themselves in a situation where they're making something they want to read, and a bunch of other people just happen to like it, too. I think that would be nice
chalcara [Nyx+Nyssa]
I physically can‘t draw for more than four, five hours a day, found that out the hard wayy
eliushi [Keyspace]
I most recently developed pain likely due to RSI and have made accommodations since then but yeah it was scary to think that I have a limit in drawing time. Gotta find ways to take care of yourself for the long run
cAPSLOCK (Tailslide)
I think if comics were my only job, I'd feel a lot more anxious about what I create, and would struggle to work consistently. Having another pursuit makes me feel like I have more freedom to experiment, learn, and make what I want to make.
Eightfish (Puppeteer)
That's a really good point keii
Would drawing a comic for a living push me to change it to have more mass appeal?
I don't know but it is definitely possible and would be on my mind
Joichi [Hybrid Dolls]
It is the dream, if I could get a decent monthly wage on my comic, yes I will dedicate more time, work out a better schedule. Get an editor and colourist on board to help make a polished series. Altho I'm still doing this method to build good working habits But I agree with Eli's point, have to assign days for breaks for myself to prevent RSI. At present I have a trained mindset to work on schedules, but I may feel the pressure to produce as fast as I could.(edited)
Desnik
Well, for starters, my comic would actually be released somewhere, so it'd be nice if it made something back for me
Miranda
I’d actually release it. And work on it regularly, instead of sporadically like I have been! I’d definitely be more critical of what I was doing, and probably way more anxious every time I posted.
keii’ii (Heart of Keol)
You know, when I was only like 6 years old, I was like "I don't want to be an artist when I grow up. I love art too much, and I don't want to burn out and stop enjoying it. So I'm gonna be a singer instead." I have no idea how 6-year-old me knew about burnout, but I definitely remember saying that in response to an adult asking something like "what do you wanna be when you grow up"/ "wow, you're drawing all the time; do you want to become an artist?"
sssfrs (JOE IS DEAD)
The more I do comics the more I think I want to do art stuff as part of my main career. I would love to make sequential art that's for science purposes
sagaholmgaard
Ah that would be the dream! I'd probably feel more secure in my ability to build up a backlog of pages, and be able to make more extra content for the PDF version! And more content for instagram and twitter as well
kayotics
If I were to be able to do comics full time I think it would completely change my current lifestyle. Not even money wise but I’d need to switch up a lot of things. Like make sure I get a good amount of exercise in. I’d probably add in another page a week, but then use the rest of my week to project manage the comic, and promote my work. I’d spend a lot of other time working on creating an online store, because I can’t see the comic working full time without some supplemental merch keeping me afloat. And I’d also use that time to create and work on another comic series I think.
Yung Skrimp (Carefree)
If I were to do comics full time I’d flex on everyone I know
Feather J. Fern
If I was able to do comics full time, be able to pay off debts, substain rent and food, and extra saved for small spluges, I will shove my comic in my family's face(I got a family who doesn't believe in me at all), dancing around screaming "I MADE IT IN LIFE" And then jump out the window because haha this can't be a reality because I don't think I will ever make it in comics. I will still keep my other job of working at a library and drawing on the side becuase I want working job insurance and also I am the type who wants to save all their money if possible(edited)
eliushi [Keyspace]
I was on board until jumping out the window
Yung Skrimp (Carefree)
I wasn't on board until jumping out the window
Now I am
Moral_Gutpunch
If I could do this for a living, I could do so much. I could afford to put my mother ina home, start my dream farm and start a bunch of conservation as well, I could help my husband fund his own sidegig, and I could afford to foster pets like I always wanted.
shadowhood {SunnyxRain}
Personally, if I was able to do it I would be a lot more invested in it. I would also make a lot less excuses as to why I'm not practicing as much; it took a pandemic to happen for me to dry taking it more seriously!
I think overall I might have been more happy.
On the other hand, there's also the danger of burnout, of constantly doing the same thing over and over again for me. I'm the type that needs constant change, so I think I'm more suited to having another occupation be my main profession while comics/art would be a secondary one, where I don't have as much pressure. Furthermore, it's also my backup plan in case anything happens to my main job.
Moral_Gutpunch
^ This. I'd be focusing so much more on comics. And I'd be expanding into more comics and writing more stories. I'd be happier I'm writing more, but more frustrated at writers block
Tuyetnhi (Only In Your Dreams!)
Man if I could do it full time, might be able to pull more page updates and actually get deep into doing some long term projects I had planned for years. I won't have much of an issue as long i can also do my zine projects on the side. also would be nice to have some job insurance too along with it lmao. the only danger that could take it away if I get incapacitated for no reason lmao
TaliePlume
If I could do comics as my full time job would be awesome! But all that focus would go only to the comic and nothing else which is bad because I would be neglecting a lot of things and not getting other things done.
AntiBunny
I'd finally be able to tell my whole story and start telling another. It drives me crazy that I have more ideas than I can pursue.
snuffysam (Super Galaxy Knights)
In terms of my actual production, I'm not sure doing my comic as a living would change much lol. I already spend upwards of 40 hours a week on it, I seriously doubt there's more I could be doing. So, earning a living off my comic would just be... one less thing to worry about.
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Anonymous said to enaasteria: August 28th 2017, 12:18:00 pm · a month ago Hey! Will you be finishing apartment 5108 anytime soon? I've read it like 4 times and still cry everytime. Looking forward to the other chapters!!
Chapter 16 going up in a few mins. There are about 2 chapters left and it’ll be done. Thank you for reading!
Anonymous said to enaasteria: August 29th 2017, 12:22:00 am · a month ago I just finished reading all available 16 chapter of Apartment and wow- I cried several times. This is probably one of the best fanfictions I've ever come across on this sight, and I'm very thankful that you've decided to share. Ahri's development as a person has been mind blowing, and I'm looking forward to seeing how Sehun grows as well. Are you planning on making this several more chapters?
Thank you so much! I’m so glad you like their character development and it’s something I truly love in stories. I love it when characters change and grow. It just makes them feel a bit more dimensional and real. About 2 more chaps after 16. It’ll end at 17 with an epilogue of sorts at 18.
Anonymous said to enaasteria: August 29th 2017, 12:23:00 am · a month ago ALSO Ahri finally choosing to give him another chance and deviating away from her parents? It was an absolute tear fest. Although did Sehun ever know that she was hospitalized because of her allergy?
I know right!!! Honestly, it’s one of my finer writing moments. I love little things that relate to each other hahaha. And yes---Soi prob told him or yelled at him is more like it.
@sehunsmile​ said to enaasteria: August 29th 2017, 12:55:00 am · a month ago I just started re reading Apartment 5108 for the third time, i never get tired of your story!!!
Thank you babe! Thank you for your support and encouragement!!
Anonymous said to enaasteria: August 29th 2017, 8:54:00 am · a month ago i love apartment 5108!! i honestly love long fics and yours is like SUPER LONG PLUS it's quality content so that makes me very happy :))) thank you for working so hard on it! i can't wait for the next update <33
Thank you so much for reading and yessss this fic is so long. I tried to shorten it but it just didn’t work. I know you love long fics but writing them is true suffering at its best.
Anonymous said to enaasteria: August 29th 2017, 2:16:00 pm · a month ago You've become one of my favorite writers. A group of my friends and I from St Lucia have decide to meet up to read the last chapter of Apartment 5103 once it's posted. It's captivated us since the very beginning and we look forward to its completion and to be able to continue supporting your brilliant writing from a far 💞
Where were you when I visited?!?!!?! I’m so upset now T_____T Let me know how your meet goes bc the final chapter won’t be posted for some time. I hope you enjoy 16 in the mean time hahaha
Anonymous said to enaasteria: September 9th 2017, 2:55:00 am · a month ago Nothing you write can ever be a mess 💗 don't stress too much over the chapter, or even at all really! You do it for your enjoyment! 💗we care more about you than a chapter
You’re so kind to me. Thank you so much for your gentle words and I’m so glad you enjoy this story!
Anonymous said to enaasteria: September 10th 2017, 4:53:00 am · a month ago Hi!!! I super love your writing!!! Especially Keepers!! I hope you update soon!!! Thank you for sharing your talent!!! <3
Keepers is such a favorite! I can’t wait to go back to it and write the 2nd chapter!
Anonymous said to enaasteria: September 10th 2017, 5:05:00 am · a month ago DAMN GIRL YOU PULLING MY HEART STRINGS THATS WAS SO GOOD WTF OMG I LOVE YOUR SEHUN FANFIC
ThANK YOU SO MUCH??!?!?!?! I’m so glad you love it and please read 16 with low expectations. i’m kinda fkdsjfklsjflksdf about it. T___T
Anonymous said to enaasteria: September 13th 2017, 8:56:00 am · 23 days ago Hello ena! been stalking your tumblr every day since the last time you posted the latest chapter of Apartment 5108 which is chapter 15. Actually I got a lot of things to write but this is all came out from my mind now haha! You are currently my most favorite author 💞 your writing is so good, you inspire me to write better tho. For the past 3 years, I dont have enough courage to post any of my story but maybe soon? kkk. Oh last but not least I hope you can get out from writer block soon 😉
THANK YOU. I’m so glad you enjoy this fic and it’s so nice of you to say I’m your favorite author---LIKE WHAT IS LIFE. I don’t know how to handle these compliments but I’m so happy you love this story and please read 16 with low expectations. I’m kinda nervous about it and hope the flow is okay. T_____T
Anonymous said to enaasteria: September 19th 2017, 4:43:00 pm · 17 days ago I think I just finished the best Sehun fic ever, and is apartment 5108. You have no idea how beautiful and pleasing was for me to read such an amazing work. Thank you for share your talent, thank you for make me fall in love whit Ahri, Sehun and their story, thank you for touch my heart with your words and make me cry like a baby at 3 a.m wen I have to go to colege at 7 haha I found it last night and just finished the 15 part and I loved it SO MUCH! I hope your inspiration have no limit. Love u
OMG. WHAT A BLESSING TO READ THIS MESSAGE. I’m so happy you love this story. I can’t even begin to fathom my gratitude to those who read and enjoy my words. I’m also nervous when posting a chapter and I hope 16 doesn’t disappoint you. T___T
Anonymous said to enaasteria: September 22nd 2017, 5:32:00 am · 15 days ago Your fav fanfics??
I don’t read many fics but this is my fic rec blog! https://enaeolus.tumblr.com/
Anonymous said to enaasteria: September 25th 2017, 2:26:00 am · 12 days ago hi!! just wanted to ask where you’re at with apt 16? like how many words have u written(i’m sorry if i’m not supposed to ask i dont know if this is rude or not) but i love your apt series, it’s a blessing to mankind 💕💕💕💕
It is 18000+ words and I kind of want to die from writing it all. T___T
Anonymous said to enaasteria: October 6th 2017, 1:58:00 am · 16 hours ago hi, i just didn’t know how a fic would affect me so hard as much as apartment 5108 did ㅠㅠ tbh reading the 1st few chapters i thought it wasnt going to be really angsty but then i got to the later chaps and IM A WHOLE MESS!! i started this fic at around 2am and ended at 11am so you can tell i really had no sleep and i even ditched class!! thats how hooked i got into this fic. you made it so emotionally relatable and the imagery you projected was very vivid that i got lost in it! Cant wait for 16
AHDSFJJFSLDF THANK YOU. I know right. It was kind of a slow build up of angst which is what I love. It’s like you don’t feel the pain creeping up until it’s like..THERE LOL. AND NOOOOO WHY DID U SKIP CLASS T____T I’m so sorry this story made u miss class but I hope it was worth it??? HAHAHAH Thank you so much for reading and I hope you enjoy 16. 
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Austin Texas Cheap car insurance quotes zip 78714
Austin Texas Cheap car insurance quotes zip 78714
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I am an 18 year old male. I got a ticket for going 10 over about a month ago and got it deferred a week ago. I am on my parents insurance and I pay about $100 a month for insurance. Tonight, I got a ticket for going 17 over on the highway. The first ticket was $124 and the most recent ticket was $174. Help me out here haha, how ****** am I? Also, is there any way for my parents to not find out?""
""Is there any health insurance programs, other than Medi-Cal or Medicare to help the nearly indigent in Calif.?""
Is there any health insurance programs, other than Medi-Cal or Medicare to help the nearly indigent in Calif.?""
How much is insurance on a motorcycle?
tell me your sex, age, location and cost per month. i live in baltimore, md""
How can I lower my car insurance rates?
I'm 17, and got a car a little over a month ago. My car insurance (with Gieco) is $250 a month. My mom's is $100. I'm on her plan, or something. I never took drivers ed (and with two jobs, school full time, and online classes, I most likely never will). I do have all A's though, does anywhere give a discount for that? I've got no tickets or accidents. Please help me find something cheaper!""
How much is car insurance a month?
I am a female 21 yrs old that lives in Buffalo,ny. I wanna know how much per month will I have to pay for car insurance and if anyone suggests any car insurance companies for me.""
Saving up car + insurance HELP !?
My partner is having driving tests every week, and she is a more advanced driver. I just like to get advice on this matter, financial ? I do got a job, part time mainly. I do earn around 180 +- a week if I am lucky, She has student loan, 800 every three months and that's not much since she has to pay university fees. normally around 9k. now it's around 4.5 thousand pounds I guess. She wants to get a car insurance and a car, we are troubled what to do since if she wants all of that it will be loads more. Since insurance is 600 pounds every year ? petrol and other costs MOT. Road tax ? Just some examples, there might be lots more to worry about. I will help her to get all these things, She thinks it would be easier to get a second hand car, that will hopefully handle 2/3 years ? I do not believe that's a wise choice since that would be much more expensive for extra costs and repairs. On top when she is done with Uni and she has to get a job, it's more sufficient to still owning a proper car to get you everywhere. The body could be damaged, and the chance of a accident is higher + extra costs. Can anybody help us out ? A second hand for 2/3 thousand with a insurance of 600 a year ? or not ? Lemme know ! Thank you !""
Car insurance more expensive for men?
I'm twenty five and looking to get my first car, a small 1.3 Nissan, anyway i checked the insurance and it costs 3250 for one year, that sounds extortionate, no? I then went back and done a quote for a lady driver who just turned eighteen January just gone - it would cost 1750. Is that not sorta wrong?""
Car insurance question. UK only please?
Me and my husband went bankrupt in NOV 2010 (long story) and basically, the things like car insurance and cable and internet and energy companies were fine as there were no credit checks as we were already with them. But now we have had a car insurance quote from our company to renew in mid-May, and it has gone up from 37 a month to 60 a month. So firstly, I wonder if the bankruptcy may have affected this new quote? And also, if we try and move to another company, will our bad credit caused by the bankruptcy and home repossession make companies refuse us? I don't see why, as our credit score is irrelevant to our driving, and we have never made a claim in the 20 years of driving, and have many years of no claims bonus. But someone we know said some companies may refuse us car insurance! Help anyone? Thank you.""
What is insurance like on an 02-05 VW GTI 1.8t?
I'm not looking for exact rates, just trying to get an idea if the insurance will cost more than normal because it's turbo. How would insurance compare to something like a 95 Accord EX 4 door?""
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San Antonio Texas Cheap car insurance quotes zip 78293
San Antonio Texas Cheap car insurance quotes zip 78293
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Im 18 and learning to drive, obviously the insurance is ridiculous so i was wondering what everyones costs are and what kind of car they have, also what would make insurance cheaper because i dont understand how so many kids can drive with such costs.""
I give my dad my whole paycheck but he hasn't been paying my car insurance?
