#also hot take if someone's blog says shit like 'man-hater' it's gonna be like hyperbole or glib 60% of the time | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

promiseimnotacop · 4 months

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jsyk user genderyomi reblogs from ppl identyfing as baeddel/“transman-hater” (w their words). safe to assume she is one.

i do appreciate well meaning calling me out on shit i've reposted and whatnot but that does not to my mind warrant any kind of unfollow/deleting posts what have you

i have been seeing traces of this new wave is 'transmisandry a real thing/is baeddelism real and if it is is it actually a bad thing or kinda based' flooding my dash lately and have very deliberately stayed away from engaging in any of it/weighing up on one side or another.

thankyou for engaging here though in a more polite way!

#my take: i love trans people so so much and if the dolls are pissed off at men maybe they have a right to be #but also yes (many) trans men experience a transphobia that takes a specific shape in how it targets trans men #but referring to that as transmisandry is at best misleading misnomer #because it might implies misandry is a thing or that the transphobia men face is proportional and equalivalent to transmisogyny #buuuut also i am not such a fan of arguing tight semantics like that in intracommunity stuff #partly cos how it kinda tries to assume everyone is highly literate in english?#but also i do not have the capacity to look up what baedellism actually argues rn #also hot take if someone's blog says shit like 'man-hater' it's gonna be like hyperbole or glib 60% of the time #and a fair reaction to their own experiences 39%

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