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bunniibpd · 1 year

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aussie-trans-king · 2 years

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world-lemination · 1 year

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Wdym you wouldn't claw someone's eyes out for me??? That's kinda weird

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starspd · 1 month

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the BPD experience of yearning for someone to tell you its going to be okay, but then when they do you dont believe them (and sometimes can even trigger you more)

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bpdnblvnts · 2 years

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idontfeelhappy · 5 months

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I fantasise about my death at least 15 times a day

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beautifuldarkmind · 2 years

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BPD culture is getting worked up to the point of becoming physically ill (throwing up/stomach issues etc) because you felt rejected/abandoned by your favourite person

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me--do · 2 years

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thedevilprince · 8 months

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I saw a post of an anonymous person asking how they could help someone with NPD.

I'll give my take on it.

This is very specific to me, but other people with comorbid BPD & NPD might relate.

As someone with BPD and NPD, I want to be reassured of 2 things:

That I am important

That I won't be abandoned

For me, being directly reassured in words by someone who is close to me or is important to me is key. The reassurance of a stranger or someone I don't care about won't help me.

In terms of what helps me emotionally, things like specific compliments about me or things I've made help. I also like being praised for handling the situation well, or for doing a good job of keeping myself together despite the circumstances. I want to be acknowleged for how hard I'm trying.

This might also be a general low empathy thing, but people saying things like, 'I'm sorry that happened,' does not comfort me at all. You can be sorry all you like, but it doesn't fix anything or help me feel better.

I guess they say it because it reassures them that they're being empathised with, but other people relating to how I feel doesn't really help me. I strongly prefer a solutions-based approach.

And when there isn't any solution, praise, reassurance in my capabilities/that the situation will turn out well, and a promise to always stay by my side is a far better medicine.

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z00miez · 7 days

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