I am 22 yrs old and live at home with crazy, controlling parents. I work part time and go to school full time. I have no credit, etc etc so they make me live at home and go to school nearby. My job (which is with my mother) recently cut my hours down to part time, but I was lucky because they laid off many people. I get paid around $450 every 2 weeks. My parents are constantly crying about money and I closed out my bank account so as to give them my full check with the understanding that they would help pay my student loans and car insurance. I got into a car crash where I was rear ended and I was the driver, so I received no fault. One month later, I was rear ended AGAIN and again, no fault because I was not at fault for either accident. It came out that I HAVE NO CAR INSURANCE and that my dad was not paying for any insurance because I am not even listed as a driver! I also have no health or dental insurance! (He is a psychiatrist, a doctor, and makes decent money. My mother is a social worker) So now since I have been in 2 accidents and no insurance, my dad won't let me drive and either he or my mother drives me to both work and school. However, they pay for my brother to go away to college and his health insurance, phone bill, and car insurance without question. When I ask why they won't put the car in my name and give me insurance, they say it would be $4,000 a month, which I know is very far from the truth. They also say they are working on getting me car insurance, but the accident occurred over a month ago. How long does it take to get car insurance so I can drive myself places?? What is my best course of action in this psychotic situation?""
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Pickup Artists Preyed on Drunk Women, Brought Them Home, and Raped Them
How a San Diego woman discovered details of her rape on a pickup-artist blog—and fought to bring her attackers to justice.”>
*Warningthe following article contains a graphic depiction of a rape.
Alex Smith and Jonas Dick considered themselves part of the elite.
The two men were instructors in the community of pickup artistsmen who obsessively study and practice methods of meeting and sleeping with as many women as possible. Some men in the community say pickup is about self-actualization, and finding meaning in their lives.
But according to San Diegos district attorney, Alex and Jonasboth 27 years oldare predators and the pursuit of their art has led to the rape of multiple women.
In what may be a first for the pickup community, the two menalong with their student, 28-year-old Jason Berlinwere charged in 2015 with the rape of a San Diego woman. Jonas and Jason pleaded guilty to the charges; Alex has maintained his innocence, claimingcontrary to Jason and Jonass sworn pleasthat the events of that night were consensual.
The investigation of the San Diego charges not only uncovered another victim of Jonas Dicksa 16-year-old girl for whose rape Jonas also pleaded guiltybut suggested the possibility that many more victims could remain unidentified.
Jonas received eight years in state prison for the two rapes; his student Jason faces a maximum eight-year sentence. Both will spend a lifetime on the sex offender registry.
Meanwhile, Alex Smith went to trial last week, before a jury of 10 men and two women. (At an emotional jury selection, the majority of female candidates said they couldnt remain impartial at Alexs trial, citing a personal account or relationship with a woman who had been raped under similar circumstances.)
Alexs defense lawyer, Samantha Greenea charismatic former deputy district attorneylaid out her clients case in opening statements, taking the line that the woman (well call her Claire, though thats not her real name) had consented and now regretted it. This case is about Claire being embarrassed, not rape, she told the mostly-male jury.
For years, feminists and bloggers have lambasted pickup websites and blogs as echo chambers for misogyny, criticized their techniques as de facto harassment or assault, and called the groups leaders advocates for rape. But pickups thousands of fans and followerswho congregate with other anti-feminists in the online space known as the manospherehave roundly dismissed that criticism as blue pill thinking (a reference to the Matrix). In contrast, pickup artists and others in the Mens Rights Movement think theyve swallowed the red pill and can see through the evils of a politically-correct society whose supposed goal is to kill what remains of the worlds masculinity.
From 2011 to 2013, Alex Smith, Jonas Dick, and Jason Berlin congregated in pickups corner of the manosphere, indoctrinated themselves with the teachings of their pickup artist heroes, and contributed to its chatter in a series of concerning online blog posts. But its what they did with that ideology in the real world thats now at issue for a San Diego jury.
CLAIRES RAPE
On a Saturday night in October 2013, Claire, then 31, went out with her friend, lets call her Laura, for a girls night out in San Diegos trendy Gaslamp Quarter.
They were having a good time. At Analog, a bar advertising good food and strong drinks, Claire ordered a glass of champagne, then a Fireball shot, followed by a pear cider, while Laura drank vodka sodas. They ran into a bachelorette party and took another shot, a cactus cooler. After several rounds, sometime around midnight or 1 a.m., the women left and crossed the street to a different barthe Tipsy Crowfor two more drinks: a lemon drop shot and a cocktail.
Just what Claire drank that night, at what times and in what quantities, would become the subject of intense scrutiny over the next three years; her state of drunkenness was at the heart of the states argument as well as Alex Smiths defense. The prosecution says that Claire had been too drunk to consent to sex, Alexs defense attorney says she couldnt have been that drunk.
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Claire was tipsy, then slightly tipsier, as she remembers it.
When the bars closed for the night, Claire and Laura shuffled out with the rest of the crowd onto Fifth Avenue. They called an Uber, and as they waited, they were approached by two men, Jonas Dick and Alex Smith.
Jonas and Alex were no strangers to meeting girls on that street at that time: they referred to two in the morning as pull oclock because of how easy it was to bring home the last women leaving the bars. They invited Claire and Laura to their place for drinks. It was only a few blocks away.
Claire says she doesnt remember meeting Alex and Jonas. She remembers stumbling and someone with a receding hairline pushing her along, leading her to an apartment building. She remembers being in a semi-furnished bedroom on a mattress without a headboard. Someone giving her a clear drink. The sip she took didnt taste like water, maybe it was alcohol? Before she could think about it, she was falling backwards, and thats when she says it all goes black.
What occurred in that bedroom over the next hour runs in and out of Claires mind like waves. As she testified in court, she can feel the bed beneath her, coming to for a moment, and vomiting on the floor. She hears oneor is it two?male voices, mumbling like the adults in Charlie Brown before it all fades away again.
In another part of the apartment, Laura was sitting and chatting with Jonas. On the way in, Laura saw a man named Jason Berlin, lying on a makeshift bed of pillows on the floor. Laura and Jonas walked to the other bedroom, where he tried to kiss her. But Laura wasnt interested, so they shared a beer and talked for a while instead. After a trip to the bathroom, Laura realized her phone was missing. Jonas had hidden it inside the pocket of a shirt hanging in his closetwhich struck her as a strange thing for him to do. Uncomfortable, Laura got up and walked across the apartment to find Claire. It was time to go.
Laura knocked on the other bedroom door. When Alex opened it, Laura could see Claire on the bed. Claires dress was on the floor; she was lying facedown in a pool of her own vomit. Laura says she was unconscious. Surrounding her were two menAlex, who was completely naked and erect, and in the corner, another man, the one she had seen sleeping on the living-room floor on her way in. He was wearing only a T-shirt.
Claire, lets go. Im ready to go, Laura said, shaking Claire, and pulling her by the shoulders. It took a minute for Claire to come to, Laura says.
As Laura helped Claire put her clothes back on, Alex was laughing. Jonas had followed Laura in and was laughing, too.
We just tag-teamed your friend, Alex said.
As Claire gathered her things, she started screaming at Alex, the man with the receding hairline, swatting at him with her high heel. Alex was dragging Claire, then lifting herlike throwing laundry out the door, Jason later described it.
Get the fuck out of here, Alex said, and slammed the door shut.
Claire was sick and sore, and she knew she wanted the police.
When patrol officers arrived at the apartment complex, they tested Claires blood-alcohol level. It was three hours since her last drink and Claire blew a .151, about twice the legal limit to drive. Detective Garrick Nugent, a newer addition to departments sex crimes unit, arrived shortly after to take Claire and her friends statements. Claire agreed to a SART exam, more commonly known as a rape kit.
Ive never been in the back of a police car before, Claire thought, as they drove to the lab.
At the same time, police banged on the door of apartment 3031. Neighbors in the buildingfull of young professionals, bartenders, and club promoterscame out to investigate. Officers reported the sound of vomiting inside, but no one ever came to the door. So the officers just left.
Across town, Claire was identified as rape victim E960.1, directed into an exam room, and told to take off her clothes. She noticed her dress had been torn at the waist and her underwear was missing. An examiner with a professional camera took photos of the bruises forming on Claires arms and legs, and the scratches on her legs and chest. Then a nurse performed tests for sexually transmitted diseases, as well as a vaginal exam, to document Claires injuries and collect a DNA sample. Claire started to sob on the exam table.
There was no shower, so she washed the vomit out of her hair as best she could in the rooms miniature sink, then changed into a new set of clothes, and got back into the patrol car. When Claire got home, she crawled into bed and cried until she fell asleep.
THE INVESTIGATION
In the weeks following Claires rape, there was no hint that her attackers would ever face prosecution. While Claire was filling prescriptions for pain medications, waking from night terrors, and taking breaks from her IT job to cry in the womens bathroom, the hazy figures inside that San Diego apartment were going about life as usual. One of the men slipped Claires left-behind underwear, adding to a collection of several other pairs, into an empty beer box labeled Lost and Found.
The police hadnt gone back to the apartment to question suspects, or collect any evidence from inside, and they hadnt sought a search warranta misstep that a judge would later question in court. Obviously, we know that the police dropped the ball that night, San Diego Superior Court Judge Jeffrey Fraser said, when discussing whether the Viagra, steroids, and Xanax prescription found in Alexs apartment safe months later could be entered into evidence.
Rape cases like Clairesthose involving intoxication or unconsciousnessare difficult to investigate and unlikely to ever be prosecuted. Most rape victims never file a report with police (PDF). Of those who do, its difficult to say how many cases are prosecuted because there isnt any sort of database that tracks sexual assaults from the moment a report is filed to its eventual resolutionif any comes. Still, statistics in San Diego show prosecution to be incredibly rare.
In the first half of 2016, 558 rapes were reported to San Diego County law enforcement (PDF).
The San Diego police provided some data showing 119 reports of rape (during that same time period) where intoxication was a factor and the San Diego Sheriffs Department said theyd received seven reports of rape where alcohol was a factor to date this year. Of those 126 reports of rape involving intoxication, 18 have been referred to the district attorneys office this year. According to statistics provided by the DA, state prosecutors declined to file charges in 12 cases, are currently reviewing three, and have taken on three. Since 2010, the San Diego DA has filed charges of rape by intoxication 28 times, rejecting 80 percent of the cases it received from law enforcement.
We work very closely with the DA and they say the intoxication ones are the hardest for them to prove, San Diego Police Lieutenant Paul Phillips told me. Phillips has headed up the SDPDs sex crimes unit since March and speaks passionately about his new position. We had to watch The Hunting Ground in our unit, and Ive been watching it with my wife.
Through her research, Claire discovered that Jonas was a pickup teacher, and working for Efficient Pickup, a San Diego company owned and operated by RSD alumni John Mulvehill and Josh Lewis. And she thought she recognized another instructor, identified as Beryl, who would turn out to be Alex Smiththe man with the receding hairline who led her to his apartment that night.
Efficient Pickup was a new companyits founders were emerging stars, or rejects (depending on whom you ask) in the pickup communityand its forum was relatively small. It didnt take long for Claire to read through the postings and come across a blog called Tales of a Sex Addicted Narcissistic Player. It was owned by an instructor calling himself Chrysoberyl (a variety of the gemstone known as Alexandrite and another handle employed by Alex Smith). A post dated Oct. 12the night of her rapecaught Claires attention. It was titled Run a train with bootcamp student, using a term to describe multiple men having sex with a woman.
Jonas [Dick] and I are both teaching BC [boot camp] tonight, the post began. We run into each other at pull o clock [bar closing]. He asks me to Wing for him. I do; within a couple minutes Im fingering my girl right outside of the bar in public. Pull back to the spot. 0 LMR.
LMR means Last-Minute Resistance and is loosely defined by pickup artists as the hurdles they believe women make men jump through before agreeing to sex. Its also called a shit test or token resistance which Jason described on the stand as getting past a girls bullshit.
Pickup artists have their own language. They speak in lingo and acronyms and pseudoscientific gobbledygook and it is perhaps telling that there are multiple terms to describe when a womans No might actually mean Yes.
(When an RSD member on the forum asked Alex in 2012 how to tell the difference between LMR and an actual rejection, Josh chimed in: He doesnt care about the difference. All resistance is token resistance. I call him the pitbull because once he latches on he wont fucking let go.)
Alexs post continued: Make her beg for my dick and I say only if my friend can fuck you too. So we run a train on the hoe. I text Jonas to choo choo her but he has to occupy her friend. Her friend came out and I was like yeah we just tagteamed your friend my chick freaked out (cause now shes the slut etc.) I get hit in the face with a high heel. I laugh; we kick them out. Detail to be added when I have time.
Though Alex never returned to the post to add any details, his student, Jason Berlinthe third man in Alexs apartment that nightprovided plenty of evidence in his field report, which Claire found next. In the now-deleted postavailable only through court documentsJason wrote that Alex came out of a bedroom naked, and called his name.
In 1973, Eric Weber published a handbook called How to Pick Up Girls and a movement was born.
Though mild by todays pickup standards, the books original introduction included a line (removed in subsequent printings) about how some women are so absolutely sexy, so downright delicious-lookingfor an instant you even consider rape.
Fast-forward to 2005, when journalist-turned-pickup disciple Neil Strauss penned The Game, a bestselling expos that introduced America to the seduction community, one that had been percolating under the guidance of a few dating coaches and practiced within small, local groups, called lairs. Soon, VH1 took pickup mainstream with a reality show that documented the efforts of Strausss protagonista lanky, soul-patched, fuzzy-hatted Canadian named Mysteryas he molded hapless suitors into serial Casanovas. James Franco is set to play Mystery in a forthcoming film adaptation of Strausss book.
Strauss has recently denounced the very pickup philosophy he popularized. The techniques, lets face it, are so objectifying and horrifying, Strauss told The Atlantic last year. Lets just face it, I got so deep into that community and was seduced by it that I completely lost myself in it. It happens in the book. Why did I really stop writing for The New York Times, hang out with all these kids running around, you know, the Sunset Strip like a maniac in stupid clothing? I see those photos and I vomit in my mouth a little bit. Even when I wrote it, I didnt think it would be a guide.
I thought it would be a book about male insecurity. I even knew then that it was about low self-esteem.
Strauss may have seen his own actions as desperate, but his disciples apparently missed the point. In the late aughts, as The Game was becoming more mainstream, two of its new playersa doughy Canadian named Owen Cook and his financier, Nick Khowere building a business that would come to dominate the pickup market. They enrolled thousands of lonely clients around the globe in seminars and workshops, known as bootcamps and hot seats, and sold them online programs they claimed were the blueprints to seduction. Their company, Real Social Dynamics, is the same one Julian Blanc worked for when he told his students to yell Pikachu before assaulting Japanese women.
In February 2011, Jonas Dick, then a student at Wichita State University, created a profile on RSDs forum, the online message board where members document their failures and successes with women. The youngest of four children, born to Catholic parents who valued hard work and Christian values, Jonas wasas his parents and siblings have explained in letters to the courtan altar boy, and a varsity soccer and tennis player. In family photos, Jonas wears a huge smile and his hair hides his face in long, sideswept bangs.
Jonas was studying international business, investments, and step aerobics at Wichita State when he got involved with RSD. For the summer, he moved west to the Las Vegas Strip, according to a former RSD employee who asked for anonymity for fear of breaching RSDs intense non-disclosure agreement.
Jonas was a nonevent, the former RSD employee, who knew Jonas in Vegas, told me. He was just a regular everyday kid without great hopes. Not that good-looking, not that intelligent. He would come to a lot of free events that RSD would hold to upsell paid events. Jonas was lonely, he didnt have any friends. He was just a lost soul.
Jonas moved to California in 2012. Thats when his family says he lost his way.
He was overwhelmed with the pretty girls, beautiful beaches, outstanding weather, and all that is associated with California, his mother wrote in a letter of support to the court.
Jonass lawyer, Peter Blair, told me the family was still in the dark about what Jonas was up to with RSD. They dont know the entirely of what he was into, Blair said. They know their son went to California, and came back with a charge for rape.
But it was in 2011, when Jonas was still in Wichita for fall semester, that he became more active on the RSD message boards as a now-senior member of RSDNation. Jonas posted stories both of his failures and random sexual encounters with women. Those postswhich have been deleted by RSDwere sent to The Daily Beast by a current employee, who asked not to be named.In October 2011, Jonas wrote in a field report that he had gone to a club and at the end of the night, taken a woman to his brothers home.
Man, this girl is wasted, but she obviously wants me to bang her, Jonas wrote. Im a little perplexed as I want to bang her, but at the same time dont want to get accusations.
