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cockroachmotherfucker10 · 1 year

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Do it halfway. Take one piece of trash out of your room, throw one dirty shirt into your hamper. Go to one class and miss a different one. Start a drawing without pressure to finish it. Give yourself space to Be without the expectation to Become, and do small things to make the Being livable.

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hakeem0n · 1 year

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No amount of weight loss will ever make me worthy of love.

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fairys1ze · 3 months

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lost 3 lbs in 2 days and I'm thrilled

#pro ana #not promoting #ed not ed sheeran #actually ed #meanspo #sweetspo #bonespo #pro anna #pro @n@#pro @4@#thinspo #eating disoder trigger warning

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theythemmer · 12 days

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finally deleted my toxic twt :) already feel more normal. this last month has been the echo chamber from hell

#blabble #reached out 2 a friend for support and now have an action plan so the first thing i did was get tf off edshtwt bc that shit was insane #it’s actual scary how quick it got into my brain how how extreme the algorithm got in such a short amount of time #and like i’ve been on tumblr/forums for 15 years i am SEASONED but this new generation holy SHIT #i am disturbed by VERY few things esp regarding the human body but some of that shit made me physically ill #so i honestly just feel so relieved bc i truly didn’t think i’d be strong enough to delete . i mean . it’s an addiction and all #and the craziest part is i didn’t even intentionally make that acct it was literally MY OLD KINK ACCT I USED TO SELL CONTENT #then out of nowhere i got overrun w thinspo which quickly became bonespo and deathspo and then shtwt started appearing #then it was just full blown gore within a week #like obvs it’s my fault #we control what we consume #that’s our responsibility on the internet #but as someone with MULTIPLE. SEVERE mental illnesses this genuinely almost killed me #very scary shit. and i’m a grown ass adult. absolutely terrifying time to be a teenager online.#i be rambling but yeah tldr i think i am actually going to try get better #tw ed mention #tw sh mention

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fuck-your-proana-blog · 2 months

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I'd love to see what all the obviously pro ana people on this hellsite who deny being pro ana, actually consider pro ana.

They promote the idea that starvation and dangerously low weights are good and something positive to attain with their posts.

They promote severe Anorexia by posting thinspo and bonespo all over their blogs with tags like "body goals."

They give tips for eating as little as possible, find "ana buddies" and literally encourage them to starve (in case you didn't know, "pro ana" is short for "promoting anorexia" to others, which is against the TOS everyone agreed to when making a blog, so having an "ana buddy" is the kinda the most pro ana thing anyone can do since the point is to help each other starve).

Saying "it's just for meee, I'm not promoting to others!" Is also bullshit because they all use as many pro ana tags to get attention for their posts, and if they were just posting for themselves they could do it on a private blog, where they wouldn't be inspiring others to KILL THEMSELVES like they do with a public blog covered in tons of "ana tags" for attention because you need that clout and want to feel "special."

How do the aforementioned actions not fit the definition of promoting anorexia?

For the pro anas reading this: there is no excuse for promoting EDs. Promoting an ED is NOT a symptom of EDs. You are responsible for everything you post publicly, especially when you are seeking out people to trigger with all those dumb tags.. people truly posting "for themselves" wouldn't even use tags. There are ways to talk about your struggles with an ED (if you have one) without making it seem like a positive thing to deal with- and don't say "but I'm mentally illlll, it's not MY fault I'm intentionally hurting people!1!" No. unless you are severely impaired mentally (you wouldn't be able to blog, but I'll pretend for this example), you are entirely capable of knowing what you are doing is wrong, especially because you use those misspelled tags to hide your promotion of EDs- that attempt to not get caught by people like me who will report you shows that you clearly know what you're doing is wrong and not allowed on Tumblr.

Get out of denial- if you do these things, YOU ARE PRO ANA. Accept it and stop trying to hurt people by spreading your disgusting content all over Tumblr; especially in the recovery tags- it still blows my mind that there are people cruel enough to post about their starvation diet in the ED recovery tags, but yes, pro anas are just that shitty.

