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chronicallycouchbound · 8 months
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People who use drugs deserve love and kindness.
Abstinence is not the only form of recovery. AA/NA doesn’t work for everyone. Sometimes people choose to use instead of meeting other needs, which is valid. Some people use for recreational purposes. Some people use for medicinal purposes. Some people who use have substance abuse disorder. Treatment looks different for everyone. Not everyone needs or wants treatment, for various reasons. The only thing Naloxone enables is breathing. Active use is not shameful. People who use drugs often also deal drugs. People in recovery should not shame active users. Active users deserve love. Active users deserve someone to check in on them, get them safer use supplies, and get them pizza. Active users deserve to be listened to. They deserve better than to have that be the first time anyone ever treated them as human since they began using.
Let’s care for each other.
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gamechangershow · 8 months
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If you haven’t seen this episode of Make Some Noise yet, do yourself a favor and watch it over on Dropout
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bootobeneficiary · 3 months
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How to Sell Pussé
Xesual Economics 101
POV: You’re a vendor at the fruit market
Fruit Market= Dating / Mating Market
You sell peaches, one at a time. Other feminine vendors are selling their peach too.
Peach = Your ushy gushy
You are selling your peach (1) to the customer with the best offer.
As your peach is on display, you receive patrons who are interested in purchasing your peach. Some who are interested cannot afford the price of your peach, therefore they begin to bargain for a lower price and a sample of your peach.
Patron= Potential / Future spouse
You dismiss them because there’s a market full of cheap peaches available. Nobody gets to taste the peach without purchasing the peach.
Purchased peach = marriage
Your peach is priced at a luxury cost due to its qualities. Starting with the peach having good genetics, therefore it’s seed can produce great(er) quality peaches which benefits the patron.
Many patrons express interest, however there are two patrons left and they’re making high quality offers for your peach, your ushy gushy. Offers can include a nice home and garden to plant more peaches.
You pick the most compatible offer, not the highest offer. You take into account the personality and energy of the patron to decide whether you trust them with your premium priced peach.
The patron pays you (the vendor) and proceeds to bite his peach.
His ushy gushy
Everybody sells ushy gushy whether they know it or not. Abstinence and celibacy allows you the opportunity to price your peach at a luxury level SOLELY BECAUSE THERES PLENTY OF AVAILABLE PUSSÈ OUT HERE.
Not for religious or moral purposes. It’s simply an opportunity in the market just like in business. Stock market, for example. The trend of casual xes and BM culture is an opportunity for you to attract a high quality partner for marriage.
Reply with questions, input and further elaboration for those who are confused!
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classycookiexo · 19 days
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ace-culture-is · 1 year
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Ace culture is not realizing why abstinence is a big deal
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every time i think to myself: 'this sober shit is boring' i remember there were times, when i was willing to give up anything except my next dose, for a chance to be where i am today.
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ma io come lo spiego questo grigio, quest’apatia che mi si attacca addosso, che mi entra fin dentro le ossa e che mi anestetizza da qualsiasi banale emozione?
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joy-in-my-soul · 7 months
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Isaiah 26:3 You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you.
Focus on God in every season. He will bring you joy, love, peace, and so much more. Nothing in this world will satisfy you like God can.
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kriegsabstieg · 5 months
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“Where there’s vodka, there’s crime“
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papirouge · 1 month
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it's always the non virgin women hellbent in arguing that virginity is a "social construct"
Bestie, if medics can check whether a woman has been vaginally penetrated (in case of (suspected) rape), it means that sexual activity does have a tangible/objective/material reality. And de facto, it's absence as well
And you don't have problem acknowledging that sex boosts endorphins, or how some women can be "dickmatized" for their hookup, because that's precisely HOW BIOLOGY WORKS AND HOW SEX WAS MADE TO CONSOLIDATE BONDING IN A COUPLE? But yeah let's just act all of this is just a social construct, and virgins who've yet to experience any of this are the same.
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smokeyloki · 5 months
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Tomorrow, Oct. 17th, is a day of prayer, fasting, and abstinence called by the Christians in Jerusalem and the Middle East
I would encourage my Christian followers and mutuals, and any Christian who may happen upon this post who hasn't already heard of the letter and this message of prayer, fasting, and abstinence to partake in this day of penance and prayer for peace if you are able.
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bootobeneficiary · 7 days
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Hypergamy 101: How to Date Like Flav
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I admire raggedy men. They are hypergamous kings. Let’s learn from them:
They’re picky
They only date someone they directly benefit from (i.e. hobosexuals)
They view themselves as kings and expect to be treated as such, no expectations…unless they directly benefit from giving an exception
THEY DO NOT IDLE, THEY OBTAIN
This is the all-in-one guide for hypergamy. You don’t need anything else besides this post, guaranteed…ish.
I am going to breakdown Beneficiary Dating using Flavor of Love as an example. Similar to rotational dating, but more straightforward towards obtaining the goal of marriage.
