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#all i could come up with is leaving loads of love on mj's insta posts
meteorocky ยท 4 years
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it's almost midnight here and i'm just hoping mj felt happy today
#i'm so tired#i spent last night thinking of how to show support to mj and make moonbin aware of his insensitivities and :(#all i could come up with is leaving loads of love on mj's insta posts#idk if trending anything on twt would work because kpop twitter is such a hell hole and everything always catches fire and turns into war#but at the same time do we have anything except trending supportive hashtags for mj? can we educate bin without ppl attacking him with hate?#things like this always turn into such messes because some ppl refuse to acknowledge there is a problem while others outright deny it#and then instead of being constructive it just ends in fighting and fandoms being split when they could be working together#i love mj and i love bin and i want him to learn because i'm pretty sure he loves mj too and no one wants myungjun hurting so :/#tbh i got thinking too deep and figured bin's comments might come from a twisted sense of help in some form#this is all pure speculation but bin strove for a body like his for a reason and idk if it was positive or negative motivation#but he seems happy with his body now which is great and possibly he wants mj to achieve the same happiness?#just that he doesn't realise maybe mj is happy with a different ideal and that negative motivation/reinforcement is NOT the way in any case#idk i'm tired i forgot half of what i typed#my main worry is for mj atm because ik how shitty it is to be unsure about your body and then have someone's comment tip you to disliking it#because after that it's harder to be happy with it again especially if the comment keep coming#but i also have a slight worry for bin because i rlly hope he himself works out so much because he likes it#and not because he was told by someone that he needed to :(#because ppl who have felt insecure themselves are more likely to pass that insecurity on. often in an attempt to reassure themself#retroactively#okay i'm sorry for the long rant in the tags but i've just been thinking about it#this is important to discuss anyhow i hope arohas can solve or at least alleviate this a little#mj#moonbin#important.txt
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