FUCKING STOP.

#anti pro ana #pro ana #pro mia #anti pro ed #pro anorexia #osfed #ed #eating disorder #eating disorders #anorexia #bulimia #ed not sheeren #<- this is the most ridiculous tag you people use but I'll include it so it reaches more pro anas so some of you will accept reality

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pompettepink · 2 years

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How To Interact With Pro Ana in the Coquette Tag

Pro anorexia, pro bulimia, and pro disordered eating can be advocated for in different ways, whether it's photos, text, videos, or gifs. Not only does this sort of self harm glorification have no place in the coquette tag and has nothing to do with the community, it also encourages people to hurt themselves in terrible ways and for prolonged periods of time. But there are ways to intervene if you're willing to do so!

First, determine if the content tagged coquette is actually pro anorexia. The easiest way to do that would be to look at the tags! Content tagged with thinspo, pro ed, nothing taste as good as skinny feels, bonespo, skeletonspo, not pro just using the tag, UGW, a moment on the lips a lifetime on the hips, sweetspo, meanspo, body check, restrictive ed, and any variant of the word anorexic and bulimic (4n0rexic, anorex!c, anarexic, anorexik, bolimia, bul1m1a, bulimi@, 8ulimia, etc) they're all examples of pro ana tags that are immediately obvious. If content has multiple of those tags then it's absolutely pro ed material, regardless if op tags that they're only pro anorexic for themselves. If they're looking to inspire people to be anorexic or inspire them with anorexia then they aren't pro ONLY for themselves.

Second, once material is identified as pro eating disorder the next thing you can do it write to the poster. You can comment in the replies, reblog with commentary, send op an ask, or write to them in private. All great options with different levels of formality. The best messages to write are always the ones that are polite, compassionate, yet firm. Just let op know that their support for anorexia doesn't belong in the coquette tag. It's a fashion tag afterall and many of use have or are suffering with disordered eating and users who glamorize anorexia are dangerous for the rest of us! A small message letting them know that their content is hurting people WITHOUT name calling, victim blaming, and anger is best. Some of the best interactions I've had with pro ana accounts has ended with them apologizing profusely and promising to post away from the coquette tag! And remember, even though they platform anorexia they're still mentally unwell. You don't have to sugarcoat everything, but it's not required to come at them with full force.

Lastly, report any pro ana content you see. That's definitely the most important part! On Tumblr there's a Report Something Else section. Under that you can report the content under Self Harm. Yup, self harm! Tumblr considers any sort of intentional harm to your personal as "self harm". After you click Self Harm Tumblr will ask you if the user is threatening suicide, answer yes or no accordingly. Then submit the report! (Usually I write in the section asking for my name "Look at their tags", the moderator has to look at your name if you fill it in and that will assure they look at the tags. After you finish submitting the content as self harm go back and report it again as Inappropriate Content. For that you only have to send it once and it'll auto report it. The goal is getting that content removed, but if op is excessively pro anorexia then you can go through their whole account and report any and all pro ed content you see (cool down time may be required in between multiple reports).

Disclaimer: Please recognize that some tags aren't necessarily pro anorexia or are dubious at best. Not everyone tagging their pics as skinny or posting their girlblogging as waif are doing it because they're pro ed. And just because someone is self identified as anorexic doesn't mean that they're content is pro. These are also only recommendations! If interacting with an anorexic person will trigger your eating disorder you can just scroll past. You can also do these steps out of order or omit steps if needed, everyone is different and if you feel like a pro ana mia girl will go off on you you can try to get ahead of it before it happens. Also be prepared to be blocked on site. Just do what you can before that happens and stay safe!

#coquette #pompettepink #Bonus: i recommend meetin attitudes with attitude. if someone is cryin about their body be kind. but if someone is ragin match their energy

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daintyswandoll · 2 months

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Does anyone have a level of thinness they don’t want to get to?

I feel like everyone is making it out like I want to carry on until I like die or end up looking like a full on skeleton.