He continued: I get on top her. Its dark and I know how wasted she is. For some reason I was having a little trouble getting it in. Mainly because she was drunk and I couldnt spread her legs very far as we were on a couch.
He says he then dropped her off at home. So yea i didnt give her any info and hopefully she doesnt remember any part of me tomorrow. She wasnt mad at all which is good. Sometimes chicks will freak out once they sober up and realize what theyve done for the night.
RSD member SirKonstantine replied, Dont sweat the shit 80% of chicks who WERE raped dont press charges. Chicks cant handle social pressure and pressing charges involves a lot of social pressure. Of the things that do get reported, the case needs to be solid enough where the prosecutor would want to pursue it. Meaning, if shes a dumb idiot, no lawyer (or cops) would listen to her. Those horror stories of a chick pointing the finger and a guy going to jail is media hype.
That post, and others like it, lived on the RSD site for years.
In a still-live post, titled LMR or Rape? The Fine Line RSD members discussed whether overcoming a womans initial no can indeed be rape.
A poster with the handle Jack The Repper wrote, Its a very slippery slope, a lot of what many of us do on a regular basis could be considered sexual assault. Theres always two sides to the story and society always sides with the female. We all know that it happens, but the lines are becoming so blurred.
Did RSD know about these sorts of posts?
The RSD management and coaches dont give a fuck, one former high-ranking RSD employee told me. They dont care whats on the forum. The forum is just a way to let the average everyday idiot feeling like theyre part of the community so that theyll buy more products.
Others within RSD told me the forum is moderated by instructors and volunteers.
One current moderator sent screenshots of examples of such oversight. In 2013, in a private chatroom visible to only moderators, RSD executive coach Jeff Allen Jlaixhimself known for his ownership what he calls a rape vanflagged a post titled How to Rape 90% of your day2s for removal with the comment, This is a public forum and RSD is a multi-million dollar corporation with a lot of liability. Reading these carelessly worded threads in front of a jury in a huge precedent setting lawsuits would be an ambulance chasers dream come true.
RSD did not return requests for comment on the San Diego case. In recent months, the company has integrated a lecture on consent into its online materials. Before a student can sign up for a live event, he must watchor at least fast-forward througha video titled Consent. In the video, Julien Blanc (the same instructor banned from several countries for his misogyny) reads a definition of consent off Brown Universitys Health services webpage and relates what he claims is his personal philosophy: Always leave a girl better off than you found her.
It was through RSD connections that Jonas met Alex Smith. Alex discovered pickup in the way most men didby reading Strausss The Gamebut he wasnt having much luck using its secrets on actual women. Then, according to his RSD posts and Efficient Pickups instructor page, on New Years Day 2012, he met the man who would become his mentor, an RSDer named Josh Lewis, and his life completely changed.
In real life, Alex is balding, lumbering, and smelly. He is intensely socially awkward, perhaps as a symptom of his ADHD, which he treatsor treated, according to his RSD postswith daily Adderall. In his spare time, Alex enjoyed online role-playing games. But on the RSD forum, Alex (or Beryl or Chrysoberyl as he was known), fashioned himself as a lady-killer who slept with different women every night of the week. His blog, titled Tales of a Sex Addicted Narcissistic Player, started, My name is Beryl, and I like to fuck models.
Efficient Pickups cofounder Josh Lewis took [Alex] under his wing, the companys Instructors webpage read (before it was scrubbed), and for the next two years, the pair would wing for one another, going out together every weekend to find women. Soon Alex was running his own boot camps, and his specialty, according to his blog, was train game, or having sex with a woman who has sex with another man immediately after. The reason I do it is because its fucking hilarious and my buddies and I dont generally give a fuck about women we pull, we get a hilarious story out of it and its really fun, he wrote, explaining his method to other RSD forum members. She will usually briefly freak out Have your buddy come in and start doing whatever on her, escalating up, then just hop off and have your buddy continue.
While Alex and Josh were perfecting their pickup game in Vegas and California, Jonas Dick was finishing his degree from the University of Wichita. And in 2012, Jonas moved to California for good, to join what he read on RSDs forum was one big party. With his bachelors in Finance, Jonas was soon living at a hostel in the Gaslamp and parking cars at an all-you-can-eat Brazilian steakhouse nearby.
I just moved to San Diego and live in a shitty weekly rate hotel in the downtown bar area literally blocks away from the clubs. Best logistics, Jonas posted on the RSD forum. Thats 5 girls in the last 8 days.
In December of 2012, Alex and Josh, who had been running in similar circles, seemed to find each other on RSDs forum. DUDE IS THIS JMAN? Alex commented on Jonass blog.
RSD clients and fans were often doing thisuprooting their lives to act as unpaid volunteers or hangers-on at company events in the hopes of meeting and bonding with other pickup wannabes. For these men, RSD was not just a company offering dating adviceit was a way of life.
Youve got to understand the kind of power RSD has over these guys, Nathan Kole, an RSD instructor for eight years until 2012, explained to me.
On the forum, you hear about guys having epic success or a ton of fun. If youve had a shitty life for 20 years in your hometown of a thousand people, you pack your bags and go somewhere where you can start new.
A year after Jonas moved out to San Diego, he and Alex and their friendsalmost exclusively other San Diego pickup artistswere beginning to outgrow RSD.
People get a certain level of success, and they all think they can be coaches, said Kole, who currently runs his own dating coach business from Austin, Texas. Thats the blight of my life. Ive had dozens of guys who Ive coached go on to start their own thing.
By 2013, Jonas and Alex were teaching for Efficient Pickupa company started by former RSD assistant John Mulvehill and Joshua Lewis, Alexs old mentor. Efficient Pickup promised clients in Las Vegas and California a faster, rejection-proof technique. Mulvehillknown for wearing a T-shirt emblazoned with the number of women hes supposedly slept with (he claims almost 500 these days)had been a mainstay of a group of pickup artists in Las Vegas known as the Vegas Pussy Massacre Crew. But Mulvehill was kicked off of the strip in 2015, as part of a one-year suspended sentence stemming from a night in May of 2013 when he allegedly locked a woman in his car, took away her phone, and masturbated in front of her.
The day after his arrest, Mulvehills RSD profile and more than 650 of his forum contributions were deleted. Mulvehills handle, JMULV, was added to a list of flagged terms, and the moderators were instructed to delete any mention of his name.
Mulvehill didnt respond to a request for comment for this article, but I talked with him last year for another story about his company and his alleged crime in Las Vegas. Back then, he insisted that compliance and resistance mean different things to the pickup community, and that the media and the public had gotten the wrong idea about his craft.
I know that sounds sort of rapey, Mulvehill told me at the time. But, he said, its not about convincing girls to do something they dont want to do.
In the summer of 2014, a year after his own arrest and six months after Claires rape, Mulvehill pulled Efficient Pickups website and its YouTube videos off the internet. He currently peddles his wares on Facebook, under the name Seduction Mindhacks Live, and has reduced the price for learning his technique, charging $45 for an online guide.
Mulvehill did address his decision to take down the site in November, during a question-and-answer session following a webinar pitching a $500 online program.
We shut down our YouTube channel and our site recently because when we first started our company a few years ago, we put a couple guys on our site that were advanced that we thought were going to be teaching programs for us, and they never actually taught programs for us, but they actually got into some legal trouble so we took our site down for the time being because those guys were fucking retarded and they werent affiliated with us at all, but were just taking it down for the time being.
The legal trouble Mulvehill is likely referring to would be the March arrest and charging of Alex, Jonas, and Jason in Claires rape.
Efficient Pick Ups co-founder and owner, and Alexs mentor, Josh Lewis, also declined an interview for this article. When Alexs attorney was considering calling Josh Lewis as a witness in the San Diego rape trial, Judge Jeffrey Fraser appointed Josh his own attorney, who advised him to take the Fifth Amendment because of Joshs own potential criminal liability in the case. Judge Fraser agreed with the counsels advice, noting that anyone with a connection to Efficient Pickup was potentially liable for conspiracy.
Im sure you dont have a narrative already in mind and youll portray what I have to say fairly, Josh Lewis told me over Facebook. Efficient Pickup has been dissolved, [Jonas and Alex] werent instructors, and Im in no way related to this incident, Lewis said before asking me never to contact him again.
Despite Joshs denial, Jonas and Alex were listed as two of the five instructors on Efficient Pickups website in 2013. And Jason wrote a glowing recommendation for Alex, which Efficient Pickup posted to its testimonial page: Boot Camp with Beryl is fucking awesome. He will positively impact your life to get better at pickup. I am grateful and privileged to have taken a bootcamp with him and highly recommend him as a pickup instructor.
By that time, Mulvehill, Josh, Jonas, and Alex had all been banned from RSD for promoting a competing company and for possibly crossing an unspoken lineafter years of writing blogs that promoted drinking, drugs, and what reads a lot like nonconsensual sex.
Jonathan Jacobsen, who, as a pickup instructor, goes by Manwhore, was moderating the RSD forum in 2013 and said he removed Alex and the other men from posting on it.
Jacobsen said he privately messaged Alex before the banif hes being a fucking idiot you contact the guy and tell him to stop, he explainedbut Alex couldnt handle it.
[I] want to make the distinction between what they [Efficient Pickup] do and what we do, Jacobsen told me. The point is to not do any of it without her wanting to. Thats not what this is supposed to be. Its a perversion, but these motherfuckers still manage to draw guys in.
Its not clear how many clients signed up for Efficient Pickups services; theres only proof of one.
Jason Berlin graduated from the the University of California, San Diego in 2010 with a degree in economics, and started his own business, Venture Pursuit Inc., in 2011. He bought fixer-upper houses and sold them for a profit. Apart from a few complaints to the Better Business Bureau and an incident that got him banned from the University of San Diego in 2012 (for stealing bikes, according to a university spokeswoman), Jason seemed to be doing all right, at least professionally.
I was probably depressed, but didnt really notice, Jason testified during Alexs trial last week. In November 2015, after several meetings with the DA, Jason pleaded guilty to raping Claire and signed on as a cooperating witnessa partnership that might, but is not guaranteed to, result in a more lenient sentence for him. Jason could receive anywhere from zero to eight years for Claires rape; the sentence is at the discretion of Judge Fraser. On the stand, Jason explained how he became Alex and Jonass original client at Efficient Pickup.
Apart from bad posture and a mild case of rosacea, Jason is good-looking; hes clean-cut, goes to the gym, and dresses well. But Jason was never very good with people, and was cripplingly shy and bumbling with women. So in the summer of 2013, Jason said he posted a call for a wingman on some PUA website.
Jonas responded to the post, according to Jasons testimony. He told Jason he would not just be his wingman but his instructorafter all, Jonas bragged, hed been in the pickup game for over two years and claimed hed slept with over 100 women. Jonas offered to impart his wisdom in so-called boot camps, for $300 a night. Alex also signed on to teach Jason his tricks, and soon the three of them were going out every weekend. Alex and Jonas would pick up girls and watch as Jason practiced their techniques.
I was always paying them, Jason said.
But Jason felt like he was getting something in return. In his testimony, Jason said Alex and Jonas taught him how to be an alpha male and create a mindset that would attract women. He said they taught him to isolate a woman from her friends, and to plow through her last-minute resistance.
Jason was a sponge who soon became a true believer. Still, when it came to actually getting women, I was the worst person theyd ever seen, he says they told him.
So the trio hatched a new idea for a more immersive experience. Jason would pay $2,000 a month for an apartment near the Gaslamp Quarter, a five-minute walk away from 16 blocks of bars and nightclubs. Alex and Jonas would technically live there, but Jason could come over on the weekends, go out with them for lessons, and crash there. They moved in on Oct. 1.
Jason Berlin was now deep into the world of pickup. He watched Youtube videos on pickup, listened to RSD instructor CDs in the car, and at every opportunity, went out with Alex and Jonas, along with a steady stream of pickup artists that would hang out in their new apartment.
It was like a hobby. Everyone was talking about it all the time. These people became your friends, Jason testified.
Twelve days after Alex and Jonas moved into the Gaslamp apartment, the men met Claire and Laura at closing time and brought the girls back to their apartment, where Jason was waiting.
THE TRIAL
In 2015, with a binder of evidence from Claire and a year-long police investigation complete, the San Diego district attorney formally charged Alex, Jason, and Jonas with two counts of rape, of an intoxicated person and an unconscious person.
Jonas Dick and Jason Berlin both pleaded guilty to one count for Claires rape.
Jonass crime was essentially rape in concerteven though he hadnt had sex with Claire, he admitted that hed known what Alex was allegedly planning to do to her. According to California law, by keeping Claires friend Laura occupiedin part by hiding her phoneJonas had acted as an accomplice, and was just as responsible.
Jonas was also charged with another rape shortly after being charged with Claires.
This one belonged to an underage girl who was celebrating her 16th birthday with two friends at the chain restaurant Dicks Last Resort in 2012. Jonas joined the girls table, then convinced them to accompany him back to the hostel where he was living. He offered a tour, grabbed the birthday girl by hand, took away her phone, and whisked her into his room. As her friends searched for her up and down the halls of the hostel, Jonas threw the 110-pound girl on his bed and raped her as she begged him to stop. When it was over, he ejaculated on her stomach, threw her a T-shirt, and said, Happy Birthday.
She ran from the room, found her friends, and flagged down a patrol car to make a rape report.
Its unclear whether police tried to find or apprehend Jonas in his hostel that night. The San Diego PD did not respond to a request for details on that investigation and the court case file is thin. Its also unknown why it took three years to test her rape kit. Nevertheless, it eventually was testedand came back with a match for Jonas Dick.
During Jonass August 2016 sentencing for both rapes, District Attorney Lisa Fox asked Judge Fraser for eight years, the maximum that the plea deal carried. She noted that Jonass quick guilty pleas were not necessarily because he felt regret, but because he wanted protection from exposing himself to more [charges].
As it turns out, Jonass DNA swab matched yet another victim in a national DNA database, as Fox discovered at a preliminary hearing. For that casewhich, according to Fox, involved alcohol and a college studentJonas has not been charged.
For two cases with rape, it was a very good result, Jonass attorney Peter Blair told me concerning the eight-year sentenceessentially the plea deals maximum. Theoretically [the judge] could have given him 16. Jonas will also be a registered sex offender for life.
Claire read a victims impact statement at Jonass sentencing. For 12 minutes, she spoke about what her life has been like since the night she was raped. Claire said she no longer dated. When she went out in public, she sometimes saw her rapists faces on the people around her, so she stopped going out at all. But, she said, a greater motivation than fear had compelled her to find and confront her attackers.
These businesses that promote rape culture should be stopped, Claire said. This is not friendly dating advice or motivational speaking. This is promoting the thinking that women are only objects and men are entitled to their mind and bodies for their entertainment and satisfaction
I am standing here today in this room to bring this pickup artist community to light and to represent the women out there that are unaware they too are victims, and to the women who have yet to stumble upon the path of the pickup artist and their students. The night was not an oops or a coincidence of events. It was strategically planned by these men, who not only manipulated and raped women regularly, but blogged and profited from it, from their fans and followers.
The judge agreed, praising Claires bravery in hunting down and facing her attackers.
But for your detective work, we wouldnt be here, I dont think. I think that they would still be preying on people either here or in Vegas or San Francisco or somewhere, Judge Fraser told Claire. But not for you, this would not have stopped.
And because of you, he will be punished.
For his part, Alex Smith pleaded not guilty to the rape charges. Alex is now in a relationship, perhaps married, to a woman who accompanied him every day of his week-long trial. The trial, which included no witnesses for the defense, concluded on Monday.
The jury is expected to reach a verdict in the next few days.
UPDATE: On Wednesday afternoon, a San Diego jury convicted Alex Smith of two felony counts: rape of an intoxicated person and rape of an unconscious person. Hell be sentenced on October 20, and faces a maximum of eight years in prison.
Through their attorneys, Alex Smith and Jason Berlin declined to comment for this story. Jonas Dick, currently in prison, asked to be paid for an interview. The Daily Beast declined.
