every time my father says he wants to talk to me i know im preparing for at least an hour and a half of hearing him get progressively angrier and answering the same three questions until he can find some way to make my life decisions his idea. and usually it'll end with my mother getting exhausted and asking him to calm down or make his point, at which point he throws a huge tantrum and says he'll never speak again. ive lost count of the amount of times this month he's determined he'll never offer an opinion again