I actually don’t want to look like that. I know some people struggle with body dysmorphia to a point where they might get to that point and not see that they look that shocking.

But personally I’m not someone who is aiming for like full on bonespo/Eugenia Cooney kind of look.

I want to be at a point where my face is still like nice and I don’t have that kind of skull like look where you have no flesh to your cheeks and nobody would think I’m pretty.

Like I want my legs to be really skinny with a great thigh gap, but not where they are skeletal and the widest point is like the knee joint and is literally skin and bone.

I can appreciate some people wanting that look and everyone can have their own preference but i still want to be pretty. Maybe in like a hauntingly fragile way that makes me look unique and model like but still pretty to a lot of people - apart from people who aren’t into skinny girls but I don’t want anyone to think I’m ugly.

Like there’s a couple of girls in my therapy group that look extremely thin but at a point where I don’t see it as inspirational and attractive. Obviously it’s a reminder that I can be thinner than I already am and still be functioning, but I don’t want to be that thin.

I just want to be as skinny as I can be while still looking pretty and more model like.

Like I want to look like this:-

Not like this:-

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skunk-trafficker · 1 year

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toxic 'skinnyspo' blogs - tw:ed

one thing I absolutely despise on tumblr is teenage girls promoting slogans like 'SkinNySPo, BeAuTy iS PaIn, eD SheErAn wItHoUt tHe sHeEraN"

no, beauty is not pain, and the moment it becomes pain it is not beautiful anymore. there is beauty in healing and acceptance.

AND STARVING IS NOT OKAY, you might achieve the skinnyspo you're so desperately looking for, BUT YOU'LL HAVE HAIR FALLING OUT, WRINKLY SKIN, a shrinking appetite, and your organs will start eating THEMSELVES. skipping meals SLOWS YOUR METABOLISM, yes the metabolism YOU NEED TO BE FIT, you NEED TO EAT, in order to speed up your metabolism, which speeds up the rate at which one digests their food. At this point, skinnyspo is illiteracy in a nutshell. (excluding people who actually have a severe problem, like a disorder and aren't just romanticising being skinny and skipping meals)

I happened to stumble upon a thinspo post, I opened the tag and I was HORRIFIED.

here are a few examples

I want to be so skinny that I could pass out as soon as I stand up too quick

Here's what they call meanspo

You seriously walk around like that everyday? You barely fit into an L. If I was you I’d ⭐️ve myself. Unless you want to keep growing and growing

Food is disgusting. It makes you a fat pig. Skip dinner and wake up thinner❤

there's so many variations to it.

skinspo, bonespo, SICKSPO- what the actual fuck.

pretty princesses don’t eat.

GIRLS GIRLS GIRLS, PLEASE STOP I BEG YOU, YOU DONT EVEN KNOW THE HARMS OF THIS, THE LONG TERM HARMS, THE SHORT TERM HARMS, PLEASE STOP PROMOTING THIS AND DRAGGING OTHER YOUNGER GIRLS INTO THIS TOXIC TREND, YOUR BODY IS MADE TO SUIT YOU, the way YOUR BODY LOOKS IS MADE TO BEST SUIT YOUR FEATURES, YOU ENVIRONMENT.

please reblog, so this post can get to as many young girls as possible

im using the tags these girls use, to get to their for you's, to maybe help those who can be helped

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cholatey · 7 months

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Tumblr recommending bonespo to me after getting through my disordered eating phase: you are fat actually. Lose the weight

#i like to talk #tw eating disorder

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vampireexia · 1 year

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doing this cuz its fun LOL

1. 158cm and 61kg

2. 158cm :3c I wish I was taller,,

3. god I wish I had a flat stomach and visible ribs

4. Constantly dizzy

5. im doing it for me and my crush, I believe I will be more likeable when im thinner, i also want to prove that I can be thinnest in the family and skinny in general.