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Linda Boisvert is the property manager for the apartment that Jason Berlin rented for Alex and Jonasthe apartment where Claire was raped. As part of Lindas duties, the 51-year-old San Antonio transplant regularly checks the website Crimemapping.com to monitor any criminal activity around her building. The Gaslamp District, as Linda explained over coffee and pie at a downtown diner, is in a period of transformation. But its still sort of the Wild West out here, she said.
While searching on the website, Lindawho wears stylish browline glasses, with her wavy greying hair cut shortwould pick up on bike thefts, vandalism, maybe a few drunken fights. But in October 2013, she saw the report of Claires rape. Knowing she had surveillance video that might aid in an investigation, she called Crimestoppers and offered the tapes.
Detective Garrick Nugent and Linda went through the security footage on the night of Claires assault. On it, Claire is seen staggering toward Jonass apartment building along with Laura and the two men. The group enters the lobby and Claire stumbles off to one side before Alex pulls her back to him. Theres a sloppy embrace and Alex leads her into the elevator as Laura and Jonas follow. Once the doors closed, Linda told Detective Nugent, they were out of view of the cameras.
But, Linda thought, they didnt have to be if there was a next time. With her co-op boards approval, Linda set up another security camera in the hallway of the third floor, and pointed it at Alex and Jonass apartment. She would watch the footage periodically, and over the next two months, Linda began sending Detective Nugent still photos of what she had seen.
They would come in with women who were happy and relaxed, and the women would come outwoman after womanwould looked stunned and upset with the same tense body language, Linda told me.
I dont know if they were raped, but if there is a body language to rape, what I saw would have been it.
One lady went in with two friends and came out covering her face, crying. When they got down to the lobby and the elevator door opened, I could see she was balled up on the elevator floor. It was heartbreaking. I just wanted to scream.
In court testimony, Detective Nugent described seeing several women from Lindas tapes who appeared distraught and upset. Linda couldnt say how many women she saw leave that way.
I stopped counting, she admitted, her eyes welling with tears. It was too upsetting.
None of those women have yet been identified.
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Pickup Artists Preyed on Drunk Women, Brought Them Home, and Raped Them
How a San Diego woman discovered details of her rape on a pickup-artist blog—and fought to bring her attackers to justice.”>
*Warningthe following article contains a graphic depiction of a rape.
Alex Smith and Jonas Dick considered themselves part of the elite.
The two men were instructors in the community of pickup artistsmen who obsessively study and practice methods of meeting and sleeping with as many women as possible. Some men in the community say pickup is about self-actualization, and finding meaning in their lives.
But according to San Diegos district attorney, Alex and Jonasboth 27 years oldare predators and the pursuit of their art has led to the rape of multiple women.
In what may be a first for the pickup community, the two menalong with their student, 28-year-old Jason Berlinwere charged in 2015 with the rape of a San Diego woman. Jonas and Jason pleaded guilty to the charges; Alex has maintained his innocence, claimingcontrary to Jason and Jonass sworn pleasthat the events of that night were consensual.
The investigation of the San Diego charges not only uncovered another victim of Jonas Dicksa 16-year-old girl for whose rape Jonas also pleaded guiltybut suggested the possibility that many more victims could remain unidentified.
Jonas received eight years in state prison for the two rapes; his student Jason faces a maximum eight-year sentence. Both will spend a lifetime on the sex offender registry.
Meanwhile, Alex Smith went to trial last week, before a jury of 10 men and two women. (At an emotional jury selection, the majority of female candidates said they couldnt remain impartial at Alexs trial, citing a personal account or relationship with a woman who had been raped under similar circumstances.)
Alexs defense lawyer, Samantha Greenea charismatic former deputy district attorneylaid out her clients case in opening statements, taking the line that the woman (well call her Claire, though thats not her real name) had consented and now regretted it. This case is about Claire being embarrassed, not rape, she told the mostly-male jury.
For years, feminists and bloggers have lambasted pickup websites and blogs as echo chambers for misogyny, criticized their techniques as de facto harassment or assault, and called the groups leaders advocates for rape. But pickups thousands of fans and followerswho congregate with other anti-feminists in the online space known as the manospherehave roundly dismissed that criticism as blue pill thinking (a reference to the Matrix). In contrast, pickup artists and others in the Mens Rights Movement think theyve swallowed the red pill and can see through the evils of a politically-correct society whose supposed goal is to kill what remains of the worlds masculinity.
From 2011 to 2013, Alex Smith, Jonas Dick, and Jason Berlin congregated in pickups corner of the manosphere, indoctrinated themselves with the teachings of their pickup artist heroes, and contributed to its chatter in a series of concerning online blog posts. But its what they did with that ideology in the real world thats now at issue for a San Diego jury.
CLAIRES RAPE
On a Saturday night in October 2013, Claire, then 31, went out with her friend, lets call her Laura, for a girls night out in San Diegos trendy Gaslamp Quarter.
They were having a good time. At Analog, a bar advertising good food and strong drinks, Claire ordered a glass of champagne, then a Fireball shot, followed by a pear cider, while Laura drank vodka sodas. They ran into a bachelorette party and took another shot, a cactus cooler. After several rounds, sometime around midnight or 1 a.m., the women left and crossed the street to a different barthe Tipsy Crowfor two more drinks: a lemon drop shot and a cocktail.
Just what Claire drank that night, at what times and in what quantities, would become the subject of intense scrutiny over the next three years; her state of drunkenness was at the heart of the states argument as well as Alex Smiths defense. The prosecution says that Claire had been too drunk to consent to sex, Alexs defense attorney says she couldnt have been that drunk.
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Claire was tipsy, then slightly tipsier, as she remembers it.
When the bars closed for the night, Claire and Laura shuffled out with the rest of the crowd onto Fifth Avenue. They called an Uber, and as they waited, they were approached by two men, Jonas Dick and Alex Smith.
Jonas and Alex were no strangers to meeting girls on that street at that time: they referred to two in the morning as pull oclock because of how easy it was to bring home the last women leaving the bars. They invited Claire and Laura to their place for drinks. It was only a few blocks away.
Claire says she doesnt remember meeting Alex and Jonas. She remembers stumbling and someone with a receding hairline pushing her along, leading her to an apartment building. She remembers being in a semi-furnished bedroom on a mattress without a headboard. Someone giving her a clear drink. The sip she took didnt taste like water, maybe it was alcohol? Before she could think about it, she was falling backwards, and thats when she says it all goes black.
What occurred in that bedroom over the next hour runs in and out of Claires mind like waves. As she testified in court, she can feel the bed beneath her, coming to for a moment, and vomiting on the floor. She hears oneor is it two?male voices, mumbling like the adults in Charlie Brown before it all fades away again.
In another part of the apartment, Laura was sitting and chatting with Jonas. On the way in, Laura saw a man named Jason Berlin, lying on a makeshift bed of pillows on the floor. Laura and Jonas walked to the other bedroom, where he tried to kiss her. But Laura wasnt interested, so they shared a beer and talked for a while instead. After a trip to the bathroom, Laura realized her phone was missing. Jonas had hidden it inside the pocket of a shirt hanging in his closetwhich struck her as a strange thing for him to do. Uncomfortable, Laura got up and walked across the apartment to find Claire. It was time to go.
Laura knocked on the other bedroom door. When Alex opened it, Laura could see Claire on the bed. Claires dress was on the floor; she was lying facedown in a pool of her own vomit. Laura says she was unconscious. Surrounding her were two menAlex, who was completely naked and erect, and in the corner, another man, the one she had seen sleeping on the living-room floor on her way in. He was wearing only a T-shirt.
Claire, lets go. Im ready to go, Laura said, shaking Claire, and pulling her by the shoulders. It took a minute for Claire to come to, Laura says.
As Laura helped Claire put her clothes back on, Alex was laughing. Jonas had followed Laura in and was laughing, too.
We just tag-teamed your friend, Alex said.
As Claire gathered her things, she started screaming at Alex, the man with the receding hairline, swatting at him with her high heel. Alex was dragging Claire, then lifting herlike throwing laundry out the door, Jason later described it.
Get the fuck out of here, Alex said, and slammed the door shut.
Claire was sick and sore, and she knew she wanted the police.
When patrol officers arrived at the apartment complex, they tested Claires blood-alcohol level. It was three hours since her last drink and Claire blew a .151, about twice the legal limit to drive. Detective Garrick Nugent, a newer addition to departments sex crimes unit, arrived shortly after to take Claire and her friends statements. Claire agreed to a SART exam, more commonly known as a rape kit.
Ive never been in the back of a police car before, Claire thought, as they drove to the lab.
At the same time, police banged on the door of apartment 3031. Neighbors in the buildingfull of young professionals, bartenders, and club promoterscame out to investigate. Officers reported the sound of vomiting inside, but no one ever came to the door. So the officers just left.
Across town, Claire was identified as rape victim E960.1, directed into an exam room, and told to take off her clothes. She noticed her dress had been torn at the waist and her underwear was missing. An examiner with a professional camera took photos of the bruises forming on Claires arms and legs, and the scratches on her legs and chest. Then a nurse performed tests for sexually transmitted diseases, as well as a vaginal exam, to document Claires injuries and collect a DNA sample. Claire started to sob on the exam table.
There was no shower, so she washed the vomit out of her hair as best she could in the rooms miniature sink, then changed into a new set of clothes, and got back into the patrol car. When Claire got home, she crawled into bed and cried until she fell asleep.
THE INVESTIGATION
In the weeks following Claires rape, there was no hint that her attackers would ever face prosecution. While Claire was filling prescriptions for pain medications, waking from night terrors, and taking breaks from her IT job to cry in the womens bathroom, the hazy figures inside that San Diego apartment were going about life as usual. One of the men slipped Claires left-behind underwear, adding to a collection of several other pairs, into an empty beer box labeled Lost and Found.
The police hadnt gone back to the apartment to question suspects, or collect any evidence from inside, and they hadnt sought a search warranta misstep that a judge would later question in court. Obviously, we know that the police dropped the ball that night, San Diego Superior Court Judge Jeffrey Fraser said, when discussing whether the Viagra, steroids, and Xanax prescription found in Alexs apartment safe months later could be entered into evidence.
Rape cases like Clairesthose involving intoxication or unconsciousnessare difficult to investigate and unlikely to ever be prosecuted. Most rape victims never file a report with police (PDF). Of those who do, its difficult to say how many cases are prosecuted because there isnt any sort of database that tracks sexual assaults from the moment a report is filed to its eventual resolutionif any comes. Still, statistics in San Diego show prosecution to be incredibly rare.
In the first half of 2016, 558 rapes were reported to San Diego County law enforcement (PDF).
The San Diego police provided some data showing 119 reports of rape (during that same time period) where intoxication was a factor and the San Diego Sheriffs Department said theyd received seven reports of rape where alcohol was a factor to date this year. Of those 126 reports of rape involving intoxication, 18 have been referred to the district attorneys office this year. According to statistics provided by the DA, state prosecutors declined to file charges in 12 cases, are currently reviewing three, and have taken on three. Since 2010, the San Diego DA has filed charges of rape by intoxication 28 times, rejecting 80 percent of the cases it received from law enforcement.
We work very closely with the DA and they say the intoxication ones are the hardest for them to prove, San Diego Police Lieutenant Paul Phillips told me. Phillips has headed up the SDPDs sex crimes unit since March and speaks passionately about his new position. We had to watch The Hunting Ground in our unit, and Ive been watching it with my wife.
Through her research, Claire discovered that Jonas was a pickup teacher, and working for Efficient Pickup, a San Diego company owned and operated by RSD alumni John Mulvehill and Josh Lewis. And she thought she recognized another instructor, identified as Beryl, who would turn out to be Alex Smiththe man with the receding hairline who led her to his apartment that night.
Efficient Pickup was a new companyits founders were emerging stars, or rejects (depending on whom you ask) in the pickup communityand its forum was relatively small. It didnt take long for Claire to read through the postings and come across a blog called Tales of a Sex Addicted Narcissistic Player. It was owned by an instructor calling himself Chrysoberyl (a variety of the gemstone known as Alexandrite and another handle employed by Alex Smith). A post dated Oct. 12the night of her rapecaught Claires attention. It was titled Run a train with bootcamp student, using a term to describe multiple men having sex with a woman.
Jonas [Dick] and I are both teaching BC [boot camp] tonight, the post began. We run into each other at pull o clock [bar closing]. He asks me to Wing for him. I do; within a couple minutes Im fingering my girl right outside of the bar in public. Pull back to the spot. 0 LMR.
LMR means Last-Minute Resistance and is loosely defined by pickup artists as the hurdles they believe women make men jump through before agreeing to sex. Its also called a shit test or token resistance which Jason described on the stand as getting past a girls bullshit.
Pickup artists have their own language. They speak in lingo and acronyms and pseudoscientific gobbledygook and it is perhaps telling that there are multiple terms to describe when a womans No might actually mean Yes.
(When an RSD member on the forum asked Alex in 2012 how to tell the difference between LMR and an actual rejection, Josh chimed in: He doesnt care about the difference. All resistance is token resistance. I call him the pitbull because once he latches on he wont fucking let go.)
Alexs post continued: Make her beg for my dick and I say only if my friend can fuck you too. So we run a train on the hoe. I text Jonas to choo choo her but he has to occupy her friend. Her friend came out and I was like yeah we just tagteamed your friend my chick freaked out (cause now shes the slut etc.) I get hit in the face with a high heel. I laugh; we kick them out. Detail to be added when I have time.
Though Alex never returned to the post to add any details, his student, Jason Berlinthe third man in Alexs apartment that nightprovided plenty of evidence in his field report, which Claire found next. In the now-deleted postavailable only through court documentsJason wrote that Alex came out of a bedroom naked, and called his name.
In 1973, Eric Weber published a handbook called How to Pick Up Girls and a movement was born.
Though mild by todays pickup standards, the books original introduction included a line (removed in subsequent printings) about how some women are so absolutely sexy, so downright delicious-lookingfor an instant you even consider rape.
Fast-forward to 2005, when journalist-turned-pickup disciple Neil Strauss penned The Game, a bestselling expos that introduced America to the seduction community, one that had been percolating under the guidance of a few dating coaches and practiced within small, local groups, called lairs. Soon, VH1 took pickup mainstream with a reality show that documented the efforts of Strausss protagonista lanky, soul-patched, fuzzy-hatted Canadian named Mysteryas he molded hapless suitors into serial Casanovas. James Franco is set to play Mystery in a forthcoming film adaptation of Strausss book.
Strauss has recently denounced the very pickup philosophy he popularized. The techniques, lets face it, are so objectifying and horrifying, Strauss told The Atlantic last year. Lets just face it, I got so deep into that community and was seduced by it that I completely lost myself in it. It happens in the book. Why did I really stop writing for The New York Times, hang out with all these kids running around, you know, the Sunset Strip like a maniac in stupid clothing? I see those photos and I vomit in my mouth a little bit. Even when I wrote it, I didnt think it would be a guide.
I thought it would be a book about male insecurity. I even knew then that it was about low self-esteem.
Strauss may have seen his own actions as desperate, but his disciples apparently missed the point. In the late aughts, as The Game was becoming more mainstream, two of its new playersa doughy Canadian named Owen Cook and his financier, Nick Khowere building a business that would come to dominate the pickup market. They enrolled thousands of lonely clients around the globe in seminars and workshops, known as bootcamps and hot seats, and sold them online programs they claimed were the blueprints to seduction. Their company, Real Social Dynamics, is the same one Julian Blanc worked for when he told his students to yell Pikachu before assaulting Japanese women.
In February 2011, Jonas Dick, then a student at Wichita State University, created a profile on RSDs forum, the online message board where members document their failures and successes with women. The youngest of four children, born to Catholic parents who valued hard work and Christian values, Jonas wasas his parents and siblings have explained in letters to the courtan altar boy, and a varsity soccer and tennis player. In family photos, Jonas wears a huge smile and his hair hides his face in long, sideswept bangs.
Jonas was studying international business, investments, and step aerobics at Wichita State when he got involved with RSD. For the summer, he moved west to the Las Vegas Strip, according to a former RSD employee who asked for anonymity for fear of breaching RSDs intense non-disclosure agreement.
