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#and i’m tired of it
doriandrifting · 5 months
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Uhm I don’t know how to break it to some of y’all but Noah’s last post was asking people to stand with Israel before he went ghost on social media. In the wake of what happened, I gave him the benefit of the doubt with that post. But I was scrolling through my fyp and saw literal dead Palestinian bodies and the next video was his return to social media with a smoothie ad where he is manually deleting comments including mine voicing how fed I up I was watching that bullshit. Not because I have some parasocial relationship or because I’m disappointed. Just because I refuse to have cognitive dissonance about this.
Like I’m not gonna tell people how to feel or judge anyone for seeing this differently, but I really need y’all to extend that same principle to those of us who literally just think that is some utter fuck shit. Because I do. I’m watching Israeli soldiers doing Tiktok dance trends on my fyp. A sponsored smoothie ad filmed by a millionaire in his mansion amongst videos of genocide after he posted pro-Israel propaganda and leaves up lies about beheaded babies for his millions of followers. All the while I’m sitting at my regular ass job debating putting a bus ticket to Washington D.C. on my credit card so I can go protest because there are people being slaughtered with my tax dollars. I don’t hate Noah Schnapp, but please don’t ask me to care about him right now.
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booksandpaperss · 1 year
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There is not NEARLY enough appreciation for how pivotal it was for El to be able to stand her ground against brenner multiple times while he was using all of his fucked up manipulation tactics and constantly triggering her past trauma.
And then, like the queen she is, el actively chose to not forgive him and say she understood him just bc he was dying. All she said was “goodbye, papa.” Acknowledging their relationship for what it has been, and refusing to let him guilt her into putting up with his abuse anymore. That was SUCH a powerful scene and we should talk abt it more bc as someone who’s been abused, I actually CRIED I was so proud of her.
So TIRED of everyone only focusing on the Mike part of El’s s4 arc, she was so fucking amazing this season and finally found her independence from the manipulative, and in brenner’s case ABUSIVE, men in her life. I love Mike but this ain’t abt him anymore. I’m done with El’s arc being abt him in any way.
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i think my bpd makes me an easy target. i’m loyal to a fault, i’m a people pleaser, i’m easily manipulated. people see that and take advantage
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darkwood-sleddog · 2 years
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A reminder that the mythology and idea that native North American dog breeds have wolf in them or coyote in them is false. We have pretty much zero proof that wolf dogs were bred purposefully and historically by native North Americans and even the ‘wolfier’ indigenous dogs such as Inuit dogs have a distinctly doggy appearance compared to wolves and wolf dogs.
Every single believer of this mythology and every single wolf dog or wolf alike dog breed that uses native naming as part of their breed/line/group relies on racist preconceptions about native people in North America. Yes, even the dog breeds you may like. And yes as pretty much all these breeds are new and in development they should change those names, but they probably won’t because they rely on non indigenous peoples desires to own something wild and “primitive”.
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jancysmixtape · 1 year
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The way people in the Twitter side of the fandom treat El is seriously angering me. Everyday, there’s a new ableist tweet about her. People want Mike to hate her so badly, all over their love for B*ler. They try so hard to “prove” Mike never loved her, and someone just said they are a trauma bond. The same person said El is just a pen pal for Mike and that he’s teaching her English.. why do people want El to be hated by the most important person in her life?? She has dealt with so much abuse in her life, and has so much trauma. She has never done anything wrong to deserve this much hate all for a mlm ship. I can’t handle it. Seriously, I can’t.
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freezeher · 8 months
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really glad i’m bringing my multi back bc i’m starting to not feel great here
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discoscoob · 2 years
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Let’s take a look at Steve Harrington’s dating history.
He dated Nancy when he was 18 and she was 16.
He confessed his feelings to Robin when he was 19 and she was 17.
He was on a date with a high school student in s4 ep1 when he is 20 years old.
According to Chrissy/Eddie antis logic… it isn’t looking good for him.
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thesoftestblackguy · 2 months
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Black men as a whole need to congregate together and discuss black manhood and how it needs to be changed to fit today’s times cuz “manhood” in general is an outdated practice, black manhood needs to be tweaked and updated because the shit black men be normalizing and portraying is toxic/demeaning to literally erbody.
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anthrofreshtodeath · 3 months
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I found this great podcast about scandals in the publishing world - super interesting and engaging. But every episode they’ve got an ad for a grammar grouch podcast and I don’t know how many times I can be hurt 😭
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irlrevivebur · 2 years
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if someone else assigns a mother mother song to c!wilbur i will c!📴 myself ☺️
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ohmydamgods · 2 years
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One of the worst things this fandom does is convince itself that people don’t take Leo’s intellect seriously solely because of his goofy personality and that racism and ableism have nothing to do with it
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kakejiszkas · 8 months
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boardboxes · 9 months
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there is something. so painful. about missing out on life things because you have to work to pay rent.
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The Last Time walked so that exile could RUN
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oglegoggle · 1 year
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Weird double emotion of lonely and longing & too mistrusting of others to really even want to attempt to date now (if ever again tbh)
#this is goggles#just tired of relationships that make me feel like I am the sun to them when really they’ve lit me on fire and are burning me up#so they can in a way pretend to be tragic Icarus who flew too close#I continue to feel like a MPDG to the people I date#like I’m eccentric and handsome and dreamy and fun yeah#But I am not always my best traits#and often I have weird and tricky needs that nobody I’ve been with has really be able or willing to accomodate#I know that I’m very very hard to love at my most raw#it hurts so much to warn someone of this and they insist that they can in fact love me when it’s hard#but then when my hard time love times roll around whoopsie doopsie guess you were right after all#and just I put a lot of work and effort into my relationships desperately wanting to milk even a tenth of the effort in return back out#and I’m tired of it#I’m tired of putting work into others who think I’m some perfect dreamboat who is going to swoop in and fix their life#I tired of putting work into people who won’t put the work into me#couldn’t even schedule fucking counseling for us immediately after his evil cat slashed my literal eyeball#pathetic slob an absolute manchild a sorry excuse for a partner or a son#I sure as fuck felt like a crazy hybrid of partner and dad to him as much as I tried to convince him to do his chores and do them right#this isn’t even the first time that this shit has happened don’t know why I keep letting it#I’m the nameless love interest in your back story that was sooooo dreamy and romantic and good in bed that you dream of him for life#the one you fantasize about when you’re inevitably having problems in your 23 year marriage decades down the line#think about what ever happened to him and wonder if you could’ve made it work#but I’ll be long long gone#you won’t know whatever happened to me or if you could’ve made it work#you’ll go back to your unhappy marriage and tell yourself it’s what you deserve for fucking it up with me#me? I’ll have probably asphyxiated on my vomit or something by then ol’ Jimi style#because let’s be real I’m probs gonna lose grasp on my little Habit eventually#it gets worse and worse with each major trauma I endure#I need the traumatic experiences to stop please I am so so tired#may solitude in the Parks give me peace#may peace give me detachment
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hellwasthejourney · 1 year
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I hate days at work where I know I’m not doing anything wrong but my brain is like you are and I just feel incompetent
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