Pay attention, but please ask questions in the replies if you have any!
Mate Value (CASTING + PREP)
Prerequisites
Polishing Your Appearance: The contestants complete a casting call / tape prior to being chosen as a cast member of the show. Think of a model going on a casting call. Elevate your appearance in ways that challenge you and increase your chances of attracting the masculine you want.
Self Development: Work on your temper, your tardiness and everything in between prior to entering the Mating Market (or dating pool). The less baggage you have, the less baggage you attract.
Create a Persona: Plenty of the girls went into the house with the aim to use this show as an opportunity for future projects. They created an alter ego that’ll help them win the competition (or love from viewers, like New York!)
Get Your Affairs in Order: Your finances, your health, your stability in general. Get your ish together before worrying about being in a boy’s face!
YOU ARE NOT DATING DURING THIS PERIOD! ISOLATION TIME!
Grab your copy of “I Have > I Am: Masculine Guidance for Feminines” to begin your Prerequisites Journey on the right track!
Scope to Start
Mating Market ( MANSION)
You are placing yourself “on the market”, a space for people to form romantic connections with each another. You are now dating ONLY after working on your Prereqs.
Self explanatory, pretty much. This could be the club or the golf course.
Bait-a-Mate
Mating Choice (HIS APPROVAL & ATTRACTION)
“There’s plenty of fish in the sea,”
You can only win the competition if Flav is “feeling” you. In order for Flav to feel you the most, you must bait him into being attracted to you despite the presence of other (high quality) feminines.
That’s Mate Choice, performing actions in order to increase your chances of being chosen by the individual.
Forms of Baiting during Flavor of Love include:
Challenges
One on One Time
Knocking on Flav’s door when the other ladies are sleeping…
Speaking of Challenges, the challenges were created in order to see who fits the preference of Flav.
The infamous chicken challenge featuring Hottie. He prefers a woman who knows her way well around the kitchen.
Bridget playing detective with the lie detector, since Flav prefers a woman who tells the truth.
The ladies in the house preferred a man with money and fame, hence why they’re engaging in intrasexual competition for access to his resources (his home, his cars, celebrities, etc.)
I prefer a man who has dogs (not “likes” dogs). To place myself on the Mating Market, I would scope and start with places that are dog friendly.
Mate Preferences is another evolutionary psychology term used to detail the Mating Process.
Audition Date!
Mating Strategy ( THE PLAN TO WIN THE COMPETITION )
Red Oyster’s Mating Strategy was to tattle tail on other girls in other to win….or at least get closer to the final round.
THE ART OF SEDUCTION: Remember, you can’t seduce without strategy? Now that you have a strategy , select an archetype of your desire.
Seduction is the foundation of a mating strategy. How are you going to persuade, convince, captivate the attraction of this person?
A real estate agent seduced a sale by charming the customers and making parts of the house sound “sexy”, such as the indoor pool or spacious rooms.
Proposal Period
Mate Selection (FINAL ELIMINATION NIGHT )
Delishis vs New York…or New York vs Hoopz.
Flav giving Hoopz and Delishhis matching grillz is an act of Mate Selection. He has chosen his mate (his partner, wife, etc.).
During this time period, he also met their families which persuaded his selection. Proposal Period is where marriage is seriously discussed and planned, such as ring measurements, cultural traditions or meeting children.
CONCLUSION
We are animals, therefore it’s time to mate as wise as other (female) species.
Have your fun, like Flav. Receive gifts from multiple suitors. Go on dates with Many Men. Never give any of them your body, not even a kiss if you don’t feel comfortable.
Beneficiary Dating allows for you to receive the girlfriend experience, ultimately leading you to becoming a wife. You do the selecting, your rotation does the auditioning.
Hope that made sense. Nonetheless, God bless!
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xo-indulgence · 1 year
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To all of my followers who are celibate or abstinent, stay strong!!! My cousin just told me how she was abstaining from sex for 1.5 years and she met a man who was manipulating, insecure, con artist, and trauma dumping on her. She said he was only good for the sex and that was it. She dumped him last month and regrets being involved with him. So wait until you meet someone who is interested in you and respects you. You are worthy of love but you need to let others know that you are worthy to be loved correctly.
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catholicpriestmedia · 1 month
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"May Christ be heard in our language, may Christ be seen in our life, may he be perceived in our hearts." - #SaintPeterDamian
February 14 is ASH WEDNESDAY - a day of #prayer, #penance, #fasting, & #abstinence from eating meat.
We continue praying for #Peace in #Ukraine and the #MiddleEast. #PrayforPeace #PrayingforPeace
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random-xpressions · 4 months
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I promised not to make my hand go south today, but seems like I must break such vain promises for one more time...
Random Xpressions
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philosophybits · 2 years
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Use, do not abuse; as the wise man commands... Neither abstinence nor excess ever renders man happy.
Voltaire, Sept Discours en Vers sur l'Homme
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