Jonas was a nonevent, the former RSD employee, who knew Jonas in Vegas, told me. He was just a regular everyday kid without great hopes. Not that good-looking, not that intelligent. He would come to a lot of free events that RSD would hold to upsell paid events. Jonas was lonely, he didnt have any friends. He was just a lost soul.
Jonas moved to California in 2012. Thats when his family says he lost his way.
He was overwhelmed with the pretty girls, beautiful beaches, outstanding weather, and all that is associated with California, his mother wrote in a letter of support to the court.
Jonass lawyer, Peter Blair, told me the family was still in the dark about what Jonas was up to with RSD. They dont know the entirely of what he was into, Blair said. They know their son went to California, and came back with a charge for rape.
But it was in 2011, when Jonas was still in Wichita for fall semester, that he became more active on the RSD message boards as a now-senior member of RSDNation. Jonas posted stories both of his failures and random sexual encounters with women. Those postswhich have been deleted by RSDwere sent to The Daily Beast by a current employee, who asked not to be named.In October 2011, Jonas wrote in a field report that he had gone to a club and at the end of the night, taken a woman to his brothers home.
Man, this girl is wasted, but she obviously wants me to bang her, Jonas wrote. Im a little perplexed as I want to bang her, but at the same time dont want to get accusations.
He continued: I get on top her. Its dark and I know how wasted she is. For some reason I was having a little trouble getting it in. Mainly because she was drunk and I couldnt spread her legs very far as we were on a couch.
He says he then dropped her off at home. So yea i didnt give her any info and hopefully she doesnt remember any part of me tomorrow. She wasnt mad at all which is good. Sometimes chicks will freak out once they sober up and realize what theyve done for the night.
RSD member SirKonstantine replied, Dont sweat the shit 80% of chicks who WERE raped dont press charges. Chicks cant handle social pressure and pressing charges involves a lot of social pressure. Of the things that do get reported, the case needs to be solid enough where the prosecutor would want to pursue it. Meaning, if shes a dumb idiot, no lawyer (or cops) would listen to her. Those horror stories of a chick pointing the finger and a guy going to jail is media hype.
That post, and others like it, lived on the RSD site for years.
In a still-live post, titled LMR or Rape? The Fine Line RSD members discussed whether overcoming a womans initial no can indeed be rape.
A poster with the handle Jack The Repper wrote, Its a very slippery slope, a lot of what many of us do on a regular basis could be considered sexual assault. Theres always two sides to the story and society always sides with the female. We all know that it happens, but the lines are becoming so blurred.
Did RSD know about these sorts of posts?
The RSD management and coaches dont give a fuck, one former high-ranking RSD employee told me. They dont care whats on the forum. The forum is just a way to let the average everyday idiot feeling like theyre part of the community so that theyll buy more products.
Others within RSD told me the forum is moderated by instructors and volunteers.
One current moderator sent screenshots of examples of such oversight. In 2013, in a private chatroom visible to only moderators, RSD executive coach Jeff Allen Jlaixhimself known for his ownership what he calls a rape vanflagged a post titled How to Rape 90% of your day2s for removal with the comment, This is a public forum and RSD is a multi-million dollar corporation with a lot of liability. Reading these carelessly worded threads in front of a jury in a huge precedent setting lawsuits would be an ambulance chasers dream come true.
RSD did not return requests for comment on the San Diego case. In recent months, the company has integrated a lecture on consent into its online materials. Before a student can sign up for a live event, he must watchor at least fast-forward througha video titled Consent. In the video, Julien Blanc (the same instructor banned from several countries for his misogyny) reads a definition of consent off Brown Universitys Health services webpage and relates what he claims is his personal philosophy: Always leave a girl better off than you found her.
It was through RSD connections that Jonas met Alex Smith. Alex discovered pickup in the way most men didby reading Strausss The Gamebut he wasnt having much luck using its secrets on actual women. Then, according to his RSD posts and Efficient Pickups instructor page, on New Years Day 2012, he met the man who would become his mentor, an RSDer named Josh Lewis, and his life completely changed.
In real life, Alex is balding, lumbering, and smelly. He is intensely socially awkward, perhaps as a symptom of his ADHD, which he treatsor treated, according to his RSD postswith daily Adderall. In his spare time, Alex enjoyed online role-playing games. But on the RSD forum, Alex (or Beryl or Chrysoberyl as he was known), fashioned himself as a lady-killer who slept with different women every night of the week. His blog, titled Tales of a Sex Addicted Narcissistic Player, started, My name is Beryl, and I like to fuck models.
Efficient Pickups cofounder Josh Lewis took [Alex] under his wing, the companys Instructors webpage read (before it was scrubbed), and for the next two years, the pair would wing for one another, going out together every weekend to find women. Soon Alex was running his own boot camps, and his specialty, according to his blog, was train game, or having sex with a woman who has sex with another man immediately after. The reason I do it is because its fucking hilarious and my buddies and I dont generally give a fuck about women we pull, we get a hilarious story out of it and its really fun, he wrote, explaining his method to other RSD forum members. She will usually briefly freak out Have your buddy come in and start doing whatever on her, escalating up, then just hop off and have your buddy continue.
While Alex and Josh were perfecting their pickup game in Vegas and California, Jonas Dick was finishing his degree from the University of Wichita. And in 2012, Jonas moved to California for good, to join what he read on RSDs forum was one big party. With his bachelors in Finance, Jonas was soon living at a hostel in the Gaslamp and parking cars at an all-you-can-eat Brazilian steakhouse nearby.
I just moved to San Diego and live in a shitty weekly rate hotel in the downtown bar area literally blocks away from the clubs. Best logistics, Jonas posted on the RSD forum. Thats 5 girls in the last 8 days.
In December of 2012, Alex and Josh, who had been running in similar circles, seemed to find each other on RSDs forum. DUDE IS THIS JMAN? Alex commented on Jonass blog.
RSD clients and fans were often doing thisuprooting their lives to act as unpaid volunteers or hangers-on at company events in the hopes of meeting and bonding with other pickup wannabes. For these men, RSD was not just a company offering dating adviceit was a way of life.
Youve got to understand the kind of power RSD has over these guys, Nathan Kole, an RSD instructor for eight years until 2012, explained to me.
On the forum, you hear about guys having epic success or a ton of fun. If youve had a shitty life for 20 years in your hometown of a thousand people, you pack your bags and go somewhere where you can start new.
A year after Jonas moved out to San Diego, he and Alex and their friendsalmost exclusively other San Diego pickup artistswere beginning to outgrow RSD.
People get a certain level of success, and they all think they can be coaches, said Kole, who currently runs his own dating coach business from Austin, Texas. Thats the blight of my life. Ive had dozens of guys who Ive coached go on to start their own thing.
By 2013, Jonas and Alex were teaching for Efficient Pickupa company started by former RSD assistant John Mulvehill and Joshua Lewis, Alexs old mentor. Efficient Pickup promised clients in Las Vegas and California a faster, rejection-proof technique. Mulvehillknown for wearing a T-shirt emblazoned with the number of women hes supposedly slept with (he claims almost 500 these days)had been a mainstay of a group of pickup artists in Las Vegas known as the Vegas Pussy Massacre Crew. But Mulvehill was kicked off of the strip in 2015, as part of a one-year suspended sentence stemming from a night in May of 2013 when he allegedly locked a woman in his car, took away her phone, and masturbated in front of her.
The day after his arrest, Mulvehills RSD profile and more than 650 of his forum contributions were deleted. Mulvehills handle, JMULV, was added to a list of flagged terms, and the moderators were instructed to delete any mention of his name.
Mulvehill didnt respond to a request for comment for this article, but I talked with him last year for another story about his company and his alleged crime in Las Vegas. Back then, he insisted that compliance and resistance mean different things to the pickup community, and that the media and the public had gotten the wrong idea about his craft.
I know that sounds sort of rapey, Mulvehill told me at the time. But, he said, its not about convincing girls to do something they dont want to do.
In the summer of 2014, a year after his own arrest and six months after Claires rape, Mulvehill pulled Efficient Pickups website and its YouTube videos off the internet. He currently peddles his wares on Facebook, under the name Seduction Mindhacks Live, and has reduced the price for learning his technique, charging $45 for an online guide.
Mulvehill did address his decision to take down the site in November, during a question-and-answer session following a webinar pitching a $500 online program.
We shut down our YouTube channel and our site recently because when we first started our company a few years ago, we put a couple guys on our site that were advanced that we thought were going to be teaching programs for us, and they never actually taught programs for us, but they actually got into some legal trouble so we took our site down for the time being because those guys were fucking retarded and they werent affiliated with us at all, but were just taking it down for the time being.
The legal trouble Mulvehill is likely referring to would be the March arrest and charging of Alex, Jonas, and Jason in Claires rape.
Efficient Pick Ups co-founder and owner, and Alexs mentor, Josh Lewis, also declined an interview for this article. When Alexs attorney was considering calling Josh Lewis as a witness in the San Diego rape trial, Judge Jeffrey Fraser appointed Josh his own attorney, who advised him to take the Fifth Amendment because of Joshs own potential criminal liability in the case. Judge Fraser agreed with the counsels advice, noting that anyone with a connection to Efficient Pickup was potentially liable for conspiracy.
Im sure you dont have a narrative already in mind and youll portray what I have to say fairly, Josh Lewis told me over Facebook. Efficient Pickup has been dissolved, [Jonas and Alex] werent instructors, and Im in no way related to this incident, Lewis said before asking me never to contact him again.
Despite Joshs denial, Jonas and Alex were listed as two of the five instructors on Efficient Pickups website in 2013. And Jason wrote a glowing recommendation for Alex, which Efficient Pickup posted to its testimonial page: Boot Camp with Beryl is fucking awesome. He will positively impact your life to get better at pickup. I am grateful and privileged to have taken a bootcamp with him and highly recommend him as a pickup instructor.
By that time, Mulvehill, Josh, Jonas, and Alex had all been banned from RSD for promoting a competing company and for possibly crossing an unspoken lineafter years of writing blogs that promoted drinking, drugs, and what reads a lot like nonconsensual sex.
Jonathan Jacobsen, who, as a pickup instructor, goes by Manwhore, was moderating the RSD forum in 2013 and said he removed Alex and the other men from posting on it.
Jacobsen said he privately messaged Alex before the banif hes being a fucking idiot you contact the guy and tell him to stop, he explainedbut Alex couldnt handle it.
[I] want to make the distinction between what they [Efficient Pickup] do and what we do, Jacobsen told me. The point is to not do any of it without her wanting to. Thats not what this is supposed to be. Its a perversion, but these motherfuckers still manage to draw guys in.
Its not clear how many clients signed up for Efficient Pickups services; theres only proof of one.
Jason Berlin graduated from the the University of California, San Diego in 2010 with a degree in economics, and started his own business, Venture Pursuit Inc., in 2011. He bought fixer-upper houses and sold them for a profit. Apart from a few complaints to the Better Business Bureau and an incident that got him banned from the University of San Diego in 2012 (for stealing bikes, according to a university spokeswoman), Jason seemed to be doing all right, at least professionally.
I was probably depressed, but didnt really notice, Jason testified during Alexs trial last week. In November 2015, after several meetings with the DA, Jason pleaded guilty to raping Claire and signed on as a cooperating witnessa partnership that might, but is not guaranteed to, result in a more lenient sentence for him. Jason could receive anywhere from zero to eight years for Claires rape; the sentence is at the discretion of Judge Fraser. On the stand, Jason explained how he became Alex and Jonass original client at Efficient Pickup.
Apart from bad posture and a mild case of rosacea, Jason is good-looking; hes clean-cut, goes to the gym, and dresses well. But Jason was never very good with people, and was cripplingly shy and bumbling with women. So in the summer of 2013, Jason said he posted a call for a wingman on some PUA website.
Jonas responded to the post, according to Jasons testimony. He told Jason he would not just be his wingman but his instructorafter all, Jonas bragged, hed been in the pickup game for over two years and claimed hed slept with over 100 women. Jonas offered to impart his wisdom in so-called boot camps, for $300 a night. Alex also signed on to teach Jason his tricks, and soon the three of them were going out every weekend. Alex and Jonas would pick up girls and watch as Jason practiced their techniques.
I was always paying them, Jason said.
But Jason felt like he was getting something in return. In his testimony, Jason said Alex and Jonas taught him how to be an alpha male and create a mindset that would attract women. He said they taught him to isolate a woman from her friends, and to plow through her last-minute resistance.
Jason was a sponge who soon became a true believer. Still, when it came to actually getting women, I was the worst person theyd ever seen, he says they told him.
So the trio hatched a new idea for a more immersive experience. Jason would pay $2,000 a month for an apartment near the Gaslamp Quarter, a five-minute walk away from 16 blocks of bars and nightclubs. Alex and Jonas would technically live there, but Jason could come over on the weekends, go out with them for lessons, and crash there. They moved in on Oct. 1.
Jason Berlin was now deep into the world of pickup. He watched Youtube videos on pickup, listened to RSD instructor CDs in the car, and at every opportunity, went out with Alex and Jonas, along with a steady stream of pickup artists that would hang out in their new apartment.
It was like a hobby. Everyone was talking about it all the time. These people became your friends, Jason testified.
Twelve days after Alex and Jonas moved into the Gaslamp apartment, the men met Claire and Laura at closing time and brought the girls back to their apartment, where Jason was waiting.
THE TRIAL
In 2015, with a binder of evidence from Claire and a year-long police investigation complete, the San Diego district attorney formally charged Alex, Jason, and Jonas with two counts of rape, of an intoxicated person and an unconscious person.
Jonas Dick and Jason Berlin both pleaded guilty to one count for Claires rape.
Jonass crime was essentially rape in concerteven though he hadnt had sex with Claire, he admitted that hed known what Alex was allegedly planning to do to her. According to California law, by keeping Claires friend Laura occupiedin part by hiding her phoneJonas had acted as an accomplice, and was just as responsible.
Jonas was also charged with another rape shortly after being charged with Claires.
This one belonged to an underage girl who was celebrating her 16th birthday with two friends at the chain restaurant Dicks Last Resort in 2012. Jonas joined the girls table, then convinced them to accompany him back to the hostel where he was living. He offered a tour, grabbed the birthday girl by hand, took away her phone, and whisked her into his room. As her friends searched for her up and down the halls of the hostel, Jonas threw the 110-pound girl on his bed and raped her as she begged him to stop. When it was over, he ejaculated on her stomach, threw her a T-shirt, and said, Happy Birthday.
She ran from the room, found her friends, and flagged down a patrol car to make a rape report.
Its unclear whether police tried to find or apprehend Jonas in his hostel that night. The San Diego PD did not respond to a request for details on that investigation and the court case file is thin. Its also unknown why it took three years to test her rape kit. Nevertheless, it eventually was testedand came back with a match for Jonas Dick.
During Jonass August 2016 sentencing for both rapes, District Attorney Lisa Fox asked Judge Fraser for eight years, the maximum that the plea deal carried. She noted that Jonass quick guilty pleas were not necessarily because he felt regret, but because he wanted protection from exposing himself to more [charges].
As it turns out, Jonass DNA swab matched yet another victim in a national DNA database, as Fox discovered at a preliminary hearing. For that casewhich, according to Fox, involved alcohol and a college studentJonas has not been charged.
For two cases with rape, it was a very good result, Jonass attorney Peter Blair told me concerning the eight-year sentenceessentially the plea deals maximum. Theoretically [the judge] could have given him 16. Jonas will also be a registered sex offender for life.
Claire read a victims impact statement at Jonass sentencing. For 12 minutes, she spoke about what her life has been like since the night she was raped. Claire said she no longer dated. When she went out in public, she sometimes saw her rapists faces on the people around her, so she stopped going out at all. But, she said, a greater motivation than fear had compelled her to find and confront her attackers.
These businesses that promote rape culture should be stopped, Claire said. This is not friendly dating advice or motivational speaking. This is promoting the thinking that women are only objects and men are entitled to their mind and bodies for their entertainment and satisfaction
I am standing here today in this room to bring this pickup artist community to light and to represent the women out there that are unaware they too are victims, and to the women who have yet to stumble upon the path of the pickup artist and their students. The night was not an oops or a coincidence of events. It was strategically planned by these men, who not only manipulated and raped women regularly, but blogged and profited from it, from their fans and followers.