6. yes, I had BED when i was 14 and its stuck around, im mostly bulimic atm with attempts at restricting

7. they don't know! They just think I randomly lose weight every summer LOL

8. abs and thighs atm, mostly leg lifts, then yoga and anything to help constipation, oh and jumping rope and walking for tons of calories burned

9. god yes, I know I look disgusting when im heavier but damn, can people keep it to themselves...

10. My joy for cooking

11. idk i like any bonespo twitter account :3c

12. Lots of fruits and vegetables, thats the main part of my diet

13. unhealthy LOL, ive never been able to lose weight in a healthy way

14. 45kg, ive had that goal since I was 11 but I hope to reach it this year <3

15. im vegan! been for 7 years now! it def helps me lose weight I think

16. when i was around 10 or 11 :] saw the number 45kg and,, been addicted ever since

17. yes lol

18. fatty foods,, like chips,, i can never stop eating them if I start

19. yesterday :")

20. Mid restriction with a focus on fibres

21. usually small in tops and medium in bottoms atm

22. 46kg :")) damn I miss that weight, i gained because i recovered lol

23. YES, Especially victoria secret models,, and nickelodeon actors were SO thin I was so sad and confused why i didnt look like them

24. I feel like they are for anyone who has an ED and doesnt want to recover yet :]

25. Yes im a big time purger, first times i barely got anything up but felt sooo proud, first time i got most of it up was magical, forever love you carbonated beverages and icecream

26. fitting into clothes and looking amazing, getting compliments, being able to cosplay again and look good, have my mind shut up for once

27. I eated it.... :( or purge/ chew and spit

28. YES! i would love it i would look so gorgeous

29. im actually really accepting of everyone being beautiful :") just not me LOL, for myself ill be beautiful when im skinny

30. i grew up in germany, i own a cat, im the skinniest in my family,im second tallest in my family, im nonbinary and bi, ive never been healthy abt weighloss, im always a big time purger i barely can restrict, i got to my lowest weight by restricting tho, I love doing questionaires all in one go so my stats are still the same, I suffer from OCD which is very related to my ED :]

#Thinspo challenge #tw ed #anorexia #bulimia #mia #promia

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cockroachmotherfucker10 · 1 year

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Being fat, actually fat, with an eating disorder is fucking hell.

People assume you have BED, and if you actually do have BED people are so gross about it. If you have a restricting disorder people get concerned when you start eating more. People get concerned if you start to like yourself. People love to see you fucking miserable, and will completely ignore your misery in the same breath. It makes them feel good. They benefit at your expense through weight stigma.

So many physicians prescribe disordered eating to us. ED specialists in many places won’t even consider how EDs affect us. Our own community uses our bodies as inspiration to hurt themselves. Because nothing could be worse than looking like us, right? How are you supposed to love yourself when so many people actively don’t want you to?

To the fat person reading who needs to hear this, I give a shit if you recover. I give a shit that you are hurting. So many people don’t notice, so many don’t give a fuck, but I do. You deserve better. I want you to eat even if it means you gain weight. I want you to be happy in your body as it is. I want you to feel loved, I want you to feel seen.

If you are fat with BED, I see you. There is so much stigma and it is not your fault. Your weight isn’t “your fault”, you are sick. It’s not a moral failing. You deserve compassion, and the extent to which people project their own issues onto you is awful. You deserve to be comfortable in your skin, and your body is wonderful.

If you are fat with purging tendencies, or with restricting ones I see you too. We get praised for hurting ourselves, or no one notices. I see you. I’m sorry.

I wish so badly the world were more compassionate to you, but if no one else gives a shit, I do. Fight for recovery for me, even though I know that journey can be so, so lonely when you aren’t thin.

To those of you who have recovered, to those of you that may. You are worth it. You may be fat for the rest of your life, and that’s okay. It’s wonderful, your body is wonderful, and I see you and I’m proud of you. Sadly I know many of us recover alone, but I hope you know you aren’t. I’m rooting for you.

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hakeem0n · 1 year

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I just want to be fragile and pretty. I want to be loved.