The judge agreed, praising Claires bravery in hunting down and facing her attackers.
But for your detective work, we wouldnt be here, I dont think. I think that they would still be preying on people either here or in Vegas or San Francisco or somewhere, Judge Fraser told Claire. But not for you, this would not have stopped.
And because of you, he will be punished.
For his part, Alex Smith pleaded not guilty to the rape charges. Alex is now in a relationship, perhaps married, to a woman who accompanied him every day of his week-long trial. The trial, which included no witnesses for the defense, concluded on Monday.
The jury is expected to reach a verdict in the next few days.
UPDATE: On Wednesday afternoon, a San Diego jury convicted Alex Smith of two felony counts: rape of an intoxicated person and rape of an unconscious person. Hell be sentenced on October 20, and faces a maximum of eight years in prison.
Through their attorneys, Alex Smith and Jason Berlin declined to comment for this story. Jonas Dick, currently in prison, asked to be paid for an interview. The Daily Beast declined.
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Linda Boisvert is the property manager for the apartment that Jason Berlin rented for Alex and Jonasthe apartment where Claire was raped. As part of Lindas duties, the 51-year-old San Antonio transplant regularly checks the website Crimemapping.com to monitor any criminal activity around her building. The Gaslamp District, as Linda explained over coffee and pie at a downtown diner, is in a period of transformation. But its still sort of the Wild West out here, she said.
While searching on the website, Lindawho wears stylish browline glasses, with her wavy greying hair cut shortwould pick up on bike thefts, vandalism, maybe a few drunken fights. But in October 2013, she saw the report of Claires rape. Knowing she had surveillance video that might aid in an investigation, she called Crimestoppers and offered the tapes.
Detective Garrick Nugent and Linda went through the security footage on the night of Claires assault. On it, Claire is seen staggering toward Jonass apartment building along with Laura and the two men. The group enters the lobby and Claire stumbles off to one side before Alex pulls her back to him. Theres a sloppy embrace and Alex leads her into the elevator as Laura and Jonas follow. Once the doors closed, Linda told Detective Nugent, they were out of view of the cameras.
But, Linda thought, they didnt have to be if there was a next time. With her co-op boards approval, Linda set up another security camera in the hallway of the third floor, and pointed it at Alex and Jonass apartment. She would watch the footage periodically, and over the next two months, Linda began sending Detective Nugent still photos of what she had seen.
They would come in with women who were happy and relaxed, and the women would come outwoman after womanwould looked stunned and upset with the same tense body language, Linda told me.
I dont know if they were raped, but if there is a body language to rape, what I saw would have been it.
One lady went in with two friends and came out covering her face, crying. When they got down to the lobby and the elevator door opened, I could see she was balled up on the elevator floor. It was heartbreaking. I just wanted to scream.
In court testimony, Detective Nugent described seeing several women from Lindas tapes who appeared distraught and upset. Linda couldnt say how many women she saw leave that way.
I stopped counting, she admitted, her eyes welling with tears. It was too upsetting.
None of those women have yet been identified.
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Pickup Artists Preyed on Drunk Women, Brought Them Home, and Raped Them
How a San Diego woman discovered details of her rape on a pickup-artist blog—and fought to bring her attackers to justice.”>
*Warningthe following article contains a graphic depiction of a rape.
Alex Smith and Jonas Dick considered themselves part of the elite.
The two men were instructors in the community of pickup artistsmen who obsessively study and practice methods of meeting and sleeping with as many women as possible. Some men in the community say pickup is about self-actualization, and finding meaning in their lives.
But according to San Diegos district attorney, Alex and Jonasboth 27 years oldare predators and the pursuit of their art has led to the rape of multiple women.
In what may be a first for the pickup community, the two menalong with their student, 28-year-old Jason Berlinwere charged in 2015 with the rape of a San Diego woman. Jonas and Jason pleaded guilty to the charges; Alex has maintained his innocence, claimingcontrary to Jason and Jonass sworn pleasthat the events of that night were consensual.
The investigation of the San Diego charges not only uncovered another victim of Jonas Dicksa 16-year-old girl for whose rape Jonas also pleaded guiltybut suggested the possibility that many more victims could remain unidentified.
Jonas received eight years in state prison for the two rapes; his student Jason faces a maximum eight-year sentence. Both will spend a lifetime on the sex offender registry.
Meanwhile, Alex Smith went to trial last week, before a jury of 10 men and two women. (At an emotional jury selection, the majority of female candidates said they couldnt remain impartial at Alexs trial, citing a personal account or relationship with a woman who had been raped under similar circumstances.)
Alexs defense lawyer, Samantha Greenea charismatic former deputy district attorneylaid out her clients case in opening statements, taking the line that the woman (well call her Claire, though thats not her real name) had consented and now regretted it. This case is about Claire being embarrassed, not rape, she told the mostly-male jury.
For years, feminists and bloggers have lambasted pickup websites and blogs as echo chambers for misogyny, criticized their techniques as de facto harassment or assault, and called the groups leaders advocates for rape. But pickups thousands of fans and followerswho congregate with other anti-feminists in the online space known as the manospherehave roundly dismissed that criticism as blue pill thinking (a reference to the Matrix). In contrast, pickup artists and others in the Mens Rights Movement think theyve swallowed the red pill and can see through the evils of a politically-correct society whose supposed goal is to kill what remains of the worlds masculinity.
From 2011 to 2013, Alex Smith, Jonas Dick, and Jason Berlin congregated in pickups corner of the manosphere, indoctrinated themselves with the teachings of their pickup artist heroes, and contributed to its chatter in a series of concerning online blog posts. But its what they did with that ideology in the real world thats now at issue for a San Diego jury.
CLAIRES RAPE
On a Saturday night in October 2013, Claire, then 31, went out with her friend, lets call her Laura, for a girls night out in San Diegos trendy Gaslamp Quarter.
They were having a good time. At Analog, a bar advertising good food and strong drinks, Claire ordered a glass of champagne, then a Fireball shot, followed by a pear cider, while Laura drank vodka sodas. They ran into a bachelorette party and took another shot, a cactus cooler. After several rounds, sometime around midnight or 1 a.m., the women left and crossed the street to a different barthe Tipsy Crowfor two more drinks: a lemon drop shot and a cocktail.
Just what Claire drank that night, at what times and in what quantities, would become the subject of intense scrutiny over the next three years; her state of drunkenness was at the heart of the states argument as well as Alex Smiths defense. The prosecution says that Claire had been too drunk to consent to sex, Alexs defense attorney says she couldnt have been that drunk.
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Claire was tipsy, then slightly tipsier, as she remembers it.
When the bars closed for the night, Claire and Laura shuffled out with the rest of the crowd onto Fifth Avenue. They called an Uber, and as they waited, they were approached by two men, Jonas Dick and Alex Smith.
Jonas and Alex were no strangers to meeting girls on that street at that time: they referred to two in the morning as pull oclock because of how easy it was to bring home the last women leaving the bars. They invited Claire and Laura to their place for drinks. It was only a few blocks away.
Claire says she doesnt remember meeting Alex and Jonas. She remembers stumbling and someone with a receding hairline pushing her along, leading her to an apartment building. She remembers being in a semi-furnished bedroom on a mattress without a headboard. Someone giving her a clear drink. The sip she took didnt taste like water, maybe it was alcohol? Before she could think about it, she was falling backwards, and thats when she says it all goes black.
What occurred in that bedroom over the next hour runs in and out of Claires mind like waves. As she testified in court, she can feel the bed beneath her, coming to for a moment, and vomiting on the floor. She hears oneor is it two?male voices, mumbling like the adults in Charlie Brown before it all fades away again.
In another part of the apartment, Laura was sitting and chatting with Jonas. On the way in, Laura saw a man named Jason Berlin, lying on a makeshift bed of pillows on the floor. Laura and Jonas walked to the other bedroom, where he tried to kiss her. But Laura wasnt interested, so they shared a beer and talked for a while instead. After a trip to the bathroom, Laura realized her phone was missing. Jonas had hidden it inside the pocket of a shirt hanging in his closetwhich struck her as a strange thing for him to do. Uncomfortable, Laura got up and walked across the apartment to find Claire. It was time to go.
Laura knocked on the other bedroom door. When Alex opened it, Laura could see Claire on the bed. Claires dress was on the floor; she was lying facedown in a pool of her own vomit. Laura says she was unconscious. Surrounding her were two menAlex, who was completely naked and erect, and in the corner, another man, the one she had seen sleeping on the living-room floor on her way in. He was wearing only a T-shirt.
Claire, lets go. Im ready to go, Laura said, shaking Claire, and pulling her by the shoulders. It took a minute for Claire to come to, Laura says.
As Laura helped Claire put her clothes back on, Alex was laughing. Jonas had followed Laura in and was laughing, too.
We just tag-teamed your friend, Alex said.
As Claire gathered her things, she started screaming at Alex, the man with the receding hairline, swatting at him with her high heel. Alex was dragging Claire, then lifting herlike throwing laundry out the door, Jason later described it.
Get the fuck out of here, Alex said, and slammed the door shut.
Claire was sick and sore, and she knew she wanted the police.
When patrol officers arrived at the apartment complex, they tested Claires blood-alcohol level. It was three hours since her last drink and Claire blew a .151, about twice the legal limit to drive. Detective Garrick Nugent, a newer addition to departments sex crimes unit, arrived shortly after to take Claire and her friends statements. Claire agreed to a SART exam, more commonly known as a rape kit.
Ive never been in the back of a police car before, Claire thought, as they drove to the lab.
At the same time, police banged on the door of apartment 3031. Neighbors in the buildingfull of young professionals, bartenders, and club promoterscame out to investigate. Officers reported the sound of vomiting inside, but no one ever came to the door. So the officers just left.
Across town, Claire was identified as rape victim E960.1, directed into an exam room, and told to take off her clothes. She noticed her dress had been torn at the waist and her underwear was missing. An examiner with a professional camera took photos of the bruises forming on Claires arms and legs, and the scratches on her legs and chest. Then a nurse performed tests for sexually transmitted diseases, as well as a vaginal exam, to document Claires injuries and collect a DNA sample. Claire started to sob on the exam table.
There was no shower, so she washed the vomit out of her hair as best she could in the rooms miniature sink, then changed into a new set of clothes, and got back into the patrol car. When Claire got home, she crawled into bed and cried until she fell asleep.
THE INVESTIGATION
In the weeks following Claires rape, there was no hint that her attackers would ever face prosecution. While Claire was filling prescriptions for pain medications, waking from night terrors, and taking breaks from her IT job to cry in the womens bathroom, the hazy figures inside that San Diego apartment were going about life as usual. One of the men slipped Claires left-behind underwear, adding to a collection of several other pairs, into an empty beer box labeled Lost and Found.
The police hadnt gone back to the apartment to question suspects, or collect any evidence from inside, and they hadnt sought a search warranta misstep that a judge would later question in court. Obviously, we know that the police dropped the ball that night, San Diego Superior Court Judge Jeffrey Fraser said, when discussing whether the Viagra, steroids, and Xanax prescription found in Alexs apartment safe months later could be entered into evidence.
Rape cases like Clairesthose involving intoxication or unconsciousnessare difficult to investigate and unlikely to ever be prosecuted. Most rape victims never file a report with police (PDF). Of those who do, its difficult to say how many cases are prosecuted because there isnt any sort of database that tracks sexual assaults from the moment a report is filed to its eventual resolutionif any comes. Still, statistics in San Diego show prosecution to be incredibly rare.
In the first half of 2016, 558 rapes were reported to San Diego County law enforcement (PDF).
The San Diego police provided some data showing 119 reports of rape (during that same time period) where intoxication was a factor and the San Diego Sheriffs Department said theyd received seven reports of rape where alcohol was a factor to date this year. Of those 126 reports of rape involving intoxication, 18 have been referred to the district attorneys office this year. According to statistics provided by the DA, state prosecutors declined to file charges in 12 cases, are currently reviewing three, and have taken on three. Since 2010, the San Diego DA has filed charges of rape by intoxication 28 times, rejecting 80 percent of the cases it received from law enforcement.
We work very closely with the DA and they say the intoxication ones are the hardest for them to prove, San Diego Police Lieutenant Paul Phillips told me. Phillips has headed up the SDPDs sex crimes unit since March and speaks passionately about his new position. We had to watch The Hunting Ground in our unit, and Ive been watching it with my wife.
Through her research, Claire discovered that Jonas was a pickup teacher, and working for Efficient Pickup, a San Diego company owned and operated by RSD alumni John Mulvehill and Josh Lewis. And she thought she recognized another instructor, identified as Beryl, who would turn out to be Alex Smiththe man with the receding hairline who led her to his apartment that night.
Efficient Pickup was a new companyits founders were emerging stars, or rejects (depending on whom you ask) in the pickup communityand its forum was relatively small. It didnt take long for Claire to read through the postings and come across a blog called Tales of a Sex Addicted Narcissistic Player. It was owned by an instructor calling himself Chrysoberyl (a variety of the gemstone known as Alexandrite and another handle employed by Alex Smith). A post dated Oct. 12the night of her rapecaught Claires attention. It was titled Run a train with bootcamp student, using a term to describe multiple men having sex with a woman.
Jonas [Dick] and I are both teaching BC [boot camp] tonight, the post began. We run into each other at pull o clock [bar closing]. He asks me to Wing for him. I do; within a couple minutes Im fingering my girl right outside of the bar in public. Pull back to the spot. 0 LMR.
LMR means Last-Minute Resistance and is loosely defined by pickup artists as the hurdles they believe women make men jump through before agreeing to sex. Its also called a shit test or token resistance which Jason described on the stand as getting past a girls bullshit.
Pickup artists have their own language. They speak in lingo and acronyms and pseudoscientific gobbledygook and it is perhaps telling that there are multiple terms to describe when a womans No might actually mean Yes.
(When an RSD member on the forum asked Alex in 2012 how to tell the difference between LMR and an actual rejection, Josh chimed in: He doesnt care about the difference. All resistance is token resistance. I call him the pitbull because once he latches on he wont fucking let go.)
Alexs post continued: Make her beg for my dick and I say only if my friend can fuck you too. So we run a train on the hoe. I text Jonas to choo choo her but he has to occupy her friend. Her friend came out and I was like yeah we just tagteamed your friend my chick freaked out (cause now shes the slut etc.) I get hit in the face with a high heel. I laugh; we kick them out. Detail to be added when I have time.
Though Alex never returned to the post to add any details, his student, Jason Berlinthe third man in Alexs apartment that nightprovided plenty of evidence in his field report, which Claire found next. In the now-deleted postavailable only through court documentsJason wrote that Alex came out of a bedroom naked, and called his name.
In 1973, Eric Weber published a handbook called How to Pick Up Girls and a movement was born.
Though mild by todays pickup standards, the books original introduction included a line (removed in subsequent printings) about how some women are so absolutely sexy, so downright delicious-lookingfor an instant you even consider rape.
Fast-forward to 2005, when journalist-turned-pickup disciple Neil Strauss penned The Game, a bestselling expos that introduced America to the seduction community, one that had been percolating under the guidance of a few dating coaches and practiced within small, local groups, called lairs. Soon, VH1 took pickup mainstream with a reality show that documented the efforts of Strausss protagonista lanky, soul-patched, fuzzy-hatted Canadian named Mysteryas he molded hapless suitors into serial Casanovas. James Franco is set to play Mystery in a forthcoming film adaptation of Strausss book.
Strauss has recently denounced the very pickup philosophy he popularized. The techniques, lets face it, are so objectifying and horrifying, Strauss told The Atlantic last year. Lets just face it, I got so deep into that community and was seduced by it that I completely lost myself in it. It happens in the book. Why did I really stop writing for The New York Times, hang out with all these kids running around, you know, the Sunset Strip like a maniac in stupid clothing? I see those photos and I vomit in my mouth a little bit. Even when I wrote it, I didnt think it would be a guide.