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dadsdepictionofdiscipline · 1 year

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Are you pro Ana? I’m scrolling through your blog and you use like a lot of pro tags and reblog a lot of triggering stuff. Genuinely curious, sorry if this seems rude.

It doesn't come off as rude, you're fine 💜

Short answer is it's complicated?

I'm all for weight-loss, but this is clearly a kink blog, so there's other things going on here too. I love the sense of control, restriction, and power that I feel from starving, having someone beg me to eat.

On the other hand, I'm an ana coach (secretly I'm a life coach with a specialization in physical training) that ACTUALLY helps girls reach their goals, and they HATE IT. I'm working with a girl rn who's trying to go down 30kg (60+ lbs) and already she's seeing the benefits of doing what she's told; eat more calories, do more physical activity, work within her cycle, positive reframing, encouraging her to see real doctors for mental illness, having mini therapy sessions with her among many other EXTREMELY difficult life changes to achieve her desired self. Simply put, were undoing the damage that years of tumblr, friends, family, and other sources of her body dysmorphia and ED.

As for the Ana stuff, I use it both as a kink, and a way to trick unhealthy bonespo girls to clean up and find a new, healthy mental image of who they want to be.

But like anything, if you want to be ana, you will be. If you want to be fat, you will be. If you want to be bones, you will be. If you want to be a muscle mommy, you will be. If you want to be coked out living in a shed in the middle of nowhere doing tabs of lsd until your brain melts, you will be. No one can stop you from doing what you want to do.

The scariest, most terrifying thing in the world is your liberated sense of freedom.

As for your triggering aspect, I'm very sorry that it's making you feel this way, and maybe you and I don't need to interact if your feeling like that. Please block me. If you don't block me, feel free to DM or simply continue viewing my blog.

I hope that this explains everything you were wondering about, and I hope you have a wonderful rest of your day! 💜💜💜

#welcome to daddys #tw ana related #ana girls #ana trigger #asks #more asks #💜

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strxwberrystxr · 1 year

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TW : VENT

I'm such a pig. How could I eat this much when I deliberately had the choice not to? I promised myself that I would start eating less and less. How the fuck did I even get here?? Everyone on here has such great results and look great. I am nothing but a big pile of fat. Why the fuck am I built this way.

Im seriously considering to manifest a bonespo body but I'm scared. Im so insecure of my flat chest and ass and I want them to be bigger but If they're not even big then why do I have the body build for that. And why the fuck am I so short? I'm also such an ugly rat.

Goddamnit I want to throw up.

Actually, I think I might start to.

Just have to find the right timing at school and all out it goes.

!!! I want to have the tiniest waist every and the most notable curves. The biggest ass and fattest tits in the world. I could smash someone's head with my gigantic thighs. I want my collarbone and ribs to show !!!

I want to be like that. I will be like that.

I don't care what it takes .

#i wanna be thinner #ed but not sheeran #tw ana shit #tw ana diary #ana stuff #eating #bing3 eating #eating diary #it's not as simple as just eating #help #vent post #tw mia #tw eating issues #tw disordered eating #tw ed rant

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taranabi · 10 months

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I need real bonespo, some of y'all thinks that you're skinny but actually u r just average 👀

#ed vent #ed not sheeren #tw disordered eating #tw ana shit #i wanna be weightless #cute #skinnytumbler #skinnyyy #skinnygirl

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boney-cat · 1 year

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i cant explain it but deceptacon by le tigre is my thinspo

like its not actual visual thinspo but its mental visual thinspo like it gives me this image of what i could look like based on the vibes of the song and just

I DONT KNOW HOW TO EXPLAIN MAN IT JUST MAKES ME THINK OF THIS THINSPO/BONESPO GIRLIE THAT JUST LAYS IN BED SMOKING A CIGARETTE WHILE SCROLLING HER PHONE i dont kno its a nice mental image and i wish i lived the mental image so it motivates me to not eat ykyk ??

#not pro just using tags #proana #edblr #ed #eating disorder

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