I thought it would be a book about male insecurity. I even knew then that it was about low self-esteem.
Strauss may have seen his own actions as desperate, but his disciples apparently missed the point. In the late aughts, as The Game was becoming more mainstream, two of its new playersa doughy Canadian named Owen Cook and his financier, Nick Khowere building a business that would come to dominate the pickup market. They enrolled thousands of lonely clients around the globe in seminars and workshops, known as bootcamps and hot seats, and sold them online programs they claimed were the blueprints to seduction. Their company, Real Social Dynamics, is the same one Julian Blanc worked for when he told his students to yell Pikachu before assaulting Japanese women.
In February 2011, Jonas Dick, then a student at Wichita State University, created a profile on RSDs forum, the online message board where members document their failures and successes with women. The youngest of four children, born to Catholic parents who valued hard work and Christian values, Jonas wasas his parents and siblings have explained in letters to the courtan altar boy, and a varsity soccer and tennis player. In family photos, Jonas wears a huge smile and his hair hides his face in long, sideswept bangs.
Jonas was studying international business, investments, and step aerobics at Wichita State when he got involved with RSD. For the summer, he moved west to the Las Vegas Strip, according to a former RSD employee who asked for anonymity for fear of breaching RSDs intense non-disclosure agreement.
Jonas was a nonevent, the former RSD employee, who knew Jonas in Vegas, told me. He was just a regular everyday kid without great hopes. Not that good-looking, not that intelligent. He would come to a lot of free events that RSD would hold to upsell paid events. Jonas was lonely, he didnt have any friends. He was just a lost soul.
Jonas moved to California in 2012. Thats when his family says he lost his way.
He was overwhelmed with the pretty girls, beautiful beaches, outstanding weather, and all that is associated with California, his mother wrote in a letter of support to the court.
Jonass lawyer, Peter Blair, told me the family was still in the dark about what Jonas was up to with RSD. They dont know the entirely of what he was into, Blair said. They know their son went to California, and came back with a charge for rape.
But it was in 2011, when Jonas was still in Wichita for fall semester, that he became more active on the RSD message boards as a now-senior member of RSDNation. Jonas posted stories both of his failures and random sexual encounters with women. Those postswhich have been deleted by RSDwere sent to The Daily Beast by a current employee, who asked not to be named.In October 2011, Jonas wrote in a field report that he had gone to a club and at the end of the night, taken a woman to his brothers home.
Man, this girl is wasted, but she obviously wants me to bang her, Jonas wrote. Im a little perplexed as I want to bang her, but at the same time dont want to get accusations.
He continued: I get on top her. Its dark and I know how wasted she is. For some reason I was having a little trouble getting it in. Mainly because she was drunk and I couldnt spread her legs very far as we were on a couch.
He says he then dropped her off at home. So yea i didnt give her any info and hopefully she doesnt remember any part of me tomorrow. She wasnt mad at all which is good. Sometimes chicks will freak out once they sober up and realize what theyve done for the night.
RSD member SirKonstantine replied, Dont sweat the shit 80% of chicks who WERE raped dont press charges. Chicks cant handle social pressure and pressing charges involves a lot of social pressure. Of the things that do get reported, the case needs to be solid enough where the prosecutor would want to pursue it. Meaning, if shes a dumb idiot, no lawyer (or cops) would listen to her. Those horror stories of a chick pointing the finger and a guy going to jail is media hype.
That post, and others like it, lived on the RSD site for years.
In a still-live post, titled LMR or Rape? The Fine Line RSD members discussed whether overcoming a womans initial no can indeed be rape.
A poster with the handle Jack The Repper wrote, Its a very slippery slope, a lot of what many of us do on a regular basis could be considered sexual assault. Theres always two sides to the story and society always sides with the female. We all know that it happens, but the lines are becoming so blurred.
Did RSD know about these sorts of posts?
The RSD management and coaches dont give a fuck, one former high-ranking RSD employee told me. They dont care whats on the forum. The forum is just a way to let the average everyday idiot feeling like theyre part of the community so that theyll buy more products.
Others within RSD told me the forum is moderated by instructors and volunteers.
One current moderator sent screenshots of examples of such oversight. In 2013, in a private chatroom visible to only moderators, RSD executive coach Jeff Allen Jlaixhimself known for his ownership what he calls a rape vanflagged a post titled How to Rape 90% of your day2s for removal with the comment, This is a public forum and RSD is a multi-million dollar corporation with a lot of liability. Reading these carelessly worded threads in front of a jury in a huge precedent setting lawsuits would be an ambulance chasers dream come true.
RSD did not return requests for comment on the San Diego case. In recent months, the company has integrated a lecture on consent into its online materials. Before a student can sign up for a live event, he must watchor at least fast-forward througha video titled Consent. In the video, Julien Blanc (the same instructor banned from several countries for his misogyny) reads a definition of consent off Brown Universitys Health services webpage and relates what he claims is his personal philosophy: Always leave a girl better off than you found her.
It was through RSD connections that Jonas met Alex Smith. Alex discovered pickup in the way most men didby reading Strausss The Gamebut he wasnt having much luck using its secrets on actual women. Then, according to his RSD posts and Efficient Pickups instructor page, on New Years Day 2012, he met the man who would become his mentor, an RSDer named Josh Lewis, and his life completely changed.
In real life, Alex is balding, lumbering, and smelly. He is intensely socially awkward, perhaps as a symptom of his ADHD, which he treatsor treated, according to his RSD postswith daily Adderall. In his spare time, Alex enjoyed online role-playing games. But on the RSD forum, Alex (or Beryl or Chrysoberyl as he was known), fashioned himself as a lady-killer who slept with different women every night of the week. His blog, titled Tales of a Sex Addicted Narcissistic Player, started, My name is Beryl, and I like to fuck models.
Efficient Pickups cofounder Josh Lewis took [Alex] under his wing, the companys Instructors webpage read (before it was scrubbed), and for the next two years, the pair would wing for one another, going out together every weekend to find women. Soon Alex was running his own boot camps, and his specialty, according to his blog, was train game, or having sex with a woman who has sex with another man immediately after. The reason I do it is because its fucking hilarious and my buddies and I dont generally give a fuck about women we pull, we get a hilarious story out of it and its really fun, he wrote, explaining his method to other RSD forum members. She will usually briefly freak out Have your buddy come in and start doing whatever on her, escalating up, then just hop off and have your buddy continue.
While Alex and Josh were perfecting their pickup game in Vegas and California, Jonas Dick was finishing his degree from the University of Wichita. And in 2012, Jonas moved to California for good, to join what he read on RSDs forum was one big party. With his bachelors in Finance, Jonas was soon living at a hostel in the Gaslamp and parking cars at an all-you-can-eat Brazilian steakhouse nearby.
I just moved to San Diego and live in a shitty weekly rate hotel in the downtown bar area literally blocks away from the clubs. Best logistics, Jonas posted on the RSD forum. Thats 5 girls in the last 8 days.
In December of 2012, Alex and Josh, who had been running in similar circles, seemed to find each other on RSDs forum. DUDE IS THIS JMAN? Alex commented on Jonass blog.
RSD clients and fans were often doing thisuprooting their lives to act as unpaid volunteers or hangers-on at company events in the hopes of meeting and bonding with other pickup wannabes. For these men, RSD was not just a company offering dating adviceit was a way of life.
Youve got to understand the kind of power RSD has over these guys, Nathan Kole, an RSD instructor for eight years until 2012, explained to me.
On the forum, you hear about guys having epic success or a ton of fun. If youve had a shitty life for 20 years in your hometown of a thousand people, you pack your bags and go somewhere where you can start new.
A year after Jonas moved out to San Diego, he and Alex and their friendsalmost exclusively other San Diego pickup artistswere beginning to outgrow RSD.
People get a certain level of success, and they all think they can be coaches, said Kole, who currently runs his own dating coach business from Austin, Texas. Thats the blight of my life. Ive had dozens of guys who Ive coached go on to start their own thing.
By 2013, Jonas and Alex were teaching for Efficient Pickupa company started by former RSD assistant John Mulvehill and Joshua Lewis, Alexs old mentor. Efficient Pickup promised clients in Las Vegas and California a faster, rejection-proof technique. Mulvehillknown for wearing a T-shirt emblazoned with the number of women hes supposedly slept with (he claims almost 500 these days)had been a mainstay of a group of pickup artists in Las Vegas known as the Vegas Pussy Massacre Crew. But Mulvehill was kicked off of the strip in 2015, as part of a one-year suspended sentence stemming from a night in May of 2013 when he allegedly locked a woman in his car, took away her phone, and masturbated in front of her.
The day after his arrest, Mulvehills RSD profile and more than 650 of his forum contributions were deleted. Mulvehills handle, JMULV, was added to a list of flagged terms, and the moderators were instructed to delete any mention of his name.
Mulvehill didnt respond to a request for comment for this article, but I talked with him last year for another story about his company and his alleged crime in Las Vegas. Back then, he insisted that compliance and resistance mean different things to the pickup community, and that the media and the public had gotten the wrong idea about his craft.
I know that sounds sort of rapey, Mulvehill told me at the time. But, he said, its not about convincing girls to do something they dont want to do.
In the summer of 2014, a year after his own arrest and six months after Claires rape, Mulvehill pulled Efficient Pickups website and its YouTube videos off the internet. He currently peddles his wares on Facebook, under the name Seduction Mindhacks Live, and has reduced the price for learning his technique, charging $45 for an online guide.
Mulvehill did address his decision to take down the site in November, during a question-and-answer session following a webinar pitching a $500 online program.
We shut down our YouTube channel and our site recently because when we first started our company a few years ago, we put a couple guys on our site that were advanced that we thought were going to be teaching programs for us, and they never actually taught programs for us, but they actually got into some legal trouble so we took our site down for the time being because those guys were fucking retarded and they werent affiliated with us at all, but were just taking it down for the time being.
The legal trouble Mulvehill is likely referring to would be the March arrest and charging of Alex, Jonas, and Jason in Claires rape.
Efficient Pick Ups co-founder and owner, and Alexs mentor, Josh Lewis, also declined an interview for this article. When Alexs attorney was considering calling Josh Lewis as a witness in the San Diego rape trial, Judge Jeffrey Fraser appointed Josh his own attorney, who advised him to take the Fifth Amendment because of Joshs own potential criminal liability in the case. Judge Fraser agreed with the counsels advice, noting that anyone with a connection to Efficient Pickup was potentially liable for conspiracy.
Im sure you dont have a narrative already in mind and youll portray what I have to say fairly, Josh Lewis told me over Facebook. Efficient Pickup has been dissolved, [Jonas and Alex] werent instructors, and Im in no way related to this incident, Lewis said before asking me never to contact him again.
Despite Joshs denial, Jonas and Alex were listed as two of the five instructors on Efficient Pickups website in 2013. And Jason wrote a glowing recommendation for Alex, which Efficient Pickup posted to its testimonial page: Boot Camp with Beryl is fucking awesome. He will positively impact your life to get better at pickup. I am grateful and privileged to have taken a bootcamp with him and highly recommend him as a pickup instructor.
By that time, Mulvehill, Josh, Jonas, and Alex had all been banned from RSD for promoting a competing company and for possibly crossing an unspoken lineafter years of writing blogs that promoted drinking, drugs, and what reads a lot like nonconsensual sex.
Jonathan Jacobsen, who, as a pickup instructor, goes by Manwhore, was moderating the RSD forum in 2013 and said he removed Alex and the other men from posting on it.
Jacobsen said he privately messaged Alex before the banif hes being a fucking idiot you contact the guy and tell him to stop, he explainedbut Alex couldnt handle it.
[I] want to make the distinction between what they [Efficient Pickup] do and what we do, Jacobsen told me. The point is to not do any of it without her wanting to. Thats not what this is supposed to be. Its a perversion, but these motherfuckers still manage to draw guys in.
Its not clear how many clients signed up for Efficient Pickups services; theres only proof of one.
Jason Berlin graduated from the the University of California, San Diego in 2010 with a degree in economics, and started his own business, Venture Pursuit Inc., in 2011. He bought fixer-upper houses and sold them for a profit. Apart from a few complaints to the Better Business Bureau and an incident that got him banned from the University of San Diego in 2012 (for stealing bikes, according to a university spokeswoman), Jason seemed to be doing all right, at least professionally.
I was probably depressed, but didnt really notice, Jason testified during Alexs trial last week. In November 2015, after several meetings with the DA, Jason pleaded guilty to raping Claire and signed on as a cooperating witnessa partnership that might, but is not guaranteed to, result in a more lenient sentence for him. Jason could receive anywhere from zero to eight years for Claires rape; the sentence is at the discretion of Judge Fraser. On the stand, Jason explained how he became Alex and Jonass original client at Efficient Pickup.
Apart from bad posture and a mild case of rosacea, Jason is good-looking; hes clean-cut, goes to the gym, and dresses well. But Jason was never very good with people, and was cripplingly shy and bumbling with women. So in the summer of 2013, Jason said he posted a call for a wingman on some PUA website.
Jonas responded to the post, according to Jasons testimony. He told Jason he would not just be his wingman but his instructorafter all, Jonas bragged, hed been in the pickup game for over two years and claimed hed slept with over 100 women. Jonas offered to impart his wisdom in so-called boot camps, for $300 a night. Alex also signed on to teach Jason his tricks, and soon the three of them were going out every weekend. Alex and Jonas would pick up girls and watch as Jason practiced their techniques.
I was always paying them, Jason said.
But Jason felt like he was getting something in return. In his testimony, Jason said Alex and Jonas taught him how to be an alpha male and create a mindset that would attract women. He said they taught him to isolate a woman from her friends, and to plow through her last-minute resistance.
Jason was a sponge who soon became a true believer. Still, when it came to actually getting women, I was the worst person theyd ever seen, he says they told him.
So the trio hatched a new idea for a more immersive experience. Jason would pay $2,000 a month for an apartment near the Gaslamp Quarter, a five-minute walk away from 16 blocks of bars and nightclubs. Alex and Jonas would technically live there, but Jason could come over on the weekends, go out with them for lessons, and crash there. They moved in on Oct. 1.
Jason Berlin was now deep into the world of pickup. He watched Youtube videos on pickup, listened to RSD instructor CDs in the car, and at every opportunity, went out with Alex and Jonas, along with a steady stream of pickup artists that would hang out in their new apartment.
It was like a hobby. Everyone was talking about it all the time. These people became your friends, Jason testified.
Twelve days after Alex and Jonas moved into the Gaslamp apartment, the men met Claire and Laura at closing time and brought the girls back to their apartment, where Jason was waiting.
THE TRIAL
In 2015, with a binder of evidence from Claire and a year-long police investigation complete, the San Diego district attorney formally charged Alex, Jason, and Jonas with two counts of rape, of an intoxicated person and an unconscious person.
Jonas Dick and Jason Berlin both pleaded guilty to one count for Claires rape.
Jonass crime was essentially rape in concerteven though he hadnt had sex with Claire, he admitted that hed known what Alex was allegedly planning to do to her. According to California law, by keeping Claires friend Laura occupiedin part by hiding her phoneJonas had acted as an accomplice, and was just as responsible.
Jonas was also charged with another rape shortly after being charged with Claires.
This one belonged to an underage girl who was celebrating her 16th birthday with two friends at the chain restaurant Dicks Last Resort in 2012. Jonas joined the girls table, then convinced them to accompany him back to the hostel where he was living. He offered a tour, grabbed the birthday girl by hand, took away her phone, and whisked her into his room. As her friends searched for her up and down the halls of the hostel, Jonas threw the 110-pound girl on his bed and raped her as she begged him to stop. When it was over, he ejaculated on her stomach, threw her a T-shirt, and said, Happy Birthday.
She ran from the room, found her friends, and flagged down a patrol car to make a rape report.
Its unclear whether police tried to find or apprehend Jonas in his hostel that night. The San Diego PD did not respond to a request for details on that investigation and the court case file is thin. Its also unknown why it took three years to test her rape kit. Nevertheless, it eventually was testedand came back with a match for Jonas Dick.
During Jonass August 2016 sentencing for both rapes, District Attorney Lisa Fox asked Judge Fraser for eight years, the maximum that the plea deal carried. She noted that Jonass quick guilty pleas were not necessarily because he felt regret, but because he wanted protection from exposing himself to more [charges].
As it turns out, Jonass DNA swab matched yet another victim in a national DNA database, as Fox discovered at a preliminary hearing. For that casewhich, according to Fox, involved alcohol and a college studentJonas has not been charged.
For two cases with rape, it was a very good result, Jonass attorney Peter Blair told me concerning the eight-year sentenceessentially the plea deals maximum. Theoretically [the judge] could have given him 16. Jonas will also be a registered sex offender for life.
Claire read a victims impact statement at Jonass sentencing. For 12 minutes, she spoke about what her life has been like since the night she was raped. Claire said she no longer dated. When she went out in public, she sometimes saw her rapists faces on the people around her, so she stopped going out at all. But, she said, a greater motivation than fear had compelled her to find and confront her attackers.
These businesses that promote rape culture should be stopped, Claire said. This is not friendly dating advice or motivational speaking. This is promoting the thinking that women are only objects and men are entitled to their mind and bodies for their entertainment and satisfaction
I am standing here today in this room to bring this pickup artist community to light and to represent the women out there that are unaware they too are victims, and to the women who have yet to stumble upon the path of the pickup artist and their students. The night was not an oops or a coincidence of events. It was strategically planned by these men, who not only manipulated and raped women regularly, but blogged and profited from it, from their fans and followers.
The judge agreed, praising Claires bravery in hunting down and facing her attackers.
But for your detective work, we wouldnt be here, I dont think. I think that they would still be preying on people either here or in Vegas or San Francisco or somewhere, Judge Fraser told Claire. But not for you, this would not have stopped.
And because of you, he will be punished.
For his part, Alex Smith pleaded not guilty to the rape charges. Alex is now in a relationship, perhaps married, to a woman who accompanied him every day of his week-long trial. The trial, which included no witnesses for the defense, concluded on Monday.
The jury is expected to reach a verdict in the next few days.
UPDATE: On Wednesday afternoon, a San Diego jury convicted Alex Smith of two felony counts: rape of an intoxicated person and rape of an unconscious person. Hell be sentenced on October 20, and faces a maximum of eight years in prison.
Through their attorneys, Alex Smith and Jason Berlin declined to comment for this story. Jonas Dick, currently in prison, asked to be paid for an interview. The Daily Beast declined.
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Linda Boisvert is the property manager for the apartment that Jason Berlin rented for Alex and Jonasthe apartment where Claire was raped. As part of Lindas duties, the 51-year-old San Antonio transplant regularly checks the website Crimemapping.com to monitor any criminal activity around her building. The Gaslamp District, as Linda explained over coffee and pie at a downtown diner, is in a period of transformation. But its still sort of the Wild West out here, she said.
While searching on the website, Lindawho wears stylish browline glasses, with her wavy greying hair cut shortwould pick up on bike thefts, vandalism, maybe a few drunken fights. But in October 2013, she saw the report of Claires rape. Knowing she had surveillance video that might aid in an investigation, she called Crimestoppers and offered the tapes.
Detective Garrick Nugent and Linda went through the security footage on the night of Claires assault. On it, Claire is seen staggering toward Jonass apartment building along with Laura and the two men. The group enters the lobby and Claire stumbles off to one side before Alex pulls her back to him. Theres a sloppy embrace and Alex leads her into the elevator as Laura and Jonas follow. Once the doors closed, Linda told Detective Nugent, they were out of view of the cameras.
But, Linda thought, they didnt have to be if there was a next time. With her co-op boards approval, Linda set up another security camera in the hallway of the third floor, and pointed it at Alex and Jonass apartment. She would watch the footage periodically, and over the next two months, Linda began sending Detective Nugent still photos of what she had seen.
They would come in with women who were happy and relaxed, and the women would come outwoman after womanwould looked stunned and upset with the same tense body language, Linda told me.
I dont know if they were raped, but if there is a body language to rape, what I saw would have been it.
One lady went in with two friends and came out covering her face, crying. When they got down to the lobby and the elevator door opened, I could see she was balled up on the elevator floor. It was heartbreaking. I just wanted to scream.
In court testimony, Detective Nugent described seeing several women from Lindas tapes who appeared distraught and upset. Linda couldnt say how many women she saw leave that way.
I stopped counting, she admitted, her eyes welling with tears. It was too upsetting.
None of those women have yet been identified.
from All Of Beer http://allofbeer.com/2017/12/13/pickup-artists-preyed-on-drunk-women-brought-them-home-and-raped-them/
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viralhottopics · 7 years
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Im 25 Years Old And I Think Im Finally Learning How To Be Happy
A lot of Thought Catalog articles have spoken to me over the years, but the first Thought Catalog author I ever became truly hooked on was Ryan OConnell.
In the early days of TC, I admired Ryans work because it was honest and funny and able to expose these incredibly deep truths about life in a way that made you laugh just as hard as they made you think. But no Ryan OConnell article stopped me in my tracks quite as much as his 2015 piece The Twenties We All Deserve.
To give you the TL;DR version of the piece, this excerpt from it more or less sums the whole thing up:
Its hard for me to explain this to you in a way that will make one hundo percent sense, but Ill try. Until recently, maybe in the last year or so, I didnt understand that life could be good. For me, it was just about experiences and having great talks and having terrible talks and getting too drunk in bars that Chloe Sevigny went to and not accepting good people into my life because where are the good people anyway and eating baked ziti/Cooler Ranch Doritos and getting so high to seeScream 4 that I fell asleep in a movie theatre in Midtown before Emma Roberts came onscreen. It was about surrounding myself with things that didnt pierce the walls I had spent years building up.
My life has maybe never been quite as messy (read: interesting) as OConnells. But I couldnt possibly relate any harder to his words above.
Because until recently, I never thought my life was supposed to be happy either.
I thought that life was meant to be interesting. And complex. And chock full of learning and growth. But happiness didnt seem to factor into that equation.
For a long time, I just assumed that happiness was something other people (simpler people, maybe) got to have, but not me .
After all, I only ever really felt comfortable if everything was a big, dramatic, tragic mess, OR an inspirational story about perseverance and resilience and overcoming all of my failures.
And when you combine those two things the need for speed and the need to always be battling against something, guess what you get? A life that happens in a series of starts and stops in periods of over-indulgence and self-destruction, followed by periods of restriction and denial.
For a very long time, I was only happy if I was either destroying or rebuilding my life.
There was no in-between. There was no just letting things .
I loved solving problems, so I created them. I loved analyzing the human condition, so I egged on the worst in people. I loved exploring morality, so I pushed my own ethical limits, just to see what things looked like from the other side.
Because for most of my life, I just kind of figured that the point of life was conflict.
Engaging in it or overcoming it or winning it. But the of conflict? The abandonment of it? That seemed so horribly, offensively .
Which is interesting. Because the opposite of conflict is, in many cases, happiness.
The opposite of conflict is harmony. Its internal stability. Its — a word my eighteen or twenty-year-old self would have scoffed at.
In my early twenties, I spent a lot of time dreading my 25th birthday. I thought my life would end once my early twenties were over, since it would no longer be adorable and fun to be a disaster. I thought Id have to clean up all my messes and find myself left with nothing.
And heres the interesting thing: I did clean up a lot of my messes by the time 25 rolled around. And what I found on the other side of those messes was something I never expected to find: contentment.
I found a circle of friends who were as curious and intrigued by the world around them as I was.
I found a job that allowed me to both explore my passions and pay rent.
I found a city that was every bit as vibrant and alive as I was.
I found a partner who showed me the kind of love I didnt know was possible.
I woke up on the morning of my 25th birthday and realized that at some point, when I hadnt been paying attention, happiness had unpacked its bags and decided to stay. And there wasnt a boring thing about it.
Because it turns out, when you expecting the other shoe to drop, it often doesnt.
When you stop building up your defenses, you stop needing them.
When you stop bringing out the worst in people, they stop showing it to you.
And when you stop telling yourself that youre someone who just doesnt get to be happy, it stops being the truth.
Im twenty-five years old and I feel like Im learning to be happy, for maybe the first time in my life.
Im learning to stay somewhere I love, without running away the moment an iota of boredom hits.
Im learning to love someone honestly, without back peddling every time a fear or insecurity arises.
Im learning to take care of my health consistently, rather than oscillating between periods of over-indulgence and restriction.
Im learning to be a better and steadier shoulder for my family and friends.
At twenty-five, Im learning to make peace with the thousand alternate universes; filled with the people I never became, and Im learning to just appreciate this universe.
To let what I have inside of it be enough.
Simply put, Im twenty-five years old and Im realizing that Im allowed to be happy for maybe the first time.
That it doesnt have to be off-limits for someone like me. That it doesnt have to be off-limits for anyone.
Because as Ryan so eloquently put it, happiness is a crucial component to the twenties that all of us deserve.
Hell, its a component to the lives that we deserve at any age.
Read more: http://ift.tt/2kGnmsW
from Im 25 Years Old And I Think Im Finally Learning How To Be Happy
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constantgamer · 7 years
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Missing Out on My Good-bye
I spent my entire youth in the company of close friends. My family moved from city to city chasing my dad's dream. He did very well for himself and he made sure that I was fed, safe, and educated. I was such a good boy, In every picture I see, because I honestly cant remember that far back, I am smiling like a goofy kid. As they years go by in photographs I can see my smile fading. I dont know what started it, but I can remember the first day I went bad. I was 17, it had frozen and school was canceled. My dickhead boss that paid me $1.75 per hour called me and said I had to come to work. I knew I was supposed to go in, but for the first time I chose not to do something I was supposed to do. I didnt call or try and make up an excuse, I just didnt. We didnt have cell phones then so getting a hold of someone who wasnt at home and didnt show up to work was impossible. I sat in my beat up ford escort in the parking lot next door to my job and smoked cigarettes and listened to the radio for about an hour. Then I went home, and on the way I felt anxiety about how much trouble I would be in when I arrived and my dad had found out I didnt go in. Walked in the door, mom said some greeting but didnt look mad, walked past the office and dad didnt say a word. I went upstairs and sat down at my desk and I remember every time the phone rang, Pins and Needles. But my boss didnt call. I ate dinner, showered, talked on the phone, and then went to bed. I remember thinking, man that was sooooooo easy, I got worked up for nothing. That was I guess the beggining of my downward slide. There is this mental structure your parents can discipline into you, a fear of failure. If everytime you fail they yell at you, the anticipation of being yelled at prevents you from giving up. However, once you cross that line and you realize that there isnt really anything wrong with saying fuck it, its all a social mind fuck, failing isnt scary. And boy did I test the limits, the next day I just didnt go to school. I left like I was going to school, but stopped in a neighborhood nearby and smoked cigarettes and listened to the radio. Wrote myself a doctors not and signed it with my own signature, and then walked into the school, gave the note to my assistant principle and then walked out. The note said I had contracted a serious illness of a personal nature and that I would require an undetermined number of days off school, and that my school work and lessons were to be collected every week and that I would study from home. And they fucking bought it. Both my folks worked so all I had to do was waste time until they would be gone come home and get on with doing what I wanted. Fuck me, what a dumb ass thing to do. The longer I didnt go to school the more difficult it became to go back. Sure I was picking my work up but I hadnt done any tests or in class work. I kept up in all honesty every few days I would hit the books for an hour and get the basics. About 2 months went by, I was stressed every day I was sure my house of cards would colapse, but it didnt. Not because I was a genious, which I sure thought, but because nobody really knew or remembered me. A transfer kid from another state, no friends, no memories. I remember the day it fell apart, I did what I had done for 5 months, school was going to be out for summer so I needed to get back in. I had already thought about how to rejoin the school, I was just going to go to class early one day and sit down like I had been going the whole time and wing it. But every day came and went and I just hid from my own stupidity. So I left, drove around wasting time, parked my car in the driveway, walked in the back door and up the stairs and I heard my dads voice and froze. He was home sick, and I was busted. He looked at me and asked why I wasnt in school, I said something like I hate it or I dunno. My dad looked at me funny, like I wasnt his kid, shock I guess. So he grabbed me by the arm and said your going to school. I knew it was going to be bad, I tried to have my dad drop me off, and he just drove right up to the front door and said that we had to explain the situation. I will admit for a teenage fuckup I was sharp. I told my dad that I went to the nurses office and that I had an illness of a personal nature and got a pass to leave for the day, and that if he said I was better and returning that I wouldnt get in trouble. We walked into my principles office and he looked at me like I remember you, but I dont at the same time. My dad said my son is feeling better and can go back to class. Principle said okay, well we are glad he is feeling better, thanks for letting us know, dad said is there anything else that needs to be done, principle said nope, I got up started to walk out thinking I was the greatest schemer of all time. And then my principle remembered who I was. He said wait, how many days have you been absent and started punching keys, my dad said oh he was just out for the first class today , hes feeling better, and that was that. I fessed up before they delved any deeper, I remember feeling so calm as I explained everything. Loosing my job, thinking I would just take a week off, and the days turned to weeks and then to months. The strangest thing happened, my principle got up and calmly shut his office door and pulled the blinds closed. He sat down right in front of ne and my dad and said.. This is not going to work out well for me, for you, or you. Thats right, there is a law that says I had to go to X number of days in a school year and I was way short. I hadnt really thought that when I sold my principle that lie that it was his job to catch me. And that he failed to notice or check back on the situation. He was trying to be a board member of education or some crap. He blatantly spoke of how he would not get the spot if word of what I had done got out. He then asked to speak with my dad alone and I was happy to get out of there. I ran out front and started chain smoming cigarettes. About 20 mins later my dad came out. He said alright, you are supposed to go to class, if anyone asks you were sick and are better now. And I thought to myself wow thats it. My dad must have seen me smile and said, your going to be sorry. I had to stay at school for 5 hours every day after classes. I had to do anything they asked, like clean desks, or log books, fill oyt paperwork, clean stuff, repair stuff, paint stuff. Anything they could think of I had to do. I had to take a series of tests for each class to prove I knew the material. And then after school got out for the summer I had to do so much work. I became an indentured servant to the school from 8 to 8. I managed to fullfill the requirements my principle laid out and they gave me a diploma and let me walk. At home it was more of the same, grounded no phone, no tv, no outside. I had no friends, and a sense that I was separated from those around me. After that I was never the same, I fucked up every opportunity I was given and nobody cared. I failed out of college, wasted a lot of ny dads money,. Tried to go back and wasted my own money. I jumped from job to job, never really got any respect, I have never owned a home, found a girl worth marrying wbich almost saved me but she died in a car wreck, and we had no kids. In the fall of my life I just now realized how far from the beaten path I strayed. I have no friends, or love interests, no skills, or education. I am addicted to drugs, and lieing, staying up late and good at going unoticed. I cant go back and fix my life, and I cant move forward in my current situation. I try and get a job that pays enough to support myself but nobody will hire me, its as if they can see through my paper lies and dont want me. I think I am going to end my terrible run of things soon I am so tired of being a failure. My dad looks at me like I am not his son, he stopped trying to motivate me a long time ago. Everyone that is a part of my life wontvlook me in the eyes. I see pity and sorrow in the faces of my life. This situation is of my own doing, and I blame nobody but myself. I honestly just dont want to be alive anymore. Watching everyone around me getting married, and promoted, becoming a dad, creating something, matterung to someone. All I feel is pain and remorse, and a feeling that I missed out. I think its time for me to depart this hell my life has become and get some answers to some questions I have been wondering about for some time. I thought about something today which I think is what will give me the strength I need to accomplish what I am planning to do next. Its been over 3 years since I felt the touch of another human beings skin on my own. No hugs or kisses, no hand in hand, no arm around the waist. I go to sleep alone, wake up alone, and the only people I communicate with are on the web and dont know me. My biggest regret is that I really wanted to be someones dad. I wanted to provide what my father gave me to a copy of myself like he did. But that time has cone and gone too. My advice to anyone who reads this is to make sure anyone you love knows it. You can never tell if you are saying your last goodbye or not.
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